Is there a Patralekha in us - Page 2

Originally posted by: kahkashansakina

Life challenges ka naam hai

Zindagi mein bohut se aise hadsa hota hai jo Deep hurt kar jata hai woh bakhi rehta hai life long par hum rok toh nahi ja sakte na challenge ko accept kar ke agaye badena hai faith par yaqeen rakhna hai.jo meri kismat mein nahi tha nahi mila yeh soch rahe na chahiye god par believe hona chahiye 😊😊

Pakhi mere liye mental patient hai jo yeh soch rakhti hai main Khush nahin to vah bhi Khush nahin Jo mujhe nahin mila vah use kaise mil sakta hai 💔💔😡yeh thinking rakhne wale kabhi bhi agye nahi badehte hai .

I hope Pakhi gets the awareness some day and realises the repercussions of her actions. And takes the first step in the right direction, for her own sake.

Originally posted by: AparnaRenu

Beautifully, sensitively crafted!!!

I'll come back and edit, Cheeks

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I cannot tell you how much I loved your post ❤️. And the way you have expressed it...felt so close to the heart.

It just came into my heart so expressed it. So yes, close to my heart ❤️

She is not just stuck. She has made it her obsession. You can be stuck at something or someone without holding to it so tightly.

Originally posted by: _charu_

As a character, pakhi has a lot of scope ..unfortunately the actress is unable to bring the nuances out ..the bitter experiences of life turned her into an insensitive soul..I do sympathize with her at times..she is full of poison and virat is also responsible for it..she is stuck , really stuck, with nowhere to go ,there is no happiness for her ,.one way or the other..her worst decision was to marry samrat on virats insistence and vaada. It turned her life around..if she didn't do it ,probably itna kachra na hota uski life ka...she only had a heartbreak to deal with incase she refused to marry samrat but now, it's a lifetime of misery and a loveless life...she didn't think it through..what's her future ? She can't love samrat , she doesn't wanna move out , she lost virat to Sai.. ideally it's easy to suggest a solution for her but it's too complicated for her really..

Nobody is perfect to take right decisions always ..n not everyone can handle the brunt of their wrong decisions too..pakhi is as much a human as virat and sai..Her dynamic makes this story interesting..if we remove her , it's another saas bahu drama.

Bold: Exactly. That's what she did in regards to Samrat. An outsider can offer suggestions but only she can do what needs to be done. And sometimes, the solution comes from within. I feel really bad for her. Her circumstances have turned her bitter as you said.

Italics: That's what I believe too. Hence, I understand her instead of writing her off. She's really an interesting character. I don't have much hopes, but I still hope in a corner of my heart for the better for this character than her being turned into a typical vamp.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

She is not just stuck. She has made it her obsession. You can be stuck at something or someone without holding to it so tightly.

Sometimes it’s very difficult to move on!

If life hammers you with one loss after another, you are pinned in a place like a nail. Every time you close your eyes, you relive those painful moments. No matter how strong you are, no matter how experienced you are, showing resilience becomes impossible. The first step is acknowledging you are stuck, only then it is possible to heal, to seek help, to draw strength from others and finally move on. It can take months or sometimes years, but perseverance is the key!

I believe that with grave problems comes great strength.

Trust me, I have faced my fair share of adversities in life and every blow made me stronger.

Pakhi hasn’t even acknowledged that she is stuck and she is too obstinate to move on.

I really wish we meet one day Cheeku ❤️

All your posts are so connected to my life. This was just very emotional and lovely.

As I have shared,there was a point where I was lost for three whole years, yes, I tried to search happiness, and at some moments I succeeded as well. But,other times it pained me as well as why can't I receive happiness as well, why should I search for it? It's just so touching. But I also realised that if I can't find it, then create it. See and search happiness in everything, just like I was earlier. But yes, pain is pain ❤️

I wish Patralekha realises the worth of happiness that she holds, that is being offered to her. Cuz that is very rare, and she should accept it.

One has to move on that's the only thing a human can do, there's no point holding onto things which hurt you, that's where I do not relate to Pakhi, as I have always moved on from my past relationships but if I think about living with my ex and seeing him doing everything for his wife while I have absolutely nothing going on for me then how will I move on?

It didn't help that she is married and her husband left her on day 1, now she can't even go out and meet other guys, how can she divorce someone who is MIA? She is stuck at one place, if Samrat was there either she would have moved on with him like Virat did in his life or he would have divorced her so she wouldn't have a reason to stay with Virat

When there's no source of happiness, there's no source of compassion and love, how can she be happy or feel human? She doesn't go out as its not allowed in Chavan Niwas, there's a reason why all women are bitter in this house, it's not only Pakhi, Karishma's life is same, even when she has her husband, the environment is stifling

What I am trying to say is that for one to move on there has to be a change, someone who helps you with it, you family/friends but when you witness your past and relive the moment everyday, there's no chance of moving on, this is when you need your family and people who love you

The character is interesting if they try to work on her, but I don't see that happening

Yes even I had a moment like this .. where I was stuck upon .. it ruined my happiness for ever .. I have become a lot more relaxed than I was .. 10 years ago .. I clearly remember the initial 4-5 years I could not even smile ..