Is there a Patralekha in us - Page 4

You are right. I hope she becomes aware of how far she has come from her original self due to ask the pain she has to deal with. Once the realisation strikes her, she will find the ways too. Difficult, extremely difficult, I know. But she has her parents. Many girls don't have even that as a support. But as I said, she is stuck. She needs to move out first to move on.

Originally posted by: msin

Yes even I had a moment like this .. where I was stuck upon .. it ruined my happiness for ever .. I have become a lot more relaxed than I was .. 10 years ago .. I clearly remember the initial 4-5 years I could not even smile ..

I never liked that she took it all out on Sai.

Stuck or obsessed, she needs to become aware of the fact that she's is still standing at a place where Virat has moved on from long ago. But at the same time, just because Virat has moved on doesn't mean she should too. I want her to move on for herself. It took me years to become aware of what was going on in my life due to my childhood. I want her to have realisation.

Once she is over her own hurt, she'll be able to notice someone else's pain. This post came from the moment when she notices Sai fall down and is momentarily worried, but then, Virat comes into the room and her whole attention is shifted towards proving herself right and Sai wrong. And Sai's gift dialogue makes it worse for her. She's unable to see anything beyond that. Now blaming Sai here, but seeing it from Patralekha's pov.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I agree at some point when peeps emo hurt me I was not able to move on from the toxic hurt and value others over them who stood by me.

My bro suggested a trip to Tirupati with him for some peace. We climbed the 3500 odd steps together singing in Praise of God. Something shifted seeing my bro do this trip on empty stomach for my sake.

I decided once we came out I will leave everything there and move forward for people who love me

You took the best decision for yourself. Sometimes loved ones' unconditional support and love can pull us out of biggest turmoils.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I never liked that she took it all out on Sai.

Stuck or obsessed, she needs to become aware of the fact that she's is still standing at a place where Virat has moved on from long ago. But at the same time, just because Virat has moved on doesn't mean she should too. I want her to move on for herself. It took me years to become aware of what was going on in my life due to my childhood. I want her to have realisation.

Once she is over her own hurt, she'll be able to notice someone else's pain. This post came from the moment when she notices Sai fall down and is momentarily worried, but then, Virat comes into the room and her whole attention is shifted towards proving herself right and Sai wrong. And Sai's gift dialogue makes it worse for her. She's unable to see anything beyond that. Now blaming Sai here, but seeing it from Patralekha's pov.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/157890321

I myself wrote a post here.. on the three characters..

Lovely and a very realistic approach ❤️

There are moments in our lives that leaves a scar in our hearts.Even if there are many choices sometimes we just want to stuck there at one point. That's what happened to Pakhi as well. She has wronged herself for NOT accepting the reality because Virat "promise" is holding her at one place. She feels rejected, betrayed by Virat. She can not fathom that Both sai and virat had a journey together unlike her and Virat. This is what something she unable to understand.

Her jealousy has erased almost all the basic humanity. This girl needs to fight with her inner demons until then she never can be happy.

Sai on the other hand accepted the terms and conditions of their marry and chose to move on with it. But she is stuck at point and unable to accept herself as Virats wife.

Virat ones told Sai "you need to see my action rather my word " .i so so loved that sentence. Sometimes we often tend to overlook actions of others instead we chose to believe the words.