Toh finally bol diya Raghav ne - Page 3

Raghav mentioned about the challenge, but unfortunately he spoke up in a situation like this when Pallu was emotionally hurt bcos of his tracking act that all she was thinking about was that Raghav doesnt trust her. So her thoughts, brain, heart, everything was focused only on that wrong act of Raghav. So I think its more about the timing of Raghav when he disclosed to her about the challenge.

Maybe if he would have told her when they were romancing, and when she was happy and intellectually sorted, she would have quitely listened out to him and would have even believed him as she doesnt have any reason to mistrust him. She always says Raghav never lies. So when a person is emotionally active, their listening, brain everything shuts down temporarily, and they only focus on what hurt them. So I would say, wrong timing Raghav.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

All I am doing is giving Pallavi time these days🤣

But I dont knw when she will actually take the time , utilise it , sit and think through😆

I understand she was pissed but she literally didnt hear him . Its like he had spoken against Aayi . Such an important piece of information and she just brushed it aside. Chodo I hv kind of given up on her . She is like simran for me......Jaa simran jaa...jeele apni zindagi😆

@ bold : IKR ?!!!!!!! I was also shocked . Raghav aftr he calms down listens to everyone and tries to think abt it. Here Sharda.....who has been everything to Pallavi....gave her the most sanest advice and she was like...I know better. No you dont. Nobody alwys knows whts better. She isnt helping Mandar move on, she is making him rely on her.

Tunnel vision it is. She is seeing nothing other than Mandar at the moment. She isnt even hearing what her real well wishers are telling her.

I dont want to comment on precap but why would she give meds to Mandar ? Not a big thing . But why does she hv to do everything ? Bcz he might hv thrown a tantrum as usual. There r so many people in dt house who care for Mandar but he insists on Pallavi everytym......dont know why see cant sense it .

@ bold: Well that's the whole issue. She was so angry everything he said went in one ear and out the other. It happens to a lot of people. I wasn't expecting her to be shocked or take a step back once he said it. Pallavi has the tendency to bulldoze over everyone when she's angry - that's why her outbursts are so satisfying to watch LOL.

It's not necessarily a bad thing but we've seen her do it before - D fam, Maansi, Keerti, lol. It's what I love most about her character 🤣. Her anger is no joke, she'll just go off on people and won't let any of them get a word in. It's just part of who she is. So that was most definitely the wrong time for Raghav to even say anything - but he panicked, also part of who he is, and reacted impulsively to her questions. I don't blame either one of them during that scene for reacting the way they did. It's hard to reason with anyone in the middle of an argument - at the height of their anger.

I felt for Pallavi during this scene - if my husband, or anyone, did that to me, I'd be enraged, even if it was for my own safety. I also felt for Raghav, homeboy messed up in a state of panic & impulsiveness. He really should've used a tracking app with her knowledge, but with a different reason (i.e. Ved is still around - I want you to be safe). I blame the writers for taking away his real cleverness.

What I wish is that the CVs would give her some alone time - away from Raghav, Mandar etc., where we can see her actually sit and think about whats going on. They're giving Raghav, and even Mandar, that time, but not her and I think that's what's doing a disservice to her character. We need to see her actually sit and contemplate what Raghav said and actually see her connect the dots. I REALLY hope her upcoming convo with Aayi is about this.

Tunnel vision about helping Mandar, not Mandar himself, and that's why she can't see the fault in the situation. Because for her, it's the helping part that is all that matters. She's the kind of person that is like well I'M not doing anything wrong (and she's not in the sense of cheating, flirting, hiding things from her husband etc.), so what's the issue. She's long since has shown she does not care how D-fam treats her, and this includes Mandar. Raghav has an issue with it, but she's like well if I can handle it, then let me handle it. I also don't fault her for that logic - a lot of selfless people are like that. I've seen my mom do this with her family countless of times. If she doesn't have a problem with helping, why should anyone else have a problem with her helping.

I blame the writers for doing all of this to her character. But at the same time I guess it was always a part of who she was. It was hard for her to get over her initial impressions of someone. She took a while to even see that Raghav had a good side because of her first impressions of him (not that I blame her for that - Raghav was an a** in the beginning of the show - I'll always stand by that too LOL - I don't let anything slide for any of the characters #toughlove). In the same vein, she had an initial bad impression of Sunny and never got over it/ look past it. Again, with Mandar, she had a good impression of Mandar - this is someone she chose to marry - so how could he be a bad person?

She's so innocent (I blame the writers again - in the beginning of the show she never seemed to be this innocent of the world) that she can't begin to imagine that someone who she thought was good, could be bad. Because that questions her judgement of character.

Originally posted by: fria319

@ bold: Well that's the whole issue. She was so angry everything he said went in one ear and out the other. It happens to a lot of people. I wasn't expecting her to be shocked or take a step back once he said it. Pallavi has the tendency to bulldoze over everyone when she's angry - that's why her outbursts are so satisfying to watch LOL.

It's not necessarily a bad thing but we've seen her do it before - D fam, Maansi, Keerti, lol. It's what I love most about her character 🤣. Her anger is no joke, she'll just go off on people and won't let any of them get a word in. It's just part of who she is. So that was most definitely the wrong time for Raghav to even say anything - but he panicked, also part of who he is, and reacted impulsively to her questions. I don't blame either one of them during that scene for reacting the way they did. It's hard to reason with anyone in the middle of an argument - at the height of their anger.

I felt for Pallavi during this scene - if my husband, or anyone, did that to me, I'd be enraged, even if it was for my own safety. I also felt for Raghav, homeboy messed up in a state of panic & impulsiveness. He really should've used a tracking app with her knowledge, but with a different reason (i.e. Ved is still around - I want you to be safe). I blame the writers for taking away his real cleverness.

What I wish is that the CVs would give her some alone time - away from Raghav, Mandar etc., where we can see her actually sit and think about whats going on. They're giving Raghav, and even Mandar, that time, but not her and I think that's what's doing a disservice to her character. We need to see her actually sit and contemplate what Raghav said and actually see her connect the dots. I REALLY hope her upcoming convo with Aayi is about this.

Tunnel vision about helping Mandar, not Mandar himself, and that's why she can't see the fault in the situation. Because for her, it's the helping part that is all that matters. She's the kind of person that is like well I'M not doing anything wrong (and she's not in the sense of cheating, flirting, hiding things from her husband etc.), so what's the issue. She's long since has shown she does not care how D-fam treats her, and this includes Mandar. Raghav has an issue with it, but she's like well if I can handle it, then let me handle it. I also don't fault her for that logic - a lot of selfless people are like that. I've seen my mom do this with her family countless of times. If she doesn't have a problem with helping, why should anyone else have a problem with her helping.

I blame the writers for doing all of this to her character. But at the same time I guess it was always a part of who she was. It was hard for her to get over her initial impressions of someone. She took a while to even see that Raghav had a good side because of her first impressions of him (not that I blame her for that - Raghav was an a** in the beginning of the show - I'll always stand by that too LOL - I don't let anything slide for any of the characters #toughlove). In the same vein, she had an initial bad impression of Sunny and never got over it/ look past it. Again, with Mandar, she had a good impression of Mandar - this is someone she chose to marry - so how could he be a bad person?

She's so innocent (I blame the writers again - in the beginning of the show she never seemed to be this innocent of the world) that she can't begin to imagine that someone who she thought was good, could be bad. Because that questions her judgement of character.

I understand dt its her character traits . She has been dis way from the start. Her outbursts r characteristics of hers . But still I cannot let go off the fact that he was telling her something really important. Not once but he repeated it. But she didnt even have as much as a surprise in her reaction. Also I am pretty sure had she heard it in a calm mind.....she would hv dismissed it too . She would hv given some stupid reasoning to prove its all Raghav's misconception

Agreed dt what Raghav did was wrong and Pallavi had every ryt to be angry but Raghav did deserve one chance at an explanation which she didnt let him have.

Yes even I thought dt Raghav could hv tracked her phn instead of using a stupid tracker.

Tunnel vision thing.....I meant the same. Its dt on her way out to help Mandar is is ignoring everything else thats happening in and around her. Yes selfless people exist . I know dt . But you dont hv to be stupid . Even my mother is dt way but then its not dt she doesnt understand people's intentions . She does and chooses to help anyway. So I understand Pallavi wanting to help D family inspite of everything they say to her but I will never understand her lack of instincts and just ignoring facts staring her in the face.

I dont blame writers for anything. See its a show. These are the same writers who made Pallavi what she is. If there are some traits we attribute as hers, these stupidities she is doing is all hers too. If her innosence is all hers , then her ignoring people who are trying to help her , her letting her guard down in front of Mandar ....is all her too. Cant give credits to Pallavi for her good and blame the writers for her bad.

Originally posted by: Nirvana06

Raghav mentioned about the challenge, but unfortunately he spoke up in a situation like this when Pallu was emotionally hurt bcos of his tracking act that all she was thinking about was that Raghav doesnt trust her. So her thoughts, brain, heart, everything was focused only on that wrong act of Raghav. So I think its more about the timing of Raghav when he disclosed to her about the challenge.

Maybe if he would have told her when they were romancing, and when she was happy and intellectually sorted, she would have quitely listened out to him and would have even believed him as she doesnt have any reason to mistrust him. She always says Raghav never lies. So when a person is emotionally active, their listening, brain everything shuts down temporarily, and they only focus on what hurt them. So I would say, wrong timing Raghav.

Agreed dt it was bad timing. But she wasnt even so much as shocked on hearing it. Forget abt thinking anything. Where ws her shock ? Not even a cringe , no nthing.

Besides I dont think had he told it to her in any other situation.....she wouldnt hv believed him . She would hv dismissed it like she is dismissing everyone's advice these days. Sharda toh explained to her so nicely.....wht did she do ? She just said she knows better. Raghav told her abt his gut instinct.....what did she do ? Dismissed it. Mandar himself said dt Pallavi will remain his......indirectly......what was her reaction again? Kuch bhi nai. Dts what she is doing these days......not listening to anyone.

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

PS : NO CHARACTER BASHING OF PALLAVI PLEASE

Kya fayda fir😕😔

Anyways like my sig says- just end it. Anyways show to Raghav ka tha, pallo who?

that's the spirit🤣