I am loving this cold virat👍👍 - Page 5

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I guess its fine for some to be friends with ex but only if

a)they have been away for a good time after separation, till residual feelings are gone

b) are not staying under the same room.

Here none of these conditions have been fulfilled by the two. Its not just controversial, its unfair to the other partner if you chose to remain friends.

Holding hands among friends is fine for me, hugging is also fine, but then again the relationship these two share right now and the situations they are surrounded with, its not fine...

Sai has to realise how Virat has been trying so much to make her feel like a wife in his own ways...but then the onus is also on Virat to understand her fear and insecurities, the abuse she went through, emotional and at times physical, because we can agree or disagree , these are results of his words, decisions and actions(lack of it)......just like Virat's anger/hurt right now is a result of Sai's brashness and rudeness and her inabilities to understand his feelings and actions..

If one has to be realised the other as well, the other one being there for a long long time...has been there on a daily basis, since the time she entered the house..

There is for both of them to learn here....The debate would come back when I say he was at one point of time emotionally standing(not riding) on two boats..

Like u said even

I hug my friends and even hold hands but not with my ex. The issue is they have a past which is unresolved to their partner. So to be fair they must refrain from holding hands .

I feel onus is more on Virat mainly since he has emo backup in fam and she does not so probably she os more vulnerable. Plus he was the one who told her about the vaada. People who live in nuclear fam where they have mostly love ,respect, communication and care may find it difficult to get the dynamics of understanding of a joint fam.

it may look in most of my posts I tend to connect to sai and not empathize with Virat. The prob is I do not connect with him as a person. Such people who talk in circles and think twice before telling the truth confuse me.

I just don’t understand why he is being so mean when he has been ambiguous with Sai the whole time. How can she accept that her marriage is anything but a deal when this man still won’t openly tell her what happened with Pakhi or how he now feels about her? I am so happy Samrat is not giving in to his victim role. You guys like the new Virat and I say he needs to man up with Sai and Pakhi once and for all.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I guess its fine for some to be friends with ex but only if

a)they have been away for a good time after separation, till residual feelings are gone

b) are not staying under the same room.

Here none of these conditions have been fulfilled by the two. Its not just controversial, its unfair to the other partner if you chose to remain friends.

Holding hands among friends is fine for me, hugging is also fine, but then again the relationship these two share right now and the situations they are surrounded with, its not fine...

Sai has to realise how Virat has been trying so much to make her feel like a wife in his own ways...but then the onus is also on Virat to understand her fear and insecurities, the abuse she went through, emotional and at times physical, because we can agree or disagree , these are results of his words, decisions and actions(lack of it)......just like Virat's anger/hurt right now is a result of Sai's brashness and rudeness and her inabilities to understand his feelings and actions..

If one has to be realised the other as well, the other one being there for a long long time...has been there on a daily basis, since the time she entered the house..

There is for both of them to learn here....The debate would come back when I say he was at one point of time emotionally standing(not riding) on two boats..

@bold Kya yaar....you also caught Virat ka Jalebi disease 🤣(which I myself was suffering from few days back😆)

Boat mein riding , standing....matlab?

But I agree 100% with everything you said. Virakhi cannot be friends under the circumstances they are in. Virat failed miserably when it came to setting boundaries with his ex. It is highly unfair to Sai.

And I'm not okay if he consoles her by holding her hand during tomorrow's coffee date. 😡...no matter how miserable she is. Forget that.....I'm not even ok with him going on the date in the first place.

Originally posted by: msin

I know a lot are cribbing on the increased Sanrakhi scenes ..

But the 4 minutes of Sairat was so good .. a lot of us think virat should have clarified to Sai .. Agree he is at fault too ..

But Sai needs to be given a taste of her own medicine ..

she says anything….

Now virat is behaving exactly like she says their marriage is supposed to be ..

a business arrangement .. then why is she getting upset ..

She’s explaining samrat’s point clearly to virat .. but has she tried looking at her husband’s side ..

She always ignores virat’s feelings or takes it for granted .. for the last one month .. everybody has been taking him for granted .. now finally it seems he has given up ..

I hope he doesn’t relent to Sai so easily with her cutesy talks ..

Sai has to differentiate between her father and husband .. both of them are guardians .. but expectations from both is different..

The precap shows she’s treating how she would treat her dad when he was unwell ..

Yes virat is physically unwell but a lot has been brought about because of his mental stress

I love to see Sai didn't accept confused Virat love. First Virat needs to clarify himself and others his and pakhi standing. He deserved sai and samrat anger.