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I agree with you. I'm an only child and I live in Bombay whereas my mom is in Sri Lanka since I was born in Sri Lanka. But, both my in laws have given me so much love and I too loved them the same way. So, yes if both work together we will not feel lonely and left out. I feel Sai has to start trusting Virat the same way he does and soon she will realise that he loves her too.

Originally posted by: msin

I agree Laksh .. but it takes some years to develop this … with parents we gain because those years are passed in our childhood ..

After 5-10 years of marriage .. the spouse becomes more important abd in laws as dear as parents .. but initial 1-2 years we cannot say the same unless it’s a marriage where u have known them from before

I would still say Sai has shown a lot of closeness with aai .. as she has started throwing tantrums at her .. there are getting there .. she’s lucky ashwini really cares for her … and pampers her ..

Definitely, i agree with you. It will take time to develop that kind of a bond. I mean to say that she won't feel this way after her relationship with Virat strengthens, after they bond really really well. Takes efforts from both of them and it is not going to be an easy task.

Very true, Sai is very lucky to find someone like Ashwini in her life. Ashwini understands Sai, her anger, her tantrums, even Sai's inner feelings. I was amazed at how she felt Sai might not be wrong even when the entire family including Virat was against Sai after Devi's wedding. This was the same person who became upset with Sai when Devi's health deteriorated when Sai couldn't bring Pulkit home. She knows Sai's intentions, knows that she wouldn't hurt anyone and also gave Sai a benefit of doubt. Truly amazing.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I agree with you. I'm an only child and I live in Bombay whereas my mom is in Sri Lanka since I was born in Sri Lanka. But, both my in laws have given me so much love and I too loved them the same way. So, yes if both work together we will not feel lonely and left out. I feel Sai has to start trusting Virat the same way he does and soon she will realise that he loves her too.

That's very sweet. We need to be able to break some barriers ourselves to establish that kind of a relationship. Good to know about you and your inlaws ❤.

Yeah, Sai and Virat have to first talk. They have to break all the barriers. I am afraid Sai trusting Virat is not going to be easy due to his past and his commitment. I think the ousting, the confrontation and whatever happened near the pool is going to make her hold back.

Virat knows that him talking to Pakhi affects her through Sunny, could have been better if he had confessed his feelings than trying to understand her feelings. That would have kind of helped but I believe it was meant to be dragged so that they continue to show both of them insecured until the confession.

Let's hope they both sort out the differences between the two and also work on earning the trust of each other.

Originally posted by: Khushidum

Thanks Lashk that’s a really lovely insight.

I like Sai am wary of trusting too many people that might let me down. The only blood family I have is my brother and I treat my sil like my sister (even if she is not boood related) My sil family treat my bro and me like their own. I have 3 very close friends the rest are my acquaintances.

However apart from parents all other relationships are fragile…if circumstances change then so do relationships.

I relate to the Sai character as I do feel if I had been let down by somebody (like Virat throwing Sai out the house) it would be very hard to trust that person again. No matter how much I loved them but…it’s easy to say until one is personally in that position.

When the time comes I hope I can treat my in laws as family but relationships are a 2way street and everyone has to want that. Even if everyone involved has different viewpoints which is inevitable💕

Just my viewpoint

I totally understand. Good to know about your relationship with your SIL and your brother's with his inlaws.

I do agree, apart from parents, other relationships are fragile. Parents love us unconditionally and so do kids.

I know, it would definitely not be easy for Sai to trust Virat now. I don't mean to say now. I meant to say in the future, not only the kids but she would also feel connected, safe and loved by Virat. She wouldn't feel this loneliness once her bond with other people also strengthens especially Virat.

As you have rightly said, other relationships are fragile, the reason being even if we or our kids take us for granted or make any mistakes, the parents or the kids would let it go, would be able to forgive, accept and move on since they wouldn't want to afford to lose their parents or kids. It is exactly this that one should always bear in mind while maintaining relationships with others too. In fact I felt very happy when msin had also covered a point about relationships taken for granted.

When others cannot let our mistakes slide or cannot accept us with our flaws, it results in a friction. So one has to ensure they don't hurt them in anyway and should also learn to forgive them like how we would forgive if they were their own parents or kids or siblings too. It is not going to be an easy task at all.

I am sure you will be able to dear 😊❤. People's thoughts are changing, we are all getting to know beautiful perspectives from others which we can think about and learn to implement them in our life too. I really feel that is the beauty of the forum too, getting to know various different perspectives.

I know it would be difficult for Sai now. I am not in her position, which is something that I always think about before giving my views or before commenting on anyone. And you are right, relationship is a 2 way street. I hope Sai and Virat can build a relationship or form a bond in such a way that at the end, they find solace in each other.

Originally posted by: laksh

That's very sweet. We need to be able to break some barriers ourselves to establish that kind of a relationship. Good to know about you and your inlaws ❤.

Yeah, Sai and Virat have to first talk. They have to break all the barriers. I am afraid Sai trusting Virat is not going to be easy due to his past and his commitment. I think the ousting, the confrontation and whatever happened near the pool is going to make her hold back.

Virat knows that him talking to Pakhi affects her through Sunny, could have been better if he had confessed his feelings than trying to understand her feelings. That would have kind of helped but I believe it was meant to be dragged so that they continue to show both of them insecured until the confession.

Let's hope they both sort out the differences between the two and also work on earning the trust of each other.

Yes, I hope so too.