Virat in today's episode: Out of character or not?| DT Note P.3 - Page 2

Wow❤️

I would be honest ,I didn't like the hand holding scene, let me say this again, didn't like the hand holding scene , but don't blame particularly Virat here.

I was saying earlier in morning, that this was something we dreamt of, but the hug was punctured by a hand. Maybe I wouldn't have felt anything if it was aai or even sunny bhaiya🤣

But, the magical word which makes our brains ghum,i.e, didi came in, so the scene became a bit ,phisssssss😆

But blaming Virat, in overall, I guess is not right, don't know what to say more.

Beautiful post❤️

Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

Well...

Today's episode was a hit for some reasons and a miss for a great many reasons for me, and definitely, Virat is NOT one of them. Okay. Hear me out. I'm not trying to say that anyone is wrong and I'm not trying to offend anyone.

But the one thing that many people were offended with today was the ViraKhi hand holding during the SaiRat hug. Yes, the ViraKhi hand-holding was unnecessary, and maybe the CVs way of making up to the real couple for the lack of romantic scene, but if you actually look at it that way, is it out of character for Virat to stop Pakhi and thank her? My answer is no.

Let's talk about the Virat that we were introduced to, and witnessed throughout the series. He is shown to be a people pleaser, the one who can't see anyone unhappy at any cost. So, the hand-holding scene where he stopped Pakhi from leaving and thanked her, was very much in tune with his character. For Virat, out of character would have been letting Pakhi go and sulk on her own, despite her "helping" him at his bidding.

And yeah, the fact that it happened during SaiRat's hug. Yeah, that kinda put me off in the beginning too, but I re-watched that moment again to see if I missed something, and I did. After the hug between Devi Tai and Harinee, Virat's first thought was Sai, his first instinct was the share the moment with her. And he did. The hug did last for a brief moment. He had his eyes closed for the first few seconds and he savoured the hug. As he snapped out of the moment and saw Pakhi, it seemed like he wanted to thank her right there, verbally, and the hand-holding only happened because she wanted to leave.

He stopped her to say Thank you because that's the kind of person he is. And his dialogue about asking her not to leave, was not romantic in any way at all. And he didn't even say it as a friend. He wanted her to be part of this happy moment and not leave, because this was a happy moment for the entire Chavan family. And as a member of the Chavan family, and as his brother's wife, he felt that she too should be part of this happy moment.

Again, if the CVs wanted, they could have just had a moment where he verbally thanked her, but then again, now that they have included it too, neither did it seem out of place, nor did it seem like Virat's thank you had some hidden agenda or any confusion of his feelings. It was pure and genuine gratitude, just for the fact that Pakhi did something that he asked her to do, keeping aside her animosity.

Whew! I've typed a lot. Stopping right here. Do drop in your feedbacks too. And I'm really sorry if I offended anyone. Feel free to have a healthy discussion and please no bashing😳

Love,

Niya🤗

Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

Well...

Today's episode was a hit for some reasons and a miss for a great many reasons for me, and definitely, Virat is NOT one of them. Okay. Hear me out. I'm not trying to say that anyone is wrong and I'm not trying to offend anyone.

But the one thing that many people were offended with today was the ViraKhi hand holding during the SaiRat hug. Yes, the ViraKhi hand-holding was unnecessary, and maybe the CVs way of making up to the real couple for the lack of romantic scene, but if you actually look at it that way, is it out of character for Virat to stop Pakhi and thank her? My answer is no.

Let's talk about the Virat that we were introduced to, and witnessed throughout the series. He is shown to be a people pleaser, the one who can't see anyone unhappy at any cost. So, the hand-holding scene where he stopped Pakhi from leaving and thanked her, was very much in tune with his character. For Virat, out of character would have been letting Pakhi go and sulk on her own, despite her "helping" him at his bidding.

And yeah, the fact that it happened during SaiRat's hug. Yeah, that kinda put me off in the beginning too, but I re-watched that moment again to see if I missed something, and I did. After the hug between Devi Tai and Harinee, Virat's first thought was Sai, his first instinct was the share the moment with her. And he did. The hug did last for a brief moment. He had his eyes closed for the first few seconds and he savoured the hug. As he snapped out of the moment and saw Pakhi, it seemed like he wanted to thank her right there, verbally, and the hand-holding only happened because she wanted to leave.

He stopped her to say Thank you because that's the kind of person he is. And his dialogue about asking her not to leave, was not romantic in any way at all. And he didn't even say it as a friend. He wanted her to be part of this happy moment and not leave, because this was a happy moment for the entire Chavan family. And as a member of the Chavan family, and as his brother's wife, he felt that she too should be part of this happy moment.

Again, if the CVs wanted, they could have just had a moment where he verbally thanked her, but then again, now that they have included it too, neither did it seem out of place, nor did it seem like Virat's thank you had some hidden agenda or any confusion of his feelings. It was pure and genuine gratitude, just for the fact that Pakhi did something that he asked her to do, keeping aside her animosity.

Whew! I've typed a lot. Stopping right here. Do drop in your feedbacks too. And I'm really sorry if I offended anyone. Feel free to have a healthy discussion and please no bashing😳

Love,

Niya🤗

I understand you, BUT considering what Patralekha has done and what he got to know just in the morning, these scenes and him being so patient and concerned for her , thankful to her doesnt go well with me.. SO much forgiving when it comes to these ones.. Had it been a month or two after that revlation, where he could have seen how PP is remorseful , I would understand this scene of hand holding.. but not right after what she admitted to doing and does not even feel an ounce of guilt.. considering that he had to plead her for the same..I am certainly not okay with the way he is behaving with Patralekha right now.. Especially because he had such extreme desire to punish Sai just few days back...He has not even thought on how Patralekha catalysed his emotions towards Sai when he thought she did a crime, even after knowing the truth..Also he doesnt get to want Sai for himself , he needs to be firm about certain things, including her respect in this house.. Even after how she played a big part in insulting Sai when she was being thrown out, even after when he went to apologise to her, even when he came back how is it okay for him to think about Patralekha and her sadness when Sai is in his arms for the evry first time.. The same man who exercises a need to punish his wife for a mistake she commits, is fine in moments and is concerned about a friend who does not even understand the meaning of friend..

I could also related to the whole scene if it was put some two months before when Patralekha was not this negative and Virat was still not privy to her expectations from him. Him caring for her right now when she has been so vile to his wife and to his sister, hours after revelation is something that I cannot related to Virat as a character.. Virat is also a character that went with, he cant tolerate injustice and crime.. It also doesnt go with Virat who punished his wife for spoiling his sisters life and is so soft with his friend who played a bigger part..

She owed Devi that , and no one owed her any acknowledgement , not even Virat.

I also felt bad for Patralekha, her smile when he holds her hand wants her to be near, gives her hope, she clutches on any single hope that this man gives her..He is failing to understand her and in turn giving her hopes.. I hope he clarifies somethings to her tomorrow ..Sai or No Sai..

If this is his character, his character is also to speak against crime , injustice even when it his family/friend doing it. Why does he have to say Thankyou.. He could have said thats the atonement you owed to both Devi and Hairini and to some extent Sai..

ALSO

Sai-Virat-Pakhi do not deserve a Kuch Kuch Hota hai MOment.. Their relationship was not that way.. PLus the hug was given to a friend and the love was stopped by the man..The whole scene was designed that way and it all fit there.. There was an understanding between the two lovers and a friend needed that hug..Most TV shows have replicated that scene this way only..I cannot connect that scene to Virat-Pakhi and Sai at all..

The whole purpose of that scene was this only in the movie and in shows that I have seen replicating this scene.. It always comes across that the lovers are pretty much understanding towards the third lead who is a friend and has feelings towards the man.. A hug that is given to a friend who is love with you in a moment of despair, while you want your love to be by your side, telling her as well that you will always be hers...That's what this hug is supposed to mean..

We can say it can mean differently here in Ghum ..Ofcourse..But it was not needed here at all, specially whatever we have seen of the three in the recent episodes.. And I cant avoid thinking that it has been yet again added to accommodate the third lead. This is so wrong..

I am not sure, what are they trying to do by adding such scenes.. This does not work here..not in this scenario.. Has left a bitter taste for Virat now.. Its too late to whitewash Patralekha now and they are doing it at the expense of Virat..

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Thanks Niya, you echoed my thoughts. 🤗. Honestly I'm still confused what to feel. For me too, when he was savoring the hug, his eyes snapped open to see Pakhi sulking which definitely didn't go well with him because he's her friends which made her hold her wrist. He wanted to thank her for the work he did. No intentions of cheating. It's just that it happened in a Sairat hug

. Virat's intentions are correct but the action went wrong. .

Idk I still don't feel angry on him or disappointed but yes I'm sad for my fellow members

Why is a woman who abuses his wife his friend? Neerja, explain this to me I trust your judgement. Why is the woman who defended Kaku’s crimes when Sai was fighting for Devi-Harini-family reunion, who also believed Kaku did the right thing, who knew the truth (as she admitted during family confrontation scene and Virat knows this) but still conspired to stop the marriage (NOT the letter, BUT verbal support to Kaku and co) and who was a catalyst in throwing Sai out, who abuses Sai on the daily - why is this woman his friend? Is friendship with her more important than his respect for his wife and moral grounds?

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1400034021736779779

guys he stopped didi as a brother.... 🤣

Hiii guys,

I read lot of argued about viral holding Pakhi hand while hugging said.and indirectly he is leading pakhi more into her delusion though he is vary much move on.i agree on this part that he has moved on completely from pakhi.he is not minutely involve with pakhi in a romantic way.

But my point is virat is not a kid.he is grown up man.he must know that any interaction from him towards pakhi will lead them nowhere except more misunderstanding and emotional issues.so if he really care about pakhi and sai. Then he should act rationally. He has to ignore pakhi and leave her on her own.he must told her clearly that he love his wife and want to go ahead with his wife.He has ignore pakhi as much as he can.He must also tell sai everything loud and clear.then only he will be able to clean the mess and sought his life.

I will tell u an example of my life. My best friend from childhood fell in love with me during my 1st year of college. Though we know each other from childhood and very fond of each other. But I never loved him in that way

So I refused him.but there was awkwardness between us .we were so uncomfortable around each other. Then I shared that with my mom.she told him to stay away from him and try to restrict yourself in his issues for some time. Then only he will be able to move on .otherwise any step from my side will give him hope and he won't be able to move on.i did that exactly. It was very difficult for me to do so since he was my confidant.But still I did.

And over a period of time both of us come out of that awkward phase and he move on with a girl who love h back and we are to our original best friend relation but we learnt our lesson from past that we are grown up and some boundaries we need to respect.

I wrote this bcoz virat has said he consider pakhi his best friend then he should think about long term welfare of his friend.

I will give an e

Virat is apparently very much in love with his wife, wants her to stay with him and is very much aware of his 2 days love intentions. Thus, him getting distracted by pp doesn’t make sense, he could have finished his hug and spoke with pp if he had to. Also, he is blurring the boundary by holding her hands rather than creating boundaries for her.

Also, he conveniently forgot that pp to was actively and knowingly separating devkit! She doesn’t really deserve his thanks.

lastly, they could have done anything but ruin the hug !!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I understand you, BUT considering what Patralekha has done and what he got to know just in the morning, these scenes and him being so patient and concerned for her , thankful to her doesnt go well with me.. SO much forgiving when it comes to these ones.. Had it been a month or two after that, where he could have seen how PP is remorseful , I would understand this scene of hand holding.. but not right after what she admitted to doing and does not even feel an ounce of guilt.. considering that he had to plead her for the same..I am certainly not okay with the way he is behaving with Patralekha right now.. Especially because he had such extreme desire to punish Sai just few days back...He has not even thought on how Patralekha catalysed his emotions towards Sai when he thought she did a crime, even after knowing the truth..Also he doesnt get to want Sai for himself , he needs to be firm about certain things, including her respect in this house.. Even after how she played a big part in insulting Sai when she was being thrown out, even after when he went to apologise to her, even when he came back how is it okay for him to think about Patralekha and her sadness when Sai is in his arms for the evry first time.. The same man who exercises a need to punish his wife for a mistake she commits, is fine in moments and is concerned about a friend who does not even understand the meaning of friend..

I also felt bad for Patralekha, her smile when he holds her hand wants her to be near, gives her hope, she clutches on any single hope that this man gives her..He is failing to understand her and in turn giving her hopes.. I hope he clarifies somethings to her tomorrow ..Sai or No Sai..

If this is his character, his character is also to speak against crime , injustice even when it his family/friend doing it. Why does he have to say Thankyou.. He could have said thats the atonement you owed to both Devi and Hairini and to some extent Sai..

ALSO

Sai-Virat-Pakhi do not deserve a Kuch Kuch Hota hai MOment.. Their relationship was not that way.. PLus the hug was given to a friend and the love was stopped by the man..The whole scene was designed that way and it all fit there.. There was an understanding between the two lovers and a friend needed that hug..Most TV shows have replicated that scene this way only..I cannot connect that scene to Virat-Pakhi and Sai at all..

The whole purpose of that scene was this only in the movie and in shows that I have seen replicating this scene.. It always comes across that the lovers are pretty much understanding towards the third lead who is a friend and has feelings towards the man.. A hug that is given to a friend who is love with you in a moment of despair, while you want your love to be by your side, telling her as well that you will always be hers...That's what this hug is supposed to mean..

We can say it can mean differently here in Ghum ..Ofcourse..But it was not needed here at all, specially whatever we have seen of the three in the recent episodes.. And I cant avoid thinking that it has been yet again added to accommodate the third lead. This is so wrong..

I am not sure, what are they trying to do by adding such scenes.. This does not work here..not in this scenario.. Has left a bitter taste for Virat now.. Its too late to whitewash Patralekha now and they are doing it at the expense of Virat.. Virat's fans should be really angry now rather than defending him..I am extremely angry for doing that to Virat..

Most of all Sairat fans did not deserve this for being their for this couple for so long..

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

Why is a woman who abuses his wife his friend? Neerja, explain this to me I trust your judgement. Why is the woman who defended Kaku’s crimes when Sai was fighting for Devi-Harini-family reunion, who also believed Kaku did the right thing, who knew the truth (as she admitted during family confrontation scene and Virat knows this) but still conspired to stop the marriage (NOT the letter, BUT verbal support to Kaku and co) and who was a catalyst in throwing Sai out, who abuses Sai on the daily - why is this woman his friend? Is friendship with her more important than his respect for his wife and moral grounds?

Lol. Aise sawaal nahi poochte. 😂When they can whitewash criminal acts of bk gang as jaane anjaane mein hui galti, then pp can remain bff to virat too. Virat has been made to brush off pp's acts towards Sai as "ek dusre ko pasand nahi karte" not abuse. Sairat believe in everyones dil ki acchai afterall. And then if nothing else they can always give a scene to say- bechaari pp she is all alone without a husband. That will make virat feel guilty again🙄. So husband nahi hai toh virat ki dosti toh honi hi chahiye na. So we have to just put up with it sadly. What bothers me is that in KD, such "original" scenes were not there which made virat look so stupid. So on the one hand they are copying all the utterly trashy tracks from KD , but the few good things that happened on KD- like rono's consistent behavior with rk pushing her away, the nice LONG scene of sar dabaana after hospital track, nice long Sairat scenes during hospital track- yeh sab copy nahi kiya.

Virats intentions may have been pure. It was just to say thanks. Thats fine. But the timing of that scene by makers makes virat look silly. He could have gone to thank pp later. Makers are anyway giving us virat-pp scene next. So why ruin such a beautiful hug moment of the lead couple for this handholding?! If he didn't pay heed to pp now and only looks for her later, then it even justifies her irrational "anger" and screaming like a banshee in next scene. She can say- you requested my help, i helped you but you were so involved in your "zimmedari" wife that you didn't care about me, etc etc. If they gave us a whole bunch of Sairat scenes first with pp watching them "sadly"- the hug, more scenes of Sairat standing close to each other, sharing tender moments all evening, Virat/Sai giving admiring glances to Sai all evening- then finally he notices pp and goes to thank her- then it would be a good set up to the next Virat pp scene too.