Heartbreaking. - Page 7

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Seriously, I was rolling my eyes at his 'story'. As it is ACP has jalebis instead of brain in his head....upar se Sunny gives such ridiculous ideas.

The story about girl getting married to someone else, Majnu killing himself......what was that even?

@bolded: Yaar I also did not like Sunny telling Sai that all of this was his idea today. I know he was trying to protect Virat, but it just made it seem like Virat didn't care to plan all of this himself... which we all know wasn't the case at all..

Heartbreaking episode 😭

Awesome Analysis👏

Virat yeh humara Safar ek saal mein hum ne taye kiya hai 👏 but present mein rehne ke liye past clear karna zaroori hai par virat ke liye yeh zaroori nahi hai par sai ke liye important hai ..

Virat ke vaada ke saath sai ka vaada juda hua hai.aap ke vaada ke beach mein mein kabhi nahi aaogi woh puri koshish kar rahi hai usko effect na ho par kay kar sakte hai ...

Do unwanted ko pyaar hogaya woh bhi shidadth se 😳

Virat ko samhj mein aye yeh fir sunny baba samaj kar dale dost ko samjhaye 😆

Precap mein kuch hua hi nahi kamal ke hai pati patni pal mein tola pal mein masha 🤣

Virat tum ne itni sare photos kab Li😍😍

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Imagine she has to listen to all this, these khwaaishein, the vaada of a life together , a woman's complaint to her husband, while the husband stands there listening to her...get blamed for coming in between them, taunted by that woman all the time and in all this she has to also understand her husband's love for her and the fact that he never promised Paakhi and he has clarified to her that he does not love her anymore... She also has to appreciate him for making efforts for celebrating the day , he promised her of no forever when moments back she was reminded about the moments he shared with Pakhi.. 👏

Virat has been very insensitive and hypocritical as far as this aspect is concerned.

He has NEVER made Sai secure wrt his past love either by his actions or words. He let Pakhi spew venom in the past and even now Pakhi shows so much haq on the husband - as if it is her right to be angry/heartbroken over his 'bewafai'. As Sai's husband, he never shuts Pakhi up nor warns her to not say such inappropriate stuff. How will Sai think of herself as his wife then?

Whenever his past has come up between them, he has never been open about it. Just a few cryptic sentences here and there or complete avoidance. Even normal married couple would need a lot of reassurance in the circumstances they are in.

I badly wanted a blow up after the Ajinkya episode - that Sai should question Virat left, right , centre on his pyaarosti with bhabhi, walking into each other's rooms without even knocking, midnight rendezvous between ex-lovers, their disconcerting familiarity with each other... unfortunately my manifestations never came true. He cannot behave however he likes in a relationship.

Ther strange thing is he of all people should be sensitive of her feelings given how insecure he gets at the mere thought of Sai's friendship with a guy.

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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat has been very insensitive and hypocritical as far as this aspect is concerned.

He has NEVER made Sai secure wrt his past love either by his actions or words. He let Pakhi spew venom in the past and even now Pakhi shows so much haq on the husband - as if it is her right to be angry/heartbroken over his 'bewafai'. As Sai's husband, he never shuts Pakhi up nor warns her to not say such inappropriate stuff. How will Sai think of herself as his wife then?

Whenever his past has come up between them, he has never been open about it. Just a few cryptic sentences here and there or complete avoidance. Even normal married couple would need a lot of reassurance in the circumstances they are in.

I badly wanted a blow up after the Ajinkya episode - that Sai should question Virat left, right , centre on his pyaarosti with bhabhi, walking into each other's rooms without even knocking, midnight rendezvous between ex-lovers, their disconcerting familiarity with each other... unfortunately my manifestations never came true. He cannot behave however he likes in a relationship.

Ther strange thing is he of all people should be sensitive of her feelings given how insecure he gets at the mere thought of Sai's friendship with a guy.

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Originally posted by: tptwi

@bolded: Yaar I also did not like Sunny telling Sai that all of this was his idea today. I know he was trying to protect Virat, but it just made it seem like Virat didn't care to plan all of this himself... which we all know wasn't the case at all..

Oh yeah. It was unnecessary and didn't help matters.

Only thing that he should have done was to try to resolve the difference by trying to put across Virat's POV.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

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This is spot on Nethraa. The problem is that while he has put Pakhi in her place, he has never done so in front of Sai. Had Sai witnessed the post-GC and post-accident conversations between Virat and Pakhi, perhaps the story would be different today. Again, it just all goes back to the fact that he is unable to see this marriage from Sai's POV. His heart is pure and Pakhi has no place in his life anymore... but how is Sai supposed to know that? Yes, his actions show his love for Sai and she has also seen him defending her against Pakhi time and time again... but that is clearly not enough. Even the tamasha outside of their room after the ring gifting could have been avoided if he had just shut her up the minute she opened her vile mouth. I get that he avoids confrontation and is just over Pakhi's antics at this point, but it needs to register within his mind how all of this is impacting Sai.... he truly is blinded in his own love for Sai and unable to see anything past that... I wrote this in my original response in this thread, but a person's first love is all-consuming and overpowering. His emotions are so raw right now that he is too preoccupied dealing with them for him to be able to think of things from Sai's perspective, because to him the other truth is that she is the one in his heart and Pakhi can go to hell for all he cares. People say that when you are in love, you notice even the slightest things about the other person, etc., etc.... but this only happens once you have truly understood the person and learned to look outside of your own emotions. This is just the beginning stage for Virat. Realizing you love someone is only the first step....

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat has been very insensitive and hypocritical as far as this aspect is concerned.

He has NEVER made Sai secure wrt his past love either by his actions or words. He let Pakhi spew venom in the past and even now Pakhi shows so much haq on the husband - as if it is her right to be angry/heartbroken over his 'bewafai'. As Sai's husband, he never shuts Pakhi up nor warns her to not say such inappropriate stuff. How will Sai think of herself as his wife then?

Whenever his past has come up between them, he has never been open about it. Just a few cryptic sentences here and there or complete avoidance. Even normal married couple would need a lot of reassurance in the circumstances they are in.

I badly wanted a blow up after the Ajinkya episode - that Sai should question Virat left, right , centre on his pyaarosti with bhabhi, walking into each other's rooms without even knocking, midnight rendezvous between ex-lovers, their disconcerting familiarity with each other... unfortunately my manifestations never came true. He cannot behave however he likes in a relationship.

Ther strange thing is he of all people should be sensitive of her feelings given how insecure he gets at the mere thought of Sai's friendship with a guy.

You know he has said... He has been very insensitive when it comes to both his relationship with Pakhi and her accusations at him when Sai is around and also at times the verbal abuse she has to go through at a daily basis...

He said I want that marriage , but he also after that said, she is his zimmedaari not once many times..What is she to believe that he wants the marriage and is also a zimmedaari to him..How does she need to get it that this marriage would be because of love when his overbearing ex keeps accusing him and her as some jilted lover and all he does is okay fine, say whatever you want to, without even clarifying it to Sai that there were no such khwaaishein and talks of relationship that she keeps blabbering about..

Does Sai even know that this love story is just a two day old, where Pakhi and him shared number , he lost her number and Pakhi went to block him and they directly met at Samrat's marriage..?

Does she even know that they had hardly spent time to discuss love or life?

Does she know Pakhi was anyway marrying Samrat, Virat or no Virat in picture?

Does she know whatever they had in between them has been clarified by Virat to pakhi that its no more, she to him his just his elder brother's wife and would remain so, Sai or no Sai in picture?

She probably thinks they were in love, spent some good time with each other and got separated because of her..She does not even know the reason of their separation. A wife with whom the husband wants to move on, does not even deserve to know the whole story of the past that keeps looming around her room and accusing her of having rights on her won husband when he is not around... Does she not deserve to know all this, before she is told that she is loved by her husband... Any wife deserves this..A wife who is always blamed by the ex for using her husband's money, accused of having haq on her, not just by the ex but also by the family members before understanding the actions of her husband..

I would have been at Virat's side had he cleared all these questions raised here and still made such efforts and Sai denied to acknowledge them.. But right now even If I want I cant side him as such, because of the complications he has developed around her and her emotions.. I also believe he need not even tell her he loves her, but just that there is no love in him for Pakhi not even platonic.!! Because she thinks by being with her he is cheating Pakhi...who is always crying outside her room..

Just done watching the episode. Truly a heartbreaking one. I really felt for both Virat and Sai today😭. But Virat needs to understand that they both are at different stages in life. He thinks that actions mean everything and Sai is just 19, so for her it will be clear declaration of love. And TBH, Virat had communicated about his commitment towards Pakhi in very clear words to Sai. He would need to clearly tell her the circumstances in which he and Pakhi met and everything that followed. He needs to be crystal clear that the vaada means nothing to him. He didn't even shut that stupid yoga teacher up properly. He was just listening to her go on and on about his so called chemistry with Pakhi.

Ayesha and Niel both were fab in today's episode. The viewers are in for a rollercoaster ride, till the confession happens. I hope they change that part in this version and show Virat clearly telling Sai that he loves her and only her and that the vaada means NOTHING.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

@italics I get you yaar .thats what I have mentioned in my other post.. her brashness cannot be defended but these feelings that she is confused about after the whole waada talks and witnessing so many things.. I don't have it me to blame her..She does not even understand what love is between a man and a woman..and that certainly has a lot to do with her age and her lack of knowledge of how husbands-wives are to each other because she never saw her Aaba and Aayi together ever, to know the basics..

@bolded: Even in today's episode, if we look past her brashness, we see how she truly feels. She told Virat that she will leave him once she is independent and can take on her own zimidari. Is this really the case? Because, as of now, she has her scholarship money, she has the hostel, she even has Pulkit's house. If she really wanted to leave, she could have easily done so by now. But instead, she has chosen to forgive Virat every single time he has hurt her in unimaginable ways. She has chosen to stay in a household where his family members are constantly abusing her. Why? Because she loves him, and she cannot bear the thought of going away from him. She values him over her own self-respect. The problem with Sai is that we have to look past her words and dig deeper into her actions because as an audience, we do not get the same insight into her mind as we do into Virat's.

Originally posted by: msin

I really feel virat should step back .. he’s already done too much for Sai .. if she still feels it’s a deal .. then he should stop behaving like a real husband .. behave like a friend .. .. he should actually let her move on to hostel .. it will be good for both of them .. since Sai is adamant it can never be a real marriage..

Let's sai figure out she is more than a friend for virat. Atleast like that they can date each other than only sai will know she is in love. She is not coming between pakhi n virat because their were no pakhi n virat ever. Only obsession of few days was in past.