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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

We all want Pakhi to stay away from SaiRat so if she stays away from them like in today’s episode , there is no scope for beizzati. I would prefer this arrangement over anything

Me too any day!!

But If at all it happens for drama sake which is inevitable considering this KD copy and makers love Didi, at least get some BEIZZATTI by FL and ML.😆Ab dono hi ek jaise ho gaye toh loh hua kamaal....Wo khushi bhi cheen lo humse

Want to ask a question to those who feel Pakhi’s privacy should be honoured ..

If it is Pakhi’s birthday celebrated by Elders of the house,if Sai stays away uninvolved without ruining the function ( this I want to stress since this one is particularly highlighted) ,reading for her test or saying she got migraine ( Sai was shown suffering from this previously) ..will it be ok for the elders and Pakhi and Ofcourse for those who are pointing out Sai’s behaviour ( I mean forum members) ?

No. Never.

In the show it would have become a big issue and it will be magnified to the extent of abusing Sai in every way. Pakhi would have made a scene and I feel she would have messed up the celebrations. I am sure Sai would have been dragged downstairs to attend the function.

Then here Sai would have faced heat with various arguments.

That she has no courtesy to come and Atleast wish if not stay there throughout..

That Sai is stubborn and spoilt and mannerless

Doesn’t know joint family norms.

Always invites trouble

She loves getting into arguments.,,and many more.

That is why I think it depends on our outlook at the issues. For me Sai Joshi is not wrong. She might be childish but not evil minded or control freak.

^^^

Judging from past episodes, don't think all this would have happened because Pakhi didn't invite her on her parents anniversary, why would she create a drama if she didn't attend her birthday? She would celebrate it happily without her

About forum members, when CN people were forcing her for Alta or anything else, we were against it, the point is that forcing anyone is not right, forcing is not wrong only if it is done by someone we hate or done to someone we love, dragging anyone like that is not right, just because FL did it doesn't mean the act was right

Now as written in above post, if all this had happened to FL, everyone would have called it domestic violence

Pakhi stayed away from the function, isn't that what everyone wanted from her? She didn't try to ruin the day for FL, didn't do anything which will be a hindrance to the surprise, there's a reason why I feel FL loves drama, everything was going smoothly, None was doing anything wrong, everyone was happy but of course, that wouldn't do, now would it?

With the brush through reading of this thread, this is wat I saw

1. Pakhi should not have been asked to come by sai... Agreed

2. Sai is like kaku and controlling is not agreed upon...

We are agreeing to half the post An getting Into debate/ discussion over the other half.

It looks like each statement of the main post can become a new thread on its own 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Want to ask a question to those who feel Pakhi’s privacy should be honoured ..

If it is Pakhi’s birthday celebrated by Elders of the house,if Sai stays away uninvolved without ruining the function ( this I want to stress since this one is particularly highlighted) ,reading for her test or saying she got migraine ( Sai was shown suffering from this previously) ..will it be ok for the elders and Pakhi and Ofcourse for those who are pointing out Sai’s behaviour ( I mean forum members) ?

No. Never.

In the show it would have become a big issue and it will be magnified to the extent of abusing Sai in every way. Pakhi would have made a scene and I feel she would have messed up the celebrations. I am sure Sai would have been dragged downstairs to attend the function.

Then here Sai would have faced heat with various arguments.

That she has no courtesy to come and Atleast wish if not stay there throughout..

That Sai is stubborn and spoilt and mannerless

Doesn’t know joint family norms.

Always invites trouble

She loves getting into arguments.,,and many more.

That is why I think it depends on our outlook at the issues. For me Sai Joshi is not wrong. She might be childish but not evil minded or control freak.

If the above scenario happens then the mistakes of CN gang will be pointed out and will be furious with them.. It’s not about who did what?? Or even who will act how? It’s simply the difference between right and wrong..

It’s just pointing out when someone is wrong? Whoever that might be? Isn’t this the same principle by which Sai stands.

It’s not even about Sai inviting Pakhi, but forcing her, trying to pull her.. would Sai have liked it if tables were turned?? I don’t think so..Sai is stubborn and so is Pakhi.

I despise Pakhi for all the things she has done.. loathe her for her loose morals but that doesn’t mean that she must be denied of her free will.

I love Sai for her high self esteem, selflessness and strength but that doesn’t mean she is flawless.

Coming to Sai.. take the college function incident for instance .. let’s assume if Ninad or Kaku really got a heart attack and died because of that drama.. will Sai still be right then?

@bold - I respect your outlook.. and the above is simply mine.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Want to ask a question to those who feel Pakhi’s privacy should be honoured ..

If it is Pakhi’s birthday celebrated by Elders of the house,if Sai stays away uninvolved without ruining the function ( this I want to stress since this one is particularly highlighted) ,reading for her test or saying she got migraine ( Sai was shown suffering from this previously) ..will it be ok for the elders and Pakhi and Ofcourse for those who are pointing out Sai’s behaviour ( I mean forum members) ?

No. Never.

In the show it would have become a big issue and it will be magnified to the extent of abusing Sai in every way. Pakhi would have made a scene and I feel she would have messed up the celebrations. I am sure Sai would have been dragged downstairs to attend the function.

Then here Sai would have faced heat with various arguments.

That she has no courtesy to come and Atleast wish if not stay there throughout..

That Sai is stubborn and spoilt and mannerless

Doesn’t know joint family norms.

Always invites trouble

She loves getting into arguments.,,and many more.

That is why I think it depends on our outlook at the issues. For me Sai Joshi is not wrong. She might be childish but not evil minded or control freak.

Agree impulsive, stubborn, childlike but not evil minded or control freak !!!

Watching Patralekha I am anything but Patralekha's free will and all.. She who respects no one's.

Still I believe Sai should have got better dialogues against Patralekha's taunts and also she should have left the woman there.. I just dont want this one to become Mahaan.. which she is not as of now.

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

With the brush through reading of this thread, this is wat I saw

1. Pakhi should not have been asked to come by sai... Agreed

2. Sai is like kaku and controlling is not agreed upon...

We are agreeing to half the post An getting Into debate/ discussion over the other half.

It looks like each statement of the main post can become a new thread on its own 😂😂😂

I certainly agree to the first one. Simple she not have been there to call her.. But calling her Kaku and controlling.. Urghh No way...No way in the world!!

@bold I know😆

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Sai resisted when they forced her and applied only when Aai spoke about a Virat’s well being similarly Pakhi or anyone have the rights to refuse . Morover I don’t understand the need to invite a sulking person and spoil your happiness

That doesn't matter if she applied later or of she was allergic. The problem is forcing someone to do something. Back then we bashed the Chavans and even Virat. Then we wondered how come Virat didn't ask why she applied later and the allergic thing didn't come out and he couldn't evetually lash out at the Chavans. So definitely it pissed us off then how is it different with Pakhi. Personally if I don't like someone I won't attend the party and won't like being forced to join. And also she very well knows Pakhi has feelings for Virat. Won't it make her sad to see Virat is celebrating his wife's birthday. At least she could have thought that way and let Pakhi alone once she refused. If I am not wrong she also left the family picture when she herself was hurt so why can't she also think about Pakhi.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That doesn't matter if she applied later or of she was allergic. The problem is forcing someone to do something. Back then we bashed the Chavans and even Virat. Then we wondered how come Virat didn't ask why she applied later and the allergic thing didn't come out and he couldn't evetually lash out at the Chavans. So definitely it pissed us off then how is it different with Pakhi. Personally if I don't like someone I won't attend the party and won't like being forced to join. And also she very well knows Pakhi has feelings for Virat. Won't it make her sad to see Virat is celebrating his wife's birthday. At least she could have thought that way and let Pakhi alone once she refused. If I am not wrong she also left the family picture when she herself was hurt so why can't she also think about Pakhi.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

@bold interesting take and I agree with it . Since Sai and Pakhi don’t share a cordial relationship I am ok if she overlooks the fact that Pakhi might be hurt to see the person she loves showering love on his wife but I cannot justify her pulling Pakhi and forcing her despite Pakhi refusing many times . Once Sai decides something she wants to get it by hook or crook .

I really hope with age she will learn to be less ziddi about things going her way. This will not only harm the people she loves but her ownself.