I am loving this cold virat👍👍 - Page 3

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Not connected to topic sorry

I want some reporter ask Neil why Virat agreed for a coffee date with Pakhi in such situation . I believe he knows Virat better than any one of us.

he’s not writing the story … even I don’t see the need for him to meet pakhi in coffeehouse since they both they stay in the same house.. and the issues hurting their spouses are so out in the open ..let’s see how it pans out ..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

SHe has forgiven him for bigger crimes in a blink of an eye. While he gets to be angry for I dont know how long because he felt insulted. What about the insults she had to feel because of Pakhi being in their life, because of being abused for being his wife, claiming him as her husband. Has he reflected on any of these things she mentions, just asks her to not taana maaro him...Just asks her to not say anything that hurts him.. SHe once said how she no more is her won self after marrying in this family..He treated it as a taunt..She tells him how she is laughed at by friends when she is studying during free time at college , since she hardly gets time at home..She has modified her whole cycle for this family and she cant even talk about the problem she faced since he feels bad..Has he given a thought about these things.. Its just that Virat expresses his hurts with tears and Sai with her brashness, Sai's feelings have been misunderstood.

If he told her this is anniversary trip , she would have stood firm with him.. Virat convinces her for everything he wants...It has always been that way..be it staying in room, the trip or not leaving the house. The way she was insulted for going out with him on Ladakh trip , how is she to still stand firm when the whole family calls her out for that....especially after she has witnessed the confrontation scene she has stopped calling herself , his wife. Since the time she gave up, after the assault. And was she wrong there, they called her out yet again when she is back.. Which normal family does that?

If Sai deserves this treatment for behaving this way with, what does Virat deserves for all these things and other actions of him that almost costed her life, her shelter, her self respect...I hate that about Sai..she is so forgiving...and since she is brash and rude all her good qualities are ignored...by everyone. Even Virat!!

For Sai to not see him as her AAba, Virat also needs to keep switching between pati hun, legal guardian hun ..When after college fests she asks him some direct questions..he calls him her legal guardian and wants to know her feelings..Does not go that way, he set the standards, its his ex who is always in their room and he wants to gauge her feelings first..He has always reversed the question and then gets into self consumed mode, without giving a thought about others, something that he expects from others..

The problem is I have issues with Sai handling it all after everything that would go around her in all this, with this man being this way. This is going to stretch unlike the accident track where Virat was at fault.

that’s why I feel .. and I have told you again and again
They both need space to understand and introspect whether they need each other .. or they can prosper away from each other ..

because clearly some faults in both of them will not disappear .. there are some selfish traits in both of them .. which will not go because they suddenly value their marriage .. they both have to stay apart to see whether they miss each other .. and are they attracted to each other’s selfish selves .. if not both of them have good rocking careers .. they can focus their and do thing’s worthwhile..

Originally posted by: msin

he’s not writing the story … even I don’t see the need for him to meet pakhi in coffeehouse since they both they stay in the same house.. and the issues hurting their spouses are so out in the open ..let’s see how it pans out ..

Originally posted by: msin

that’s why I feel .. and I have told you again and again
They both need space to understand and introspect whether they need each other .. or they can prosper away from each other ..

because clearly some faults in both of them will not disappear .. there are some selfish traits in both of them .. which will not go because they suddenly value their marriage .. they both have to stay apart to see whether they miss each other .. and are they attracted to each other’s selfish selves .. if not both of them have good rocking careers .. they can focus their and do thing’s worthwhile..

I do feel they needs to separate but not hurl hurtful words at each other.. Its not TIT for TAT!!Even I have said it long back they need space, after ousting track, after confrontation track and even after accident.. I am not okay with this I will treat you badly since I am hurt track!!

The precap shows she’s treating how she would treat her dad when he was unwell ..

Sai has to differentiate between her father and husband .. both of them are guardians .. but expectations from both is different...

Exactly... 👌👌👌

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

SHe has forgiven him for bigger crimes in a blink of an eye. While he gets to be angry for I dont know how long because he felt insulted. What about the insults she had to feel because of Pakhi being in their life, because of being abused for being his wife, claiming him as her husband. Has he reflected on any of these things she mentions, just asks her to not taana maaro him...Just asks her to not say anything that hurts him.. SHe once said how she no more is her won self after marrying in this family..He treated it as a taunt..She tells him how she is laughed at by friends when she is studying during free time at college , since she hardly gets time at home..She has modified her whole cycle for this family and she cant even talk about the problem she faced since he feels bad..Has he given a thought about these things.. Its just that Virat expresses his hurts with tears and Sai with her brashness, Sai's feelings have been misunderstood.

If he told her this is anniversary trip , she would have stood firm with him.. Virat convinces her for everything he wants...It has always been that way..be it staying in room, the trip or not leaving the house. The way she was insulted for going out with him on Ladakh trip , how is she to still stand firm when the whole family calls her out for that....especially after she has witnessed the confrontation scene she has stopped calling herself , his wife. Since the time she gave up, after the assault. And was she wrong there, they called her out yet again when she is back.. Which normal family does that?

If Sai deserves this treatment for behaving this way with, what does Virat deserves for all these things and other actions of him that almost costed her life, her shelter, her self respect...I hate that about Sai..she is so forgiving...and since she is brash and rude all her good qualities are ignored...by everyone. Even Virat!!

For Sai to not see him as her AAba, Virat also needs to keep switching between pati hun, legal guardian hun ..When after college fests she asks him some direct questions..he calls him her legal guardian and wants to know her feelings..Does not go that way, he set the standards, its his ex who is always in their room and he wants to gauge her feelings first..He has always reversed the question and then gets into self consumed mode, without giving a thought about others, something that he expects from others..

The problem is I have issues with Sai handling it all after everything that would go around her in all this, with this man being this way. This is going to stretch unlike the accident track where Virat was at fault.

I know that virat is at major fault for the mess but due to his heartbreaks from sai and samrat he is not able to look beyond anything. Just like sai is not understanding his feelings, he is also not understanding that what is hurting sai is that damn third person. Both have to fight this battle of insecurities alone to get together.

Originally posted by: Akash3Rai

i dont think virat is punishing sai by staying away from her, because after her behaviour on anniversary he thinks she does not like to be with him, that's why he wants to maintain distance because he thinks she will be happy if he is away. From his point of view he is hurting himself because he thinks sai considers him no one, She just respect him as a guardian that's why he is staying away from her and his family.

I know that virat is at major fault for the mess but due to his heartbreaks from sai and samrat he is not able to look beyond anything. Just like sai is not understanding his feelings, he is also not understanding that what is hurting sai is that damn third person. Both have to fight this battle of insecurities alone to get together.

Thats what I want, but thats not the case here no...

I'm loving this Virat. I hope he stays this way and doesn't change his behaviour. Whenever there was a fight between them it was Virat who always took the initiative and apologised but this time he didn't and so it hurt Sai's ego. Sai has to stop comparing Virat to her Aaba. Both these relationship are different. Our parents will do everything for us unconditionally but there's always some kind of expectation from our spouse. Virat has done so much for her without any expectations but still Sai has always overlooked his goodness. I guess Kamal Sir has pampered her so much that she's behaving this way. He too used to overlook her rudeness at Virat too. And, now Sai has to introspect her actions and rectify her mistakes.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I'm loving this Virat. I hope he stays this way and doesn't change his behaviour. Whenever there was a fight between them it was Virat who always took the initiative and apologised but this time he didn't and so it hurt Sai's ego. Sai has to stop comparing Virat to her Aaba. Both these relationship are different. Our parents will do everything for us unconditionally but there's always some kind of expectation from our spouse. Virat has done so much for her without any expectations but still Sai has always overlooked his goodness. I guess Kamal Sir has pampered her so much that she's behaving this way. He too used to overlook her rudeness at Virat too. And, now Sai has to introspect her actions and rectify her mistakes.

Exactly she has to lose him .. To miss him ..

I am loving this too.. But hope it makes her realize.. Unfortunately recent episodes are NOT giving me any positive vibes..misunderstanding will grow.. It's getting some what revolting..

The purpose of this track to bring them closer.. Making both realize their worth.. The upcoming coffee scene will escalate all her doubts to multiple folds.. According to KD some of the sequence are really good.. But some of them are extremely OTT without any head or tail..

Hope our Sai bai begins to see herself as Virat's wife...😆