Episode Spoiler - 24 June 2021 - Page 12

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

You maybe right ..his insecurities, guilt, shame etc are all valid reasons for him to try and keep a distance from her atleast till the time he is able to overcome these issues for himself.. but till the time that happens and I don't know how long that's gonna take or exactly how that's gonna happen, the least he can do is not act like ''ghar ki murgi daal barabar'' with her.. because it doesn't come across as something he is consciously doing yet it hurts to see him be this way with her after all that she did for him..

He's not doing it consciously, you're right. It's also knew ground for him because he's not good at relationships or has been away from them for so long that he's walking on eggshells when it comes to her. Also, there's only so much prodding Amma can do to get him to pay attention to things like buying her gifts, festivities, etc. He will have to pay attention to her needs.

I don't know if it was Sai's choice to perform it this way, but when Raghav walked up really close to Pallavi to ask if she felt something for him, he seemed almost afraid of the answer yet cautiously hopeful at the same time. It wasn't the yes he was looking for so much as the absence of a no. Does that make sense?

Originally posted by: inlieu

He's not doing it consciously, you're right. It's also knew ground for him because he's not good at relationships or has been away from them for so long that he's walking on eggshells when it comes to her. Also, there's only so much prodding Amma can do to get him to pay attention to things like buying her gifts, festivities, etc. He will have to pay attention to her needs.

I don't know if it was Sai's choice to perform it this way, but when Raghav walked up really close to Pallavi to ask if she felt something for him, he seemed almost afraid of the answer yet cautiously hopeful at the same time. It wasn't the yes he was looking for so much as the absence of a no. Does that make sense?

Hey same i wrote in ny thread..its insecurities and guilt are pulling him back and its much needed..as kaand bhi to bada kya hai anna ne..

I think.in this case pallu should be a little bit more vocal .to get him back frm guilt trip..the way she said today.achey kaam bhi kye hain tumne..🥰😘

And the way she pulled his shirt and he was trying to move away has a deep meaning .

Aur phir shirt utaar ker hi deni pari..althought he was reluctant and shocked"gopi bahu mode on"while taking off his shirt 😁😁

Pallu the sherni will make him relaize..k gadhe tum itne bhi bure nhi ho jaan ho hamari..

Becahra bachpan se..criticism sun rha hai...😘

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

I totally agree re raghav and pallavi’s relationship.. @bold:👍👍

Raghav has been unable to get her family back to her also. He hasnt really done anything concrete for her. But she is keeping on doing things for him. Just the intention matters is not working out for raghav. Which is why he her tickets for kolhapur. His mom said she is not happy here.. so he wanted to give her happiness and be free of the guilt that he has actually done sth for her.

Unless he actually does something major for her, their relationship will always be unbalanced. Which is why i want pallavi to go back to mandaar when he comes. pallavi and mandaar are equals. But raghav all he has done since marriage is earn repentance , say sorry, thank you. This will never work out in the long run. A marriage has to be equal partners. He just has to love her back and everything will be alright will never work out bacuse pallavi will always be superior to him. He does get carried away when she says or does something but its just momentary.

Yes, it doesnt excuse his rude behavior in regatds to his sis matter.. its a different story altogether.

@bold, this is an excellent point. He's always been a winner but when it came to such a major challenge he lost and still was forgiven by her. This feeling of being inadequate in making her happy is not good at all and you may be right that doing something major for her that makes him feel less indebted would help restore the balance to an extent.

I was watching RaghVi scene again.. the way Pallavi gets startled and grabs his shirt when Farhad enters was so well done..she actually hides her face in his chest after being ''caught'' in the act, as if trying to hide the feelings that were all over her face.. Wese Raghav looked a lil awkward when he said ''hum dono mein wo pati patni wala rishta nahi hai na? '' could he mean physical relationship? I know no one is expecting ''that'' to happen yet.. but could he be hinting at some level of physical intimacy.. they don't even share a room..and he is not gonna initiate anything on his own unless he knows she wants...so could this be his way of trying to test her?

Originally posted by: Doc

Hey same i wrote in ny thread..its insecurities and guilt are pulling him back and its much needed..as kaand bhi to bada kya hai anna ne..

I think.in this case pallu should be a little bit more vocal .to get him back frm guilt trip..the way she said today.achey kaam bhi kye hain tumne..🥰😘

And the way she pulled his shirt and he was trying to move away has a deep meaning .

Aur phir shirt utaar ker hi deni pari..althought he was reluctant and shocked"gopi bahu mode on"while taking off his shirt 😁😁

Pallu the sherni will make him relaize..k gadhe tum itne bhi bure nhi ho jaan ho hamari..

Becahra bachpan se..criticism sun rha hai...😘

She can try to help him stop feeling guilty but Raghav can be bullheaded too sometimes.

Aur ab to sookhi zameen par barish aise ho rahi hai ke Raghav ko bheegne se darr lag raha hai, ke kahin baarish ki aadat ho gayi aur woh phir se ruk gayi to?

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I was watching RaghVi scene again.. the way Pallavi gets startled and grabs his shirt when Farhad enters was so well done..she actually hides her face in his chest after being ''caught'' in the act, as if trying to hide the feelings that were all over her face.. Wese Raghav looked a lil awkward when he said ''hum dono mein wo pati patni wala rishta nahi hai na? '' could he mean physical relationship? I know no one is expecting ''that'' to happen yet.. but could he be hinting at some level of physical intimacy.. they don't even share a room..and he is not gonna initiate anything on his own unless he knows she wants...so could this be his way of trying to test her?

He was just stating facts, not testing her, because he wanted to underline the fact that she shouldn't feel obliged to 'be a wife'. He isn't talking about the physical relationship but the emotional connect. He's soul/spiritual kind of guy, while Pallavi is probably going to be more into the physical aspect of the relationship (at least sooner than he will). It's very refreshing to see this, I find.

Originally posted by: inlieu

She can try to help him stop feeling guilty but Raghav can be bullheaded too sometimes.

Aur ab to sookhi zameen barish aise ho rahi hai ke Raghav ko bheegne se darr lag raha hai, ke kahin baarish ki aadat ho gayi aur woh phir se ruk gayi to?

Barish mei bheege ka bhi aur phir pallu.ko.apne pas sanbhal.ker rkhega😁😁😘😘😘 waise shirt khoob uterwaye pallu ne..😅😅 maza aagya..😘😘😘🥰😍

Originally posted by: inlieu

He's not doing it consciously, you're right. It's also knew ground for him because he's not good at relationships or has been away from them for so long that he's walking on eggshells when it comes to her. Also, there's only so much prodding Amma can do to get him to pay attention to things like buying her gifts, festivities, etc. He will have to pay attention to her needs.

I don't know if it was Sai's choice to perform it this way, but when Raghav walked up really close to Pallavi to ask if she felt something for him, he seemed almost afraid of the answer yet cautiously hopeful at the same time. It wasn't the yes he was looking for so much as the absence of a no. Does that make sense?

I dunno.. I felt like he was kinda enjoying the effect his proximity and his direct questions were having on her.. coz Pallu who is usually a chatterbox was tongue tied and nervous when he got that close.. I thought I saw a hint of smile and a twinkle in his eyes..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I dunno.. I felt like he was kinda enjoying the effect his proximity and his direct questions were having on her.. coz Pallu who is usually a chatterbox was tongue tied and nervous when he got that close.. I thought I saw a hint of smile and a twinkle in his eyes..

Originally posted by: inlieu

He was just stating facts, not testing her, because he wanted to underline the fact that she shouldn't feel obliged to 'be a wife'. He isn't talking about the physical relationship but the emotional connect. He's soul/spiritual kind of guy, while Pallavi is probably going to be more into the physical aspect of the relationship (at least sooner than he will). It's very refreshing to see this, I find.

I dunno... on the surface it may seem like she is the one who has less inhibitions but I feel once he is sure about his own feelings, he will be the one who will take everyone by surprise including her.. I still feel, the way he looked away avoiding to look in her eyes when he said ''wo wala rishta'', he meant some level of physical intimacy which comes with marriage..that is also underlying a fact and he is a fact stating sort of a guy..😆 I wanna see his reaction if/when Pallu casually suggests them shifting to a common bedroom😆