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Originally posted by: laksh

@1st para I agree. And what was with him saying that that was the truth 🤦‍♀️. Because that was the truth in the past, does it mean that he will let the lady speak those? I didn’t get it.

I can still understand Sai, her position, her reaction to the anniversary and where all the anger is coming from. I am yet to watch today’s episode, just watched a few clippings, will share my views once I do it. I don’t know what line she had crossed. If it is about her asking he is insulting the feelings of two women, I think she meant to say that he had promised Pakhi that he would never give a place to anyone else in his life, she also has seen and heard a few times from Pakhi herself that Virat has conveniently moved on, is playing with her emotions and Sai can also see that he is breaking the promise and is trying to move on with her. I think Sai thinks that if she wasn’t in picture at all, Virat wouldn’t have broken that promise. She heard a story from him the day before where it looked like he was talking about his failed love story, she saw him listening to the yoga instructor without interrupting her immediately and yet he wants to celebrate their marriage anniversary. They have added a lot of elements to add up to her confusion that Virat has feelings for Pakhi but is trying to move on because he has got married, because he thinks that he has some duties as a husband. She lets him enter her space, lets him get close to her but takes a few steps behind as soon as she starts to feel that he harbours feelings for Pakhi. His story made it look like he was trying to share his dukhbhari kahaani to her and then the same day, he was doing this too which she couldn’t accept at all. When she asked why would the girl come to the lovers point with his friend if she doesn’t have any feelings for him, he had again said that their relationship need not be a relationship of love and can be like theirs, bound out of responsibility and she was unhappy to hear that yet again from him. Now after telling this way, if he celebrates wedding anniversary, how is she supposed to perceive it as. That is how I understood it as.

Anyway, I am yet to watch the whole episode, just sharing my understanding based on the story so far and a few clippings that I watched today. I felt that she was trying to remind Virat to choose one person. She said the same when she confronted him after the pool scene too. Even then he had tried to kiss her in the venue which made her tell that. She feels that he is conflicted with his own thoughts. It is like how Virat asks Sai not to cross a line when she talks certain things to Pakhi, Sai also was correcting him. They both take that liberty to correct each other actually. Another reason being both don’t like when the other goes wrong. They have high regards for each other and hence they don’t want them to make any mistakes even unintentionally.

Just tagging you since I noticed that you felt Sai was calling Virat a two timer. The above is how I understood it as. Had severe headache, took a nap and replying to posts only now. Just watched the episode too, only thing that I seem to have missed watching in the clippings was the monologues of Sai and Virat’s conversation with Sunny and Mohit on the road while looking for Sai.

Will try to write something on the episode if possible. I am trying to reduce my screen time due to my headache, so not sure if I would. All this also gives more headache 🤣🤣.

Take some rest. Headaches are worst with this Ghum heartbreaks also 🙄

Originally posted by: laksh

@1st para I agree. And what was with him saying that that was the truth 🤦‍♀️. Because that was the truth in the past, does it mean that he will let the lady speak those? I didn’t get it.

I can still understand Sai, her position, her reaction to the anniversary and where all the anger is coming from. I am yet to watch today’s episode, just watched a few clippings, will share my views once I do it. I don’t know what line she had crossed. If it is about her asking he is insulting the feelings of two women, I think she meant to say that he had promised Pakhi that he would never give a place to anyone else in his life, she also has seen and heard a few times from Pakhi herself that Virat has conveniently moved on, is playing with her emotions and Sai can also see that he is breaking the promise and is trying to move on with her. I think Sai thinks that if she wasn’t in picture at all, Virat wouldn’t have broken that promise. She heard a story from him the day before where it looked like he was talking about his failed love story, she saw him listening to the yoga instructor without interrupting her immediately and yet he wants to celebrate their marriage anniversary. They have added a lot of elements to add up to her confusion that Virat has feelings for Pakhi but is trying to move on because he has got married, because he thinks that he has some duties as a husband. She lets him enter her space, lets him get close to her but takes a few steps behind as soon as she starts to feel that he harbours feelings for Pakhi. His story made it look like he was trying to share his dukhbhari kahaani to her and then the same day, he was doing this too which she couldn’t accept at all. When she asked why would the girl come to the lovers point with his friend if she doesn’t have any feelings for him, he had again said that their relationship need not be a relationship of love and can be like theirs, bound out of responsibility and she was unhappy to hear that yet again from him. Now after telling this way, if he celebrates wedding anniversary, how is she supposed to perceive it as. That is how I understood it as.

Anyway, I am yet to watch the whole episode, just sharing my understanding based on the story so far and a few clippings that I watched today. I felt that she was trying to remind Virat to choose one person. She said the same when she confronted him after the pool scene too. Even then he had tried to kiss her in the venue which made her tell that. She feels that he is conflicted with his own thoughts. It is like how Virat asks Sai not to cross a line when she talks certain things to Pakhi, Sai also was correcting him. They both take that liberty to correct each other actually. Another reason being both don’t like when the other goes wrong. They have high regards for each other and hence they don’t want them to make any mistakes even unintentionally.

Could be! After rewatching it didn’t sound as bad but I did feel it was pointing to his physical closeness which I thought is not correct. She was into him as much as he was. Just going by Ghum here not KD 🤨

but yeah as you pointed out they have liberty to speak their mind and correct the other person. Ajeeb jelebiyan hain dono. Khatam Karo dono and chain se jeene do hume 😅🙏

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Take some rest. Headaches are worst with this Ghum heartbreaks also 🙄

I think it has got to do with the travel and I have also started to use my phone for forum again more often. The screen time is the main reason for it which had reduced a lot in the past 2 weeks.

I am not that affected by Ghum honestly, though I did feel bad for them. All I could see at the end was that Sai had started to think and I also liked that Virat cared for Sai. Last time they had a fight and when she was at Pulkit’s place, he was upset with her rather than worrying if she was okay or not. When Sai was leaving even today, I was shocked when he said that the key was with the reception and clearly Sai was also hurt that he didn’t even care that she was leaving. I felt really bad for Sai and for Virat towards the end when he said that Sai didn’t even like the thought that she left him. Just watch it without thinking much or like some new show that you have just started to watch without getting attached to the story or the characters in this track if possible 😀.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Could be! After rewatching it didn’t sound as bad but I did feel it was pointing to his physical closeness which I thought is not correct. She was into him as much as he was. Just going by Ghum here not KD 🤨

but yeah as you pointed out they have liberty to speak their mind and correct the other person. Ajeeb jelebiyan hain dono. Khatam Karo dono and chain se jeene do hume 😅🙏

It wasn’t physical closeness at all. It was like he is not stopping Pakhi from waiting for him, hasn’t done anything to tell Pakhi that he has got nothing to do with her and he was also acting like a husband especially celebrating wedding anniversary. Her main problem is that nothing is resolved between him and Pakhi as per her. Last she saw them together at the pool where Pakhi was accusing him and Sai told Pakhi that Virat never breaks promises. She also asked the same the same night after returning from Harini’s birthday party as what does promises means to him to know what he would be doing about it. He had also not spoken anything every time Pakhi talks as if Sai has come in between them and that he was trying to move on. It happened on her birthday too when he stayed silent when she accused that he has become Sai’s.

Had he once told Pakhi that she shouldn’t be expecting anything from him since it is not right and since he cannot fulfill any commitment and the waada doesn’t hold true now, she would have understood that he has ended all ties with Pakhi. He is acting like a husband planning their wedding anniversary celebration when he was feeling bad that Pakhi got married to someone else and she is not able to process any of these. That is why she had even said that Pakhi still resides in his heart. She feels that he is upset that Pakhi had to get married to his brother, his love story failed and at the same time, he was trying to move on in his life. It looks as if he is having conflicting emotions. He feels it is the right thing to celebrate as a husband when he is actually going through a heartbreak that him and Pakhi had to part ways. All this is because of his stupid lovers point love story. Even if not that, she wouldn’t have been happy, but she would have asked him questions but she wouldn’t be this mad at him. It looks so wierd to see him act normal when he was sharing his love story a while back 🤣🤣.

All I could do is to expect for good dialogues tomorrow. Virat is going to shut off completely or distance himself. He did feel that he doesnt reside in her heart. So Sai just figuring things out when Virat shuts her off completely is a roaler coaster already. 😭

Originally posted by: sadiltl

All I could do is to expect for good dialogues tomorrow. Virat is going to shut off completely or distance himself. He did feel that he doesnt reside in her heart. So Sai just figuring things out when Virat shuts her off completely is a roaler coaster already. 😭

What can we do? Let’s just watch it. They both want each other, yearning for each other and in pain too. Both are not able to understand that the other wants the same. Let’s see what they show us. Hope they show some nice light hearted moments too. Samrat is a chirpy guy, hope they show some good episodes after he returns to CN and not just drama.

Pakhi will anyway be waiting to create misunderstanding between the two and especially after she has come to know that Virat has lied and taken out Sai to celebrate his wedding anniversary. I want someone to understand Pakhi and her intentions and solve that issue 🤦‍♀️.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Could be! After rewatching it didn’t sound as bad but I did feel it was pointing to his physical closeness which I thought is not correct. She was into him as much as he was. Just going by Ghum here not KD 🤨

but yeah as you pointed out they have liberty to speak their mind and correct the other person. Ajeeb jelebiyan hain dono. Khatam Karo dono and chain se jeene do hume 😅🙏

I don't think she was implying anything about their physical closeness. I agree with everything you have said Laksh. I said many similar things after the episode aired in terms of Sai's perspective. However, I still believe that Sai owes Virat an apology. All of her feelings, her frustrations, her insecurities and all of the questions she asked Virat...they were all valid. But, the way in which she spoke and the accusatory manner in which she came across when saying he is doing 2 women's beizzati crossed the line. I know that she was not trying to accuse him of cheating on her. Even she knows that he has been faithful and loyal to her. But in her own pain, she truly stabbed him in the heart and broke him. If not to her husband, then she needs to apologize to the man who is her family, her friend, her rock, her support system... the man who has put her happiness above all else... and she recognizes all of this...she sees Virat as the man occupying all of these roles in her life- as the man who is more important to her than anyone else.

Originally posted by: tptwi

I don't think she was implying anything about their physical closeness. I agree with everything you have said Laksh. I said many similar things after the episode aired in terms of Sai's perspective. However, I still believe that Sai owes Virat an apology. All of her feelings, her frustrations, her insecurities and all of the questions she asked Virat...they were all valid. But, the way in which she spoke and the accusatory manner in which she came across when saying he is doing 2 women's beizzati crossed the line. I know that she was not trying to accuse him of cheating on her. Even she knows that he has been faithful and loyal to her. But in her own pain, she truly stabbed him in the heart and broke him. If not to her husband, then she needs to apologize to the man who is her family, her friend, her rock, her support system... the man who has put her happiness above all else... and she recognizes all of this...she sees Virat as the man occupying all of these roles in her life- as the man who is more important to her than anyone else.

I think it is because of the high regards, the respect that she has for him that has made her even say that. She knows that he can never cross lines, knows that he cannot disrespect women and so she was trying to tell him that his actions can come across like him disrespecting both the women. She was trying to tell that by celebrating their anniversary, he would be ending up hurting two women, one who cannot see him as a husband as per his own expectation and the other who is still waiting for him, to whom he had promised that he wouldn’t give a place to any other girl in his life. She wants these but not without him resolving or giving a closure to his commitment. She doesn’t know that he has ended up ties with Pakhi but Pakhi has clearly been showing that she is waiting only for Virat and Virat hasn’t done anything to that and it is only right that he does that even if he wants to move on.

In this case, Sai has always thought too high of Virat and she can’t believe that he wouldn’t think certain things, she can’t accept that he can act insensitive, can’t believe that he would disregard one’s feelings or hurt. She is seeing him as a person with conflicting thoughts and emotions who is trying to act as how one would expect from him, to act as a husband, fulfilling the duty of a husband, getting carried away with a friend’s suggestion or idea and in the process is forgetting that he had promised to someone else, is forgetting that he had made a commitment to someone else. Not exactly forgetting but letting it slip by in the process of fulfilling another commitment as a husband.

When I try to analyse characters, I try as much as possible to not bring in my character traits, my own expectations and analyse the characters. What anyone would tend to do in general is expect things from others like how they would act or react. They wouldn’t like certain things that they themselves would never do. Sai is a girl who would do things in a straightforward way, she wouldn’t even hesitate to confess her feelings to him if she realises that she loves him. If she was in Virat’s position, she wouldn’t handle Pakhi and all her expectations by staying silent if she had planned to move on in her life. She is the same girl who had confronted Virat and Pakhi and had also told Virat that he has to choose one of them. Hence if she was in his position, if she wanted to move on, she would end up all ties with Pakhi, would have confessed her love for her spouse and would have only then thought of celebrating anything like this. All she is trying to do is make him come out of a trance, make him accept the reality. As per her he is heartbroken that his and Pakhi’s relationship broke but he is going against his own will, his own heart and doing all worldly things. She is also hurt with all this because she would have loved to celebrate these if only their marriage was real. In the process of doing all this he has rubbed salt on her wounds, he has hurt her and that is why she told Mohit to ask him not to play with her emotions often. I am seriously surprised that none there could understand when she said that her life has become a joke, everyone has cheated her and no one values her emotions.

Anyway, what I am trying to say is that as you have said it looks like an accusatory tone, can come across as an accusation too but she was just beyond shocked that Virat failed to think that he can’t celebrate their anniversary when there was nothing to begin with, when he had not tried to establish any kind of relationship with her officially, when he had not negated the deal that he had set, when he had not clearly communicated to Pakhi that she should stop expecting anything from him anymore and that he wants to move on, wants to begin his journey with his wife. All she wanted to do was snap him out of his thoughts in case he had not thought about it or hasn’t realised what all these could mean. It would mean that he is tryin to take their relationship forward and Sai isn’t confident that Virat is ready for it yet since he has not closed the chapter of his past.

Originally posted by: laksh

I think it is because of the high regards, the respect that she has for him that has made her even say that. She knows that he can never cross lines, knows that he cannot disrespect women and so she was trying to tell him that his actions can come across like him disrespecting both the women. She was trying to tell that by celebrating their anniversary, he would be ending up hurting two women, one who cannot see him as a husband as per his own expectation and the other who is still waiting for him, to whom he had promised that he wouldn’t give a place to any other girl in his life. She wants these but not without him resolving or giving a closure to his commitment. She doesn’t know that he has ended up ties with Pakhi but Pakhi has clearly been showing that she is waiting only for Virat and Virat hasn’t done anything to that and it is only right that he does that even if he wants to move on.

In this case, Sai has always thought too high of Virat and she can’t believe that he wouldn’t think certain things, she can’t accept that he can act insensitive, can’t believe that he would disregard one’s feelings or hurt. She is seeing him as a person with conflicting thoughts and emotions who is trying to act as how one would expect from him, to act as a husband, fulfilling the duty of a husband, getting carried away with a friend’s suggestion or idea and in the process is forgetting that he had promised to someone else, is forgetting that he had made a commitment to someone else. Not exactly forgetting but letting it slip by in the process of fulfilling another commitment as a husband.

When I try to analyse characters, I try as much as possible to not bring in my character traits, my own expectations and analyse the characters. What anyone would tend to do in general is expect things from others like how they would act or react. They wouldn’t like certain things that they themselves would never do. Sai is a girl who would do things in a straightforward way, she wouldn’t even hesitate to confess her feelings to him if she realises that she loves him. If she was in Virat’s position, she wouldn’t handle Pakhi and all her expectations by staying silent if she had planned to move on in her life. She is the same girl who had confronted Virat and Pakhi and had also told Virat that he has to choose one of them. Hence if she was in his position, if she wanted to move on, she would end up all ties with Pakhi, would have confessed her love for her spouse and would have only then thought of celebrating anything like this. All she is trying to do is make him come out of a trance, make him accept the reality. As per her he is heartbroken that his and Pakhi’s relationship broke but he is going against his own will, his own heart and doing all worldly things. She is also hurt with all this because she would have loved to celebrate these if only their marriage was real. In the process of doing all this he has rubbed salt on her wounds, he has hurt her and that is why she told Mohit to ask him not to play with her emotions often. I am seriously surprised that none there could understand when she said that her life has become a joke, everyone has cheated her and no one values her emotions.

Anyway, what I am trying to say is that as you have said it looks like an accusatory tone, can come across as an accusation too but she was just beyond shocked that Virat failed to think that he can’t celebrate their anniversary when there was nothing to begin with, when he had not tried to establish any kind of relationship with her officially, when he had not negated the deal that he had set, when he had not clearly communicated to Pakhi that she should stop expecting anything from him anymore and that he wants to move on, wants to begin his journey with his wife. All she wanted to do was snap him out of his thoughts in case he had not thought about it or hasn’t realised what all these could mean. It would mean that he is tryin to take their relationship forward and Sai isn’t confident that Virat is ready for it yet since he has not closed the chapter of his past.

I still think she owes Virat an apology. In fact, this is the first time that I have ever said this about Sai 🤣No matter what the justifications or intentions behind her words were (which, as you have described were not meant to accuse him at all), the way in which she acted was extremely rude and disrespectful. As much as I sympatize with her, like I always have, she was wrong too in the way she came across...

I don't know if I am making sense... my brain is kind of fried 😆