Good end to the week !!

Today episode was remarkably good .. because only Sai , aayi n virat were there .. makes us think what would happen if virat gets a transfer to another city taking his wife n mom along .. Sai can always transfer her college ..

it was a harmonious domestic scene with cute nok jhok ..

Sai showing her fears n insecurities .. we take our blood relationship for granted .. its true ..I fight with my siblings .. not talk with them then after 2-3 weeks behave as if nothing happened.. and things are good n normal .

With parents it is even more so ..

After her fathers death Sai has been shattered .. she loves ashwini too much .. but knows her relationship is conditional to her relationship with virat .. and she had told virat the same in Gharcholi itself .. that I am tied to your family because of you ..

The only people she can claim independently just like ashwini does .. will be her kids .. for that virat has to help her out ..

Virat n sayi are taking steps towards domesticity .. he’s sharing things with her before anybody else .. and I hope it continues..

Such a relief on Ayeshu’s birthday to have a beautiful Sairat centric episode without Didi. What a coincidence! Sairat and Aai such a delightful combination to watch. This week really is good despite some Zillat drama which is bearable.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Such a relief on Ayeshu’s birthday to have a beautiful Sairat centric episode without Didi. What a coincidence! Sairat and Aai such a delightful combination to watch. This week really is good despite some Zillat drama which is bearable.

Thank God no Didi in precap also. Eyes are so peaceful and calm today 🤣💖

Originally posted by: msin

Today episode was remarkably good .. because only Sai , aayi n virat were there .. makes us think what would happen if virat gets a transfer to another city taking his wife n mom along .. Sai can always transfer her college ..

it was a harmonious domestic scene with cute nok jhok ..

Sai showing her fears n insecurities .. we take our blood relationship for granted .. its true ..I fight with my siblings .. not talk with them then after 2-3 weeks behave as if nothing happened.. and things are good n normal .

With parents it is even more so ..

After her fathers death Sai has been shattered .. she loves ashwini too much .. but knows her relationship is conditional to her relationship with virat .. and she had told virat the same in Gharcholi itself .. that I am tied to your family because of you ..

The only people she can claim independently just like ashwini does .. will be her kids .. for that virat has to help her out ..

Virat n sayi are taking steps towards domesticity .. he’s sharing things with her before anybody else .. and I hope it continues..

Virat be more than ready to help on that department 😂 Sai only has to say loudly that the only people she will have her own will be her kids. Virat be like, ok let's get going to get you the kids 🤭🤭😂😂😘😘

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

Virat be more than ready to help on that department 😂 Sai only has to say loudly that the only people she will have her own will be her kids. Virat be like, ok let's get going to get you the kids 🤭🤭😂😂😘😘

Actually ashwini can nudge her .. both the saas bahu have started their own bonding .. ashwini can tell her she felt the same .. but when virat was born she started feeling more relaxed .. I have something of my own

she can guide .. that one of the best ways for the couple to be tied u to each other .. is by having kids .. though ashwini ninad failed there .. but virat n Sai can try this route .

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

Thank God no Didi in precap also. Eyes are so peaceful and calm today 🤣💖

But notice one thing both nibba nibbi will not be CN two days. Anyone know if this happen in kd

Sai has always been missing her Mom and now been missing her Aabha too. The scene between Ashwini and Sai was lovely. I actually do believe that Ashwini loves Sai and understands her really well.

People value blood relationship over other relationships. I have a different opinion about it always. I think the relationship or the bond that we share is what is important. It doesn't matter whether they are related to one or not. Again, I am speaking all these when I have blood relationship, like my Mom or my siblings, so it is probably easy for me to think this way. I always believe that one has to be in the other person's position before commenting anything.

I can understand Sai's pain or yearning but I think the more the bond strengthens with Virat or Ashwini the more secured she will feel.

Sadly, I can understand her insecurity and also what you mean when by saying she can only claim her own kids. It would be good when a person wholeheartedly accept their spouses or when the inlaws wholeheartedly accept their daughter in law or son in law. There is always an invisible line between even spouses that needs to be broken.

At the end of the day, it is all upto the individual as how much can he or she let their spouse enter their entity, enter their space. A person should never let their spouse feel that they have no business about decisions related to their parents or siblings. Even after years of living together, some people do have this kind of a mentality and if that changes, people will start thinking differently.

One should treat all their relationship in the same way as their blood relationship and that will solve many problems. Be it in laws accepting DIL or SIL or vice versa too. If they can all treat them as their own, why would anyone feel insecured?

One will not yearn for parents whom they don't have if they get their parental love from their inlaws or their own spouse. They can miss their parents but won't feel lonely or insecured is what I mean. The same goes with parents, the parents will not feel insecured if their DIL or SIL treat them like their own parents. I hope that things changes in the future. I always believe, any changes, it should only start from within us.

Also, I think Sai really has to finish her studies or take a couple of more years before she even thinks of having a baby. If they follow KD, we will soon get to see it. I just hope they deviate.

Sai has always been missing her Mom and now been missing her Aabha too. The scene between Ashwini and Sai was lovely. I actually do believe that Ashwini loves Sai and understands her really well.

People value blood relationship over other relationships. I have a different opinion about it always. I think the relationship or the bond that we share is what is important. It doesn't matter whether they are related to one or not. Again, I am speaking all these when I have blood relationship, like my Mom or my siblings, so it is probably easy for me to think this way. I always believe that one has to be in the other person's position before commenting anything.

I can understand Sai's pain or yearning but I think the more the bond strengthens with Virat or Ashwini the more secured she will feel.

Sadly, I can understand her insecurity and also what you mean when by saying she can only claim her own kids. It would be good when a person wholeheartedly accept their spouses or when the inlaws wholeheartedly accept their daughter in law or son in law. There is always an invisible line between even spouses that needs to be broken.

At the end of the day, it is all upto the individual as how much can he or she let their spouse enter their entity, enter their space. A person should never let their spouse feel that they have no business about decisions related to their parents or siblings. Even after years of living together, some people do have this kind of a mentality and if that changes, people will start thinking differently.

One should treat all their relationship in the same way as their blood relationship and that will solve many problems. Be it in laws accepting DIL or SIL or vice versa too. If they can all treat them as their own, why would anyone feel insecured?

One will not yearn for parents whom they don't have if they get their parental love from their inlaws or their own spouse. They can miss their parents but won't feel lonely or insecured is what I mean. The same goes with parents, the parents will not feel insecured if their DIL or SIL treat them like their own parents. I hope that things changes in the future. I always believe, any changes, it should only start from within us.

Also, I think Sai really has to finish her studies or take a couple of more years before she even thinks of having a baby. If they follow KD, we will soon get to see it. I just hope they deviate.

Thanks Lashk that’s a really lovely insight.

I like Sai am wary of trusting too many people that might let me down. The only blood family I have is my brother and I treat my sil like my sister (even if she is not boood related) My sil family treat my bro and me like their own. I have 3 very close friends the rest are my acquaintances.

However apart from parents all other relationships are fragile…if circumstances change then so do relationships.

I relate to the Sai character as I do feel if I had been let down by somebody (like Virat throwing Sai out the house) it would be very hard to trust that person again. No matter how much I loved them but…it’s easy to say until one is personally in that position.

When the time comes I hope I can treat my in laws as family but relationships are a 2way street and everyone has to want that. Even if everyone involved has different viewpoints which is inevitable💕

Just my viewpoint

Originally posted by: msin

Actually ashwini can nudge her .. both the saas bahu have started their own bonding .. ashwini can tell her she felt the same .. but when virat was born she started feeling more relaxed .. I have something of my own

she can guide .. that one of the best ways for the couple to be tied u to each other .. is by having kids .. though ashwini ninad failed there .. but virat n Sai can try this route .

ashwini is trying to push them together tbut if u rembr the child conversation family was having after harinee bdy ashwini was the one who told them not to speak of child for sai cos she's young finishing studies but may be in some time ashwini will tell her that today also ashwinin was telling sai to think of her going to party as for virat's sake. but she should talk moe to virat also not just sai. he also needs pushing if he opens up sai will automatically open but they are so complicated bth

Originally posted by: laksh

Sai has always been missing her Mom and now been missing her Aabha too. The scene between Ashwini and Sai was lovely. I actually do believe that Ashwini loves Sai and understands her really well.

People value blood relationship over other relationships. I have a different opinion about it always. I think the relationship or the bond that we share is what is important. It doesn't matter whether they are related to one or not. Again, I am speaking all these when I have blood relationship, like my Mom or my siblings, so it is probably easy for me to think this way. I always believe that one has to be in the other person's position before commenting anything.

I can understand Sai's pain or yearning but I think the more the bond strengthens with Virat or Ashwini the more secured she will feel.

Sadly, I can understand her insecurity and also what you mean when by saying she can only claim her own kids. It would be good when a person wholeheartedly accept their spouses or when the inlaws wholeheartedly accept their daughter in law or son in law. There is always an invisible line between even spouses that needs to be broken.

At the end of the day, it is all upto the individual as how much can he or she let their spouse enter their entity, enter their space. A person should never let their spouse feel that they have no business about decisions related to their parents or siblings. Even after years of living together, some people do have this kind of a mentality and if that changes, people will start thinking differently.

One should treat all their relationship in the same way as their blood relationship and that will solve many problems. Be it in laws accepting DIL or SIL or vice versa too. If they can all treat them as their own, why would anyone feel insecured?

One will not yearn for parents whom they don't have if they get their parental love from their inlaws or their own spouse. They can miss their parents but won't feel lonely or insecured is what I mean. The same goes with parents, the parents will not feel insecured if their DIL or SIL treat them like their own parents. I hope that things changes in the future. I always believe, any changes, it should only start from within us.

Also, I think Sai really has to finish her studies or take a couple of more years before she even thinks of having a baby. If they follow KD, we will soon get to see it. I just hope they deviate.

I agree Laksh .. but it takes some years to develop this … with parents we gain because those years are passed in our childhood ..

After 5-10 years of marriage .. the spouse becomes more important abd in laws as dear as parents .. but initial 1-2 years we cannot say the same unless it’s a marriage where u have known them from before

I would still say Sai has shown a lot of closeness with aai .. as she has started throwing tantrums at her .. there are getting there .. she’s lucky ashwini really cares for her … and pampers her ..