Episode Spoiler - 23 June 2021 - Page 15

Originally posted by: Rainbowncloud

It feels like I am seeing two different Raghav from last 2 episodes. Where is the Raghav who was so torn apart at the bed side when he was letting Pallavi go and who was so emotional when Amma was describing how Pallavi is (Hide her tears behind her smile). I don't find that Raghav any where in last 2 episodes. I can see that he is not in Love but Love or not , the person who has moved you so much so that you could share your past with her and who helped you reconcile with your Amma after 10 years, her emotions and respect should be his first priority. Cutting her off in front of Sunny, telling her to stay away from his family matter was big No-No, so as the taking Vat Savitri vrat so casually. CVs please bring back the soft Raghav(soft only for Pallavi and may be for Amma). Don't make him so emotionally unavailable just beacause he is RR and this is how he is. We have seen him different light.

Yeh assar hai Kishore Kumaar ka gaana gaane ka... woh bhi besuri awaaz mein.

Just kidding.

I feel like there's a pretty good reason for this but we'll only find out later. Raghav isn't a different person here. These are all facets of his character and he goes from one to the other depending on the situation, which makes him quite unpredictable. With time he will find harmony with Pallavi and things will even out. It's the adjustment time.

I mean, this is the guy who has passed some insensitive comments to her over and over even when they weren't fighting, so we'll see what he does about watching his words and line of thinking. His goal was to make for the damage he caused in her life and as far as he's concerned, he achieved it. Now on to the next. He hasn't started thinking as husband what he needs to do for his wife on an ongoing basis, rather than for specific challenges or targets.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I'm taking it as him being a dormant volcano for now. Jab erupt hoga tab mazza ayega.

Absolutely! Sabar ka phal meetha hota hai!

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Defence was the wrong word.. "explain" would be more apt.. because I din't find it right the way he took the whole vat savitrir thing. Wasn't he the one who wanted her to to this puja for him ? I was expecting him to be have a moment remembering their conversation and be more excited about it.. no matter how busy he was..

I'm wondering if he mentioned it to her more as a way to gauge if she would consider him her husband forever or if she would just cut ties with him after the 30-day challenge. He was very insecure back then and didn't know what to expect. Now, with Pallavi confirming she won't go anywhere, he doesn't feel that way so she's not his top prio anymore at the moment, Keerti is. He shifted focus to the immediate challenge at hand, biwi ke saath to baaqi sab hota rahega - that's how he sees it.

I want to see him think more proactively about the marriage. I don't want things to get super serious, but going with the flow as he currently does is fine only up to a certain point.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

The only reason I can think of for the lack of depth in emotions from his side, is the fact that he has not known or understood Pallavi the way she has.. Pallavi knows about his past, the trauma he had to go through growing up, first losing his nana and lil brother and then being subject to constant hatred and condemnation by what was left of his family.. she connected to his pain because she is a naturally empathetic person..plus the fact that he showed genuine regret and efforts to rectify his mistakes..Raghav on the other hand has no clue of her past and he is not even feeling the urge to dig into her past like she did.. His priorities have been to apologise and set things right for her for the way he wronged her.. now that's out out of the way, he is grateful that she forgave him, accepted him, trusted him when no one did..and he know he needs her, hence the panic when Amma suggested to let her go.. but beyond that he hasn't progressed..he is emotionally stunted. He needs a heavy jolt to realize her value and he definitely needs to know her past.. The next track on Mandhar is gearing towards that hopefully..

With the Deshmukhs, her entire goal in life was to carry all the burdens in the world, so they don't have even the slightest hint of the severity of the storm she was trying to pull them out of, and she largely succeeded, till Raghav ended her charade. In the process, she's become a seasoned professional at putting up an excellent facade of 'bright and happy', and I don't think anyone can even see her emotional trauma. She just...appears fine. Kuch ho bhi jaaye, toh do din mein theek ho jaati hai. Matlab, when Raghav stopped her from going to Kohlapur, it was such an emotionally charged day. 24 hours after that, she was doing 'mama-moushi' naatak, all happy and bubbly. It's when she's finally going to hit breaking point that it's all going to come out. The return of her husband after she's already grieved his death, lived as his widow, and started to move on could very well be that point, as could be whatever Sunny/Ved plan.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I really loved Farhad's expressions from start to finish. He knew and was kinda disappointed with Raghav's choice. I wonder, did he not stop him at the saree shop, or did Raghav as usual ignore him.

Farhad ke rokne se kab ruka Raghav?

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Me too!! Farhad's expression was like " Bola tha mene! Ye wali mat uthao. Sunte kaha hain kisi ki? 🤣

If I were him, I'd be remembering the sangeet night outfit. "Yeh sari wohi insaan chun sakta hai jo kissi aur ke sangeet mein disco ball banke jaaye."

I loved her silent glare at Sunny when she came back to pick up her phone and in the process heard everything he said about her.. It was like "you can fool everyone with your sweet talk and pretence but I know you for what you are.. this is not over"

Originally posted by: Diya2021

Can I pls rant a little on this Ashi 😄 I had the same worry all over the episode today except the one place where Raghav asked her why she looked worried after meeting Sunny. I feel as if writers have changed and or they are trying to show a different side of Raghav or maybe the Raghav in between was different 😆 United we stand, divided we fall should be taught to Raghav first. I didn’t like how Raghav has been cutting Pallavi’s words in front of Sunny. Are we now going to see a blind sister love that his instincts are closed off ? Sunny’s parents separated but that can’t stop anyone from meeting them, this is the most stupidest excuse anyone can come up with & Raghav fell for it ? I mean I can understand his parents sentiments but is RR going to be reduced to this. He knew Pallavi was upset but instead of pondering on it, he just left casually as soon as Kirti said we are fine. The girl who suddenly called him bhai yesterday can influence him than Pallavi ?

And on top of this, what was the casual attitude he gave when Amma was talking about vat Savithri pooja. Isn’t he the same person who asked her if she wouldn’t keep one for her husband, for him and now he is talking as if he doesn’t know about that pooja nor does he care if it’s done or not. Am I understanding anything different here because I couldn’t connect to that Raghav in the office.

Ok, my rant done but I’m still not happy with this Raghav Rao because I can see it’s going to hurt Pallavi very badly. And how cheepdu is that Sunny, such an MCP that guy is.

Might I go on my own little rant on this pls :)

You wrote exactly my thoughts! Unless Raghav has a plan already, he has really not been acting as smart as he goes around claiming to be. I have been really disappointed with Raghav in the last 2 episodes, especially with the way he treated Pallavi. I mean she is literally the woman who did what he thought was impossible: reunited him with his amma!! 😤 Isn’t this the same reason he quoted when he went to ask for her help?(before drying her hair and getting lost in it😆) so shouldn’t he be listening to all the concerns Pallavi has raised about Sunny and may be actually considering that she might be right?

Personally, I think all the concerns Pallu has raised so far are completely just. How can Raghav let his only sister get married to someone he knows absolutely nothing about! Like sure that would get him his sister back but at what cost. And it’s not like she’s absolutely against the marriage, her argument is that they should get to know Sunny more before pushing Keerti into a life of misery (which I think is completely rational)

I have also seen so many people saying Pallu should not judge Sunny so hard especially when her husband has done worst things to her. But here’s the thing, Pallu only decided to give Raghav a chance after she had seen his vulnerable side and all his attempts to mend what he had broken... she had already seen that Raghav respects women and people not as rich as him through previous interactions with him. Although they had all the challenge thing going on and him being rude and almost killing her, he never really misbehaved with her. Not to mention all the times he appreciated her courage against a man like him.

Whereas with Sunny, it’s a different story altogether. He had been nothing but rude and disrespectful to Pallavi since day one. While Raghav had also been rude, he never ever said that Pallavi or any woman was inferior to him. Sunny on the other hand, literally said that women are inferior and need to be shown their place. Also, doesn’t Sunny know who Pallavi is? Isn’t it Sunny’s responsibility to make sure he sets a good impression on Keerti’s family so that they accept him without any drama? (I get that drama is essential in ITV but just assuming we’re talking about normal people) Why is he enticing everyone against Pallavi? What has she ever done to him other than ask very normal questions as the bride’s family should do?

So yeah, I guess my not so little rant is done 😁 and I really hope Raghav gets his smartness back soon and he better start realising Pallavi’s worth before it’s too late🤷🏻‍♀️
(if you’re still reading this, thanks for bearing with me :))

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I loved her silent glare at Sunny when she came back to pick up her phone and in the process heard everything he said about her.. It was like "you can fool everyone with your sweet talk and pretence but I know you for what you are.. this is not over"

🤣

Alsooo, lol, right at the beginning, so I missed writing this out anywhere. But the timing at the beginning of the episode? With Sunny all like, ek mauka mile to aisa haal karunga Pallavi ka, etc etc. And the bell rings, and lo and behold, it's Pallavi, in that mode with that smile. I cracked up so hard, yeh le, mauka walked up right to you, committed to instigating you further.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

In response to the post you quoted, people don't necessarily get involved in shady business because they are "bad or immoral" ..it also happens because of circumstances, or majboori.. Raghav and Nikhil are examples of that. Raghav said " Hyderabad ane ke baad mene acha, bura har tarah ka kaam kiya " Same goes for Nikhil.. Mandhar could've considered earning some quick bucks for the same reason as Nikhil..

I don't think they are bad or immoral but I am wondering if Pallavi has taken Nikhil off her list because she was disappointed in him for getting involved in smuggling.