Aao Jane Pallavi ka Nazariya. - Page 2

So true 👏

I am so glad you made this post

He is her life partner , if she wouldn't be sharing her past with him then who will?

She will expect him to help her bcus she has done that for him , she has been his shield , she has trusted him , reunited him with his family , made him her priority .

She has been an amazing wife , partner , confidant to him

Its his time now to be her shield when it comes to a matter very close to her .

Mandaar however he was doesn't matter , it only matters that he was pallavis husband .

Her dreams broke when he went off , like an orphan craving to have someone all her life gets married and her life partner dies tragically with no clue

Definitely she will want to know what happened , not for anyone else but for herself .

She needs closure on why she suffered and is scarred for life with destiny .

Thanks for the tag Sim 🤗and thank you for the post, Mahi.

Those who are saying Pallavi should forget things about M and just move on are completely ignoring the social and psychological trials Pallavi had to go through for becoming a widow so young and so early. Maybe because Pallavi ka trauma show mein dikhaya nahi the way RR's was shown. Because Pallavi's trauma made her stronger and bolder, isi liye uss ka trauma trauma nahi hai (sarcasm intended). And this IS Pallavi's track more than Raghav's. Mandaar ke sath uska emotional connection kya tha usse bhi badi baat ye hai k Mandaar k iss tarah supposedly marr jaane k wajah se usne apne life mein kya kya face kiya. Why did she have to face all this? Why was her husband gone? She NEEDS answers. She DESERVES answers. Since the very beginning she was searching for what happened to Mandar.

For the rest, I'm copy-pasting my own post from Pallavi AT:

Probably a separate post has already been made on this similar topic but before I read it, I want to rant on this AT.

Since the Mandaar track started,everyone was talking abt Raghav's guilt,he being threatened and he doing everything possible to save his relationship with Pallavi and keeping her away from the truth.

But let's talk about the original victim in this entire situation: Pallavi.

Pallavi Sawant, who didn't know that her fiance-soon-to-be-husband was involved in sth really nasty.

Pallavi Deshmukh,who didn't get even a single night of marital bliss but spent everyday going back and forth the police station to figure out what happened to her late husband.

Pallavi Rao,who admires and trusts her husband wholeheartedly but her husband is manipulating her from discovering a truth of her life. A husband who probably has sth to do with her becoming a widow so soon.

And codeword: Breach of trust.

It isn't just Raghav. Probably the elders of the D family are hiding something from her as well. Imagine Pallavi discovering all the truth one by one,imagine how immense her plight would be when she discovers that everyone she loved andtrusted had hid something that was so crucial for her to know.

Kispe bharosa karegi phir vo,aur kaise?

I can only imagine how emotionally drained she would be by the end of this track. But I want to see her explode. I want to see her give it back to everyone.

Pallavi is someone who has given Raghav everything he has wished for in his life--he got his Amma and sister back, someone to priortise him, someone to trust him---and Raghav does not want that light to go knowing that if he lets Pallavi go---all his happiness would go down the drain. He is even thinking of a future of them being together--what more proof is needed that Raghav yearns for Pallavi

there is this movie dialogue--idk which one where the actor says chakki pising pising(quite similar to that)---and Pallavi is exactly in that situation--she will be grinded in between the Raos and Deshmukhs--people she loves and gave her a identity of her own and people who she owes and gave her a family. Lot of emotional turmoil awaiting for Pallavi and the fact the even after repeatedly telling Raghav to trust her and tell the truth--he hides it

Everyone around her is hiding something for their own selfish reason---she would be standing alone--mentally and emotionally drained and codeword correctly used--everyone has breached her trust.

definitely would love to see her voice out her anger and frustuation in front people

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

I seriously hv btr idea. He should leave R... remarry that guy forgot the name...nd live happily ever after... best decision ever... No joke... serious idea... Good for her...

Pallavi must’ve suffered a lot coming to new city and becoming widow on her marriage day itself 😭.

She did mention how people tried to take undue advantage of her situation , I’m really angry at makers that they muted that conversation afterwards with a song 🤪

Her life would have been different ofcourse

Mandaar hota toh usko woh sab nahi sehna padta

That’s what she meant when she got wistful and said meri life alag hoti .

Now I really want makers to show her struggle as young widow.

You have made valid points.

But my point is even if they didn't have courtship period, bro he was her HUSBAND. A legit full fledged marriage which she accepted with full heart. Dude she agreed to marry Raghav for that guy's brother... She honored that COMMITMENT so wholeheartedly.. It wasn't love, but it was a serious commitment.. Marriage isn't joke, be it ex or present.. And if she would have decided to just shrug it off, I would have called her shallow... Or if Raghav would have decided not to dwell upon his link to M accident, I would have called him shallow too...

Btw the plotline wasn't after-marriage-life of Raghav -Pallavi, but a widow living with her in laws marrying a don with a past, that plotline is coming to the forefront..

People are having recency bias and have certain expectations how Raghav and Pallavi should behave wrt each other, that's it. Mandar is dead for the characters, but alive for the online audience who have discussed every possibility, bts and news and hence more irritation....For someone who keeps away from all this, this is a major surprising element..

The last episode was the most serious episode in recent times and I liked it. More than Raghvi, these scenes make more sense to me nowadays...😆Aesthetics, screenplay have improved a lot after Kolhapur, and I can see they are planning for a long run of the show... So far drama elements incorporation has been done smartly, but sadly not Raghvi scenes... Hence I think more disappointment for the online audience, aur uss chakkar mein milenge random lollipop scenes, baki story aise hi chalti rahegi.... 🤣

Originally posted by: parboni

Thanks for the tag Sim 🤗and thank you for the post, Mahi.

Those who are saying Pallavi should forget things about M and just move on are completely ignoring the social and psychological trials Pallavi had to go through for becoming a widow so young and so early. Maybe because Pallavi ka trauma show mein dikhaya nahi the way RR's was shown. Because Pallavi's trauma made her stronger and bolder, isi liye uss ka trauma trauma nahi hai (sarcasm intended). And this IS Pallavi's track more than Raghav's. Mandaar ke sath uska emotional connection kya tha usse bhi badi baat ye hai k Mandaar k iss tarah supposedly marr jaane k wajah se usne apne life mein kya kya face kiya. Why did she have to face all this? Why was her husband gone? She NEEDS answers. She DESERVES answers. Since the very beginning she was searching for what happened to Mandar.

For the rest, I'm copy-pasting my own post from Pallavi AT:

Probably a separate post has already been made on this similar topic but before I read it, I want to rant on this AT.

Since the Mandaar track started,everyone was talking abt Raghav's guilt,he being threatened and he doing everything possible to save his relationship with Pallavi and keeping her away from the truth.

But let's talk about the original victim in this entire situation: Pallavi.

Pallavi Sawant, who didn't know that her fiance-soon-to-be-husband was involved in sth really nasty.

Pallavi Deshmukh,who didn't get even a single night of marital bliss but spent everyday going back and forth the police station to figure out what happened to her late husband.

Pallavi Rao,who admires and trusts her husband wholeheartedly but her husband is manipulating her from discovering a truth of her life. A husband who probably has sth to do with her becoming a widow so soon.

And codeword: Breach of trust.

It isn't just Raghav. Probably the elders of the D family are hiding something from her as well. Imagine Pallavi discovering all the truth one by one,imagine how immense her plight would be when she discovers that everyone she loved andtrusted had hid something that was so crucial for her to know.

Kispe bharosa karegi phir vo,aur kaise?

I can only imagine how emotionally drained she would be by the end of this track. But I want to see her explode. I want to see her give it back to everyone.

Pallavi is someone who has given Raghav everything he has wished for in his life--he got his Amma and sister back, someone to priortise him, someone to trust him---and Raghav does not want that light to go knowing that if he lets Pallavi go---all his happiness would go down the drain. He is even thinking of a future of them being together--what more proof is needed that Raghav yearns for Pallavi

there is this movie dialogue--idk which one where the actor says chakki pising pising(quite similar to that)---and Pallavi is exactly in that situation--she will be grinded in between the Raos and Deshmukhs--people she loves and gave her a identity of her own and people who she owes and gave her a family. Lot of emotional turmoil awaiting for Pallavi and the fact the even after repeatedly telling Raghav to trust her and tell the truth--he hides it

Everyone around her is hiding something for their own selfish reason---she would be standing alone--mentally and emotionally drained and codeword correctly used--everyone has breached her trust.

definitely would love to see her voice out her anger and frustuation in front people

You know what I'm gonna blame CVS for this a little from starting we have seen all vulnerable scenes of RR his dispersion and desire to reunite with his family ,his guilt even his redemption track was we'll shoot but for pallavi what first she was dfamily puppet and nothing else ,what about her past story her childhood without parents ,what happened with her after m death and all when are we gonna get her inner feelings I desperately want her to just open her heart out in front of us plus we have seen she is strong and what not she did for others but pls lets us see who and what pallavi is ,her desire her heartbreak just want so know her ....( Sorry I'm new here so don't know how to reply to specify portion sorry )

Originally posted by: Hritu

You know what I'm gonna blame CVS for this a little from starting we have seen all vulnerable scenes of RR his dispersion and desire to reunite with his family ,his guilt even his redemption track was we'll shoot but for pallavi what first she was dfamily puppet and nothing else ,what about her past story her childhood without parents ,what happened with her after m death and all when are we gonna get her inner feelings I desperately want her to just open her heart out in front of us plus we have seen she is strong and what not she did for others but pls lets us see who and what pallavi is ,her desire her heartbreak just want so know her ....( Sorry I'm new here so don't know how to reply to specify portion sorry )

Welcome to the forum. 🤗This is what I expect from this track. Pallavi's insecured vulnerable side to come out. She expresses what she had to go through and how to she had to suppress her own emotions for the Deshmukhs. Looking forward to how CVs show this angle and Shivangi's acting. I have a feeling isi track ke liye CVs ne Pallavi k emotions ko pehle uncover nahi kiya. Raghav narrated his past and his trauma, Pallavi will most probably re-live it with her cries and angry outbursts.

Originally posted by: parboni

Welcome to the forum. 🤗This is what I expect from this track. Pallavi's insecured vulnerable side to come out. She expresses what she had to go through and how to she had to suppress her own emotions for the Deshmukhs. Looking forward to how CVs show this angle and Shivangi's acting. I have a feeling isi track ke liye CVs ne Pallavi k emotions ko pehle uncover nahi kiya. Raghav narrated his past and his trauma, Pallavi will most probably re-live it with her cries and angry outbursts.

Thank you, yeah hope so CVS show pallavi emotions well this time...

u penned it so well 🤗

i myself went hyper

1. raghu should vent out the truth -that didnt happen ,,

2.palli wearing white saree -which i hate it

1+1 added to anger and i exploded i think i went over the top

i expected a different approach that raghu will be coming forward to tell the truth

i never expected pallu will start cid giri

sharing her feelings are not wrong but saying that her life would be different really irritated me and others too

even raghu the other day said his sister his family that time we got upset ...

just that we hate D family we are scared what if she goes there

that insecurity is there around

no offense end of the day we all want raghvi happy .

pallu character really impressed me but some how we get irritated when she takes D family name and mandaar in particular ..

dont mind our criticism 🤗

I think we are forgetting the most important section of Pallavi's different life dialogue by no means she was making less of Raghav's love for her or her married life with Raghav or her equation with her in laws that is Rao family. Pallavi is old and mature enough to understand that what would be the difference of her life if Mandar was still alive as she would have never met Raghav and fell in love with him and she would have to live as an ideal adarsh sanskari bahu of the Deshmukh family where she will not be treated or pampered like a daughter but treated more like a bahu kept at a hand's distance , she would have no freedom to pursue her own goals as sanki buddha would have never let Pallavi to continue her education or her dreams of becoming a designer and she would be bowed down with responsibilities in her shoulder and Mandar was probably not so much passionate like Raghav as he feared his father. On the other hand her married life with the Rao's is a married bliss . Jaya her mother in law treats her like a little girl and pamper her like she has done too Keerthi and consider her as her own daughter. Her husband literally treats her like a queen and even ask her about her own dreams and is encouraging her to follow and fulfill her dreams. She is in love with Raghav and their married life is filled with playful banters like a normal married couple there is no extra burden of responsibilities. That is what she meant by different life.