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Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

The track is so faulty dt every day you can find something or the other to dislike.

But overall der is one thing dt constantly bothers me.

Why is der such an imbalance in love that Raghav and Pallavi hv for each other . If its a passionate love story ( as told by Siku) why do I see passion only from Raghav's end. He is the one pinning for her , he is the one making the efforts , he is the one who looks like he is abt to lose everything . Where is Pallavi's love ? Maybe its the hidden kind. Dikhna nai chahti wo. Par mujhe dekhna hai🤔

Der is also imbalance in the farz and karvatya cadre. Why is the kartavya only applicable to Mandar and D family and none towards Amma or Rao family. Not even including Raghav in this. Does Amma not deserve any of the farz ?

Yeah... On point... I gave benefit of doubt to Pallavi until they confessed as Raghav was at fault and he has to win Pallavi with his efforts... It would have been looked good had Pallavi rejected or didn't feel anything for Raghav at all but now seeing only Raghav feeling and yearning for Pallavi where Pallavi is only on Kartavya mode, i don't find any intensity in her love which I see in het kartavya...

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

The track is so faulty dt every day you can find something or the other to dislike.

But overall der is one thing dt constantly bothers me.

Why is der such an imbalance in love that Raghav and Pallavi hv for each other . If its a passionate love story ( as told by Siku) why do I see passion only from Raghav's end. He is the one pinning for her , he is the one making the efforts , he is the one who looks like he is abt to lose everything . Where is Pallavi's love ? Maybe its the hidden kind. Dikhna nai chahti wo. Par mujhe dekhna hai🤔

Der is also imbalance in the farz and karvatya cadre. Why is the kartavya only applicable to Mandar and D family and none towards Amma or Rao family. Not even including Raghav in this. Does Amma not deserve any of the farz ?

True in every sense. I can't see her passion, longing or yearning for raghav. Its always raghav putting efforts and her being not even acknowledging it. Why so insensitive towards him ?

I feel at times she is overconfident she thinks whatever she does she is always right and now that she has taken raghav and amma as granted so she feels whatever she will do they will keep on supporting even if it's a grave mistake.

There was another instance when aai told not to come as it will affect her and raghav's marital life and she said raghav has no problem that's why he allows her to come but dear did you even bothered to know what exactly your husband wants.

When Raghav warned her about mandar then he also told d fam will take advantage of her goodness and then also about the 7 day challenge why isn't she considering all of these just because she thinks she is always right. But the fact is when you are doing something wrong your loved ones can show you the right direction there is nothing wrong in that but instead of listening to what he said she keeps on blaming him over his insecurities and pati ka farz ka nibhane se koi naukar nhi ban jata. Does she even know about patni ka farz ? NO

Now again how can she forget about the promise to amma. She is so much engrossed in d fam that she thinks even if she forgets her duties as a bahu of the Raos amma will not say anything as she is very understandable.

Well I think Raghav and Amma has given her too much freedom that she is not valuing it.

Only redemption and her guilt of hurting raghav can make viewers to again connect with her.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Totally agree wid you

1. Previously one could atleast say dt Raghav doesnt communicate or say his feelings out loud but now he has told her on multiple occasions how incomplete and lifeless he feels widout her. He ws the first person to arrive when she organised the puja. Not just dt.....on multiple occasions he has kept aside all his meetings and important business deals to be der for Pallavi. But she doesnt understand dt its her who must be waiting for at the function. What part of that was so difficult to understand exactly ?

2. Great point and absolute truth. She cant just say Mandar is her farz and responsibility. Every relationship comes wid its own share or responsibilities and one has to find a balance . You cant say claim you owe complete responsibilty to one and none to the other

3. Right. She didnt even think abt solving the issue dt happened last nyt . Didnt even try to find out the reason behind Raghav leaving and fyting. Instead she ws angry on him for leaving her.She wanted space after their fyt , she chose to leave and come back on her own accord . So why does she expect him to take her back ? So that she can blame him some more ? Blame him for not letting her help the Ds and for not being a suppportive husband.

This track has made Pallavi so unrelatable and illogical.

I think she 100% forgot about the vaada she made to Sanki. Which is why she was like “why didn’t u pick me up”. I also don’t understand why she couldn’t just call and talk to him. Why can’t she go to rr mansion for dinner ? She has to be around Mandar 24/7? In what state of mind is she in where she thinks that’s ok ? Like I get Pallavi has this huge sense of insaaniyat, kartavya, farz. She has immense goodness but where in all of that means u have to be someone’s caretaker , all the while forsaking all your VERY important relationships. Raghav was right to call her out on patni farz but it doesn’t even look like it registered to her. Amma and Aayi need to school her on what patni farz even is. I think she thinks it just means give your husband hugs. 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

She doesn’t treat Raghav with the haq and respect of a husband. If she did, she wouldn’t do this to him. Yes she’s maintained she’s only Raghavs wife, he is her husband. But it ends there. She only says it and cannot fulfill it.

I personally believe that Raghav will always love Pallavi more. He is the more intense one and he has fallen head over heels. Pallavi may have said I love you but her intensity is less than Raghav's.

Just a personal feeling. Raghav, to me, has always been the intense, deep types. I always felt that he has the capacity to love intensely....his love won't be ordinary. Pallavi is still swinging between her past and present and isn't 100% there yet.

For Raghav, he can stop everything, and focus on Pallavi. He has no baggage. Unfortunately, she does have baggage and it only takes time and patience to get rid of that baggage. This time, it will be Raghav's maturity, intelligence and understanding that should get them out of this tricky situation but if he behaves irrationally, then they'll probably drift. He has to take things forward very carefully because the enemy this time is not an outsider, but someone Pallavi had once married. Tough situation, Raghav. Buckle up and handle things VERY CAREFULLY.

Originally posted by: gata

i agree totally ,this track makes one feel that Raghav's love is unconditional for Pallavi , he has embraced her with all his heart he has changed himself so she accepts him , given her love , respect,and the freedom to be , but Pallavi is taking all this for granted. I hope she realises how unfair she has been to Raghav , a true LIONHEART

She is taking him granted !!

And I doubt she will ever realise how much she has hurt him in the process of doing her farz

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I had mentioned it long before .the first day when they got Mandar to the D house . The way they left ..to others it felt like Pallavi is being forced out by Raghav..From that day to today... See what Pallvi has been made into...Right now she just does baatein...and gives two hoots about Raghav's feelings..She is so insensitive and inconsiderate towards him that I want Raghav to just ignore her..BAS

Even I did. I said it then Pallavi doesnt speak up when its required. Had she spoken up People would hv known what her wish is .

Even I want Raghav to stay out of this whole jhamela but he wont .....you know why.....bcz unlike what Pallavi believes....he does know the real meaning of his "farz" towards his wife.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Even I did. I said it then Pallavi doesnt speak up when its required. Had she spoken up People would hv known what her wish is .

Even I want Raghav to stay out of this whole jhamela but he wont .....you know why.....bcz unlike what Pallavi believes....he does know the real meaning of his "farz" towards his wife.

And he also is more in love with his wife..His actions shows it and the wife can keep giving Bhashan on pyaar , farz and priority!!

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Exactly and kirti mentioned that openly we got angry but logically she was right

Pallu never has any farz on Raghu or Amma it’s always dfamily period

I feel her love for Raghu was the moment that’s it she never loved him as Raghu loves her depth is not there in her love

The day she loose Raghu she will realize till then ignorance

Keerthi gets a chance to speak such things bcz Pallavi does it in the act. Since the day Mandar has come into picture Pallavi hasnt cared abt her present family , their functions , their pride , their feelings , their image.....nothing. She is doing it , so Keerthi is getting a chance to say it

her strength has always been her sense of righteousness , she always did the correct thing , at the moment it feels that when it comes to Raghav she has failed him by not doing the right thing ,i think of it as doublestandard ,

Originally posted by: SDutta

True in every sense. I can't see her passion, longing or yearning for raghav. Its always raghav putting efforts and her being not even acknowledging it. Why so insensitive towards him ?

I feel at times she is overconfident she thinks whatever she does she is always right and now that she has taken raghav and amma as granted so she feels whatever she will do they will keep on supporting even if it's a grave mistake.

There was another instance when aai told not to come as it will affect her and raghav's marital life and she said raghav has no problem that's why he allows her to come but dear did you even bothered to know what exactly your husband wants.

When Raghav warned her about mandar then he also told d fam will take advantage of her goodness and then also about the 7 day challenge why isn't she considering all of these just because she thinks she is always right. But the fact is when you are doing something wrong your loved ones can show you the right direction there is nothing wrong in that but instead of listening to what he said she keeps on blaming him over his insecurities and pati ka farz ka nibhane se koi naukar nhi ban jata. Does she even know about patni ka farz ? NO

Now again how can she forget about the promise to amma. She is so much engrossed in d fam that she thinks even if she forgets her duties as a bahu of the Raos amma will not say anything as she is very understandable.

Well I think Raghav and Amma has given her too much freedom that she is not valuing it.

Only redemption and her guilt of hurting raghav can make viewers to again connect with her.

At times ? Pallavi is always right......and she believes in dt too. So she never takes into account what others are trying to say. Even if you think they arent giving the right advice........you will atleast think over it once....if not instantly ....may be later. But here she does pay any heed to anyone's advice or concerns.

And Raghav's words toh mean nothing to her. She probably just assumes that its just his insecurity or something. But even if dts the case she never actually gave him any reasons not to be.

She can forget anyone and anything in the name of helping out Mandar . How would she feel if they did the same to her. Hell she ws so angry dt Raghav didnt take her home inspite of her promise but she didnt even think how Amma would feel on her breaking her promise . Promise to Baba weighs heavier than promise to Amma.

I would just disagree on one thing. I dont believe in freedom being given by your in laws or spouse . One should always hv the freedom to do what one wants.......no one has the right to give it or take it. But yes I do believe Amma has been too forgiving and loving to Pallavi . She even wanted her own daughter to be punished for Pallavi but Pallavi doesnt seem to acknowledge dt love or even reciprocate it.