Aao Jane Pallavi ka Nazariya. - Page 5

Originally posted by: drnidsur

So true 👏

I am so glad you made this post

He is her life partner , if she wouldn't be sharing her past with him then who will?

She will expect him to help her bcus she has done that for him , she has been his shield , she has trusted him , reunited him with his family , made him her priority .

She has been an amazing wife , partner , confidant to him

Its his time now to be her shield when it comes to a matter very close to her .

Mandaar however he was doesn't matter , it only matters that he was pallavis husband .

Her dreams broke when he went off , like an orphan craving to have someone all her life gets married and her life partner dies tragically with no clue

Definitely she will want to know what happened , not for anyone else but for herself .

She needs closure on why she suffered and is scarred for life with destiny .

Always❤️🤗

Originally posted by: parboni

Thanks for the tag Sim 🤗and thank you for the post, Mahi.

Those who are saying Pallavi should forget things about M and just move on are completely ignoring the social and psychological trials Pallavi had to go through for becoming a widow so young and so early. Maybe because Pallavi ka trauma show mein dikhaya nahi the way RR's was shown. Because Pallavi's trauma made her stronger and bolder, isi liye uss ka trauma trauma nahi hai (sarcasm intended). And this IS Pallavi's track more than Raghav's. Mandaar ke sath uska emotional connection kya tha usse bhi badi baat ye hai k Mandaar k iss tarah supposedly marr jaane k wajah se usne apne life mein kya kya face kiya. Why did she have to face all this? Why was her husband gone? She NEEDS answers. She DESERVES answers. Since the very beginning she was searching for what happened to Mandar.

For the rest, I'm copy-pasting my own post from Pallavi AT:

Probably a separate post has already been made on this similar topic but before I read it, I want to rant on this AT.

Since the Mandaar track started,everyone was talking abt Raghav's guilt,he being threatened and he doing everything possible to save his relationship with Pallavi and keeping her away from the truth.

But let's talk about the original victim in this entire situation: Pallavi.

Pallavi Sawant, who didn't know that her fiance-soon-to-be-husband was involved in sth really nasty.

Pallavi Deshmukh,who didn't get even a single night of marital bliss but spent everyday going back and forth the police station to figure out what happened to her late husband.

Pallavi Rao,who admires and trusts her husband wholeheartedly but her husband is manipulating her from discovering a truth of her life. A husband who probably has sth to do with her becoming a widow so soon.

And codeword: Breach of trust.

It isn't just Raghav. Probably the elders of the D family are hiding something from her as well. Imagine Pallavi discovering all the truth one by one,imagine how immense her plight would be when she discovers that everyone she loved andtrusted had hid something that was so crucial for her to know.

Kispe bharosa karegi phir vo,aur kaise?

I can only imagine how emotionally drained she would be by the end of this track. But I want to see her explode. I want to see her give it back to everyone.

Pallavi is someone who has given Raghav everything he has wished for in his life--he got his Amma and sister back, someone to priortise him, someone to trust him---and Raghav does not want that light to go knowing that if he lets Pallavi go---all his happiness would go down the drain. He is even thinking of a future of them being together--what more proof is needed that Raghav yearns for Pallavi

there is this movie dialogue--idk which one where the actor says chakki pising pising(quite similar to that)---and Pallavi is exactly in that situation--she will be grinded in between the Raos and Deshmukhs--people she loves and gave her a identity of her own and people who she owes and gave her a family. Lot of emotional turmoil awaiting for Pallavi and the fact the even after repeatedly telling Raghav to trust her and tell the truth--he hides it

Everyone around her is hiding something for their own selfish reason---she would be standing alone--mentally and emotionally drained and codeword correctly used--everyone has breached her trust.

definitely would love to see her voice out her anger and frustuation in front people

Coming to Raghav and her equation we have seen her telling R lot of times that he can talk to her about anything anytime so she treats him the same way. Even she says things to him which she feels,she considers him as her own that's why she shares things with him.

Yes you are right that Pallavi's backstory has been given less preference here but maybe it's her time her side will be revealed now & it deserves to be known.

Also,I feel the desperation and these "What Ifs" talks by Pallavi are shown purposely as built up or say to potray how deep her feelings were related to Mandar. The more deep her believes will the deeper it will impact her when she will know M was not what she thought of❤️. They're making the base to build a building of her perspective for Mandar & then they will break it💔.

I am so ready for this track😎

Originally posted by: I-Got-You

Pallavi must’ve suffered a lot coming to new city and becoming widow on her marriage day itself 😭.

She did mention how people tried to take undue advantage of her situation , I’m really angry at makers that they muted that conversation afterwards with a song 🤪

Her life would have been different ofcourse

Mandaar hota toh usko woh sab nahi sehna padta

That’s what she meant when she got wistful and said meri life alag hoti .

Now I really want makers to show her struggle as young widow.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Ummm.......I dont know if my post is also being referred to here as the post dt didnt understand Pallavi.

So I will put my reasoning here .

Firstly I am not saying that Pallavi should completely detach herself from Deshmukh's or Mandar. So I never have any objections to her still being so connected and devoted to dt house or her wanting to take part in any rituals related to Mandar.

But its been 3 yrs now. And however it might hv started she has a new beginning now. Not everyone gets dt. What bothers me is that the anxiousness she has over his death dt happened years ago. Normally people go crazy for a year or two but eventually you move on. And Pallavi seemed to hv moved on since we met her. Then toh she wasnt even married to Raghav. So why now. I do believe she has every ryt to know the truth. But the sudden overbearing concern over her ex husband feels a lil over to me. Also didnt like the fact dt she pondered what her life would hv been if he was alive. Its just an imagination what life she could hv had . Ofcourse it would hv been different . But instead of looking back at what could hv been , she should look to what she has now. Dt is all. Sharda I will alwys understand her emptiness. She is a mother after all.

About Mandar and Pallavi's relationship before marriage. Even I said today in my post dt they probably got to know a bit abt each other while they went from being prospects to getting married. You do get a few months in between . So probably dt was der.

And I for one want her to choose Raghav over Mandar widout him being proven negative or grey. Bcz inspite of everything I believe this is the first time Pallavi has felt love.

But one point pe i contradict u...

That is they dont love each other till now..

Nor pallu

Nor ragahv...

They have attraction friendship companionship understanding trust but NO LOVE...

Ragahv is fearing that she is the key to his happiness.his family life..so he wont let her go..

Pallu is.like..she explored differnet aspect of life with him...and thts y she is thankful and attracted to him...

But NO LOVE till now...

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

You have made valid points.

But my point is even if they didn't have courtship period, bro he was her HUSBAND. A legit full fledged marriage which she accepted with full heart. Dude she agreed to marry Raghav for that guy's brother... She honored that COMMITMENT so wholeheartedly.. It wasn't love, but it was a serious commitment.. Marriage isn't joke, be it ex or present.. And if she would have decided to just shrug it off, I would have called her shallow... Or if Raghav would have decided not to dwell upon his link to M accident, I would have called him shallow too...

Btw the plotline wasn't after-marriage-life of Raghav -Pallavi, but a widow living with her in laws marrying a don with a past, that plotline is coming to the forefront..

People are having recency bias and have certain expectations how Raghav and Pallavi should behave wrt each other, that's it. Mandar is dead for the characters, but alive for the online audience who have discussed every possibility, bts and news and hence more irritation....For someone who keeps away from all this, this is a major surprising element..

The last episode was the most serious episode in recent times and I liked it. More than Raghvi, these scenes make more sense to me nowadays...😆Aesthetics, screenplay have improved a lot after Kolhapur, and I can see they are planning for a long run of the show... So far drama elements incorporation has been done smartly, but sadly not Raghvi scenes... Hence I think more disappointment for the online audience, aur uss chakkar mein milenge random lollipop scenes, baki story aise hi chalti rahegi.... 🤣

+infinte. Due to covid situations , location changes story became a ping pong ball. If the stay was longer in hyderabad then Raghav's nightmare enemy Om Swamy would've come as there were talks about him but as they shifted to Kohlapur they changed the stuffs plus mirch masala wala high voltage drama chahiye to garner TRP. Because TRP aunties aesthetics nhi dekhte masala dekhti hai which we are well aware of. So, I am damn sure after M's entrace alive or dead through FBs we gonna get cliche romance of (#PaNdar) too🤣. We've to bear the love triangle🤣

Originally posted by: Hritu

You know what I'm gonna blame CVS for this a little from starting we have seen all vulnerable scenes of RR his dispersion and desire to reunite with his family ,his guilt even his redemption track was we'll shoot but for pallavi what first she was dfamily puppet and nothing else ,what about her past story her childhood without parents ,what happened with her after m death and all when are we gonna get her inner feelings I desperately want her to just open her heart out in front of us plus we have seen she is strong and what not she did for others but pls lets us see who and what pallavi is ,her desire her heartbreak just want so know her ....( Sorry I'm new here so don't know how to reply to specify portion sorry )

Btw welcome to forum Hritu❤️

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

u penned it so well 🤗

i myself went hyper

1. raghu should vent out the truth -that didnt happen ,,

2.palli wearing white saree -which i hate it

1+1 added to anger and i exploded i think i went over the top

i expected a different approach that raghu will be coming forward to tell the truth

i never expected pallu will start cid giri

sharing her feelings are not wrong but saying that her life would be different really irritated me and others too

even raghu the other day said his sister his family that time we got upset ...

just that we hate D family we are scared what if she goes there

that insecurity is there around

no offense end of the day we all want raghvi happy .

pallu character really impressed me but some how we get irritated when she takes D family name and mandaar in particular ..

dont mind our criticism 🤗

I felt in todays episode that she was much exited to find the truth now because she thought now raghav will be also there with her to get in depth of the truth soecialy when she got the ring

she felt now she wont be alone ....raghav will help cross all the hurdles 😞

Originally posted by: Doc

i agreed with each and every wword ...

But one point pe i contradict u...

That is they dont love each other till now..

Nor pallu

Nor ragahv...

They have attraction friendship companionship understanding trust but NO LOVE...

Ragahv is fearing that she is the key to his happiness.his family life..so he wont let her go..

Pallu is.like..she explored differnet aspect of life with him...and thts y she is thankful and attracted to him...

But NO LOVE till now...

I totally wid you on dt.

I hv said it many times before too. They dont hv dt love wala love between them. But they are moving towards it. Atleast after dt mirror wala scene where Pallavi actually blushed bcz of their slight closeness...... I felt if not der.....she is getting der. She is starting to feel a bit more thn companionship .

@ bold : Totally. She is experiencing a new feeling. It might not exactly be love but it will be.

As for Raghav. I completely . He isnt in love. He just fears losing her .

Originally posted by: rmahi25

Haann at timess sabka dimag garam ho hi jaata hai shailu❤️🤗

🤗few days are bad

Ya we expect something we get something else

I expected Raghu reveals the truth and pallu will join to connect the dots eventually finding real culprits

I never expected Raghu hiding pallu cid

Both separate route and eventually be a loggerheads and mu

I don’t want her to go back to d gang

Raghu se dhoor ok

She can stay elsewhere not d house no way