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Originally posted by: tptwi

Today's episode was heart wrenching💔.

I don't have much inputs, but the situation is like, Neither can be blamed or both are to be equally blamed. Nothing in between.

Their fights have always added to progression of their relationship, but this fight was a different one. More than fighting with each other, they, especially Sai, were fighting with their inner demons, insecurities and emotions. I hope this fight turns out to be a beneficial one for their relationship just like the previous ones.

I so so wish that Sai get a close confidante with whom she can share all her feelings and insecurities sans filter. Just like how Sunny is for Virat.

Neil was fab as always. And Ayesha, DAMNNN, the girl is improving with each episode and how. Ayesha was undoubtedly, the queen in today's episode.

It is soo frustrating to see people blame Sai this harshly. Why the f*ck do people forget that she is JUST A 19 YO FREAKING ORPHANED TEENAGER. This age is meant for enjoying life, and how easily people expect her to behave like a wife, when her husband has not cleared any of her misunderstanding. That girl didn't even get time and space to grieve for her father's demise. Baba, some people really get on my nerves.

You know I have not seen the episode..but I am taken back to the epsiode where Virat is told Sai loves him and he had said even if she says he won't believe it..

That's how their marriage has been..You see Virat in general has given up on Sai and it's Sunny who makes him realise not just about his love for Sai but also the jealousy Sai might be feeling towards Pakhi which he had been pretty much insensitive about... Sai that way is even more young when it comes to matter of heart..At that age you take these promises of love to be a big deal and she does take Virat-Pakhi's love to be a big deal..That is why I think she needs someone to really talk to her..to tell her what he has for her is love.. just like Sunny constantly does for Virat...If it was not for Sunny Virat would have still stuck at Zimmedaari!!

Originally posted by: ppnn7191

Paku's scenes and dialogues were so off! especially Kaku's dialogues to PP today were funny to say the least! Lol!

Also I feel the CVs are making sai come across as dumb! virat has told her so many times that he wants the marriage to be real, but she hardly pays attention to what he is saying! I really want to see virat ignore her a little and sai putting in a little effort to make him happy! that would also make for a funny and light track!

So aptly said.

No one can be so stupid. Virat should now step back and say pls leave my house and my life. Sorry I begged u to stay. My fault! I will still fulfill my zimmedari by paying ur way thru till u r settled. There is a saying in kannada "beedili hogo marige maneg hokkuhogu andhage" - basically meaning u invited problems for urself. Aptly describes Virat's marriage status and predicament!!

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Today's episode was heart wrenching💔.

I don't have much inputs, but the situation is like, Neither can be blamed or both are to be equally blamed. Nothing in between.

Their fights have always added to progression of their relationship, but this fight was a different one. More than fighting with each other, they, especially Sai, were fighting with their inner demons, insecurities and emotions. I hope this fight turns out to be a beneficial one for their relationship just like the previous ones.

I so so wish that Sai get a close confidante with whom she can share all her feelings and insecurities sans filter. Just like how Sunny is for Virat.

Neil was fab as always. And Ayesha, DAMNNN, the girl is improving with each episode and how. Ayesha was undoubtedly, the queen in today's episode.

It is soo frustrating to see people blame Sai this harshly. Why the f*ck do people forget that she is JUST A 19 YO FREAKING ORPHANED TEENAGER. This age is meant for enjoying life, and how easily people expect her to behave like a wife, when her husband has not cleared any of her misunderstanding. That girl didn't even get tome and space to grieve for her father's demise. Baba, some people really get on my nerves.

@italics I get you yaar .thats what I have mentioned in my other post.. her brashness cannot be defended but these feelings that she is confused about after the whole waada talks and witnessing so many things.. I don't have it me to blame her..She does not even understand what love is between a man and a woman..and that certainly has a lot to do with her age and her lack of knowledge of how husbands-wives are to each other because she never saw her Aaba and Aayi together ever, to know the basics..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Niraja your post as usual sums up trauma of both without bias.

Breaking hearts is very apt title.

Only thing I always get confused and want you to answer please.. How could Sai think of uniting Pakhi with Virat ? As much as I know Sai Joshi values marriage as a sacred institution. She herself is committed to her marriage bond and follows all her duties with honesty.Even if she thinks of moving out from her marriage,

How could she assume that if she is not there in Virat’s life he and Pakhi can tie the knot? Did she forget that still there is chance for Samrat to return? She herself is hopeful I think.

If Pakhi is unmarried or if Samrat died,yes..she can think in those lines but not at present .,

I always wonder what made her oversimplify such complicated situation and wish to unite Virat with Pakhi..

Hi Lakshmi,

I was discussing this with a few other people in another thread yesterday. My perspective is that when Sai thought of uniting Virat and Pakhi, she was in a moment of utter pain, hurt, and hopelessness. After listening to the yoga instructor talking about the past, she was once again brought back to what she thinks is the reality and felt like a fool for thinking that what she has with Virat could be the truth. A person who is in this emotional state does not thinking rationally nor logically. So, she was not considering that Samrat exists, what the implications of this will be, or quite honestly anything else. All she was thinking was that Virat and Pakhi loved each other and she came in between them. That guilt was consuming her, and it will continue to consume her with Samrat's entry. I wouldn't say that she oversimplified a complicated situation..rather, I would say that her emotions overtook her, causing her to have these thoughts...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know I have not seen the episode..but I am taken back to the epsiode where Virat is told Sai loves him and he had said even if she says he won't believe it..

That's how their marriage has been..You see Virat in general has given up on Sai and it's Sunny who makes him realise not just about his love for Sai but also the jealousy Sai might be feeling towards Pakhi which he had been pretty much insensitive about... Sai that way is even more young when it comes to matter of heart..At that age you take these promises of love to be a big deal and she does take Virat-Pakhi's love to be a big deal..That is why I think she needs someone to really talk to her..to tell her what he has for her is love.. just like Sunny constantly does for Virat...If it was not for Sunny Virat would have still stuck at Zimmedaari!!

My question is that even if someone explains to her that Virat loves her, will she accept it at this point? I honestly believe that a part of her sees and feels that Virat loves her, which is why she is so confused all the time about both him and their marriage. Just like today she said that they can't celebrate something that isn't real, I feel that her response to a love confession would be that how can there be love in a relationship that doesn't exist. She needs clarification about the past and affirmation in the reality of this relationship/destruction of the vaada more than a love confession.... because once all of those prior things are made clear, she will accept her own feelings towards Virat and his towards her whole-heartedly. This is why this track is so needed to bring their relationship forward...because all of these issues will be tackled...

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Today's episode was heart wrenching💔.

I don't have much inputs, but the situation is like, Neither can be blamed or both are to be equally blamed. Nothing in between.

Their fights have always added to progression of their relationship, but this fight was a different one. More than fighting with each other, they, especially Sai, were fighting with their inner demons, insecurities and emotions. I hope this fight turns out to be a beneficial one for their relationship just like the previous ones.

I so so wish that Sai get a close confidante with whom she can share all her feelings and insecurities sans filter. Just like how Sunny is for Virat.

Neil was fab as always. And Ayesha, DAMNNN, the girl is improving with each episode and how. Ayesha was undoubtedly, the queen in today's episode.

It is soo frustrating to see people blame Sai this harshly. Why the f*ck do people forget that she is JUST A 19 YO FREAKING ORPHANED TEENAGER. This age is meant for enjoying life, and how easily people expect her to behave like a wife, when her husband has not cleared any of her misunderstanding. That girl didn't even get tome and space to grieve for her father's demise. Baba, some people really get on my nerves.

@ bold: just being 19 yr old is garb. And at 19, one is considered an adult! And there is science behind this as well. Being 19 yrs doesn't qualify for being brash, rude and arrogant.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Niraja your post as usual sums up trauma of both without bias.

Breaking hearts is very apt title.

Only thing I always get confused and want you to answer please.. How could Sai think of uniting Pakhi with Virat ? As much as I know Sai Joshi values marriage as a sacred institution. She herself is committed to her marriage bond and follows all her duties with honesty.Even if she thinks of moving out from her marriage,

How could she assume that if she is not there in Virat’s life he and Pakhi can tie the knot? Did she forget that still there is chance for Samrat to return? She herself is hopeful I think.

If Pakhi is unmarried or if Samrat died,yes..she can think in those lines but not at present .,

I always wonder what made her oversimplify such complicated situation and wish to unite Virat with Pakhi..

Exactly how did Sai assume all this .. pakhi herself is not willing to let go .. that’s why samrat’s entry was crucial for all of them .. to put the unpalatable truth out ..

virat cannot tell samrat I don’t love ur wife so u can have her back … he has to be diplomatic.. after closing the door firmly on pakhi virat relationship in the minds of samrat n Sai .. can both of them think of any future with their spouse ..

virat should put any more wooing and flirting with Sai away .. as it’s not helping his cause at all

Originally posted by: vimeo

@ bold: just being 19 yr old is garb. And at 19, one is considered an adult! And there is science behind this as well. Being 19 yrs doesn't qualify for being foolish, brash, rude and arrogant.

I respect your POV but I DON'T AGREE with it.

So wont discuss further, coz these discussions change into heated arguements within seconds, without us realising it.

No offence to you or anybody who doesn't agree with me. No grudges either.

Much love❤️

Originally posted by: tptwi

Lovely update Neerja ❤️

My heart broke for both Sai and Virat today.

Virat remembers their wedding day as the occasion on which he gained the best thing that has ever happened to him... the occasion on which he was united with his life partner. But, Sai remembers that day as the occasion on which she lost her right to be able to love and cherish her husband...the pain was pouring out of her when she said that on their wedding day, this rishta became a forced zimidari with no love or belonging... and at this point, even if consciously or subconsciously, loving Virat is all she wants to do, she has convinced herself that she does not have the permission to be able to do so...

Virat is so overwhelmed in his own feelings and emotions towards Sai that he is unable to look at the marriage from her perspective. When people say that love is blind, they normally mean that a person looks past their loved ones faults... but love is also blind in this regard...it is all consuming and these feelings are so new and real for him, that he is unable to comprehend anything beyond them.

Sai doesn't want to celebrate, because how can you celebrate something that isn't real? When she compared the reality of her birthday to the forced nature of this marriage, it really showed what she is going through internally. How can they be celebrating something that doesn't exist? As many times as Virat as told her that he does not want her to leave, he has still never told her the the reality of his relationship with Pakhi nor the fact that he deeply regrets making the vaada nor the fact that there is nothing else more real to him than this relationship. These are the things that Sai wants to and needs to hear. Today, Virat said that he agrees that the time and circumstances of their marriage were not normal, but that today things are different. This is THEM and their own journey. But, Sai says that people should not change with time and reminds him that she will fulfill her end of the vaadas. She says that he should have never made himself part of his pain. This is her guilt pouring out of her. With the yoga teacher being her latest trigger, she is back in full force to her reality of being the reason for Virat and Pakhi's separation. Again, her emphasis on the words spoken on their wedding day is evidence of the value she places on what Virat SAYS to her. This is how she communicates. But, Virat communicates through his actions, and those actions are just making Sai even more confused. It spoke volumes how Sai said that there will come a day when she will HAVE to leave... she does not want to, but she thinks that their relationship is time constrained.

Ayesha stole the show today, but Neil brilliantly portrayed Virat's emotions too. This man is trying to prove his love for his wife in every single way he can. He is placing her happiness above his own... literally all he wants is for her to be able to understand his love. But, today, before he could confess, Sai erupted. At this point, he will never try to confess again the near future. This will cause him to put his own walls back up... and rightfully so.

In the precap, they are back to normal. Sai knows how much Samrat means to Virat, and she will do anything and everything to unite them. These two can fight all they want, say whatever they want to each other in the heat of the moment, but the truth will never change- they cannot bear to be separated and they cannot bear to see each other in pain. What is so real about their relationship is that the "married traditional husband wife" part is just one small piece of it and the only piece of it that is missing. Beyond that, they are family...they are friends...they are each other's rocks...they are bound together in love, respect, loyalty.... everything is there. And in the moments when they are letting themselves follow their hearts, the husband wife piece is there too. All that is missing here is the label. Were it to be any other set of circumstances, the label wouldn't matter. But, due to how their relationship started, this missing, messy, confusing label is the cause for all of their sorrow and inabilities to fully and finally unite....

Lovely analysis.

You covered pretty much everything thing. Both are right and wrong at this point.

Sai is right from her point of view, since that's what Virat asked her to do , never expect anything from him and that the marriage is a deal. She clearly sees everything Virat does for her and might also have guessed he loves her but she clearly doesn't want to go that route and face a heartbreak or be the reason for Virat breaking his vaada 😢

Virat who has created this whole mess has moved on from the silly vaada and wants the marriage to be real and is trying everything in his power to convey the same through his a actions. This is where Virat is forgetting the most important thing about Sai that she needs words, spasht words like he once said when Sai only showed him her palm on the phone call. He is assuming just because he has moved on Sai has moved on aswell convinently forgetting the that the main panuti is still stalking him and mouths Laila majnu kind of dialogues in front of Sai. Any spouse love or arranged would know that this is a no no in any relationship. But you cannot not feel bad for him today😢.

These 2 are so thick headed that I want to Hit their heads against each other like coconuts 🤣🤣.

Oh by the way when did Virat think of proposing unless I am on Ghum ganjaa and missed that. I thought this was just a surprise 🤣 and he wasn't going to confess. I don't think he has the courage in him to confess his Pyaar after he did the biggest blunder of his life by telling Didi he loves her but can't marry her after he saw her in the wedding. Pyaar word is definitely cursed for him 😂😂