Sai : The Khali Bartan DT Note pg 6 - Page 4

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Flaws are flaws, only when the story writer sees it as flaws, Sai is not a flawed character for the writer as there's absolutely no reflection on that aspect of her character

On the other hand, Virat has flaws and they do present that aspect of him

In the case of Virat, the actions takes precedence over intention but in case of Sai it's other way around.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I said Self esteem not Self respect, anyone who blames 3rd person for their partner not being in love with them while being all lovey dovey with their partner, do lack self esteem. You can live with the person who cheated on you and hate someone who had nothing to do with your relationship and had no responsibility towards you, seems like a coping mechanism where one directs their hurt and anger towards outsiders so they don't have to lose their partner, ultimately giving them right to do it again and you can keep hating on other people

I didn't say anything about gender, I wonder, why you added the last part?

Self-respect/self-esteem doesn't make a huge difference. I meant in the same line. Anyway that's not the point, that's how people react. That's what I wanted to say. It's human reaction irrespective of gender that's why I specifically mentioned gender cos mostly women are shown in that light on TV shows. That they blame the other woman.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I think certain flaws have been normalized in ITV keeping the audience choices in mind so writers refuse to call it out. FL poking in everyone’s matters and taking unilateral decisions is considered fine as the intention is important but the same liberty is not extended to other characters.

In the case of Virat, the actions takes precedence over intention but in case of Sai it's other way around.

Perfectly Put 🤗

Originally posted by: NoraSM

That's not how it is or not how it should be, If your partner wants to bone another person then you can do all to take him/her away from them but it doesn’t change the fact that he doesn't wish to be with you, this screams lack of self esteem

Sorry to quote ur post but I want to inform something.

Mauli was never jealous of nandini coz it was mauli who herself went to end this shame of d marriage, if I say she did great favour on Nandini by divorcing Kunal varna he never had a thought of divorcing mauli.

Mauli never blamed Nandini for Kunal's betrayal infact she used to work extra just to make Kunal's dream come true which she did made possible only to get betrayed by Kunal & Nandini who took advantage of her absence & started EMA behind her back when Mauli asked them what wrong she did to get such a betrayal they don't have answer & said we don't know how it started. They both made Mauli's life a joke & laughing stock as Mauli went against her mother to keep Nandini with her .

Nandini was childhood friend of mauli when she was going from very bad phrase & abused by her husband that time mauli helped Nandini gave her place in her house & Nandini still went behind mauli's back to have EMA with Kunal . U can understand d pain of mauli.

Mauli was real self made & self respected woman , who made her name in medical field on her own capabilities not coz of any man.. she never sang d song of main chali jaungi , when she realised there is no point of being in d relationship she proceeded with divorce .

If u urself see mauli as a character who will not able to stop urself praising her.

As I had seen mauli thars why I keep asking why I so called self respected & strong character sai can leave virat & move out of this marriage.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Like always you get personal in every post and question others' principles and morals. Let's discuss when you have something new to say. You can refer to my old posts until you stop getting personal

Really sai never had romantic inclinations towards virat 😲

Who get lost in virat's eyes ? Was sai checking that virat's eyes r functioning properly or not , during chocolate feeding but interrupted by car horn & on admission day after public hungama sai did lost in virat's eyes interrupted by bike's horn .

Who imagined herself in place of barkha in dance performance on holi , barkha's dance steps were way different from sai . I can only listen sai wanted to dance with virat on stage that's why she imagine herself in barkha.

Famous dupatta scene of Holi , if sai dint had any romantic inclination towards virat why dint she stopped him , ok she would be thinking virat sir covered them with dupatta to protect them from sunlight anyway after pulkit's phone call virat got embarrassed why sai got embarrassed.

When pulkit was trying to pacify sai to return to virat , that time sai imagined virat approaching her with flowers

Ye sab kisne kiya , koi apne deal wale husband ke saath aisa karta hai ?

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Sorry to quote ur post but I want to inform something.

Mauli was never jealous of nandini coz it was mauli who herself went to end this shame of d marriage, if I say she did great favour on Nandini by divorcing Kunal varna he never had a thought of divorcing mauli.

Mauli never blamed Nandini for Kunal's betrayal infact she used to work extra just to make Kunal's dream come true which she did made possible only to get betrayed by Kunal & Nandini who took advantage of her absence & started EMA behind her back when Mauli asked them what wrong she did to get such a betrayal they don't have answer & said we don't know how it started. They both made Mauli's life a joke & laughing stock as Mauli went against her mother to keep Nandini with her .

Nandini was childhood friend of mauli when she was going from very bad phrase & abused by her husband that time mauli helped Nandini gave her place in her house & Nandini still went behind mauli's back to have EMA with Kunal . U can understand d pain of mauli.

Mauli was real self made & self respected woman , who made her name in medical field on her own capabilities not coz of any man.. she never sang d song of main chali jaungi , when she realised there is no point of being in d relationship she proceeded with divorce .

If u urself see mauli as a character who will not able to stop urself praising her.

As I had seen mauli thars why I keep asking why I so called self respected & strong character sai can leave virat & move out of this marriage.

What was the age of maoli when she did this??

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Sorry to quote ur post but I want to inform something.

Mauli was never jealous of nandini coz it was mauli who herself went to end this shame of d marriage, if I say she did great favour on Nandini by divorcing Kunal varna he never had a thought of divorcing mauli.

Mauli never blamed Nandini for Kunal's betrayal infact she used to work extra just to make Kunal's dream come true which she did made possible only to get betrayed by Kunal & Nandini who took advantage of her absence & started EMA behind her back when Mauli asked them what wrong she did to get such a betrayal they don't have answer & said we don't know how it started. They both made Mauli's life a joke & laughing stock as Mauli went against her mother to keep Nandini with her .

Nandini was childhood friend of mauli when she was going from very bad phrase & abused by her husband that time mauli helped Nandini gave her place in her house & Nandini still went behind mauli's back to have EMA with Kunal . U can understand d pain of mauli.

Mauli was real self made & self respected woman , who made her name in medical field on her own capabilities not coz of any man.. she never sang d song of main chali jaungi , when she realised there is no point of being in d relationship she proceeded with divorce .

If u urself see mauli as a character who will not able to stop urself praising her.

As I had seen mauli thars why I keep asking why I so called self respected & strong character sai can leave virat & move out of this marriage.

What was the age of maoli when she did this??

Also mauli had her parent..

Originally posted by: Sairat

What was the age of maoli when she did this??

Sorry serial never told it but mauli was not 50+.

She was definitely near by 25 or 26.

A mother who always taunted her of being d reason of her failed marriage even wanted mauli back to kunal. Father & brother doesn't speak much.

Mauli's mother painted Nandini's face with black colour mauli dint hesitated to criticize her mother too.

Age is just a number , maturity don't come with age tag.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Sorry serial never told it but mauli was not 50+.

She was definitely near by 25 or 26.

A mother who always taunted her of being d reason of her failed marriage. Father & brother doesn't speak much.

I just quoted something for you at other post , please do read and yes today I am 28 and I would not do the same mistake , I did at 18..the difference need not to be of 25 to 50 years , sometimes 6-8 years is enough..

Mauli was clinging onto Kunal when he came back willingly after Nandini sent him back to Mauli after getting the news of Mauli's pregnant with Kunal's child. During their second confrontation at the temple after she caught them red-handed she held Nandini accountable then the day she found out about them, she was going to touch Kunal's face after he came back home getting beaten by Nandini's husband lmfao the way people lie & twist things as per their convenience just to shit on Sai 😆 I've followed Silsila religiously from the word go to it's final episode so none can come with the BS that I've half-baked knowledge or haven't seen the series.

Mauli is my all time favourite but no need to distort narratives. And Mauli was insecure of Nandini & why she shouldn't be? That's natural. Mauli was around 30. Mauli couldn't have pursued doctor's course without her dad's financial help I believe