Heartbreaking. - Page 8

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know he has said... He has been very insensitive when it comes to both his relationship with Pakhi and her accusations at him when Sai is around and also at times the verbal abuse she has to go through at a daily basis...

He said I want that marriage , but he also after that said, she is his zimmedaari not once many times..What is she to believe that he wants the marriage and is also a zimmedaari to him..How does she need to get it that this marriage would be because of love when his overbearing ex keeps accusing him and her as some jilted lover and all he does is okay fine, say whatever you want to, without even clarifying it to Sai that there were no such khwaaishein and talks of relationship that she keeps blabbering about..

Does Sai even know that this love story is just a two day old, where Pakhi and him shared number , he lost her number and Pakhi went to block him and they directly met at Samrat's marriage..?

Does she even know that they had hardly spent time to discuss love or life?

Does she know Pakhi was anyway marrying Samrat, Virat or no Virat in picture?

Does she know whatever they had in between them has been clarified by Virat to pakhi that its no more, she to him his just his elder brother's wife and would remain so, Sai or no Sai in picture?

She probably thinks they were in love, spent some good time with each other and got separated because of her..She does not even know the reason of their separation. A wife with whom the husband wants to move on, does not even deserve to know the whole story of the past that keeps looming around her room and accusing her of having rights on her won husband when he is not around... Does she not deserve to know all this, before she is told that she is loved by her husband... Any wife deserves this..A wife who is always blamed by the ex for using her husband's money, accused of having haq on her, not just by the ex but also by the family members before understanding the actions of her husband..

I would have been at Virat's side had he cleared all these questions raised here and still made such efforts and Sai denied to acknowledge them.. But right now even If I want I cant side him as such, because of the complications he has developed around her and her emotions.. I also believe he need not even tell her he loves her, but just that there is no love in him for Pakhi not even platonic.!! Because she thinks by being with her he is cheating Pakhi...who is always crying outside her room..

Bold - Today when Sai brought up the part where he was already committed, I wanted him to clarify that everything was nothing but an infatuation. An attraction two people felt during their initial interactions.. he could have taken her aside and explained the entire circumstances surrounding Pakhi and Samrat’s wedding.. what was his intention behind that Waada.. why he can no longer uphold it.. again today he wanted to show how far they have come from that deal marriage.. but in his own confusion and fear, he fails to understand her reasons for sticking to those words “deal marriage”. He is sometimes portrayed completely clueless and fails to clarify his past.

Originally posted by: tptwi

@bolded: Even in today's episode, if we look past her brashness, we see how she truly feels. She told Virat that she will leave him once she is independent and can take on her own zimidari. Is this really the case? Because, as of now, she has her scholarship money, she has the hostel, she even has Pulkit's house. If she really wanted to leave, she could have easily done so by now. But instead, she has chosen to forgive Virat every single time he has hurt her in unimaginable ways. She has chosen to stay in a household where his family members are constantly abusing her. Why? Because she loves him, and she cannot bear the thought of going away from him. She values him over her own self-respect. The problem with Sai is that we have to look past her words and dig deeper into her actions because as an audience, we do not get the same insight into her mind as we do into Virat's.

She keeps saying this and yet fails to leave..So conflicted she is with her own feelings, Virat's advances, his unclear stand on his relationship with Pakhi and ofcourse the vaada..To top it all we have Pakhi outside their bed room always available to create more mess in her head.. Sai keeps ranting about leaving because Virat also gets back to calling her zimmedaari..

Poor Sai is trying to protect herself from a heartbreak. She was time and again reminded by her husband's ex that her marriage is nothing but a deal. And her husband never tried to refute it earlier. So it is only natural that she does not want to give herself false hopes from his small gestures, lest it leads to a big heartbreak for her. What I don't understand is Virat's stand in this whole matter. This guy got so many chances to come clear about is past and his feelings for Sai. But all he did was jalebi talk. How did this guy clear UPSC interview with this jalebi talk? We as audience know about his feeling. And yet, I get confused so many times with his talks. So it is understandable that Sai doesn't get what is going on in his head. Before celebrating anniversary, he needs to have a proper, calm and clear talk with his wife and clear all the MUs. Only then will Sai open up to this relationship completely.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Bold - Today when Sai brought up the part where he was already committed, I wanted him to clarify that everything was nothing but an infatuation. An attraction two people felt during their initial interactions.. he could have taken her aside and explained the entire circumstances surrounding Pakhi and Samrat’s wedding.. what was his intention behind that Waada.. why he can no longer uphold it.. again today he wanted to show how far they have come from that deal marriage.. but in his own confusion and fear, he fails to understand her reasons for sticking to those words “deal marriage”. He is sometimes portrayed completely clueless and fails to clarify his past.

The problem is he is not wrong , but he is addressing the issues in a wrong manner...He needs to follow basic steps..He even fails to understand that what would be in Sai's head after listening to the yoga teacher..In his head he is over Pakhi good, but why does he expects Sai to also believe it without addressing it that he is over Pakhi.. He does not even know hoe Sai perceives his love for Pakhi.. or their past.. He could not even call out Pakhi for her Bakwaas on her birthday when she kept saying to Sai how he breaks her heart and how he broke all her dreams that she had with him/from him....And in all this Sai has to ignore it all and just see at those photos on the cake to believe that he is with her...in love with her..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

The problem is he is not wrong , but he is addressing the issues in a wrong manner...He needs to follow basic steps..He even fails to understand that what would be in Sai's head after listening to the yoga teacher..In his head he is over Pakhi good, but why does he expects Sai to also believe it without addressing it that he is over Pakhi.. He does not even know hoe Sai perceives his love for Pakhi.. or their past.. He could not even call out Pakhi for her Bakwaas on her birthday when she kept saying to Sai how he breaks her heart and how he broke all her dreams that she had with him/from him....And in all this Sai has to ignore it all and just see at those photos on the cake to believe that he is with her...in love with her..

Exactly, he is not wrong. He got over Pakhi, but he fails to understand Sai’s feelings, how can she get over Pakhi and his commitment towards P, when there is a constant reminder roaming around them and time n again taunts her.

Bold - Even yesterday, I mentioned this in a post. He failed to address such allegations made by Pakhi in front of Sai. He should have blasted P then and there..

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Exactly, he is not wrong. He got over Pakhi, but he fails to understand Sai’s feelings, how can she get over Pakhi and his commitment towards P, when there is a constant reminder roaming around them and time n again taunts her.

Bold - Even yesterday, I mentioned this in a post. He failed to address such allegations made by Pakhi in front of Sai. He should have blasted P then and there..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

If at all he blasted her,Pakhi would have created a scene and threatened to leave the house by involving the whole family. Virat did not want that to happen till Samrat returns back. Probably that is why he used to avoid confrontations with Pakhi and was unable to clear it up with Sai.

Again blasted is a poor choice of words from my part.. I meant more in terms of calling out her BS. It's not like he never called out Pakhi for her behavior. He fails to do it infront of Sai.. which is very important.

Pakhi threatening to leave the house is a frequent occurrence and if he was worried about it, he wouldn't have called her out at all, ever. He has showed Pakhi her place many times, but not infront of Sai.

The onus lied with him to put things in perspective when Pakhi was talking about him breaking her hopes and dreams in front of his wife.

I want him to be prudent in heeding to his wife's nuances in such matters.

I am a person who supports Virat to the fullest.. I just want him to have candid communication with Sai and explain his entire past and the Waada etc..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

If at all he blasted her,Pakhi would have created a scene and threatened to leave the house by involving the whole family. Virat did not want that to happen till Samrat returns back. Probably that is why he used to avoid confrontations with Pakhi and was unable to clear it up with Sai.

Virat is not wrong in the way he has been handling Pakhi, barring some leverages taken by CVs, but w.r.t. Sai he is in a way since Sai does not even know the details of his relationship with Pakhi, neither the past or the present. She as his wife before completely accepting him as her husband or his love, deserved to know those intricacies pertaining to his past relationship..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Virat is not wrong in the way he has been handling Pakhi, barring some leverages taken by CVs, but w.r.t. Sai he is in a way since Sai does not even know the details of his relationship with Pakhi, neither the past or the present. She as his wife before completely accepting him as her husband or his love, deserved to know those intricacies pertaining to his past relationship..

Still I wonder why Sai could not distinguish between the looks he gives to her and to Pakhi which are widely different? In yesterday episode Sai tells Virat that girls do realise very fast. Then Why she is not feeling the unmistaken love in Virat’s eyes for her? Did he ever look at Pakhi that way? No.

I wish when Virat withdrew himself ,Sai would recollect all the happenings of one year and decide for herself.

It was painful to watch.. For Sai it was a journey of love and so much pain that she didn't even want to relive that moment. For Virat it was a journey love, breath and his reason to live..

Both are right from their perspective.. Sai is back to in her shell.. It's so hard any woman to accept when her husband's keep on reminding him that he cheated on her.

She wouldn't be so angry if she did not hear all those rubbish from yoga teacher and the story.

The wall is so thick ,now both SaiRat can break it rebuild their love in a all new form..

With Samrat's entry she will misunderstand him even more ...but I am keen on knowing how she realises that how virat loves her..

I have zero hopes from the writer.. Instead overhyping they should concentrate on the story and execution..

They have to come with a solid storyline.Zimmedari farz are Bering over stretched