Honeymoon..... nahi , the Kaandmoon begins! 🙈 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Love your take..

I had mixed feelings about this episode and these are my candid observations, which I know is very unpopular..

Zillat being short.. thank god!! - I did not like Kaku insisting Pakhi to join the trip.. I was happy that Omi is showing some decency nowadays.. especially towards Sai

The Good

Sai’s first air trip.. she was excited 😍 could have shown a bit more.. but they are on express mode for Sammy’s entry

Viru’s happiness .. he was a nervous wreck due to excitement.. it was so cute..
Much awaited Sammy’s entry is near😎

Friendly Sardarji driver.. who was even able to see their love.

The bad

I felt the trip was a bad decision to begin with.. her reaction to the ring made it clear that she is not there yet.. that too after this major kaand.. she is still recovering, he should have given her time to breathe..instead he could have taken her to beach or a park for a few hours and discussed their situation first.

Sai speaking about the zimmedari and them not being a husband and wife in front of family members like Karishma, Sonali, Paapi etc.. I find certain things to be left private in a relationship. I know it’s her anguish that makes her blurt.. still

Again talking to Sardharji like that about their situation was unwarranted.. she can have friendly chats.. but in a 10 min journey she shouldn’t try to recite her autobiography 🤣 I understand she is young and muphat.. hope she changes over time.

The unknown

I want a rain romance…. Would prefer a dance, if not at least let them cozy up in a shack and get romantic🤞🤞

+10000 Sai really needs to attend a crash course on what to speak infront of whom and Virat needs to attend a crash course on how open communication results in a happy married life😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Neerja I have not watched the episode.. But still have to points to make..

1)Why does PP gets to taunt Sai still? Why after everyone including VIrat knowing how she was indirectly responsible for the whole mess, she gets to taunt Sai yet again, with everyone watching her out and not saying much including Virat. How is Sai supposed to know that Virat is fine/not fine with her comments.. I am not okay with her doing the same thing constantly and Virat giving her those expressions constantly.. ANy normal man would at this point destroy her with words in front of family and would not care is she wants to leave home. This is too much to take now.. Just because he wanted to peacefully leave for a trip, he could not just let her talk BS. We will have excuses as fans, for Virat not saying anything, due to what is planned and what is to come...Thats never going to stop. But anyway with Samrat coming back, she is surely going to shut up because it would not be clear and out it open , forcing everyone to believe and accept "infront" of everyone that Virat and Pakhi had a past and Pakhi hates Sai for that reason...

2) Sai knows she is ahem for him, she knows he cares for her, she knows he pampers her, she knows he is protective about her but does she know he loves her ? NO!! She knows he is overwhelmed with guilt with what he did to her and probably is upset with himself for not taking her responsibility as he was supposed to as per the vaada given to aaba... I remember reading too many stories, where the protagonists are almost the same age as in the show and share a good platonic relationship, the man very caring, very loving towards the woman and when the woman takes it as love, her whole world is broken because she is told it was never love, he loves her but not the kind of love a man does to his woman... Here in this story, Sai is being the woman, who believes Virat is a good man and is love with someone else...and unlike Pakhi she believes "Virat Sir apna vaada nibhate hain...Ek vaade k liye mujhse shaadi tak kar liya"... She feels the change but is not ready to accept it, because of these two vaadas...one that he gave to AAba, and one that he gave to Pakhi, which she got privy to recently and since then , in her own words, if she had developed any hopes of being loved by him while taking care of Virat , she squashed them...One has to see that scene again where she talks to Pakhi and Virat after hearing it all, and then where she talks to Virat after he stops her and asks her if he holding back from the commitment because she feels bad and I wont feel bad anymore, to understand what she thinks.. Both those conversations are open ended.. She got no concrete answers.. We hardly see her monologue, we do see Virat thinking something else and saying something else, but we dont get to see what's going in her head.. Even I did not know she had forgotten the deal marriage while staying it Virat and taking care of him and only when she saw them together she was brought back to reality, I got to know when she had that monologue with herself and Virat Pakhi..It looked like she was telling herself than the other too..

And if at all he is telling her all these things where he mentions about wanting a real husband wife thing between them after accident, she would see it as his guilt and not love.

I have scribbled things as I am in hurry to leave..SO my thoughts might not have been articulated properly, hope you guys get what I mean..

Point 1- very true, it's crazy that P still gets to question and taunt Sai where as if it was the other way around and 1% of what p said the whole gang would have pounced on Sai and called her battameez and P would have cried beizatti. Why can't Sai have dialogues like you are no one to ask me questions and I don't have to answer your stupid questions. This dialogue seems to be only for Vaanku favorite P 🙄.

Virat not speaking , I think lately he is trying not to respond to any of P's bullshit talks since Sai told him she doesn't like it when he talk to P. This is what I noticed other than the infamous hand holding and whispering ofcourse 😂😂 . But I really hoped he would atleast tell Sai how P manipulated the situation, not that I want him to say he was not at fault though since he was at fault. Atleast she would have realized P doesn't deserve the respect she gives her and that she can stoop to gutter to separate her from Virat.

Point 2- at this point other than Virat being responsible for starting the domino effect with his vaada rant during the wedding and few months after the wedding both Sai and Virat seem to be going in circles. Virat won't tell in clear cut words about his feelings and even if he does want to Sai won't let him speak about his feelings. It's like chit bhee Meri, phat bhee Meri. She wants to hear and doesn't want to hear , if this makes sense 😂😂. For Virat it's clear now he has nothing to do with P. Agree he had some opportunities in the past to clear some of Sais questions which he did not, but since the day he stopped her he has been very vocal about his feelings and dislike for P , only thing missing is him telling Sai , I love you Sai 😬😂.

your ahem in 'Sai is ahem ' had me going in different tangent until I read the next statement 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Love your take..

I had mixed feelings about this episode and these are my candid observations, which I know is very unpopular..

Zillat being short.. thank god!! - I did not like Kaku insisting Pakhi to join the trip.. I was happy that Omi is showing some decency nowadays.. especially towards Sai

The Good

Sai’s first air trip.. she was excited 😍 could have shown a bit more.. but they are on express mode for Sammy’s entry

Viru’s happiness .. he was a nervous wreck due to excitement.. it was so cute..
Much awaited Sammy’s entry is near😎

Friendly Sardarji driver.. who was even able to see their love.

The bad

I felt the trip was a bad decision to begin with.. her reaction to the ring made it clear that she is not there yet.. that too after this major kaand.. she is still recovering, he should have given her time to breathe..instead he could have taken her to beach or a park for a few hours and discussed their situation first.

Sai speaking about the zimmedari and them not being a husband and wife in front of family members like Karishma, Sonali, Paapi etc.. I find certain things to be left private in a relationship. I know it’s her anguish that makes her blurt.. still

Again talking to Sardharji like that about their situation was unwarranted.. she can have friendly chats.. but in a 10 min journey she shouldn’t try to recite her autobiography 🤣 I understand she is young and muphat.. hope she changes over time.

The unknown

I want a rain romance…. Would prefer a dance, if not at least let them cozy up in a shack and get romantic🤞🤞

Sorry Forgot to tag you

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Point 1- very true, it's crazy that P still gets to question and taunt Sai where as if it was the other way around and 1% of what p said the whole gang would have pounced on Sai and called her battameez and P would have cried beizatti. Why can't Sai have dialogues like you are no one to ask me questions and I don't have to answer your stupid questions. This dialogue seems to be only for Vaanku favorite P 🙄.

Virat not speaking , I think lately he is trying not to respond to any of P's bullshit talks since Sai told him she doesn't like it when he talk to P. This is what I noticed other than the infamous hand holding and whispering ofcourse 😂😂 . But I really hoped he would atleast tell Sai how P manipulated the situation, not that I want him to say he was not at fault though since he was at fault. Atleast she would have realized P doesn't deserve the respect she gives her and that she can stoop to gutter to separate her from Virat.

Point 2- at this point other than Virat being responsible for starting the domino effect with his vaada rant during the wedding and few months after the wedding both Sai and Virat seem to be going in circles. Virat won't tell in clear cut words about his feelings and even if he does want to Sai won't let him speak about his feelings. It's like chit bhee Meri, phat bhee Meri. She wants to hear and doesn't want to hear , if this makes sense 😂😂. For Virat it's clear now he has nothing to do with P. Agree he had some opportunities in the past to clear some of Sais questions which he did not, but since the day he stopped her he has been very vocal about his feelings and dislike for P , only thing missing is him telling Sai , I love you Sai 😬😂.

your ahem in 'Sai is ahem ' had me going in different tangent until I read the next statement 🤣🤣

They have cut down her aggressiveness and dialogues to PP, both her and Virat's and I have no clue why.. I dont see my sassy Sai anymore while talking to PP. SHe would ruin her apart all alone and now she hardly says anything..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

They have cut down her aggressiveness and dialogues to PP, both her and Virat's and I have no clue why.. I dont see my sassy Sai anymore while talking to PP. SHe would ruin her apart all alone and now she hardly says anything..

Word , she is lost somewhere. The way Sai softly responds to P when she is so rude is weird. I have stopped complaining now on this sudden change in Sai for her long lost Didi since birthday episodes 🤣

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Point 1- very true, it's crazy that P still gets to question and taunt Sai where as if it was the other way around and 1% of what p said the whole gang would have pounced on Sai and called her battameez and P would have cried beizatti. Why can't Sai have dialogues like you are no one to ask me questions and I don't have to answer your stupid questions. This dialogue seems to be only for Vaanku favorite P 🙄.

Virat not speaking , I think lately he is trying not to respond to any of P's bullshit talks since Sai told him she doesn't like it when he talk to P. This is what I noticed other than the infamous hand holding and whispering ofcourse 😂😂 . But I really hoped he would atleast tell Sai how P manipulated the situation, not that I want him to say he was not at fault though since he was at fault. Atleast she would have realized P doesn't deserve the respect she gives her and that she can stoop to gutter to separate her from Virat.

Point 2- at this point other than Virat being responsible for starting the domino effect with his vaada rant during the wedding and few months after the wedding both Sai and Virat seem to be going in circles. Virat won't tell in clear cut words about his feelings and even if he does want to Sai won't let him speak about his feelings. It's like chit bhee Meri, phat bhee Meri. She wants to hear and doesn't want to hear , if this makes sense 😂😂. For Virat it's clear now he has nothing to do with P. Agree he had some opportunities in the past to clear some of Sais questions which he did not, but since the day he stopped her he has been very vocal about his feelings and dislike for P , only thing missing is him telling Sai , I love you Sai 😬😂.

your ahem in 'Sai is ahem ' had me going in different tangent until I read the next statement 🤣🤣

She does not like it when he talks "talks" to Pakhi, but I dont think any wife would mind the husband ripping someone apart who insults her and specially if that certain someone is his ex. This can also be taken by Sai to be somthing, like he does not want to fight with her, upset her.. FOr instance how happy she was when Virat said "Aai aap kyu Pakhi ke bakwaas par dhyan de rahi hain" , when he just said that , did not even insult her much.. for putting such a blame on her.

I noticed that after the whole Pakhi harassing Virat fiasco on social media, they toned down everyone's dialogue towards Pakhi..Warna Sai was more of he is my husband, what is you issue in ut.. back then..She used to shut her up during any confrontation that happened in general..After witnessing Virat Pakhi confrontation, she has toned down even more.. Does not even claim him her husband much like she used to..

After seeing Ayesha’s insta post I can’t help but feel sad for Virat in the upcoming track! Looks like samrat,PP and Sai are all going to have his head! Lol 😂

Originally posted by: tptwi

While Virat is wanting to confess his love, Sai is wanting an affirmation that this relationship is real. When it comes to Virat's hesitation in confessing his love, he stops himself because he is scared of rejection. But, when it comes to the clarification about their relationship, I simply don't think he realizes how important this is to Sai. It is almost a prerequisite for her to be able to accept his love. But in his mind, the zimidari vaada no longer exists, and therefore he is unable to comprehend why Sai keeps bringing it up... in his monologues, he keeps asking himself why Sai isn't understanding. So, I don't think he has awareness (conscious nor subconscious) about Sai's questions, since those questions are about their relationship....not their love. Never once has he tried to tell her that this marriage is real on his own prerogative... the only times he comes close to affirming it is when Sai herself questions him. And, in those moments, he choses the safe option because once again, he is unsure of Sai's reaction and does not want to lose her. This goes back to him expressing himself through his actions vs. Sai needing verbal confirmation (the other post I tagged you in regarding their conflicting love languages and expectations!) Just my POV!

Hmm....i think you are right. If he had any awareness about it, he would have tried to give more hints to Sai regarding his past even if in jalebi fashion. So both are speaking in different tangents.....

Hi, I am a silent reader in this forum and I love to read these analysis which gives different perspective of human emotions. I completely agree with your POV. At this moment, sai feels that whatever virat is doing is out of guilt of not properly holding promise of responsibility given to her aaba. Conversation when she clearly in spasht sabdh asked virat whether he is not holding vaadha given to paakhi because of her, he didn't give a concrete answer. There are many such moments where they can clear the air atleast regarding pakhi. At the end of the day it was all the unnecessary dragging of non existent love triangle.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Word , she is lost somewhere. The way Sai softly responds to P when she is so rude is weird. I have stopped complaining now on this sudden change in Sai for her long lost Didi since birthday episodes 🤣

I see that change from the Saree episodes itself...Birthday choro.. She was pretty much civil to her in Saree kaand ..