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Originally posted by: inlieu

Absolutely. Perhaps they will ignore it completely and show her love transforming him completely so he becomes 'better'.

That's exactly how it works in ITV lol. They don't know how to let their leads have their own issues and work through them but still be a couple. One always has to be saving the other. Like for this track, I really hope its Pallavi saving herself, because I have been waiting for the moment where she finally prioritizes herself over others, for her own sake. For Raghav, I hope he sits and thinks about why he was so scared of losing Pallavi/ worried about external influences & actually opens up to his mom about how he felt when she left him alone. I love Amma but she needs a reality check. His actions may have indirectly caused the death of his father & brother, but he wasn't the one that actually killed them.

Originally posted by: Nonpareil

Raghav will play tt , do swimming , etc.. relax n will have time for himself n business n will over come his insecurities n fears . will learn about trust , love n will become even more stronger 😆

Lol😆😆

Han bas aise hi sab overcome kar lega Raghav 😆

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Lol😆😆

Han bas aise hi sab overcome kar lega Raghav 😆

Heard he got business award . Time waste gone n already he got award . He can go on world tour n enjoy life 😆

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I will tell sonething personal. My sister is an introvert . She will keep everything inside.....all her tensions ,every pain , every thought , every turmoil. It been years we hv been telling her that she should communicate . We even ask her often whats bothering her . But she doesnt say it easily. She likes dealing it on her own . But we can alwys figure out if she is having some trouble.......you just can.....you can see it , feel it.

Dts how Raghav is. Not everyone is good at communicating. Some people like keeping it inside and like dealing it in their own way. So you need to hear what they arent saying , see what they are hiding inside , you need to learn to read them. For all of that to happen Pallavi needs to trust Raghav as much as she wishes him to trust her. She needs to give him the benefit of doubt . He doesnt lie.....dts one thing Raghav never does. Pallavi should get dt.....if he said something....der has to be truth to it.

Like someone here pointed out......Trust is a two way street , if Pallavi expects Raghav to trust her , she needs to trust him too. She needed to trust that he would never question her intention . But instead she questioned his trust. She doesnt trust him but expects him to trust her ( which btw he does)

I love this post. You're absolutely right. He doesn't lie so why hasn't it registered? Because she's convinced he's overreacting.

Originally posted by: fria319

That's exactly how it works in ITV lol. They don't know how to let their leads have their own issues and work through them but still be a couple. One always has to be saving the other. Like for this track, I really hope its Pallavi saving herself, because I have been waiting for the moment where she finally prioritizes herself over others, for her own sake. For Raghav, I hope he sits and thinks about why he was so scared of losing Pallavi/ worried about external influences & actually opens up to his mom about how he felt when she left him alone. I love Amma but she needs a reality check. His actions may have indirectly caused the death of his father & brother, but he wasn't the one that actually killed them.

Agree. I was annoyed when Amma told him that his anger was the reason for the distance between them. I don't get it, unless there's a part of the story that we don't know yet, it would have been so much better if they had reconciled in this track as Amma saw firsthand where his issues come from such the impact of her actions and words over the years. But no, it had to be because of Pallavi.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I will tell sonething personal. My sister is an introvert . She will keep everything inside.....all her tensions ,every pain , every thought , every turmoil. It been years we hv been telling her that she should communicate . We even ask her often whats bothering her . But she doesnt say it easily. She likes dealing it on her own . But we can alwys figure out if she is having some trouble.......you just can.....you can see it , feel it.

Dts how Raghav is. Not everyone is good at communicating. Some people like keeping it inside and like dealing it in their own way. So you need to hear what they arent saying , see what they are hiding inside , you need to learn to read them. For all of that to happen Pallavi needs to trust Raghav as much as she wishes him to trust her. She needs to give him the benefit of doubt . He doesnt lie.....dts one thing Raghav never does. Pallavi should get dt.....if he said something....der has to be truth to it.

Like someone here pointed out......Trust is a two way street , if Pallavi expects Raghav to trust her , she needs to trust him too. She needed to trust that he would never question her intention . But instead she questioned his trust. She doesnt trust him but expects him to trust her ( which btw he does)

After marriage its always about others now only they are on a place to think about themselves and their marriage.

Raghav and pallavi are poles apart. To understand his underlying emotions like Amma said it's take time both need to travel a long way. He is not good at communication but he needs to here after. Last track she understood he is saving keerthi and he didn't done accident because she saw his actions, In this track Eve though she asked couple of times he didn't cleared her about mandar so she thought raghav is fine with everything because he indeed ask her to go when she asked him. Even though both Keerthi and Mandar keep on provoking she defended raghav because she thought he can't do anything like that and she trust him. Once he acknowledged her trust is broken, it's never a mandar. It's raghav what he think is important to her and she shattered because of his actions. He say he trusts her but like Amma said action is totally contradicting. Pallavi kept informed him each and every small details. Whatever she understood of his discomfort, she assured him he no needs to worry and insecure. She don't know volcano is erupting inside him because he is behaving totally opposite outside.

On marriage love, trust and communication go hand in hand. Couple need to travel some time to have good understanding and raghvi journey just started so they have long way to go.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree. I was annoyed when Amma told him that his anger was the reason for the distance between them. I don't get it, unless there's a part of the story that we don't know yet, it would have been so much better if they had reconciled in this track as Amma saw firsthand where his issues come from such the impact of her actions and words over the years. But no, it had to be because of Pallavi.

Yup. I'm not one to brush over Raghav's mistakes - he's made plenty of them but Amma always needs to stop blaming him for everything esp about their past. She chose to leave her son, and he had to fend for himself. Unless they show something else, she's more in the wrong for misunderstanding her son.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

After marriage its always about others now only they are on a place to think about themselves and their marriage.

Raghav and pallavi are poles apart. To understand his underlying emotions like Amma said it's take time both need to travel a long way. He is not good at communication but he needs to here after. Last track she understood he is saving keerthi and he didn't done accident because she saw his actions, In this track Eve though she asked couple of times he didn't cleared her about mandar so she thought raghav is fine with everything because he indeed ask her to go when she asked him. Even though both Keerthi and Mandar keep on provoking she defended raghav because she thought he can't do anything like that and she trust him. Once he acknowledged her trust is broken, it's never a mandar. It's raghav what he think is important to her and she shattered because of his actions. He say he trusts her but like Amma said action is totally contradicting. Pallavi kept informed him each and every small details. Whatever she understood of his discomfort, she assured him he no needs to worry and insecure. She don't know volcano is erupting inside him because he is behaving totally opposite outside.

On marriage love, trust and communication go hand in hand. Couple need to travel some time to have good understanding and raghvi journey just started so they have long way to go.

I think they both need to work on different things. Raghav needs to work on his communication, he shouldn't feel like he has to hide how he's feeling to appease Pallavi. And he needs to be more forthright about what he's thinking and what is happening to him. He can't just deal with everything alone. And Pallavi needs to learn more about how to read behavioral cues and actually place her husband and her new family as a priority over others. Because that's what you do when you're married - you talk things out, you're honest with your feelings, you put your spouse above others. Idk, maybe they both need a marriage 101 class lol. They never got premarital counseling but its definitely needed for them.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

After marriage its always about others now only they are on a place to think about themselves and their marriage.

Raghav and pallavi are poles apart. To understand his underlying emotions like Amma said it's take time both need to travel a long way. He is not good at communication but he needs to here after. Last track she understood he is saving keerthi and he didn't done accident because she saw his actions, In this track Eve though she asked couple of times he didn't cleared her about mandar so she thought raghav is fine with everything because he indeed ask her to go when she asked him. Even though both Keerthi and Mandar keep on provoking she defended raghav because she thought he can't do anything like that and she trust him. Once he acknowledged her trust is broken, it's never a mandar. It's raghav what he think is important to her and she shattered because of his actions. He say he trusts her but like Amma said action is totally contradicting. Pallavi kept informed him each and every small details. Whatever she understood of his discomfort, she assured him he no needs to worry and insecure. She don't know volcano is erupting inside him because he is behaving totally opposite outside.

On marriage love, trust and communication go hand in hand. Couple need to travel some time to have good understanding and raghvi journey just started so they have long way to go.

You are not understanding my point at all.

If you think Raghav broke Pallavi's trust .....so did Pallavi. Pallavi didnt trust that Raghav would never do something like dt widout some solid reasons for it. She broke his trust too......just that he doesnt say it. He takes all the blame on himself. Pallavi talks a lot abt trust but she herself doesnt trust Raghav wholeheartedly. She has also has trust issues. She still thinks Raghav would such things widout reason.....which is DISTRUST only.

Yes people need to work on marriage but its never easy for some people to communicate and I believe you dont change people but you learn to understand them better. Marriage doesnt mean one has to change one's whole personna for dt. I wouldnt do it and neither would I expect my spouse to do it. You have to learn to understand each other......learn to communicate widout words sometimes.

Originally posted by: fria319

I think they both need to work on different things. Raghav needs to work on his communication, he shouldn't feel like he has to hide how he's feeling to appease Pallavi. And he needs to be more forthright about what he's thinking and what is happening to him. He can't just deal with everything alone. And Pallavi needs to learn more about how to read behavioral cues and actually place her husband and her new family as a priority over others. Because that's what you do when you're married - you talk things out, you're honest with your feelings, you put your spouse above others. Idk, maybe they both need a marriage 101 class lol. They never got premarital counseling but its definitely needed for them.

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