Sairat and consent - Page 2

Originally posted by: Svt611

It will be beautiful to see them handle this!

I remember during Valentine’s Day asli when that guy had walked in Sai was a little apprehensive of being there and Virat reassured her through his hand on her elbow...

Hope they can show something like this!!

See, have just finished posting based on that 😆

This might be OTT.

But emotinally Virat will definitely support her, but I want to make him help her be more independent. Like, genuinely teaching her some safety procedures in these cases, some self defence in all this, help her feel more confident and secure.🙈

Nice discussion!

I have an observation here. I have not seen sai curious to touch him or trying to be close with him yet. Do you think her recent hospital blush and cheek pull are indications?! I didn’t observe anything romantic in it either!! The last incident was holi under bhaang effect where she did look romantic towards him. May be she doesn’t have any expectations on virat or their relationship that it progresses that way.

To summarize, am I correct in assuming sai is not yet physically attracted to virat? May be it is not jagtap issue also. Then what could it be?! In contrary, we have seen the tension in virat. He looks like barely hanging there 😂. I am worried if this difference in their feelings will be played by didi in future track. 🤭

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Nice discussion!

I have an observation here. I have not seen sai curious to touch him or trying to be close with him yet. Do you think her recent hospital blush and cheek pull are indications?! I didn’t observe anything romantic in it either!! The last incident was holi under bhaang effect where she did look romantic towards him. May be she doesn’t have any expectations on virat or their relationship that it progresses that way.

To summarize, am I correct in assuming sai is not yet physically attracted to virat? May be it is not jagtap issue also. Then what could it be?! In contrary, we have seen the tension in virat. He looks like barely hanging there 😂. I am worried if this difference in their feelings will be played by didi in future track. 🤭

Virat is normal handsome. THAT'S IT.

Originally posted by: laksh

Awesome, love the way you have put how Virat can assure her ❤ .

Thanks for tagging me.

I loved the scene in the college when Virat moved Sai aside when the guy who was harassing a girl was brought to Dean's office on the valentine's day. Would have been nice if they had showed Virat thinking about that scene later.

They can show similar such scene in future where Sai moves away from someone from her college or Virat's friend when they touch her or move close to her, a harmless touch. Virat might try to explain to Sai that it was just a harmless touch and he knows how good the person is or he noticed that he didn't mean any harm but Sai can be shown getting affected and not getting anything that Virat was explaining. They can may be show her look scared or hesitant or acting very conscious to even Virat's touch after that. He can then try to make her feel comfortable and she getting relaxed realising that it is Virat?

How about getting a scene where Virat can then think about it later as how Sai looked scared and can immediately relate it to incidents with Jagtap. He can be shown realising how much Sai would have had to face, how bold she was/shows herself to be but is still affected by those, can realise how much it bothers her or scares her. He can give a thought as how careful he ought to be in his advances, can think and plan how to talk to her about it, how to address the issue. He can even think if she has PTSD.

And after all such thoughts, Virat who used to touch her with no hesitation can act very conscious or would be trying hard and avoid touching her? Sai can notice change in him, can notice how is he refraining himself from touching her or moving close with her, maintaining a little distance unusually? She can then try to hold his hands or move closer to him, test if he is wantedly trying to ignore her or trying to maintain distance with her. She can then blurt out that she is not liking him doing all these? He can may be then get surprised at the revelation and can then hesitantly tell her why he even did that? Slowly revealing her that he was concerned about her, hee comfort? He can then bring up the topic carefully so as to not offend her? Sai will then gwt to realise how much he thinks about her, her comfort and her consent? She can then tell him that she doesn't mind his touch, has not felt anything awkward when he moves close to her, can share how he is probably the first person with whom she has been so comfortable with. She can then ask for sometime for her to open up about her issues?

They can develop some bonding. One day she can get to face some guy trying to touch her in the college which will make her feel uncomfortable. She can keep thinking about it after reaching home, lost in her thoughts and not even realise Virat calling her. She can open the topic, ask him if they can talk about whatever he had asked earlier and Virat would get surprised but at the same time alarmed. He can act concerned and she can share what happened in the college that day. He can then encourage her to open up, and then she share about Jagtap too. He can come to know of all the hardships she had faced, can realise what would have happened if he had not left Samrat's marriage and gone to GC to save her, can realise that she would have had to suffer at Jagtap's hands and that thoughts itself would be very scary for him. He can hold her close and assure her that he will always protect her, he can quickly leave her realising what he was doing and can look at her with guilt. Sai can act confused, ask him why he had left her and he can then take a promise from her to lbe honest with him if she ever gets uncomfortable with his touch. She will get teared up, can go to his arms on her own, can then pull his hands and wrap them around herself, look up at him, then tell "uski kabhi zaroorat hi nahi padegi, mujhe aap par poora bharosa hai".

Sorry, you had just asked for a scenario and look how lengthy it has turned out 🙈.

Hey.... you can write a beautiful OS/SS on this..... we would be very excited to read.....

Hug please🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Platonic bhi chalega, friends ke beech bhi toh hota hai

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Hug please🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Platonic bhi chalega, friends ke beech bhi toh hota hai

Are they friends? #GhumSocialDistancingGoals 🤣

Originally posted by: laksh

Awesome, love the way you have put how Virat can assure her ❤ .

Thanks for tagging me.

I loved the scene in the college when Virat moved Sai aside when the guy who was harassing a girl was brought to Dean's office on the valentine's day. Would have been nice if they had showed Virat thinking about that scene later.

They can show similar such scene in future where Sai moves away from someone from her college or Virat's friend when they touch her or move close to her, a harmless touch. Virat might try to explain to Sai that it was just a harmless touch and he knows how good the person is or he noticed that he didn't mean any harm but Sai can be shown getting affected and not getting anything that Virat was explaining. They can may be show her look scared or hesitant or acting very conscious to even Virat's touch after that. He can then try to make her feel comfortable and she getting relaxed realising that it is Virat?

How about getting a scene where Virat can then think about it later as how Sai looked scared and can immediately relate it to incidents with Jagtap. He can be shown realising how much Sai would have had to face, how bold she was/shows herself to be but is still affected by those, can realise how much it bothers her or scares her. He can give a thought as how careful he ought to be in his advances, can think and plan how to talk to her about it, how to address the issue. He can even think if she has PTSD.

And after all such thoughts, Virat who used to touch her with no hesitation can act very conscious or would be trying hard and avoid touching her? Sai can notice change in him, can notice how is he refraining himself from touching her or moving close with her, maintaining a little distance unusually? She can then try to hold his hands or move closer to him, test if he is wantedly trying to ignore her or trying to maintain distance with her. She can then blurt out that she is not liking him doing all these? He can may be then get surprised at the revelation and can then hesitantly tell her why he even did that? Slowly revealing her that he was concerned about her, hee comfort? He can then bring up the topic carefully so as to not offend her? Sai will then gwt to realise how much he thinks about her, her comfort and her consent? She can then tell him that she doesn't mind his touch, has not felt anything awkward when he moves close to her, can share how he is probably the first person with whom she has been so comfortable with. She can then ask for sometime for her to open up about her issues?

They can develop some bonding. One day she can get to face some guy trying to touch her in the college which will make her feel uncomfortable. She can keep thinking about it after reaching home, lost in her thoughts and not even realise Virat calling her. She can open the topic, ask him if they can talk about whatever he had asked earlier and Virat would get surprised but at the same time alarmed. He can act concerned and she can share what happened in the college that day. He can then encourage her to open up, and then she share about Jagtap too. He can come to know of all the hardships she had faced, can realise what would have happened if he had not left Samrat's marriage and gone to GC to save her, can realise that she would have had to suffer at Jagtap's hands and that thoughts itself would be very scary for him. He can hold her close and assure her that he will always protect her, he can quickly leave her realising what he was doing and can look at her with guilt. Sai can act confused, ask him why he had left her and he can then take a promise from her to lbe honest with him if she ever gets uncomfortable with his touch. She will get teared up, can go to his arms on her own, can then pull his hands and wrap them around herself, look up at him, then tell "uski kabhi zaroorat hi nahi padegi, mujhe aap par poora bharosa hai".

Sorry, you had just asked for a scenario and look how lengthy it has turned out 🙈.

hahaha its beautiful laksh...

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Nice discussion!

I have an observation here. I have not seen sai curious to touch him or trying to be close with him yet. Do you think her recent hospital blush and cheek pull are indications?! I didn’t observe anything romantic in it either!! The last incident was holi under bhaang effect where she did look romantic towards him. May be she doesn’t have any expectations on virat or their relationship that it progresses that way.

To summarize, am I correct in assuming sai is not yet physically attracted to virat? May be it is not jagtap issue also. Then what could it be?! In contrary, we have seen the tension in virat. He looks like barely hanging there 😂. I am worried if this difference in their feelings will be played by didi in future track. 🤭

abhi tak sai is not even thinking about virat physically, isliye tho cvs ko romance kaliye request kar rahe hai but kya phaidha🤣

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Nice discussion!

I have an observation here. I have not seen sai curious to touch him or trying to be close with him yet. Do you think her recent hospital blush and cheek pull are indications?! I didn’t observe anything romantic in it either!! The last incident was holi under bhaang effect where she did look romantic towards him. May be she doesn’t have any expectations on virat or their relationship that it progresses that way.

To summarize, am I correct in assuming sai is not yet physically attracted to virat? May be it is not jagtap issue also. Then what could it be?! In contrary, we have seen the tension in virat. He looks like barely hanging there 😂. I am worried if this difference in their feelings will be played by didi in future track. 🤭

I have just answered your question in your post. I think that explains why she is stopping herself. It could be to do with entitlement. She doesn’t think that she has rights on him, can have expectations from him, hence getting physical is not something she would think or encourage even if she gets such thoughts without her own knowledge. He is someone else’s love.

She has completely blocked herself from having any such thoughts. Must be a conscious and many times subconscious efforts from her to not look at him that way.

I always believe that she had some unknown feelings for Virat in GC and after he had shared about his commitment, expressed his thoughts about their marriage, refusing to accept it a real one, refusing to be her husband, clearly communicating that he had someone else in his life and wasn’t interested in her, she had closed all gates for Virat. She was actually heartbroken, a girl who had crush or was infatuated or had some feelings for him was deeply hurt, hence her walls have been more higher than it would have been. That hurt/rejection has made her act even more determined to stay away from him. That is the reason why she keeps telling to even herself that she will have to leave the house one day or the other. That is the reason why she is unable to see/acknowledge his changed feelings towards her. She doesn’t want to misunderstand and get hurt again. She doesn’t want to act foolish. That is the reason why she is holding herself so much, controlling her emotions, maintaining distance, pushing him away. Also she has not just she heard about his commitment, she is seeing that commitment in front her house after their marriage. So Pakhi isn’t just a name, she feels defeated, she is actually heartbroken.

On the day that he was applying medicine on her feet, she got lost looking at him, she was actually feeling attracted towards him but she doesn’t consider herself to be actually his wife to show any rights on him, has no confidence in their relationship that she can exercise her rights on him. Didn’t she tell on the confrontation day that she doesn’t expect anything from him as a wife, that includes such romantic desires too I guess. She stops herself from even thinking that she can get emotional support from him as a husband, how would she get physical 😒.

During Holi, she had applied colours on his cheeks, that wasn’t under the effect of Bhang, it looked romantic or like her claiming some rights to apply colour on her husband, applying colour like how a wife would do. Her dream to dance showed that she wanted to do dance with him but she stopped her train of thoughts even when she was intoxicated because it was Virat about whom she was thinking all that. She stops herself from thinking all that in that state butbin sober state, they all become out of question.

She let him put bangles on her, she stayed next to him on the bed, was lying down without moving, without shying away, she was just giving into some new feelings, was going with the flow, let him take the lead, she was actually getting comfortable, was her way of acting romantic with him that moment but it all went away as soon as she was ousted from the house. She has now lost the very little hopes that she had I guess, she is made to think that she was no more than a responsibility to him and that is why he could oust her from his house, throw her away from his life. So, it might take time for her to be able to trust him, to be able to understand his feelings for her, to even think that he actually is her husband, that he is trying to get close to her or that she can get romantic with him. Right now, she won’t be able to understand his advances or acknowledge it, she might only try to run away, avoid so that she doesn’t have to face any heartbreak again, so that she doesn’t start building hopes again, so that she doesn’t misunderstand that he probably has feelings for her. All the progress that they had made is gone for a toss due to his latest act/decision.