Raghav's feelings taken for granted - Page 2

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

As someone else suggested 'chickens have come home to roost' for RR.

Originally posted by: Doc

Yar ye huta hai..if a person has a bad track record ppl.wont trust him easily specifiaclly the loved ones as they are the ones jo sab se ziada hurt hute hain..

But cvs .bring a strong story of his track record..justifying all this angst

I understand re but i still believe aap ek ghav ko har baar kuredoge toh ghav ghav nahi kya kehte hai woh uncurable ho jata hai and i'm not saying to forgive his mistakes but at least ask him directly anything than predicting conclusion on its own and we still dont know RR past and i agree he may made mistake to bring that girl in his life made his life miserable but still like them he too suffered alot

Originally posted by: Mihika

That slap was very much required Snehal....Amma though softened a little towards him but Keerthi has forever been rude and has always insulted him. and Raghav did not slap him for all that paisa and koi nahi rehna chahta thing...he slapped her only after she insulted his and Pallavi's marriage which now is the most important relation to him...Dude he can even die for Pallavi and never utter a word...uss shaadi ko agar koi ulta seedha bole toh vo to gussa karega hi na...

And I agree they must have believed baharwale in the past instead of Raghav...and I want Pallavi to teach them how to trust family members👍🏼

Originally posted by: TunesOfHeart

They both are on the sane boat as their families don't trust them but the way the show trust on each other is commendable! In the precap she took a stand for him and we already know how Raghav tried to knock some sense in Sanki.. Oops i mean his sasur ji! They don't need anyone but each other, it seems!

Originally posted by: Vivirti_Suvian2

Meko nai samjha thoda tubelight hu matlab

Another one for somewhat same situation is Karma is a bitch and Life is a circle. Anything u do in ur life right or wrong always comes back to u in some way or form.

It is very much like if there is any info about disrest about to happen in any area... police circle up all pick pocketers and small goons before hand not because they have done anything but their past makes them easy target to believe on anything negative about them.

Human psyche is based on learning from past experience to safeguard themselves and derive on conclusions. Whole Darwin's evolution theory is based on this fact.

With the shady past of RR and deeds he has done... its very much first nature for everyone to believe his involvement in anything wrong.

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

Another one for somewhat same situation is Karma is a bitch and Life is a circle. Anything u do in ur life right or wrong always comes back to u in some way or form.

It is very much like if there is any info about disrest about to happen in any area... police circle up all pick pocketers and small goons before hand not because they have done anything but their past makes them easy target to believe on anything negative about them.

Human psyche is based on learning from past experience to safeguard themselves and derive on conclusions. Whole Darwin's evolution theory is based on this fact.

With the shady past of RR and deeds he has done... its very much first nature for everyone to believe his involvement in anything wrong.

Originally posted by: Vivirti_Suvian2

Ohh thank you and i totally agree whatever we did is it good or bad future too depend on that and i dont know i believe he may made mistake bringing that girl in his life but that all blunder in past and i'm not saying to forgive him for his mistakes i'm saying yaar galti ki but itna saal apno se alag suffered alone because of past mistakes they dont trust him 😭😭

Arey past choro... 15 din pehle ek ladki ka ghar barbad kr dia. 5 din pehle usko force krke shaadi kr li. Bhai sudhar nhi rha hai... And den u say suffering alone.

No improvement in harkatien.... so this happening.

Originally posted by: Vivirti_Suvian2

That slap is more like action ka reaction and i totally agree amma ka bolna phir bhi jaayaz hai woh amma hai bol sakti hai but keerthi bhai waah i mean kya hi bola tha yaar itne dino mein uska family usko mila even they dont forgot him for his past but the point is kab tak and i'm damn sure they dont even know he had asthama attacks for what happens in past 😭😭 and ya he slapped her not because she badmouthed about RaghVi marriage its about she thinks he did all this bro-sis natak matlab yeh keerthi ka kuch samjh nai aata mujhe

Originally posted by: Mihika

Keerthi has always been rude....one thing that I seriously hate in this character. Uske man me Raghav ke naam ka itna zaher hai ki vo kabhi apni khushi ke aagey ni soch sakti

Originally posted by: Mihika

That slap was very much required Snehal....Amma though softened a little towards him but Keerthi has forever been rude and has always insulted him. and Raghav did not slap him for all that paisa and koi nahi rehna chahta thing...he slapped her only after she insulted his and Pallavi's marriage which now is the most important relation to him...Dude he can even die for Pallavi and never utter a word...uss shaadi ko agar koi ulta seedha bole toh vo to gussa karega hi na...

And I agree they must have believed baharwale in the past instead of Raghav...and I want Pallavi to teach them how to trust family members👍🏼

Actually, I feel he slapped her because she said the bhai behen relation was a naatak. It wasn't about Pallavi, although that statement about their marriage did anger her. He adores his sister, would do anything for her, has been secretly watching over her and supporting her over the years as she grew into a young woman. He doesn't ask for anything, not even love or sympathy. Just a little bit of respect is what he wants, a bit of recognition or acceptance that he is her elder brother and rightfully has that place in her life, but she won't give him that. It must hurt like hell.

Keerti is mature when it comes to everyone but not when it comes to understanding how much Raghav is hurting and that there can't be a good future for them as siblings until she also makes an effort to bridge the gap, instead of expecting Raghav to sort things out.

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Underlined- He didn't slap her for insulting his and pallu's marriage, He lost his temper when kirti accused him for doing natak of bhai behan ka rista. Right after slapping her,he immediately retorts back by saying " Itne saalon ke baad hum sab ek saath hue aur tumko yeh sab natak lag raha hai! Tumhare Zindagi ke bare mein acha sochna aur karna mera farz banta hai as I am your elder brother. He slapped her as a brother not as a pallavi's husband. There wasn't any dialogue lines of Raghav where he warns kirti for questioning/badmouthing his marriage with pallu. Raghav was extremely hurt when kirti shows immense distrust in bro sis relationship and labeled it "NATAK".

I agree, this was my response too. He knows she harbors a lot of anger and resentment towards him but he's extremely hurt that she'd even suggest he'd pretend to love her and care for her. Raghav never pretends when it comes to his emotions, especially not with those he loves, so this was quite an insult and a blow to his genuine efforts to reconcile. People may argue that his methods aren't appropriate, but I would say they should credit his intentions and efforts. I would consider myself extremely fortunate if I had a brother who was that crazy protective and caring about my wellbeing, in a world where siblings don't give a damn about one another (like in D-fam). She's always using Raghav's name to warn Sunny but when it comes to actually understanding the depth of emotion he has for her and how concerned he is for her welfare, she is nowhere close to the mark.