Scene - so all this while, this was Virat’s definition of friendship? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Oh but Sai didn’t know that Virat’s ex would be there 24*7 to remind her of his emotional baggage, and the way virat alway mollycoddled pp didn’t give her a chance to think even once that the vada has had an expiry date.

So please excuse me if I empathize with Sai for being in a situation where she is constantly made to feel like an other woman in her own marriage - deal ir no deal.

I do too feel for Sai to be in such a situation where she's made to feel a third person in a relationship. But that's Virat's hypocrisy, his dumbness, his people pleasing nature but he didn't cheat her in anyway.

Originally posted by: laksh

It is not fair. From how I see it, telling he loves Pakhi was like reading a textbook, going by theory. He made himself believe more and more that he loved her but his feelings spoke something else. He felt for Sai but his brain thought that when he had committed to Pakhi, how was it even possible for him to have feelings for Sai and moreover Sai was too young. He always pushed aside some connection he felt for Sai. It developed into feelings after marriage because he became confident that she had already become his wife and it is not wrong to have anything for her and after marriage, age also doesn't matter.

Only if he is aware can he do anything sane right? He acted insane due to his own internal conflicts.

Just like how Sai is having one now.

Edited my comment.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

This is my understanding of her feelings and her character.

If you see her as a young girl, who fell madly in love (not yet realized though) with her husband, and his ex prying on him, and he is bound to the ex at certain level (which she is trying to estimate), and she thinks there is something to hope in their marriage, but husband doesnt voice his affections...etc etc. She is going crazy.

Since we are discussing , I want to ask this question.I believe love and respect go hand in hand . Does she respect Virat as an individual? If she did would she question his character with half baked information in public ?

And on top of that she stands for the right. So for her, if her husband is committed to someone, he should just go on with that commitment. she thinks it is only morally correct and she doesnt shy away from voicing it. She distances herself as a wife here and sees it as a third person and confronts them.

Just for the discussion , lets assume Virat is committed to someone then few questions

1.It’s between two people Virat and Pakhi sona third person shouldn’t be judging their relationship or getting involved in that

2. If she is someone who stands for the right and she felt it was morally wrong then why didn’t she do right after the wedding or refused to marry a man with lose morals ? Why now ?

3. When she isn’t his wife or family member then she doesn’t have any rights to interfere in this matter .

I imagine her as being pulled in opposite directions by two strong forces...one is her heart which has hope and expects answers from her husband and one is her mind that says she has to free him if he is committed. The second one wins, and therefore she doesn't shy away from confronting in front of the family.

I understand this and I love the angst , dilemma and everything as long as it stayed between them

Originally posted by: laksh

Yes, the way he applied the brakes shows that.

honestly neil brings that irritation in such a gud way na i like his frustuation

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

It’s not fair to love one and expect love from another. He cannot keep feelings for pakhi in his heart and act hurt when Sai is indifferent.

And it is wrong for him to verbally abuse Sai just because he cannot understand or come to terms with his feelings for her when he was the who asked her to not expect anything from him. I will never romanticise abuse.

How is his verbal abuse? I am sorry I don't agree. When husband and wife with each other they do cross lines even though it is wrong. Not all fights are justified but this is not verbal abuse.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Like u described this

Can u help me 4 this ?

If sai was having so much problem with virat's condition then why she married him only ?

I m failing to understand this thing , I had asked others 2.

you have asked the same question countless time, and many have answered you in detail. It’s another matter you didn’t like the answers and chose to ignore them. So, please excuse me, if choose not to answer.

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

For once, the costume n jewellery of Didi is over the top.

Else ajeeb jewellery award is mostly given to sai n aai.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I do too feel for Sai to be in such a situation where she's made to feel a third person in a relationship. But that's Virat's hypocrisy, his dumbness, his people pleasing nature but he didn't cheat her in anyway.

I never said he did. I am just saying he needs to come clean about his payarosti vada, and for once, stand up for his wife when she is insulted by his ex. It’s basic expectation of any girl from her husband, if he can’t even do that how could she ever believe that he has moved on and loves her?

Originally posted by: laksh

I am so glad you have noticed it. It was very evident in this scene. I have looked at this scene that way and it has actually not bothered me much because of that.

When she says that she doesn't care, he gets hurt, infact that is why he even says that she has only got love and has not loved anyone. Even though Pakhi was a slip of tongue, he was very upset when she said that he can have feelings for anyone. This anger comes out during Amay's fight where he tells that how many times will you say that you don't love me or you never wanted to marry me.

Her unaffected act affects him so much that he even questions her "Do you think I was dying to get married to you ?" 😆

I rewatched a few episodes yesterday... I mean only SaiRat scenes and I am amazed to see he was more into this marriage than her. Countless time he questioned her "Why you are getting bothered if you don't care ?" or "Why do you keep bringing the deal every time ?" "Why do you keep talking about leaving ?" "Why do you bring Pakhi every time in between us ?"

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I never said he did. I am just saying he needs to come clean about his payarosti vada, and for once, stand up for his wife when she is insulted by his ex. It’s basic expectation of any girl from his husband, if he can’t even do that how could she ever believe that he has moved on and loves her?

Yes he needs to clear his vaada Infront of Sai, not in front of his family though