Sher aya sher aya - Page 5

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

If I think logically, i see no reason why the actors who ate real life couple need to stand closely . It’s not like they get a chance to me close only onscreen so they are making use of it . Most of the times I feel it’s not an issue iexcept today where Virat held Pakhi’s hand .

Regrading Sairat , I was thinking like you before Holi episode where I felt actors weren’t comfortable with intimate scenes but I was proved wrong during Holi and in many other scenes so I think it’s not actors but the direction as editors who are screwing it up . If the actors are comfortable enacting almost kiss scene where their faces are so close and if they can hug each other tightly in the first hug then they wouldn’t have problems standing close .

Definitely not. I don't think either Neil or Ayesha have any issues with scenes be it romance or super close shots. 100% I blame the director.

For Virat and Pakhi scenes, this too I blame the director. Some of their scenes so far have been too close for comfort. I passed off most of the scenes as just makers trolling FD but the last 2 hand holding scenes could have been easily avoided.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I don't find Virat manhandling her any wrong! I can't sympathise with Pakhi. I'll say she has given less taunts and rebukes than her counterpart. Pakhi is an abuser, she harassed Sai. Was happy because of her burnt hands in Sil batta track, used physical force to stop Sai from seeing Virat in hospital, was to remove Sai's hand from Virat in the vaada Track. This type of women don't deserve any sympathy from anyone. She didn't even apologize to Sai for doing even unknowingly. Virat held her not for more than 4 sec and the hold was really lose, it's not even in the manhandling. If other women, I would have rebuked Virat but she's Patralekha Salunkhe (whose MIL was defending even knowing how's Pakhi's behaviour towards Sai). Pakhi deserves this, sorry not sorry. An abuser is an abuser, gender card should not be used here.

And about SIL-BIL relationship, Pakhi doesn't even consider this relationship, why Virat should.

I'm not telling Virat should do wrong, or manhandle but Pakhi deserves this!

P.S. I don't support violence in any form.

And people who thinks Virat is the worst ML, should see how a typical ITV ML treats a vamp. He didn't even do 10% of it and I'm disappointed! 🤪

Having said that I didn’t like the way he behaved today . He was out of character today . I agree Pakhi is wrong most of the times but in this track she didn’t do anything to spoil for Virat or Sai . It’s not easy for me to connect to this Virat who said her pain doesn’t matter when she complained about manhandling. It was total opposite to Virat who showed immense patience in the past while dealing with her coz of his brother.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I wouldn’t have any problem If Virat had just held her hand . I trust Virat and I know that he doesn’t have any feelings for her . There is nothing wrong in holding your SIL hand even if she is an ex when there is no ill intentions . I supported him when he held her hand to stop her from reveling the truth but today it was manhandling which is not acceptable.

Yes she should have apologized but I understand why she didn’t though I don’t support her actions . Initially , Pakhi was shocked and later with the way she was blamed for the accident she didn’t feel like doing it .Sai was wrong in saying this is a birthday gift from Pakhi when she knew it was an accident

I completely agree with you. Today both sai and virat were absolutely wrong. Everyone did their best to make sai bday memorable. But it seems sai real happiness lie in zillat arena.So she was missing all that.she decided to call pakhi.

And I saw the scene many time to understand who was at more fault. Sai or pakhi in pulling off

I noticed that it was sai who was using force on pakhi.pakhi just retaliate. AND Sai fell down due to the force she was applying.

then her dialog pakhi didi ka bday gift

I mean wow. And her enjoying the zillat arena drama .Now after today there is no much difference in sari incident and today.if sai did it intentionally and has the guts to tell pakhi.i wanted to teach u a lesson.then I will be the first one to applaud her.But if she will again say that I m always right,I m good and try to uphold her moral ground.then she will be biggest hypocrite.

Now coming to virat ,what wrong with him today.when pakhi try to invade his personal space he Jerked her hand and tell her to ind her own business.but today he invaded her personal space and manhandled her.it was unacceptable no matter what.

Coming to pakhi .unlike previous incident,today she decided to give herself and other some space.so she decided to not to ruin other happiness and spend time with herself.i feel it was the best for her.

BUT it seems that our sai and virat love to see pakhi drama that when for a change she decided to let them enjoy,they failed to do so without zillat arena drama

I read very many posts today on this particular scene. Makers really did succeed in garnering sympathy for Pakhi. I don't sympathize with her at all. It's strange that both Sai and Virat, Sai mostly is vilified on this particular scene alone with no reference to previous dynamics whatsoever. Why? If you decide to count only from 10 that doesn't mean there are no numbers before 10.

1- Pakhi's push- I said this before also, that jerk wasn't normal. There was much force to it. That's not how you make someone leave your hand. I understand Pakhi is considerably upset and Sai has no right to hold her hand and force her. But that wasn't a controlling gesture. If Sai was really a control freak she would have actually made Pakhi come downstairs. That didn't happen, right? Sai-Pakhi has no reason to hate eo. But what is the reason for Pakhi abusing Sai? She abuses her only because Sai is Virat's love interest. So every action of Pakhi towards Sai originates from that place of hatred. She didn't think twice before provoking Virat to throw Sai out of the house at midnight despite knowing the truth of Pulkit. She has time and time again harassed Sai only because she thinks Virat is in love. Even today her anger at Sai was because of Virat arranging the surprise party. She was filled with anger, resentment, and hate for a girl because she saw her ex arranging a party for her. I would have respected her if she went questioned Virat instead or moved out of CN. She did none. What did she do? She took out the anger on Sai who came to invite her for the cake cutting. She didn't even wish Sai, that's basic courtesy. When Sai held her hand the physical force we saw as a response from Pakhi was not normal. It might be her subconscious but she did give a jerk string enough that the other person lost balance and got hurt. Chalo koi baath nahi, accidents happen. Did she flinch from her position? Did she lend a helping hand? Did she apologize? She did nothing. Okay, maybe she was shocked. But when Virat asked for a first aid box she stood there and argued. she could have gotten the 1st aid box and then did the Adalat. She lacked conscience there. That's where I judge her. She had the nerve to shout, argue then help someone wounded. She is worthy of that judgment. I have no sympathy for this woman. She doesn't deserve it

Sais words- Sai said this is the gift Pakhi didi gave on my birthday. She apologized for her zid. A regular ITV bahu would have said she got hurt by herself. Sai said the truth. This is what she understood. Her hand was shaken so violently by Pakhi that she fell off and got hurt. Pakhi explained her part. So Sai didn't have to explain anything else. Sai wasn't expecting such a shocking, violent reaction from Pakhi. Pakhi and Sai both explained their sides to Virat and the audience. It's the way the audience perceives it. For me, she didn't lie. She didn't vilify Pakhi either, this is exactly what happened acc to her. Even if Pakhi thinks she is being misunderstood she has a fair chance of being believed by the majority of Chavans. Sai is never entitled to this trust by CN members. Even when she says the truth Chavans don't believe her. So Sai framing Pakhi is a far strech. She wont and she cant

Virat's reaction- I understand his reaction. He was in a rage. The woman whom he claims to love is injured. Pakhi herself said what happened. This is where makers screwed up. No matter what Virat shouldn't have used force on Pakhi.If Pakhi hurt Sai Virat is not supposed to return the same hurt. Reprimand her, thrash her verbally, rebuke her for not getting that 1st aid box, and lack of empathy. Stop there, keep the hands-off. If Pakhi says she is getting hurt that can garner sympathy. I still feel none for hr. Her actions cant be isolated. I don't see her just as a poor ex who was suffering or (claiming to suffer) from headaches forced to attend a party because of her ex's wife. Her actions in the past and present count for me. So no victim love for this woman.

I sometimes do feel miserable for Pakhis condition and I do think somewhere Virat wronged her. But she has to pick up some self-respect and find a solution. Most importantly she should stop abusing a teenager. I will sympathize with her the day this happens

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I wouldn’t have any problem If Virat had just held her hand . I trust Virat and I know that he doesn’t have any feelings for her . There is nothing wrong in holding your SIL hand even if she is an ex when there is no ill intentions . I supported him when he held her hand to stop her from reveling the truth but today it was manhandling which is not acceptable.

Yes she should have apologized but I understand why she didn’t though I don’t support her actions . Initially , Pakhi was shocked and later with the way she was blamed for the accident she didn’t feel like doing it .Sai was wrong in saying this is a birthday gift from Pakhi when she knew it was an accident

I still have some hopes left.. may be Virat will say sorry once he cools down.. He made such mistakes in the past when anger controlled the better part of him, but he always repented once he came back to his senses.

I sincerely hope he would realize his mistake and say sorry. Whether didi deserves it not. Coz it speaks more about his character than hers!

Pakhi lacks empathy period. I don’t expect anything from her, other than her constipated looks and glycerin filled eyes.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

I still have some hopes left.. may be Virat will say sorry once he cools down.. He made such mistakes in the past when anger controlled the better part of him, but he always repented once he came back to his senses.

I sincerely hope he would realize his mistake and say sorry. Whether didi deserves it not. Coz it speaks more about his character than hers!

Pakhi lacks empathy period. I don’t expect anything from her, other than her constipated looks and glycerin filled eyes.