Scene - so all this while, this was Virat’s definition of friendship? - Page 6

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

IKR that's why I always felt that this guy was so much attracted to Sai in such a strange way that even when he believed he loved someone he was affected by someone else.

yes he was very much affected by her

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Sai avoided blowing up the issue before his Aai, so don’t you think something (pp) might have instigated her forcing Sai to say enough is enough?

Yup. It'll be instigated by the PP. She even will tell that because of her husband meeting her (pp) something between you and your husband that he has to sleep in the drawing room

Originally posted by: appisuri

virat should receive the award for best jalebi maker

When he is stupid enough to think that one can fall in love after two sessions of yoga, how can he give chance to explore and give chance to his true love. That man had the right person in front of him for whom his heart had a weird connection but he had to push her away because he was stupid to think he was already in love. Toh jalebi toh banenge hi na ? 😆

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

But, not even once of he shut up pakhi before sai. So how would she know that?

1. During the fight when Sai comes back from UM room

2. Mirchi incident

3. Mohit food issue

4. When CN tried stopping Sai from having her bf

5. Hospital scenes

6. In the room , when Pakhi came for the bank nominee

7. Post hospital scene infront of the family

8.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

answers in bold . Just want to clarify it’s just a discussion

Answers in blue

Since we are discussing , I want to ask this question.I believe love and respect go hand in hand . Does she respect Virat as an individual? If she did would she question his character with half baked information in public ?

Ofcourse she has tremendous respect for him. Just see her as someone seeking answers and her emotions running high. We cant expect people to think what is right all the time...it is an outburst, not calculated move. So yes she is dragging him in public...but it doesn't mean she does not respect him or love him.

Mark my words, if they are going by KD syllabus, Virat will question her character because he doesnt see her feelings for him. Didnt he say yesterday to Pakhi he will not question her feelings. That is what he thinks when he is calm. But doesnt 'do' it when he is not in senses. Emotions will whack your brain. I am not doing Sai vs Virat here. I am just saying, we think that love and respect go hand in hand and it is correct. but doesnt happen that way 'ALL' the time, especially during an outburst.

1.It’s between two people Virat and Pakhi sona third person shouldn’t be judging their relationship or getting involved in that

She is getting affected. Otherwise also even if she doesnt think she has rights, she will not be questioned if she asks these questions. She is a lawfully wedded wife, she can question on anything. She wants to know answers because she feels something for him.

If she is someone who stands for the right and she felt it was morally wrong then why didn’t she do right after the wedding or refused to marry a man with lose morals ? Why now ?

NO NO she never thought him of loose morals guy. She thought him as someone who is ready to sacrifice his life for the vaada. She always had tremendous respect for him for this selfless act. She married because she did not have any option and it also it was proposed to her as an open marriage. She is now on a different plane, she saw his affections towards her and therefore has expectations from him.

When she isn’t his wife or family member then she doesn’t have any rights to interfere in this matter .

Thats the catch22 here, as wife she wants answers and as third person she wants him to do what is right, like honoring the vaada. She is CONFLICTED. She is not a saint.

I rest my case. :)

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

He can list many cases where he has done that

1. During the fight when Sai comes back from UM room

2. Mirchi incident

3. Mohit food issue

4. When CN tried stopping Sai from having her bf

5. Hospital scenes

6. In the room , when Pakhi came for the bank nominee

7. Post hospital scene infront of the family

8.

I guess in Amay's incident though in front of Sai, he did tell her that he expected better from her like what Sai did

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I think we watch different shows then.

I guess we r watching same show.but difference is I don't like anyone either sai,virat or pakhi anymore.watch just for fun .And u watch it as a fan .I can totally understand when one become fan judgement bound by emotions more .bcoz I went through this .

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

But, not even once of he shut up pakhi before sai. So how would she know that?

Ab iska kya matlab hota hai , is he doing some tamasha that he make sai a viewer. He felt it's necessary to speak 4 his wife so he speak

Aap ne kaha virat don't take stand 4 sai infront of pakhi uska answer Diya maine.

Infact if u see in yesterday episode if sai would had came 5 mins late then she would had seen virat's violent avtar infront of pakhi voz Virat's voice was of high pitch when sai interrupted d scene.

Originally posted by: laksh

I know, it was clearly visible from the car ride when she says mein bhi aapki patni bankar nahi reh sakthi. Silsila tab se shuruu hua.

I have watched scenes after their marriage many times. He was into the marriage more than her is not entirely true. She also had some feelings for him which she kept pushing away. She used to get jealous seeing him on call with Pakhi whom she didn't even know whether it was a girl or not. On the day she visited him at his quarters to ask him go back off from the wedding, she wasn't for the marriage because she didn't want to get married that early, she wasn't ready for it. When he said that he wont backout, she asked him Pakhi ka kya. If he had not told her that he was only taking her responsibility and also not said he had promised someone, committed to someone, she would have accepted it to be a real marriage. She would have also been into this marriage. His words broke her heart. She didn't even know that she had feelings for him but she was so hurt that from then, she started to push him away and started to show as if she is not interested to marry him. It came out of hurt and that was not her true feelings.

In fact, Sai started behaving like a typical wife after their marriage. She went into the shell after Virat vented out on her after pp left for her home and he slipped the word ‘pyar’ during their altercation.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I might sound delusional but in all his scenes even when he acted like a heart broken lover who lost his love, he was more affected by the fact that Sai acted uneffected. Deep down he wanted that marriage to be a real one even though he was the one initiating the deal wedding. Every time she mentioned it was a deal wedding he was pissed.

So when he initiated deal marriage... He should be the one na who should clearly tell sai that it doesn't matter anymore and he is in love with her... Neither that deal wali shadi nor pakhi ka pyar-dosti wada..

Whenever sai brought it up in past ... Instead of clearing it out... He just pissed off and tried to divert the whole topic... To how can he complain that sai is not understanding his love... While he never said it to her