Why didn't Sai apologise to Virat - Page 3

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

Bajane mein maza hai🤣

Maza toh hai when done to both and not to just one. 🤣 Unless it's didi we are talking about. 🤣

True! But my opinion here
She was hurt and Virat became the victim. But then she also takes him for granted and would never give him credit for taking all her outbursts and reactions in his stride. I dont say that she hasn’t apologised ever or Virat is right. Infacf IMO Virat is the bigger evil of the two 😈, but he is also the one to apologise mostly.

The pendant episode was actually about conflict of opinion. There is no right or wrong here. We can have our own perspective but we should respect and acknowledge the others outlook as well. Here both have failed. But what I feel as a bigger error is, what Sai did. She was quick on drawing similarity between what Pakhi & Virat’s statement. It was a reflex action triggered from her subconscious jealousy. When she claimed earlier that she knew Virat better than Pakhi, and here she was proven wrong. Why didn’t she draw a parallel with Ashwini’s statement then? She conveniently forgot about that. And if she was pre occupied with what was happening, if he really mattered, she would have been sensitive to his feeling and thought about later atleast. Its not about accepting that she is wrong or apologising it, its about Virat feeling hurt due to her action. We may not always agree with someone’s point of view, but apologising for hurting someone’s sentiments is a different thing. That doesn’t mean that we are wrong.

And above all, she keeps dropping the statement that his family doesn’t accept her as their own, but when has she accepted him as family? Not as lover or husband, but as her family. Yet she takes him for granted all the time. Thats duality. What you have is never worthy enough!🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: sherry_24

True! But my opinion here
She was hurt and Virat became the victim. But then she also takes him for granted and would never give him credit for taking all her outbursts and reactions in his stride. I dont say that she hasn’t apologised ever or Virat is right. Infacf IMO Virat is the bigger evil of the two 😈, but he is also the one to apologise mostly.

The pendant episode was actually about conflict of opinion. There is no right or wrong here. We can have our own perspective but we should respect and acknowledge the others outlook as well. Here both have failed. But what I feel as a bigger error is, what Sai did. She was quick on drawing similarity between what Pakhi & Virat’s statement. It was a reflex action triggered from her subconscious jealousy. When she claimed earlier that she knew Virat better than Pakhi, and here she was proven wrong. Why didn’t she draw a parallel with Ashwini’s statement then? She conveniently forgot about that. And if she was pre occupied with what was happening, if he really mattered, she would have been sensitive to his feeling and thought about later atleast. Its not about accepting that she is wrong or apologising it, its about Virat feeling hurt due to her action. We may not always agree with someone’s point of view, but apologising for hurting someone’s sentiments is a different thing. That doesn’t mean that we are wrong.

And above all, she keeps dropping the statement that his family doesn’t accept her as their own, but when has she accepted him as family? Not as lover or husband, but as her family. Yet she takes him for granted all the time. Thats duality. What you have is never worthy enough!🤷‍♀️

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Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

Bold: Yup. It doesn't justify her behaviour. I am still feeling bad for Virat.

At times, I feel like even Virat doesn't remember she is a 19 year old. I don't know. It feels like the way she has been behaving with her walls up, nobody remembers that she is just a 19 year old. People take us the way, we behave around them. I cannot share my feelings when I am hurt especially in those moments when I am hurt. I fall silent. People don't take it as hurt. They take it as silence and cold behaviour on my side. This is how it is. People often look at the surface and make conclusions. They don't scratch the surface to see beyond it. Virat cannot see beyond the surface mostly. The way she has been behaving for long, it is easy to forget that she is just a 19 year old.

I hope she does com around. but I feel like it was not the only incident, in which she disregarded his feelings. There are going to be more I hope I am wrong.

Did i just meet my doppleganger?!!

Ditto!! Bold.

Except I go silent when hurt and totally disappear when I am angry. I never speak when hurt or angry, instead wait till i am in a balanced frame of mind to communicated clearly and rationally, but people don't get it...

I hope she does com around. but I feel like it was not the only incident, in which she disregarded his feelings. There are going to be more I hope I am wrong.

It will happen again, and that is why Virat balances her out so well. Imagine if he was a typical ITV ML?!! It would have been fireworks, but truly horrible!!

He is mellow where she is fire, and understanding and accommodating to a fault, which is the only way he can balance out Sai.

But her love is absolute when given, we saw how she was with her Aaba... imagine once she recognizes her love for her Virat Sir, how she will be with him?!! He will be on cloud nine as well as beaten up every single day, and he would LOVE every second of it!

And also, if their life is smooth, serial storyline hi nahi hoti naa...

Originally posted by: AparnaRenu

Did i just meet my doppleganger?!!

Ditto!! Bold.

Except I go silent when hurt and totally disappear when I am angry. I never speak when hurt or angry, instead wait till i am in a balanced frame of mind to communicated clearly and rationally, but people don't get it...

I hope she does com around. but I feel like it was not the only incident, in which she disregarded his feelings. There are going to be more I hope I am wrong.

It will happen again, and that is why Virat balances her out so well. Imagine if he was a typical ITV ML?!! It would have been fireworks, but truly horrible!!

He is mellow where she is fire, and understanding and accommodating to a fault, which is the only way he can balance out Sai.

But her love is absolute when given, we saw how she was with her Aaba... imagine once she recognizes her love for her Virat Sir, how she will be with him?!! He will be on cloud nine as well as beaten up every single day, and he would LOVE every second of it!

And also, if their life is smooth, serial storyline hi nahi hoti naa...

Anyways

Bold: That makes perfect sense. They are both kind of extremes in their traits. But balance out each other perfectly.

Italics: I don't expect her to love him just like she loved her Aaba. No matter how much I love Sairat, Virat cannot love her like her Aaba did. His love was absolute. I still miss the bond they shared.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

You are not my doppleganger. I can assure you. If I get so hurt, I will never tell that person I am hurt because of him/her. because people listen only to justify themselves and disregard your feelings of hurt😆

Anyways

Bold: That makes perfect sense. They are both kind of extremes in their traits. But balance out each other perfectly.

Italics: I don't expect her to love him just like she loved her Aaba. No matter how much I love Sairat, Virat cannot love her like her Aaba did. His love was absolute. I still miss the bond they shared.

It will never be exactly the same... partners are on a different plane, parents are selfless...

But the intensity will be something to see... been there, done that... 😳

They can never be measured against each other, but are equally absolute.

I miss the Aaba-Sai bond too, but I'm truly glad they have shown Virat as someone who accepts KJ as the absolute in Sai's life happily and even seconds it!

Originally posted by: AparnaRenu

It will never be exactly the same... partners are on a different plane, parents are selfless...

But the intensity will be something to see... been there, done that... 😳

They can never be measured against each other, but are equally absolute.

I miss the Aaba-Sai bond too, but I'm truly glad they have shown Virat as someone who accepts KJ as the absolute in Sai's life happily and even seconds it!

Paaarrrttaaaayyyyy!!!!

Lemme go see what I am 😆

Been a member since 2011 or 2012, but dormant between 2014 and 2020!

Edit:

I am a senior member - truly disgraceful.... but I seem to have a lot of badges, not sure what that means!

Originally posted by: AparnaRenu

Paaarrrttaaaayyyyy!!!!

Lemme go see what I am 😆

Been a member since 2011 or 2012, but dormant between 2014 and 2020!

Edit:

I am a senior member - truly disgraceful.... but I seem to have a lot of badges, not sure what that means!

But still, Partttyyyyy🥳🥳