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Posted: 4 years ago
#91

It was indeed awwww

Today watching sai had me Awestruck 😳

She is as pure as morning dew 💧 as beautiful as blooming flowers and is as innocent as a heart of child ❤️.I wondered how Virat was holding himself from hugging her 😆😳.

Their morning banter was so cute .Virat was trying hard to treat it like any other regular day in front of Baiko. 😆Poor Sai was trying so hard to remind her birthday. The girl so wanted to share the moment privately with her hubby. ❤️Hair drying scene was so cute and the way she was shaking off her wet hair on viru was very romantic. Finally she gave up saying ' I won't go to college' still virat didnt remember😆

Virat almost got caught while talking to Sunny then pretended to be stretching talking to DIG sir. 🤣

Neil is really good with his comic timing 👏

When Sai was crying holding her Aaba's photo I wanted the camera focus to be on Virat's face also. Because Jamal Joshi is as precious to him as it is to Sai.May be his eyes moisten. I am kind of fed up that ph tend to stretch one topic for the entire episode. Even though today it was engaging but still irks.

Precap Sai's dress and that crown 🤢👎🏼.She dressed up like a two years old A beautiful Saari or a bit body hugging gown would have been perfect. Why on earth a husband would want to see his wifey in princess gown 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

I think he needs to know his limits around his ex. I have never doubted his intentions but there is a limit. His behavior keeps screaming double standards at times like this. I can understand his jealousy or insecurity but he should also know how to behave with his ex. No sane person would hold their friend cum ex hand while hugging their wife or stop their friend from leaking a surprise plan by whispering or holding hands like this. I don’t care what the bgm music was or what his intentions were. His actions needs to be put in check especially when he gets jealous just looking at Sai standing next to her dance partner after her performance is over or when she even shares friendship with a guy.


Makers will have to stop all this nonsense. They ruined the episode for me and I didn’t feel like watching the episode after that, though I tried. Virat Pakhi scenes are always added only in Ghum. As Kumuda rightly pointed out, he should have got annoyed with Pakhi but instead is behaving this way. I have no issues as long as he doesn’t get jealous when Sai talks to a guy friend or when Virat starts to think that Sai is not understanding him or misunderstands him with Pakhi. The guy has to look at his own actions before he complains about Sai misunderstanding him. No wonder Sai is not able to remove his and Pakhi’s relationship from her head or brings up Pakhi between them. One can’t imagine what will go in in a wife’s head when they get to witness their husband sharing such a relationship with their ex. Even if it didn’t affect Sai today, it could have too. Makers will never learn sense.


P.s on your other post, our discussion, I have just entered forum after Saturday. Will check that and reply 😊.

Hasn't he always had double standards when it came to him and Sai in this issue? Sai fake-flirting with Amay or sharing friendship with other boys is not liked. But at the same time, him storming into his ex-lover's room during a fight with Sai or applying ice on Pakhi's hand or not setting boundaries with her doesn't seem wrong to him. I'm not sure if it is patriarchy - may be may be not. But it is not fair.

When Virat was complaining about her friendship with Ajinkya, I wish Sai had compared it to his friendship with Pakhi. I know he is doing all this out of his insecurity and believe (&hope) that once their marriage becomes normal he won't be controlling' but still - what is good for the gander is good for the goose.

Atleast then, he was unaware of Pakhi's intentions. But now he is no longer ignorant of it. He still holds Pakhi's hand while hugging his wife and he grabs her hand while almost rubbing shoulders- more than the act, it was the liberty with which it was done that was troubling. Which sensible man would do it - that is my question. If it happens once, it's a blooper. If it happens again, how can anyone not take it at face value?I can only conclude that makers want us to believe that Virat is sub-consciously enjoying Pakhi's attention or that he is least bothered about anyone other than himself - both of which shows him in poor light.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The hand holding is not the problem. Neither are his intentions. If he held the hand of karishma or any other genuine friend in this situation- its totally ok. But pp, the person who he has an uncomfortable history with - that person needs to be kept an arms length away. This is precisely the kind of thing that annoys viewers because it is a blimp in his consistency. After showing us how Virat has made his boundaries clear to pp, how he has admitted to himself that he loves Sai, has self realization that pp and his friendship bothers Sai, has realization of his own jealousy of Sai's male friends, he himself has not allowed pp to touch him even for something trivial and literally swatter her hand away or held up a hand preventing her from touching him- this kind of man would never even impulsively hold pp's hand especially in this situation. So makers need to be mindful of what they show us. What is the value addition of this scene?! Its not a filler, it doesn't tell us anything new about any character or establish anything substantial, but it makes virat look silly because he looks like hes behaving as if he is friends with pp again despite knowing her intentions, despite seeing her babble something to sabotage his surprise for Sai. If the point is to give pp screen space why not do that with a bunch of close ups of her tearing up as usual looking at Virats planning for his baiko. Or maybe even a bedroom monologue of her breaking a vase in frustration that we can all fast forward.

All this scene did was that most of the audience got annoyed watching what is otherwise such a cute episode of Virat being SO excited for his baikos birthday, struggling to hold himself back from ruining his own surprise by wishing her....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

The hand holding is not the problem. Neither are his intentions. If he held the hand of karishma or any other genuine friend in this situation- its totally ok. But pp, the person who he has an uncomfortable history with - that person needs to be kept an arms length away. This is precisely the kind of thing that annoys viewers because it is a blimp in his consistency. After showing us how Virat has made his boundaries clear to pp, how he has admitted to himself that he loves Sai, has self realization that pp and his friendship bothers Sai, has realization of his own jealousy of Sai's male friends, he himself has not allowed pp to touch him even for something trivial and literally swatter her hand away or held up a hand preventing her from touching him- this kind of man would never even impulsively hold pp's hand especially in this situation. So makers need to be mindful of what they show us. What is the value addition of this scene?! Its not a filler, it doesn't tell us anything new about any character or establish anything substantial, but it makes virat look silly because he looks like hes behaving as if he is friends with pp again despite knowing her intentions, despite seeing her babble something to sabotage his surprise for Sai. If the point is to give pp screen space why not do that with a bunch of close ups of her tearing up as usual looking at Virats planning for his baiko. Or maybe even a bedroom monologue of her breaking a vase in frustration that we can all fast forward.

All this scene did was that most of the audience got annoyed watching what is otherwise such a cute episode of Virat being SO excited for his baikos birthday, struggling to hold himself back from ruining his own surprise by wishing her....

I got put off by the episode...feel like puking. Muguet's post suddenly had me guessing - it is a build up to the fake pregnancy track? Both Karishma and Sonali observed it - and they can attest to Virat showing unnecessary familiarity with Pakhi.

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Hasn't he always had double standards when it came to him and Sai in this issue? Sai fake-flirting with Amay or sharing friendship with other boys is not liked. But at the same time, him storming into Pakhi's room during a fight with Sai or applying ice on Pakhi's hand or not setting boundaries with her doesn't seem wrong to him.

When Virat was complaining about her friendship with Ajinkya, I wish Sai had compared it to his friendship with Pakhi. I know he is doing all this out of his insecurity and believe (&hope) that once their marriage becomes normal he won't be controlling' but still - what is good for the gander is good for the goose.

Atleast then, he was unaware of Pakhi's intentions. But now he is no longer ignorant of it. He still holds Pakhi's hand while hugging his wife and he grabs her hand while almost rubbing shoulders- more than the act, it was the liberty with which it was done that was troubling. Which sensible man would do it - that is my question. If it happens once, it's a blooper. If it happens again, how can anyone not take it at face value?I can only conclude that makers want us to believe that Virat is sub-consciously enjoying Pakhi's attention or that he is least bothered about anyone other than himself - both of which shows him in poor light.

And also they showed him breaking hug with wife by seeing his ex which means he still knows what is his ex problem. And the next day he holds her hand & whispers by going very close to her infront of everyone. I mean what is this? how could he do everything as per his convenient. Next time in which right he will tell pakhi to stay away from him if she makes any advances. Would pakhi be this much obsessed with virat had he placed pakhi in her place with consistency. One time he asks her to move on with samrat next time he defends her against everyone who shows her realty & so comfortable in having physical touch with her. Why would a delusional girl like pakhi would move on when she is getting mixed signals from him. When he is still trying to friend with her despite sai being in his life, why would she won't think she still has chances with him if sai goes out of his life. Sadly both girls sai & pakhi don't deserve this.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am not annoyed on Virat Sir for doing what he did in order get a grand surprise for Sai. Of course he could have wished her and then would have carried on with the birthday, but for a benefit of doubt lets just believe that he wanted to pretend he does not know and then go to get her exhilarated in the evening.

My issue is what they are doing to the character Virrraat w.r.t Patralekha, since the time the whole harassment issue came up. This is the same Virat who stopped Patralekha from touching him in the hospital, from getting away from anykind of friendly touch she offered him with. What he did today with Patralekha was a gesture of friendly touch , was a friendly closeness. He could have done to anyone Karishma, Sonali Bua, or for that matter a sali as well if he had any. Audience have seen a lot of shows where the relationship between Bhabhi and devar, Sali and Jija have been loved. The bond loved more than the brother's or sister's bond in the show.

However like some are pointing out, he is holding his SIL's hand, well unfortunately she is not just his SIL. She is an ex who has showed interest in him after marriage, who has rebuked him for loving his wife, who insults his wife on a daily basis, who holds no regard for her husband and his brother, his Jeeva. The relationship is not just of BIL-SIL or friends. Why would a man who was jumping away from a particular person's touch has to hold her hand and go that close to a person to whisper. He any way was standing more close to her than he was to his wife. It was too close for my liking considering she is the same woman who he felt uncomfortable with. They are not friends anymore. Why do they and Virat keep forgetting what Patralekha is. Why give her a leverage to come and hold his hand get offended later on.???At least make him a bit more perceptive in that regard after what all has happened.

Also I believe CVs need to keep this basic issue in mind that, in family scenes he is always standing closer to Patralekha than Sai , even when the two ladies are on his either sides.

ANd what was that romantic music that they usually play for the lead couple, being played for Virakhi? CVs need to get over with their obsessions with these two. It spoils the mood of the episode and one is unable to continue. This cannot be compared to Sai being held by Ajinkya for a mere performance.

The two cannot be compared because

a)they were acting

b) they do not have a past.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Problem is with the reaction of delusional didi. Today she is too transparent . Virat is not even looking at her to know that he somewhat rekindled her hopes. This guy need to be cautious and mindful of Pakhi’s intentions. In his excitement to keep the secret,he just went ahead and did the damage..( I call it so though I give him benefit of doubt).

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I am not annoyed on Virat Sir for doing what he did in order get a grand surprise for Sai. Of course he could have wished her and then would have carried on with the birthday, but for a benefit of doubt lets just believe that he wanted to pretend he does not know and then go to get her exhilarated in the evening.

My issue is what they are doing to the character Virrraat w.r.t Patralekha, since the time the whole harassment issue came up. This is the same Virat who stopped Patralekha from touching him in the hospital, from getting away from anykind of friendly touch she offered him with. What he did today with Patralekha was a gesture of friendly touch , was a friendly closeness. He could have done to anyone Karishma, Sonali Bua, or for that matter a sali as well if he had any. Audience have seen a lot of shows where the relationship between Bhabhi and devar, Sali and Jija have been loved. The bond loved more than the brother's or sister's bond in the show.

However like people are pointing out, he is holding his SIL's hand, well unfortunately she is not just his SIL. She is an ex who has showed interest in him after marriage, who has rebuked him for loving his wife, who insults his wife on a daily basis, who hold no regard for her husband and his brother, his Jeeva. The relationship is not just of BIL-SIL or friends. Why would a man who was jumping away from a particular person's touch has to hold her hand and go that close to a person to whisper. He any was standing more close to her than he was to his onscreen wife. It was too close for my liking considering she is the same woman who he felt uncomfortable with. They are not friends anymore. Why do they and Virat keep forgetting what Patralekha is. Why give her a leverage to come and hold his hand get offended later on.???At least make him a bit more perceptive in that regard after what all has happened.

ANd what was that romantic music that they usually play for the lead couple, being played for Virakhi? CVs need to get over with their obsessions with these two. It spoils the mood of the episode and one is unable to continue. This cannot be compared to Sai being held by Ajinkya for a mere performance.

The two cannot be compare because

a)they were acting

b) they do not have a past.

Sai ajinkya bond is being compared with virat pakhi😳. First virakhi were compared with sai mohit now this. Seriously 🙄. It is insult to such pure bonds if they compare them with virat pakhi's relationship where they r exes cum bf's cum devar bhabi but pretends like they share sacred bond infront of everyone despite being called out by many people publicly. They feel shameful to admit their past but still one wants romantic relationship & another one want friendship relationship from each other. Don't care to set boundaries atleast infront of people.
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Theres no comparison of virat-pp with Sai ajinkya. Sai can hug ajinkya, dance with him n its totally cool but virat even holding pp's hand just to shut her up IS a problem. Why? Because pp is delusional. She is not just a friend or bhabhi. She is his past who harbors hopes of separating him from his wife and has made her illicit intentions amply clear. So being anywhere near her, standing close to her, touching her IS a problem.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Nja91

Theres no comparison of virat-pp with Sai ajinkya. Sai can hug ajinkya, dance with him n its totally cool but virat even holding pp's hand just to shut her up IS a problem. Why? Because pp is delusional. She is not just a friend or bhabhi. She is his past who harbors hopes of separating him from his wife and has made her illicit intentions amply clear. So being anywhere near her, standing close to her, touching her IS a problem.

Also when he goes on to hold her hand while talking or explaining things, she can assume it to be normal and it gives her a leverage to hold his hands in while talking something he is not comfortable about. That would make it even more awkward for him. The whole scene also made me notice how during the whole part of it he was standing close to Patralekha, closer than he was to his wife.

Cvs really need to keep a check on such things, because almost in all family confrontation until and unless specifically necessary he stands pretty close to Patralekha, even when the two ladies are on his either side, like today. That relationship is certainly not normal to witness.

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