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Episode was much better. Loved that scene when both were gazing each other remembering their moments together. Sai is truly mentally physically exhausted. What I felt at this point both needs be separated from each other for sometimes. So that both can realize their worth and where they stand now. Sai is constantly fighting with her inner turmoil. She can't fathom his jealousy and insecurities. But she still would deal with his insecurities but his rage is not acceptable.

Sunny-Virat conversation confused me 😕.Back to farz and zimmedari but this time as a husband .Didnt get why he is so scared to admit his love. It could be he is too scared to loose her for good. Or he thinks it's not the right time to confess 😕.Again we are in a Bermuda triangle.

Pulpit left the two alone, he understood this moment was necessary for them to be together.

Finally Virat said it that she is responsible for whatever is happening to her. Hope he would stop being soft towards her. But what happened to Sai this time Pakhi is hardly should be blamed. She just scripted whatever was going on in his head. Even after so much berating I don't anything has got into her head. 🤡🤢

Watched the episode and liked it too! Thoda dhimaag lagaana pada 😳 itne saare jelebiya jo hain.

Virat is buying time to get an opportunity to prove himself worthy of her love. He only knows how much he loves her so he is convincing her that it will not happen again! Sai on the other hand is torn between understanding whether it is jealousy or his weakness to suspect wife Of cheating. It is important for her to understand this because if it is jealousy, it could be a fleeting feeling/incident that might fade away with time but if it is the latter it will be hard for her to live with the person. She is also worried that if it is the latter, will she be able to stay in the relationship?! She is at a point where it is difficult to break away from him. Her statement that she knows how he can’t change "things" in her life gives some insight here. Even if it is his choti soch that led to this(which she knows it can’t be), she is stuck with him and that worries her. So she keeps contemplating whether it could be jealousy because, the Virat she knows is not the other kind. Aai's words resonated the same and she is relieved I guess! But her question remains, if it is jealousy why? If they had confessed by now, she would for sure known it is jealousy and the whole incident would have ended in a big fight and then back to normal. Because they had not confessed, she wants to be clear. You respect a person deeply and love him too and he is your life partner and you come to know he has this weakness to suspect, then how worrisome it would be?! And if you are deeply connected to that person, arent you in a soup! It becomes hard to get away and adjust and live....I think she had that confusion, but her memories cleared that! He is the same Virat she respects....so the problem looked smaller and hence she has forgiven him by next day.👍🏼

I am glad that virat had someone in Sunny to lean on. He exactly understood what his best friend is going through and spoke from his perspective. Right away he understood that his friend could not see Sai with another man, and it made sense to him. He supported him because only Sunny other than Virat knows how deeply he loves the woman. But why cant Virat confess? This is something I always bring in my OSs too. Virat will not confess because he will let Sai choose him. Even more now because after all the mistakes, if she stays with him it will be because she chooses to accept him despite his mistakes and loves him. Thats exactly how Virat loves her, completely with all her flaws. Also in the current situation if he confesses, it will be an obligation for Sai. Yesterday when Sai said that she will choose whether their relationship will be like real husband and wife, Virat conceded. Thats how he wants their relationship to be. Equally obligated and equally accepted. In addition to all this, I still stick to my initial opinion that Virat will let her chose him more so because at the time of wedding, he did not give her an option. It started as an open marriage, he fell for her and he knows it might not be the same for her. So yes, I am glad it is this way!!

Virat pakhi's confrontation is right on spot. For me, Virat made it very clear on the other day he came back from GC, what pakhi is to him, his brother's wife. And in between him and his wife, she is a KBA. I always felt that he communicated it clearly to her...Virat if I understood him correctly is a morally upright person. He doesnt hide something and show something else. I also think that his respect towards her has been gradually reducing. The way he talked to her shows only contempt. Today he didnt give her any respect also. He dealt with her like a police office who deals with a criminal. Pakhi lost someone who would have otherwise stood by her like a rock...she should have realized today, atleast.

That brings me to this question, Will Virat's woes with Pakhi end after this? I dont think so! Even though he is not bound to her now, even on humanity grounds from today, there is still a stronger bond that connects him to her...Samrat. He still has an obligation to set her life straight when Samrat comes back. Knowing Virat who doesnt run away from challenges but stands by and faces them.. he will still be there for Pakhi as her husband's brother, hoping not at the cost of his own happiness. :(

PS: Kya haal hogaya hamara. Upanishads jaise decode karke ek ek shabd analyze karna pad raha hain. Forgive me if my PoV sounds tangential.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Watched the episode and liked it too! Thoda dhimaag lagaana pada 😳 itne saare jelebiya jo hain.

Virat is buying time to get an opportunity to prove himself worthy of her love. He only knows how much he loves her so he is convincing her that it will not happen again! Sai on the other hand is torn between understanding whether it is jealousy or his weakness to suspect wife Of cheating. It is important for her to understand this because if it is jealousy, it could be a fleeting feeling/incident that might fade away with time but if it is the latter it will be hard for her to live with the person. She is also worried that if it is the latter, will she be able to stay in the relationship?! She is at a point where it is difficult to break away from him. Her statement that she knows how he can’t change "things" in her life gives some insight here. Even if it is his choti soch that led to this(which she knows it can’t be), she is stuck with him and that worries her. So she keeps contemplating whether it could be jealousy because, the Virat she knows is not the other kind. Aai's words resonated the same and she is relieved I guess! But her question remains, if it is jealousy why? If they had confessed by now, she would for sure known it is jealousy and the whole incident would have ended in a big fight and then back to normal. Because they had not confessed, she wants to be clear. You respect a person deeply and love him too and he is your life partner and you come to know he has this weakness to suspect, then how worrisome it would be?! And if you are deeply connected to that person, arent you in a soup! It becomes hard to get away and adjust and live....I think she had that confusion, but her memories cleared that! He is the same Virat she respects....so the problem looked smaller and hence she has forgiven him by next day.👍🏼

I am glad that virat had someone in Sunny to lean on. He exactly understood what his best friend is going through and spoke from his perspective. Right away he understood that his friend could not see Sai with another man, and it made sense to him. He supported him because only Sunny other than Virat knows how deeply he loves the woman. But why cant Virat confess? This is something I always bring in my OSs too. Virat will not confess because he will let Sai choose him. Even more now because after all the mistakes, if she stays with him it will be because she chooses to accept him despite his mistakes and loves him. Thats exactly how Virat loves her, completely with all her flaws. Also in the current situation if he confesses, it will be an obligation for Sai. Yesterday when Sai said that she will choose whether their relationship will be like real husband and wife, Virat conceded. Thats how he wants their relationship to be. Equally obligated and equally accepted. In addition to all this, I still stick to my initial opinion that Virat will let her chose him more so because at the time of wedding, he did not give her an option. It started as an open marriage, he fell for her and he knows it might not be the same for her. So yes, I am glad it is this way!!

Virat pakhi's confrontation is right on spot. For me, Virat made it very clear on the other day he came back from GC, what pakhi is to him, his brother's wife. And in between him and his wife, she is a KBA. I always felt that he communicated it clearly to her...Virat if I understood him correctly is a morally upright person. He doesnt hide something and show something else. I also think that his respect towards her has been gradually reducing. The way he talked to her shows only contempt. Today he didnt give her any respect also. He dealt with her like a police office who deals with a criminal. Pakhi lost someone who would have otherwise stood by her like a rock...she should have realized today, atleast.

That brings me to this question, Will Virat's woes with Pakhi end after this? I dont think so! Even though he is not bound to her now, even on humanity grounds from today, there is still a stronger bond that connects him to her...Samrat. He still has an obligation to set her life straight when Samrat comes back. Knowing Virat who doesnt run away from challenges but stands by and faces them.. he will still be there for Pakhi as her husband's brother, hoping not at the cost of his own happiness. :(

PS: Kya haal hogaya hamara. Upanishads jaise decode karke ek ek shabd analyze karna pad raha hain. Forgive me if my PoV sounds tangential.

I'm responding to your post about Sai in the other topic!

@bolded: For me, there are different reasons at different moments in time that top Virat from confessing. But underlying it all, it is a fear of losing Sai. He is worried about how she will react, because even though he can see her falling in love with him, he is still uncertain. So, he seemingly always chooses to take the easier way out by bringing up the duty or the zimidari, because he would rather keep loving her in any way that he can than to risk not being able to love her anymore.

Today, I felt as if his reason for not confessing was a bit different. He knows the extent to which he has hurt her. When he tells Sunny that Sai will hate him if he confesses, that to me showed that he himself does not see himself to be worthy of Sai's love at this point in time. Instead, he wants to redeem himself. He wants to be a good husband and SHOW her that he loves her. The weight of his failure to confess was weighing down on him, and for the first time, I felt as though it would have been easier for him to confess than to not. But, instead, he chose to bury his feelings within him and keep suffocating in his own emotions. He sacrificed what he wanted for what he knows Sai needs.... not a confession, but an understanding or proof that he is deserving of her forgiveness. The irony of this entire situation is that Sai already sees what he wants her to see. She sees that he loves her, even though she can't label it as such. That is the entire reason she is so confused about him in the first place...

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Watched the episode and liked it too! Thoda dhimaag lagaana pada 😳 itne saare jelebiya jo hain.

Virat is buying time to get an opportunity to prove himself worthy of her love. He only knows how much he loves her so he is convincing her that it will not happen again! Sai on the other hand is torn between understanding whether it is jealousy or his weakness to suspect wife Of cheating. It is important for her to understand this because if it is jealousy, it could be a fleeting feeling/incident that might fade away with time but if it is the latter it will be hard for her to live with the person. She is also worried that if it is the latter, will she be able to stay in the relationship?! She is at a point where it is difficult to break away from him. Her statement that she knows how he can’t change "things" in her life gives some insight here. Even if it is his choti soch that led to this(which she knows it can’t be), she is stuck with him and that worries her. So she keeps contemplating whether it could be jealousy because, the Virat she knows is not the other kind. Aai's words resonated the same and she is relieved I guess! But her question remains, if it is jealousy why? If they had confessed by now, she would for sure known it is jealousy and the whole incident would have ended in a big fight and then back to normal. Because they had not confessed, she wants to be clear. You respect a person deeply and love him too and he is your life partner and you come to know he has this weakness to suspect, then how worrisome it would be?! And if you are deeply connected to that person, arent you in a soup! It becomes hard to get away and adjust and live....I think she had that confusion, but her memories cleared that! He is the same Virat she respects....so the problem looked smaller and hence she has forgiven him by next day.👍🏼

I am glad that virat had someone in Sunny to lean on. He exactly understood what his best friend is going through and spoke from his perspective. Right away he understood that his friend could not see Sai with another man, and it made sense to him. He supported him because only Sunny other than Virat knows how deeply he loves the woman. But why cant Virat confess? This is something I always bring in my OSs too. Virat will not confess because he will let Sai choose him. Even more now because after all the mistakes, if she stays with him it will be because she chooses to accept him despite his mistakes and loves him. Thats exactly how Virat loves her, completely with all her flaws. Also in the current situation if he confesses, it will be an obligation for Sai. Yesterday when Sai said that she will choose whether their relationship will be like real husband and wife, Virat conceded. Thats how he wants their relationship to be. Equally obligated and equally accepted. In addition to all this, I still stick to my initial opinion that Virat will let her chose him more so because at the time of wedding, he did not give her an option. It started as an open marriage, he fell for her and he knows it might not be the same for her. So yes, I am glad it is this way!!

Virat pakhi's confrontation is right on spot. For me, Virat made it very clear on the other day he came back from GC, what pakhi is to him, his brother's wife. And in between him and his wife, she is a KBA. I always felt that he communicated it clearly to her...Virat if I understood him correctly is a morally upright person. He doesnt hide something and show something else. I also think that his respect towards her has been gradually reducing. The way he talked to her shows only contempt. Today he didnt give her any respect also. He dealt with her like a police office who deals with a criminal. Pakhi lost someone who would have otherwise stood by her like a rock...she should have realized today, atleast.

That brings me to this question, Will Virat's woes with Pakhi end after this? I dont think so! Even though he is not bound to her now, even on humanity grounds from today, there is still a stronger bond that connects him to her...Samrat. He still has an obligation to set her life straight when Samrat comes back. Knowing Virat who doesnt run away from challenges but stands by and faces them.. he will still be there for Pakhi as her husband's brother, hoping not at the cost of his own happiness. :(

PS: Kya haal hogaya hamara. Upanishads jaise decode karke ek ek shabd analyze karna pad raha hain. Forgive me if my PoV sounds tangential.

@bold simply loved, loved, loved ......it. I'm so happy makers are giving us such depth. ❤️Hats off to your interpretation.

Loved your analysis. Thank you for tagging me. 😳