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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Also when he goes on to hold her hand while talking or explaining things, she can assume it to be normal and it gives her a leverage to hold his hands in while talking something he is not comfortable about. That would make it even more awkward for him. The whole scene also made me notice how during the whole part of it he was standing close to Patralekha, closer than he was to his wife.

Cvs really need to keep a check on such things, because almost in all family confrontation until and unless specifically necessary he stands pretty close to Patralekha, even when the two ladies are on his either side, like today. That relationship is certainly not normal to witness.

More than Virat the character ,this issue is something the makers, director and Neil bhatt as the actor need to be cognizant of. Where he is standing, his stance etc need to be done carefully. Just coz they are dating in real life he cant get "too close" to pp when they are in their reel avatars. Virat's chemistry with Sai isnt affected because neil does a fab job but he should be careful similarly that his offscreen equation is not reflected in his interaction with the character called pp. On the show he needs to be away from her, distanced, uncomfortable by her advances and not initiate any advances towards her. Because virat knows pp's intentions and cannot be shown leaning in too close to talk to her or holding her hand etc ....even the minutest physical contact between virat pp is unwelcome. Infact even standing too close to her is a problem.

Originally posted by: Nja91

More than Virat the character ,this issue is something the makers, director and Neil bhatt as the actor need to be cognizant of. Where he is standing, his stance etc need to be done carefully. Just coz they are dating in real life he cant get "too close" to pp when they are in their reel avatars. Virat's chemistry with Sai isnt affected because neil does a fab job but he should be careful similarly that his offscreen equation is not reflected in his interaction with the character called pp. On the show he needs to be away from her, distanced, uncomfortable by her advances and not initiate any advances towards her. Because virat knows pp's intentions and cannot be shown leaning in too close to talk to her or holding her hand etc ....even the minutest physical contact between virat pp is unwelcome. Infact even standing too close to her is a problem.

Exactly today Virat looked quite comfortable with Patralekha, while asking her to act along, when just few moments back he was irritated with her.. When was their last interaction? During the whole Pendant issue? I get he is excited and all, but in excitement one cannot forget the discomfort one has towards the certain person in the house. If I have someone in my house, who is interested in me and I really am not comfortable, even in the happiest and exciting moments I wont be pally with him.

Distance is about level of comfort one shares and Patralekha and Virat no more share that kind of comfort, however they do share that offscreen.. This kind of situation breaks a continuity that has been developed for a particular character towards a particular character is broken. NB is an experienced actor, understands Virat beyond our comprehension and hence is capable of improvising his scenes , so expecting him to do here as well is not too much of an expectation . However the onus lies on the Director majorly to point out such things while they are shooting. The actors might not realise the distance while performing, but a good direction can find such issues easily.

Ya neil Bhatt, and makers need to remember that virat and pp are no longer even friends. They are just acquaintances..his relationship with her isnt even a true devar- bhabhi one like karishma-virat. Camera angles and stuff are important. In Sairat scenes they often look like they are standing far too apart due to bad editing/angles- like the scene where Virat wipes away sai's tears during harini bday party. Infact even in the wall scene and the almost kiss during the party, Sairat look further away making the scene look a little off but in this scene virat looks too damn comfortable in pp's presence. Hes in her space. That is not the virat-pp dynamic. Thats the offscreen dynamic of the actors. Directors really need to step up and take note of these little things.

Many of us irritated with Virat the way he was shutting Didi. It's obvious to feel dejected for pure SaiRat Stan's. To be honest it has irked me a bit but then again there was no other way to stop her. If I am not wrong she was standing almost right next to him so at that heat of the moment he needed to do this.Otherwise the demented women about to blurt out the entire plan.

However it's the makers blunder to portray a scene that is mere contradictory. That music ruined the actual reason of pressing hand.Was it for ViraKhi or only for Didi. 😕Secondly both Sonali and Karishma are those who's brains are only for devil's workshops. They mostly poke their nose into others lives than themselves.

I loved the episode. Sai waiting for Virat to wish her and Virat too couldn't wait to wish her and him forgetting his surprise for a second. I'm sure if Sunny hadn't reminded him about the surprise he would have wished her at the strike of twelve. It was so cute.

Loved Virat's antics and Sai's impatience. On one side she felt Virat would wish her and on the other side she felt maybe he doesn't know about her birthday.

Didn't like the precap. But, I hope alongwith Virat even Mansi gives her a piece of her mind.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Ya neil Bhatt, and makers need to remember that virat and pp are no longer even friends. They are just acquaintances..his relationship with her isnt even a true devar- bhabhi one like karishma-virat. Camera angles and stuff are important. In Sairat scenes they often look like they are standing far too apart due to bad editing/angles- like the scene where Virat wipes away sai's tears during harini bday party. Infact even in the wall scene and the almost kiss during the party, Sairat look further away making the scene look a little off but in this scene virat looks too damn comfortable in pp's presence. Hes in her space. That is not the virat-pp dynamic. Thats the offscreen dynamic of the actors. Directors really need to step up and take note of these little things.

I agree.. I mentioned in the sbs bit how distanced the two look when Sai is thanking him and how close the scene was with the bhabhi.. It did look like he entered her space and as if the husband wife are discussing about sister's surprise bday party

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Hasn't he always had double standards when it came to him and Sai in this issue? Sai fake-flirting with Amay or sharing friendship with other boys is not liked. But at the same time, him storming into his ex-lover's room during a fight with Sai or applying ice on Pakhi's hand or not setting boundaries with her doesn't seem wrong to him. I'm not sure if it is patriarchy - may be may be not. But it is not fair.

When Virat was complaining about her friendship with Ajinkya, I wish Sai had compared it to his friendship with Pakhi. I know he is doing all this out of his insecurity and believe (&hope) that once their marriage becomes normal he won't be controlling' but still - what is good for the gander is good for the goose.

Atleast then, he was unaware of Pakhi's intentions. But now he is no longer ignorant of it. He still holds Pakhi's hand while hugging his wife and he grabs her hand while almost rubbing shoulders- more than the act, it was the liberty with which it was done that was troubling. Which sensible man would do it - that is my question. If it happens once, it's a blooper. If it happens again, how can anyone not take it at face value?I can only conclude that makers want us to believe that Virat is sub-consciously enjoying Pakhi's attention or that he is least bothered about anyone other than himself - both of which shows him in poor light.

@1st line yes

It is definitely not fair. Okay

@definitely

Exactly, he now knows Pakhi’s intentions too. Didn’t he try to stop her from touching him at the hospital or when he was sleeping on the couch and when she him milk? But he can hold her hand whenever he wants? Because he thinks her to be a friend?

We all know Pakhi is wrong, but if Virat holds her hands he is not wrong? Forget Sai and his double standard behavior too, how is Pakhi supposed to take these as? She would only think he is that comfortable with her even now right? Forget even that. He will stop her from touching him but he can? Shouldn’t he be mindful of his actions? It is such a sensitive matter and he can’t act this careless or casual.

Exactly, it is the liberty that is bothering. I am sorry but I can’t disregard it as blooper or anything. He was wrong.

I would never be able to think that Virat enjoys Pakhi’s attention subconsciously too. The least bothered other than himself is more applicable towards what he is doing to Pakhi than Sai even if I think that is true.

This is not something to take lightly. He is not being mindful of his actions is what I would say.

Originally posted by: laksh

@1st line yes

It is definitely not fair. Okay

@definitely

Exactly, he now knows Pakhi’s intentions too. Didn’t he try to stop her from touching him at the hospital or when he was sleeping on the couch and when she him milk? But he can hold her hand whenever he wants? Because he thinks her to be a friend?

We all know Pakhi is wrong, but if Virat holds her hands he is not wrong? Forget Sai and his double standard behavior too, how is Pakhi supposed to take these as? She would only think he is that comfortable with her even now right? Forget even that. He will stop her from touching him but he can? Shouldn’t he be mindful of his actions? It is such a sensitive matter and he can’t act this careless or casual.

Exactly, it is the liberty that is bothering. I am sorry but I can’t disregard it as blooper or anything. He was wrong.

I would never be able to think that Virat enjoys Pakhi’s attention subconsciously too. The least bothered other than himself is more applicable towards what he is doing to Pakhi than Sai even if I think that is true.

This is not something to take lightly. He is not being mindful of his actions is what I would say.

Exactly what I mentioned in another thread, with him going ahead holding her hand and being so close would eventually also make Pakhi believe that its okay to hold hand while talking to him as well. Even when the talk could be uncomfortable for him and Sai both. Coming to Pakhi and her feelings, it was clear she stopped only because he held her hands she kept looking at her hands... She was too taken by the moment to react or go forward with whatever she was saying, implicating. How do the makers justify. This makes Virat look like he is using her feelings for making her agree to something he says. How does this work? Makers need to stop bringing Pakhi Virat just like that. Also their faces were too close for my own liking. With Sai being pinned by Virat or even the tear wiping scene during Harini's track, it all looked like they are friends and here it looked more like husband wife kinda thing. Its irritating and breaks the flow of the equation we have accepted between Virat and Pakhi. Offscreen equations can be kept at bay in such scenes, specially by a veteran actor like NB, who clearly lives Virat and improvises wherever it is required.

I somehow feel after the whole harassment accusation by the fans, they have really tried to make it look like Virat is mostly not much bothered, until and unless he has an altercation with her, or there is her reminder of what they shared, like how it happened their last vaada confrontation scene , when he was in the hall and she came to give milk. And he was find holding her hands, just in the morning while hugging his wife just days after when he went away from her touch at the hospital.

Originally posted by: laksh

@1st line yes

It is definitely not fair. Okay

@definitely

Exactly, he now knows Pakhi’s intentions too. Didn’t he try to stop her from touching him at the hospital or when he was sleeping on the couch and when she him milk? But he can hold her hand whenever he wants? Because he thinks her to be a friend?

We all know Pakhi is wrong, but if Virat holds her hands he is not wrong? Forget Sai and his double standard behavior too, how is Pakhi supposed to take these as? She would only think he is that comfortable with her even now right? Forget even that. He will stop her from touching him but he can? Shouldn’t he be mindful of his actions? It is such a sensitive matter and he can’t act this careless or casual.

Exactly, it is the liberty that is bothering. I am sorry but I can’t disregard it as blooper or anything. He was wrong.

I would never be able to think that Virat enjoys Pakhi’s attention subconsciously too. The least bothered other than himself is more applicable towards what he is doing to Pakhi than Sai even if I think that is true.

This is not something to take lightly. He is not being mindful of his actions is what I would say.

The fact is that Virat's actions make no sense - he might have been careless before, when he did not understand Pakhi's intentions. But now, after knowing everything, it's doesn't seem possible that any human being would act so familiar. I am not able to bend my mind to either saying he is being careless or he is only bothered about himself - because none of them have logic!!! He was insensitive to both women before Pakhi's feelings were revealed to him - and that has logic, even if we don't approve of his actions. But his actions now defy logic even under the category of 'insensitivity' because insensitive or not, any human's basic Instinct will be to hold such a person at arm's length. Unless Virat happens to be an alien 😔.

Frankly, Virat enjoying Pakhi’s attention subconsciously - has more logic. There are people like that. Although I agree that it doesn't apply to Virat.

So I'm dumbfounded and irritated. What are the writers trying to convey with Virat's unacceptable actions?