Sai .. You are misunderstood!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Nja91

Did Virat ever consider if he had to do household chores when he was studying in college or doing ips training? When he didnt do it, why should Sai?? Just coz she has married and has responsibilities Sai has accepted it and Virat also "expects" it. sai does it more out of feeling indebted. she cant stay for free nah. Its like she is a PG/tenant but unfortunately for them she has the title of virats wife. So she is not "paying" to live and eat there but no one considers her family either. Also Virat is not factoring in that she is not a stay at home bahu who has time to do these things like pp or karishma. In that alta episode he said ghar ki aur bhi bahu kaam karti hai, so ghar ke kaam karne seh naukrani nahi ban gayi and Sai very aptly replies saying that she is NOT considered a bahu or family by them and no one does baat baat peh beizzati for other bahus.

I think one more reason mohit has judaav with Sai is that he has also been treated with same disdain like Sai is, like a second class citizen. He has done odd jobs in thr house with no appreciation unlike ghar ke chirag Virat and Samrat. He is actually emotionally invested in all the family members- devi, Ashwini, samrat, virat but no one pampers him. if you see, he cares deeply for everyone. He gave devi a hug, he wanted to do preparation for harinis bday, he was there to condole ashwini many times. And even for Virat. When Virat was dejected about Sai not returning he was there to suppprt him too. The brotherly bond of jeeva shiva is glorified but theres no emotional bond shown between Virat/mohit. Apart from that one hug when mohit was denied food- that also because Sai stood up. I dont think virat would have reacted if he had been there and Sai wasnt. Because mohit ke saath aise bartaav humesha hota tha.

True, Mohit is also treated like a second class citizen.

1st para I agree, don't think Virat is even able to think in these aspects. It all looks like a very reasonable expectation I guess due to the house he was brought up.

@bold I do agree that Virat doesn't fight and is non confrontational in nature. But if Mohit was refused food, Virat would have tried to find some way to ensure he has food. But what I think would have happened if is Kaku would have turned the plates. She tried to hide it the other day when Sai was refused food but the truth came out only because he could guess what the truth was looking at Sai. Sai's question to Pakhi gave him the actual picture.

I think Kaku would do something like this but always try to hide it or cover it up in front of Virat of Samrat. Virat just believes them blindly and it was seen in the case of Devi too. It is a pity that his intuitions are not strong. He is not too curious and lacks alertness as well. I believe it is all to do with his blind love for his family.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I really wished that ghkpm would have a solid regret/repetence track for bk gang. Not once have they been shown have ANY guilt for their actions. Its terrible.

They are more into whitewashing 🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: laksh

I agree to everything except for the last bit which I have highlighted in bold. I do agree that Virat doesn't fight and is non confrontational in nature. But if Mohit was refused food, Virat would have tried to find some way to ensure he has food. But what I think would have happened if is Kaku would have turned the plates. She tried to hide it the other day when Sai was refused food but the truth came out only because he could guess what the truth was looking at Sai. Sai's question to Pakhi gave him the actual picture.

I think Kaku would do something like this but always try to hide it or cover it up in front of Virat of Samrat. Virat just believes them blindly and it was seen in the case of Devi too. It is a pity that his intuitions are not strong. He is not too curious and lacks alertness as well. I believe it is all to do with his blind love for his family.

Ya exactly he has blind belief in "acchai" of elders. He has never "countered" them. If mohit was reprimanded in front of him he would play peacemaker. He would maybe take food separately for mohit without anyones knowledge. I don't mean that he would be "happy" or not "feel sad" about how Mohit was treated but he wouldn't have fiercely contested it like Sai did. Its not entirely "wrong" but i just hope that by virtue of what happens with Sai in his life he doesn't continue to "brush things" away. The makers showed him AND Sai let bk off far too easily in devi matter. I am a little bummed by that.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I didn't know to sympathize with one character another character has to be put down. The post started well but how could the discussion continue without putting Virat down and making it Virat vs Sai.

If the character is going through suffering because of the other character being silent at her abuse then yes. It is not Virat Vs Sai if his character flaws are discussed. He was silent at her abuse. Virat ne lekar aaya Sai ko uska ghar. Its his responsibility to keep her safe

Asmi love and strength to you

This is a beautiful post.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Ya exactly he has blind belief in "acchai" of elders. He has never "countered" them. If mohit was reprimanded in front of him he would play peacemaker. He would maybe take food separately for mohit without anyones knowledge. Its not entirely "wrong" but i just hope that by virtue of what happens with Sai in his life he doesn't continue to "brush things" away. The makers showed him AND Sai let bk off far too easily in devi matter. I am a little bummed by that.

Yeah, he would have tried to find some way than protesting or expressing his displeasure. He wouldn't fight for it I guess. Didn't we see what happened in the case of Omi or Kaku's case when Harini's truth was revealed.

I have edited this same comment of mine before I noticed that you have replied to it. Have edited the first few lines if you want to have a look.

Originally posted by: KJSairat

No, I don't think it turned in Virat vs Sai this time but we're just conveying what upsetted us, and we also understand why he did that. Pointing out flaws and pointing out how it affects the other one, isn't setting up Virat vs Sai. I do read most of the posts these people post, and most of them are neutral and so am I. When Sai does something wrong, we also call her out. It was about Sai's emotional state and Virat unable to understand her, her state. I don't really see that as putting Virat down, because that's his character arch - he's used to it, be it Mohit, Aai or Devi, it's normal to him. He's human, he has flaws, just like Sai, that's what I like about them.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Ya exactly he has blind belief in "acchai" of elders. He has never "countered" them. If mohit was reprimanded in front of him he would play peacemaker. He would maybe take food separately for mohit without anyones knowledge. I don't mean that he would be "happy" or not "feel sad" about how Mohit was treated but he wouldn't have fiercely contested it like Sai did. Its not entirely "wrong" but i just hope that by virtue of what happens with Sai in his life he doesn't continue to "brush things" away. The makers showed him AND Sai let bk off far too easily in devi matter. I am a little bummed by that.

@bold: Same, that must be the thing that I was most upset with during whole this show. Most of the times that I was frustrated hau Virat ne yeh kiya hai, isne yeh kiya, it would still make sense somewhere, but this didn't at all. I like not remembering it, because it really ruins Sairat for me, what they stood for. I usually ignore it thinking it's a mistake from makers' part. I'm only afraid they're going to further whitewash, next on the list is Ninad, with his heart attack 😒. Pakhi will follow too. I don't mind seeing them getting good, but not miraculously, suddenly and definitely not without seeking justice and calling them out for their behaviour and them atleast feeling guilty.

That's how most shows handle whitewash, there's a sense of guilt from the villains part, ML holding grudges and FL trying to persuade the ML to forgive. In this show they could have shown ML and FL holding grudges and Aai or someone else from the family persuading them, emotionally blackmailing them to forgive. That's right into ITV standards, but what they showed was even below ITV standard honestly.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

@bold Please tag me in such posts . Somehow I miss them

Sure will!

Virat does get called out more than Sai, but we can't ignore that he is more flawed than Sai. I do agree that at times people do turn it into Sai vs Virat and start bashing one of the two blindlessly (mostly Virat) and I'm sad that it does happen because in the end all that matters are Sairat. Pointing out flaws however and discussing how it affects the other isn't wrong at all. Infact it's part of Sairat, their journey. They have to overcome their own flaws, understand and accept the other's flaws. At times it's difficult to understand flawed characters as a viewer and discussing all this does change perspectives. Some viewers do get dissapointed at times at characters and rant, and I think it's absolutely fine because even in real life we do get dissapointed in someone we like, someone we love.

" I could connect to Sai not having any aim when the person she dreamed the dream is no more around."

I know what you mean from the above statement Asmi, can totally relate to it.

I know what you are saying, have thought about it. Yes, there are kids who have lost their parents in a much younger age too. However, losing a parent at any age is always painful. It took me a few years to come out of the grief. One would always miss their lost parent, their presence in our life, their warmth and most importantly the love or affection that we have got from them. My Dad used to figure out when I am sad even when I try to hide it.

Dads love their daughters and are very protective of them too ❤.

And when one doesn't have anyone else in the world whom they call their own, it is very difficult. Glad that Sai has Usha Maushi, but even then it is very difficult for her. I am really happy that Ashwini understands Sai well, loves her and genuinely cares for Sai.