Importance of saying 'No' - Page 11

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

so true… but I feel whatever be the situation, she will never go back to D-fam… which raghav also iterated today… she had the opportunity once when VD thought Raghav’s has planned whole jewelry stealing case… that time also the flashback she had is of the day when she was thrown out in middle of the night on someone’s accusations…even same flashback came when Sharda pleaded her to stop her marriage with Raghav and come with her….

though she is not saying but I think she has never let go of that feeling she had when she was thrown out…and in future also I don’t think she will ever come back to trashmukhs but rather go to her brother’s house if need required…

She is in touch with her aai and kaka over phone post her declaration as PRR and went to trashmukhs only for things related to Mandar (his bday prayer, revealing his accident truth, return mandar, being called by d-fam and now by BWA) yeah she went for vat savitri pooja too.. but did not enter the house.. and stayed only for brief time…

may be I am wrong but I think she will never go back unless VD apologize to her and her husband which is not going to happen in near future…

Even I don’t think she will go back to Deshmukh house

But this feeling of obligation is not something I appreciate of her.

She has become more stronger and gained more clarity about her needs and wants after going to Rao Mansion and for obvious reasons

She needs to prioritise them and let go of this obligation towards Deshmukh family

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

so true… but I feel whatever be the situation, she will never go back to D-fam… which raghav also iterated today… she had the opportunity once when VD thought Raghav’s has planned whole jewelry stealing case… that time also the flashback she had is of the day when she was thrown out in middle of the night on someone’s accusations…even same flashback came when Sharda pleaded her to stop her marriage with Raghav and come with her….

though she is not saying but I think she has never let go of that feeling she had when she was thrown out…and in future also I don’t think she will ever come back to trashmukhs but rather go to her brother’s house if need required…

She is in touch with her aai and kaka over phone post her declaration as PRR and went to trashmukhs only for things related to Mandar (his bday prayer, revealing his accident truth, return mandar, being called by d-fam and now by BWA) yeah she went for vat savitri pooja too.. but did not enter the house.. and stayed only for brief time…

may be I am wrong but I think she will never go back unless VD apologize to her and her husband which is not going to happen in near future…

I wouldn't put my bet on that though. When Sulochana told her to go home with Raghav as she had done the job she went to the Deshmukh house to do; Vijay said to Sulochana that this is also Pallavi's house.

Now with Mandhar still obsessed with her and wanting to bring her back to the Deshmukh's house with whatever means necessary then definitely there will be a high chance for Mandhar and the Deshmukh's parivaar to bring her back.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Welcome 🤗

Which movie is it?

It’s important to be taught to say ‘no’ , politely but firmly when required.

And this really needs to be taught to everyone

But unfortunately it’s not done

Especially to a girl, because she has to go to ‘someone’s’ house

I put ‘someone’ in quotes because that someone eventually is supposed to become her everything and also her house till death do apart in usual cases

But still she is taught that she is supposed to maintain a certain decorum there which is at times beyond my understanding.

So yes it’s necessary and extremely important to know when to put down the feet and say ‘enough of it, I won’t do this’ or a simple ‘no’

Its a romcom 😆. I am embarrassed to say it. Its called 17 dresses.

See the scene as it is , is not serious but somehow it has always got stuck wid me. Bcz I found it kind of resonating dt how often we find ourselves in such situations where we arent able to say No and dt it shouldnt be dt difficult.

@ bold : So true. It happens in almost every household. Even if its not marriage related.....we are told to not to speak up. Being too vocal is not encouraged.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Its a romcom 😆. I am embarrassed to say it. Its called 17 dresses.

See the scene as it is , is not serious but somehow it has always got stuck wid me. Bcz I found it kind of resonating dt how often we find ourselves in such situations where we arent able to say No and dt it shouldnt be dt difficult.

@ bold : So true. It happens in almost every household. Even if its not marriage related.....we are told to not to speak up. Being too vocal is not encouraged.

There is nothing embarrassing

If people can freely read and discuss‘Fifty shades’ then I think every thing is tolerable and acceptable

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

There is nothing embarrassing

If people can freely read and discuss‘Fifty shades’ then I think every thing is tolerable and acceptable

Arey I was embarrassed bcz its not a very influential movie 😆....but I found it quite impressive.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Arey I was embarrassed bcz its not a very influential movie 😆....but I found it quite impressive.

Let me open my lecture ki dukaan

Extremely influential things are something followed by most of the people

But less influential things are actually the gem.

Be it books, movie, people or anything for that matter

Apology for that, but I can’t help after reading the comment

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Let me open my lecture ki dukaan

Extremely influential things are something followed by most of the people

But less influential things are actually the gem.

Be it books, movie, people or anything for that matter

Apology for that, but I can’t help after reading the comment

Arey pls dont apologise

I am glad someone shares my views. I feel exactly the same way . Like word to word.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Arey pls dont apologise

I am glad someone shares my views. I feel exactly the same way . Like word to word.

Good to know, someone shares my views😊

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Oh team Sid😆

BB forum toh hai hi isiliye. Wahan shaanti achi nai lgti😆

Harshad has signed BB15 as per chakkar. Even Arjun it seems

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Harshad has signed BB15 as per chakkar. Even Arjun it seems

Hungama hoga toh phir iss baar BB mein😆

Maza aayega.

Many people I can support😆