Sai : The Khali Bartan DT Note pg 6 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Bold : is question ka jawab aapko mil jaye to mujhe bhi bata dena pls it's a req , I never got d answer sai agreeing to virat's condition. How can a so called strong & self respected girl can accept such condition.

Jawab milne ka umeed nhi hai!!

Originally posted by: NoraSM

That's not how it is or not how it should be, If your partner wants to bone another person then you can do all to take him/her away from them but it doesn’t change the fact that he doesn't wish to be with you, this screams lack of self esteem

Not lacking self-respect. People act that way in real life too. We blame the other woman/man for snatching, seperating our love from myself. If you don't do that then that's good. But I've come across such people only. Probably I too might react the same way. This doesn't have anything to do with gender.

You said it all. I just want to add this

If Sai believed Virat Pakhi loved each other then any self-respecting women won't romance the man who is cheating on her. She doesn't seem to have a problem when things are smooth and are going as per her plan but the moment something goes wrong she accuses her husband of an affair. It feels like emotional manipulation rather than insecurity.

Today we saw she sends her husband to convince his ex but if she knows what her co-sis feels about her husband yet she doesn't mind if it helps but she taunts him with “best friend”.

Sai keeps pushing Pakhi Virat for admitting their love and she claims she doesn't want to disturb their “private” time. Isn't she supporting EMA by staying silent about their affair and going back to the same man again in the night

Whoever copied my post on Twitter, please quote the new one as I have corrected the typos. Thank you for sharing and enjoy guys in bashing. I will be having popcorn and reading all your neutral unbiased views 🤣

Originally posted by: BBFanForever

Not lacking self-respect. People act that way in real life too. We blame the other woman/man for snatching, seperating our love from myself. If you don't do that then that's good. But I've come across such people only. Probably I too might react the same way. This doesn't have anything to do with gender.

I said Self esteem not Self respect, anyone who blames 3rd person for their partner not being in love with them while being all lovey dovey with their partner, do lack self esteem. You can live with the person who cheated on you and hate someone who had nothing to do with your relationship and had no responsibility towards you, seems like a coping mechanism where one directs their hurt and anger towards outsiders so they don't have to lose their partner, ultimately giving them right to do it again and you can keep hating on other people

I didn't say anything about gender, I wonder, why you added the last part?

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

You said it all. I just want to add this

If Sai believed Virat Pakhi loved each other then any self-respecting women won't romance the man who is cheating on her. She doesn't seem to have a problem when things are smooth and are going as per her plan but the moment something goes wrong she accuses her husband of an affair. It feels like emotional manipulation rather than insecurity.

Today we saw she sends her husband to convince his ex but if she knows what her co-sis feels about her husband yet she doesn't mind if it helps but she taunts him with “best friend”.

Sai keeps pushing Pakhi Virat for admitting their love and she claims she doesn't want to disturb their “private” time. Isn't she supporting EMA by staying silent about their affair and going back to the same man again in the night

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

If giving in vulnerable moments is romance for u. Then what virat did during their initial marriage days when he was supposed to be in love with pakhi? Didn't he tucked sai hair on first night itself? Didn't he got mesmerized by seeing sai on college admission day? Then what about his character? Did sai ever made any romantic advances towards him? Didn't she still clear on her stand to leave house? By the way virat is not 1 yr baby that sai has to push him towards EMA. Virat stans can stoop any low to defame others characters to justify his character. Again proved😑.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

You said it all. I just want to add this

If Sai believed Virat Pakhi loved each other then any self-respecting women won't romance the man who is cheating on her. She doesn't seem to have a problem when things are smooth and are going as per her plan but the moment something goes wrong she accuses her husband of an affair. It feels like emotional manipulation rather than insecurity.

Today we saw she sends her husband to convince his ex but if she knows what her co-sis feels about her husband yet she doesn't mind if it helps but she taunts him with “best friend”.

Sai keeps pushing Pakhi Virat for admitting their love and she claims she doesn't want to disturb their “private” time. Isn't she supporting EMA by staying silent about their affair and going back to the same man again in the night

Sai is opportunistic

Sai sending Virat to Pakhi, Sai using their relationship dynamics during every fight, same Sai forgetting about them when she is all in love with Virat, her dhamkis of leaving the house while dreaming about Virat planning her birthday party

This makes up for a very good character, she can use people and grab every opportunity which presents itself

If she wasn't your regular ITV female lead, I would have scratched the surface to look for the layers inside the character, I know there's absolutely nothing but inconsistencies

I would have loved her if she wasn't or if people didn't want her to be all that is good and pure, she is practically a Goddess who can never be wrong and we riot, if you say anything against her

I am sh*t scared of extremists

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Sai is opportunistic

Sai sending Virat to Pakhi, Sai using their relationship dynamics during every fight, same Sai forgetting about them when she is all in love with Virat, her dhamkis of leaving the house while dreaming about Virat planning her birthday party

This makes up for a very good character, she can use people and grab every opportunity which presents itself

If she wasn't your regular ITV female lead, I would have scratched the surface to look for the layers inside the character, I know there's absolutely nothing but inconsistencies

I would have loved her if she wasn't or if people didn't want her to be all that is good and pure, she is practically a Goddess who can never be wrong and we riot, if you say anything against her

I am sh*t scared of extremists

@Bold You echoed my thoughts.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Agree. I wish ITV gave layered and flawed FL. The problem is most of the FL are flawed but they are seldom treated like one. They are treated as folks who always do right and that's the disconnect.

@Bold You echoed my thoughts.

Flaws are flaws, only when the story writer sees it as flaws, Sai is not a flawed character for the writer as there's absolutely no reflection on that aspect of her character

On the other hand, Virat has flaws and they do present that aspect of him