Scene - so all this while, this was Virat’s definition of friendship? - Page 8

Originally posted by: laksh

Oh okay. True, actually this was another mistake made by him and he pushed her away himself. He shouldn't have asked Pakhi to guide her 🤦‍♀️, who does that 🤷‍♀️.

I have also told in one of the posts, an unpopular opinion post, Sai not accepting the marriage, pushing him away acted as a catalyst in their relationship. He felt pulled by her because she pushed him away and refused to accept him as her hsuband. I know that not many would agree to it but I have felt it that way.

I always thought the same and not only after the marriage. Even in GC, more she was rude more he was attracted to her. 🤣 There is a saying in French "Fuis moi je te suis, suis moi je te fuis." which if we translate word to word it's "Flee me I will follow, follow me I will flee." That's what happened between them. More she ran away from him, more he wanted her. 😆

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

He said he will suppress his feelings for her and their memories will remain with him and he will be her friend. Many exes remain friends. How would he know she had something else in mind? I don't see anywhere him indicating EMA or hiding it in the name of friendship.

The truth is when people have a past and even if they move on the good memories of that relationship will always stay. That's what he meant.

I wonder if Sai has any right to question Virat on this? When she agreed to this condition before marriage then why raise a question later. Unless she admits she is his wife and stops saying I will leave the home she has no right to question her deal husband. If she has developed feelings for him then she needs to come out clean and exert her rights not hide behind deal marriage and yet question him like a wife.

I agree on this...for the sake of lord normal people have relationships and ex but their exes do not get possesive of them.

Virat is not wrong...here.., he just asked PP to be his friend..ya last statement was too much but it was a desperate attempt on making Pakhi say yes to marriage.

Patralekha knew terms and conditions , Virat clearly says that He will keep her as friend if she thought of extra marital affair..than its her thinking..no one can control that and as a person even marrying one guy so I can have relationship with his brother is wrong on multiple levels.

Secondly, yes Sai should come out clean and act as a wife..but in the last episode she herself is unsure of what she feels for Virat..and why she feels that

Hence she is not coming forward..

One more thing to notice is Sai had only one dream of becoming doctor and I don't think KJ ever talked deeply about what is love, usually people see their parents love and want a similar kind from their partners , and tbh KJ set the bar high with his wife..

Then from the age of 16 , Sai was victim of Jagtap which never gave her time or interrest to ponder on the romantic feelings.

Sai's dream got crushed of happy ever after when Virat proposed that deal marriage..and she left hope but when she entered CN , aswini started mentoring Sai as a wife, now it is impossible to not feel and grow feelings for someone..you are performing wifely duties for..

Now its the first time that Sai is pondering over her own feelings and it does not help that she has literally no one who knows the full story and guide her through..

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

As an introvert, I could empathize with Virat for not being able to verbalize his emotion, but even introverts stand up for their loved ones if someone casts aspersions on them.
But here, he just remains quiet when his ex humiliates his wife, whom he claims to love, on daily basis.

That's Virat's nature. He keeps quiet and listen to the crap till the very end before speaking. He did the exact same thing with Sai in CG when she used to misbehave with him. He has a patience level that actually is bothering. 😡

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Can u help me 4 this ?

If sai was having so much problem with virat's condition then why she married him only ?

You can go and watch the episode, where sai goes to meet virat in GC house, she telks the reason there.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Can u help me 4 this ?

If sai was having so much problem with virat's condition then why she married him only ?

https://youtu.be/tvJYTUT5Ysc

It’s a copy paste of KD and GHKPM story line with Vankar’s creativity 😂

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's what makes SaiRat fans mad at him. He should start expressing his feelings and communicate with her. In fact why only him. Both need to sit and discuss. After hospital scene all we expected was a mature talk but all we got was their nok jhok. I didn't even understand when did they come that comfy ? I enjoyed their scenes so didn't complain much but that sudden touching each other, closeness... were quite weird to accept.

Both are at fault in one way or other... But my problem with virat is just one... He knows in what context sai is addressing that wada... He knows that she feels that he has feelings for pakhi... Especially after that ladakh trip fiasco... So earlier I used to give him benefit of doubt coz he was not sure about his feelings for sai... Exactly like how today sai is not sure about her feelings towards virat... So right now I am giving benefit of doubt to her...

But right virat is the only one who is sure about his feelings as well as he is the one who did 2 wadaas and he is the one who knows that sai already knew about his 2 wadaas.. So now when he is sure about his feelings that he cannot live without her then why today when she again brought that 2 wadaas in front of pakhi he didn't instantly clear it out especially when she clearly says that she is only his zimmedari , he should immediately correct her.... but he didn't say anything just kept asking what she heard...

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I know it'll come. When he entered into the marriage, he cleared his emotional stance to Sai. He didn't cheat her.. Sai knew he was in an emotional relationship with someone else and still she entered into the marriage. I don't get any emotional cheating here.

It was the time when both of them used to be in deal marriage where it was clear that there would be no expectations.

I agree with Virat told to Sai about vaada and in above scene when he mentions that he loves Pakhi or thinks he loves Pakhi he mentions this to Sai..

Its OK..

But then 2 days later when Sai is talking to Amay on phone more fake flirting than why does he shouts on Sai, wasn't Sai having the same freedom to love/flirt with someone also part of the Deal..

Please do not say it was his fikr that Sai will come to harm, if it was so than Virat would have rushed to get Sai out of car as soon Shivani switched the phone call on but he was listening patiently.

Why?? Because he had bharosa on Sai that she can handle herself.

Originally posted by: Antaramantara

Both are at fault in one way or other... But my problem with virat is just one... He knows in what context sai is addressing that wada... He knows that she feels that he has feelings for pakhi... Especially after that ladakh trip fiasco... So earlier I used to give him benefit of doubt coz he was not sure about his feelings for sai... Exactly like how today sai is not sure about her feelings towards virat... So right now I am giving benefit of doubt to her...

But right virat is the only one who is sure about his feelings as well as he is the one who did 2 wadaas and he is the one who knows that sai already knew about his 2 wadaas.. So now when he is sure about his feelings that he cannot live without her then why today when she again brought that 2 wadaas in front of pakhi he didn't instantly clear it out especially when she clearly says that she is only his zimmedari , he should immediately correct her.... but he didn't say anything just kept asking what she heard...

I had the same problem... he was so desperate to know what she heard, if only he was that desperate to clear things with her. 🤣 Shayad story would have been different. Only good thing about his stupidity is that I am going to enjoy like a sadist their pain, angst, fight, anger... 😈

Originally posted by: Sairat

I agree on this...for the sake of lord normal people have relationships and ex but their exes do not get possesive of them.

Virat is not wrong...here.., he just asked PP to be his friend..ya last statement was too much but it was a desperate attempt on making Pakhi say yes to marriage.

Patralekha knew terms and conditions , Virat clearly says that He will keep her as friend if she thought of extra marital affair..than its her thinking..no one can control that and as a person even marrying one guy so I can have relationship with his brother is wrong on multiple levels.

Secondly, yes Sai should come out clean and act as a wife..but in the last episode she herself is unsure of what she feels for Virat..and why she feels that

Hence she is not coming forward..

One more thing to notice is Sai had only one dream of becoming doctor and I don't think KJ ever talked deeply about what is love, usually people see their parents love and want a similar kind from their partners , and tbh KJ set the bar high with his wife..

Then from the age of 16 , Sai was victim of Jagtap which never gave her time or interrest to ponder on the romantic feelings.

Sai's dream got crushed of happy ever after when Virat proposed that deal marriage..and she left hope but when she entered CN , aswini started mentoring Sai as a wife, now it is impossible to not feel and grow feelings for someone..you are performing wifely duties for..

Now its the first time that Sai is pondering over her own feelings and it does not help that she has literally no one who knows the full story and guide her through..

Sai's dream got crushed of happy ever after when Virat proposed that deal marriage..and she left hope but when she entered CN , aswini started mentoring Sai as a wife, now it is impossible to not feel and grow feelings for someone..you are performing wifely duties for..

Now its the first time that Sai is pondering over her own feelings and it does not help that she has literally no one who knows the full story and guide her through..

Virat refuse to get married to her , later when she attempted suicide then he got convinced to marry her as he saw what she is capable of doing. Virat 2 is a human he 2 had given up his happy life , not coz of his enjoyment he kept condition that time be felt he can have a normal life again but sai if she had problem with d condition she can refuse for d wedding , GC people would had arrange other decent groom 4 her coz they were not ready to keep her with them. Virat was tied by KJ promise sai was not tied by any promise . If sai can make devi run from d house then she was very much capable of herself running away .

Who is here to guide virat ? Ninad , omkar is of no use , samrat is absent .

Sai is pondering on her feelings & questioning virat’s character & humiliating him . What wrong virat did this time what dhoka he gave to her ?

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I had the same problem... he was so desperate to know what she heard, if only he was that desperate to clear things with her. 🤣 Shayad story would have been different. Only good thing about his stupidity is that I am going to enjoy like a sadist their pain, angst, fight, anger... 😈

Yeah so true... Even I like that part of story when one is sunoifying the other.... But only when that all the tanas are justified...sadist thing🤣