Enough is Enough [ If I was the script writer] - Page 2

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

finding balance after this fiasco is difficult in reality… Being distant is not separation… she did a blunder and a big one too… in past she has stood up for the guy so many times.. Raghav will always remain indebted to Pallavi for resolving his issues with his mother…standing up for him when nobody was there but she never left a chance to remind him this (it looks like she did a favor instead of being a supporting spouse) .. he did marry her forcefully but he was under pressure too and he was habituated to get what he wants… once he realized his mistake the guy has humbled himself to a level that he almost become a different person…

I honestly prefer angry RR over the now subdued version .. he loved her and there is no doubt about that .. sure they can remain friends but marriage is not about agreeing to everything under the pretense of trust… she agreed to live in d house till Mandar gets well without even considering RR emotions… I know in show they will make Raghav running in circles around Pallavi but honestly I prefer him to switch back to devil may care attitude… I want him to find out about the oath in Mangla gauri function and then never come back or contact just the way we discussed here…

@ green: For sure, overcoming this isn't easy at all! That being said, separation isn't a walk in the park either. I think for the most part, all marriages/relationships go through this cycle where one individual starts taking the other for granted, and then once both parties realize that, they're forced to choose whether they want to work out of that rut or not. So far, we haven't seen Raghav taking Pallavi for granted and I don't think there are many examples of that on ITV these days either. Gone are the days when Abhay took Kkusum for granted and she let him, LOL! Nowadays we have relatively stronger female leads who stand their ground and don't tolerate being treated like a doormat. Nowadays the male leads are treated like doormats even if the storyline doesn't always call for it.

@ purple: ITV ki yehi problem hai! The women are the epitome of goodness and the men are rough and rowdy, later salvaged by these good, kind, and soft hearted women. All shows, no matter how unique, resort to that stereotype at some point, and that's the transition we're seeing here. I have faith that it won't last too long, but the show has to cross this bridge to succeed in the TRP game. Raghav will continue to be lovesick and show that he's too dependent on his wife, even though we all know that his wife has co-dependency issues far more than he does (re: her relationship with D-fam). He'll have separation anxiety even though he's lived alone for the better half of his life. He'll try to "win back" his love from a contest he shouldn't even be participating in had he stuck to his gut instinct. The chaos isn't justified, but it's evident that it has more to do with the channel's interference and less with the producer's creative liberty.

Believe me, I want Raghav to let her go and give her the space to arrive at a dead end on her own, but he simply won't "kyunke Pallavi ke pyaar ne usse sudhaar diya hai". Mujhe frankly yeh sudhra hua Raghav bilkul nahi pasand!

Raghav was never 'bigda hua'

He was true in the sense of how we are

We all are fiercely protective of our loved ones

Abd that's what he exactly was

Otherwise he wouldn't have taken the disguised name of Ramaswamy

It's Pallavi who came to his life and gave him something he craved for since a long time and he felt obligated towards her and hence this soft behaviour

He is extremely careful towards how he conduct himself in front of Pallavi

I didn't like her saying this even

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Raghav rocked, Pallavi shocked!!!!!

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Raghav was never 'bigda hua'

He was true in the sense of how we are

We all are fiercely protective of our loved ones

Abd that's what he exactly was

Otherwise he wouldn't have taken the disguised name of Ramaswamy

It's Pallavi who came to his life and gave him something he craved for since a long time and he felt obligated towards her and hence this soft behaviour

He is extremely careful towards how he conduct himself in front of Pallavi

I didn't like her saying this even

OMGSH - SAME, SAME, SAME!

That ring scene was ruined for me because she said "Raghav tum sach mein bohat sudhar gaye ho".

Raghav's indulgence and luxurious lifestyle makes him seem "bigda hua", but the fact of the matter is that he earned all of this. This is his mehnat ki kamayi, tax evasion or not, and he deserves to enjoy it as he pleases!

Lovely. You have put what is in everyone’s heart so nicely!!

Please write a 3 shot or a FF . Would love to read it

Originally posted by: masin

OMGSH - SAME, SAME, SAME!

That ring scene was ruined for me because she said "Raghav tum sach mein bohat sudhar gaye ho".

Raghav's indulgence and luxurious lifestyle makes him seem "bigda hua", but the fact of the matter is that he earned all of this. This is his mehnat ki kamayi, tax evasion or not, and he deserves to enjoy it as he pleases!

It's ok to indulge in one's own hard earned money

It's not old money that he doesn't value

He values it and hence he achieved all that

Had Pallavi also done so, she wouldn't have had to lie to her family

Completely my POV

And am certainly not bashing Pallavi here

But I don't like the way she treats or says stuff to Raghav

As a wife she must support her husband when he is right

There isn't any reason to rub it on his face

Originally posted by: armaanasya

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Except raghav slapping pallavi with divorce papers in the way you've described, baaki sab is perfect. I would want raghav to, with maturity, give her the divorce papers by listing out the entire grievance and his suffocation with the relation.

Theek hain. Point hain.. Pallavi ko seedhi baat samajh kahaan aati hain. Divorce papers filed nhi hain. Woh toh madam ne check kiya hi nhi. Ye toh shock value tha. Jaise defilibrilators use hotein hain by cardiac surgeons.

That was my point.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

another ending could be not giving divorce papers but staying a little distant from her… concentrating more on his work and just being polite and no lovey dovey…

when his attitude bothers her and she questions him he could have simply said you made your choice I made mine… I was foolish enough to fall in love once but you know once bitten twice shy… so though I won’t go back on my words and will still give you every right as my wife because I am Raghav Rao, a man of words… don’t expect anything else… trust is a delicate thread… once snapped , it can’t be same as the old one.. best can be mended with a knot and that is not a smooth road to walk on….

Yeah. That could be done too. I like to swing in extremes sometimes. Cause I like my men like a angst muffins. So... but this looks reasonable too.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Are... Itna bhi mat jao yaar.. just that she can understand Raghav's pain that is enough...

Shock value hain yaar. Divorce file nhi hui hain... 🤭🤭🤭

Originally posted by: masin

Totally digging this damage control! 👏

Though I think distance is more warranted than divorce. Not the silent treatment wala distance, but rather: "I'm busy, you're busy, let's just work on finding a work-life-love balance in our lives instead of going at each of them like a raging bull."

I think both Pallavi and Raghav need a reality check from time to time as it's easy to take your partner for granted in any relationship. What sucks is that if their roles were even slightly reversed, Raghav would not be spared by anyone nor cut any slack. Pallavi can mask this negligence as insaaniyat and farz, but imagine if Raghav's ex showed up and needed him to stay with her to help her regain her health... boy, oh boy!

Yhi!!! Yhi baat hota toh kya hota? Tab sab Pallavi ka hi saath detein. Main ek show dekh rahi thi, KHKT, Sickand ka hi tha... wahaan ML ki ex coma mein thi, for 4 yrs. Phir FL aayi, ML-FL ki hate/love relationship blossomed into friendship.

Phir unhe pyaar hua. Phir ex wapas aayi. But she was still weak and sick. Toh ML uski help kar raha tha.. woh bhi apne hi ghar mein. But usi reason keliye ML ko jo backlash sehna padah everywhere...

Oh god.... sab ration paani leke usi ke sar chad gaye. Woh galat hain (even though he admitted to FL ki woh usse hi pyaar karta hain, ex ki help kar raha hain bass).

Ab dekho... same cheez hain.. even worse. But abh bhi log Pallavi ka hi saath denge. Insaaniyat, goodness all that. 🙄🙄🙄