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Posted: 4 years ago
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So I was thinking how much this show has given importance to physical consent as far as SaiRat are concerned

There have been lot of discussions on this forum about how Jagtap tortured Sai. So was thinking of a scenario on how this scene can play out in the show. Say Sai has a female friend who has come over to study and that friend talks about her celebrity crush or something and suddenly asks Sai If she ever had crushes and probably calls Virat normal handsome 😝 which triggers Sai to say he is actually handsome. Then the friend can go on to ask something which might bring the traumatic memories for Sai and she would say I haven't thought about it because of (explains the bad past) but I feel comfortable with Virat Sir's touch aisa kuch and goes into thinking mode. Virat can overhear this whole convo before entering the room. This will make him understand and help address that trauma for her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sairat_fan7

So I was thinking how much this show has given importance to physical consent as far as SaiRat are concerned

There have been lot of discussions on this forum about how Jagtap tortured Sai. So was thinking of a scenario on how this scene can play out in the show. Say Sai has a female friend who has come over to study and that friend talks about her celebrity crush or something and suddenly asks Sai If she ever had crushes and probably calls Virat normal handsome 😝 which triggers Sai to say he is actually handsome. Then the friend can go on to ask something which might bring the traumatic memories for Sai and she would say I haven't thought about it because of (explains the bad past) but I feel comfortable with Virat Sir's touch aisa kuch and goes into thinking mode. Virat can overhear this whole convo before entering the room. This will make him understand and help address that trauma for her. P.S someone on Insta tag Vankar on stories and give him such ideas 😬 He sees stories but pata nahi kuch implement karega bhi. Copy pasting mein jo obsession hai...


You really dream big, but I hope this dream of yours comes true!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Nice, it's good to see virat understanding sai trauma and making her feel more comfortable with his touch...

They can some scenes like after friend left sai sitting in balcony thinking about all that happened and virat takes her on long drive with some bahana.. small ice cream treat with lake side walk and assure her indirectly saying he would protect her from every bad touch , treat her with utmost respect and most importantly he would never cross his line without her concern, if she gives him the right to touch, he would feel himself the luckiest person in the world...


Tagging few people just to know their pov or expected Senario to deal with this kind of situation..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: methebest


You really dream big, but I hope this dream of yours comes true!!

Haha 😂 Really hope they try to address it 🥺

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Nice, it's good to see virat understanding sai trauma and making her feel more comfortable with his touch...

They can some scenes like after friend left sai sitting in balcony thinking about all that happened and virat takes her on long drive with some bahana.. small ice cream treat with lake side walk and assure her indirectly saying he would protect her from every bad touch , treat her with utmost respect and most importantly he would never cross his line without her concern, if she gives him the right to touch, he would feel himself the luckiest person in the world...


Tagging few people just to know their pov or expected Senario to deal with this kind of situation..


This would be awesome. Thanks for commenting ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Nice, it's good to see virat understanding sai trauma and making her feel more comfortable with his touch...

They can some scenes like after friend left sai sitting in balcony thinking about all that happened and virat takes her on long drive with some bahana.. small ice cream treat with lake side walk and assure her indirectly saying he would protect her from every bad touch , treat her with utmost respect and most importantly he would never cross his line without her concern, if she gives him the right to touch, he would feel himself the luckiest person in the world...


Tagging few people just to know their pov or expected Senario to deal with this kind of situation..

That’s a brilliant idea . No matter how toxic some tracks are but the show hasn’t shown some of the toxic characteristics of ITV ML . Manhandling the FL , unnecessarily grabbing the FL , stalking the FL in the name of love . I am glad Virat has been very sensible when it comes to physical intimacy and consent .


Being a women I know how traumatic can sexual abuse be but unfortunately this show doesn’t focus on that aspect . Sai was kidnapped, molested and forced to marry a goon but the trauma is not even discussed.


I wish in future they show Virat and Sai talking about this . Infact I want Virat to start the discussion when he starts getting touchy with her . Maybe before their first hug , Virat can actually ask if he can proceed further . Sai can open about his her sexual abuse in GC and Virat consoling her would bring them emotionally closer .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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nice thought though i wish something happens like that and it makes logical sense too since sai has gone through so much and virat makes her comfortable with his touch is the most sweetest thing but than this show is obsessed with copy&,paste of the OG thus i expect nothing at all

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sairat_fan7

So I was thinking how much this show has given importance to physical consent as far as SaiRat are concerned

There have been lot of discussions on this forum about how Jagtap tortured Sai. So was thinking of a scenario on how this scene can play out in the show. Say Sai has a female friend who has come over to study and that friend talks about her celebrity crush or something and suddenly asks Sai If she ever had crushes and probably calls Virat normal handsome 😝 which triggers Sai to say he is actually handsome. Then the friend can go on to ask something which might bring the traumatic memories for Sai and she would say I haven't thought about it because of (explains the bad past) but I feel comfortable with Virat Sir's touch aisa kuch and goes into thinking mode. Virat can overhear this whole convo before entering the room. This will make him understand and help address that trauma for her. P.S someone on Insta tag Vankar on stories and give him such ideas 😬 He sees stories but pata nahi kuch implement karega bhi. Copy pasting mein jo obsession hai...

@beautiful thought 👍🏼, hope someone from the team really copies this idea and implements. They can show something hatke and also something that is very sensitive/important ❤.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It will be beautiful to see them handle this!

I remember during Valentine’s Day asli when that guy had walked in Sai was a little apprehensive of being there and Virat reassured her through his hand on her elbow...


Hope they can show something like this!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Nice, it's good to see virat understanding sai trauma and making her feel more comfortable with his touch...

They can some scenes like after friend left sai sitting in balcony thinking about all that happened and virat takes her on long drive with some bahana.. small ice cream treat with lake side walk and assure her indirectly saying he would protect her from every bad touch , treat her with utmost respect and most importantly he would never cross his line without her concern, if she gives him the right to touch, he would feel himself the luckiest person in the world...


Tagging few people just to know their pov or expected Senario to deal with this kind of situation..

Awesome, love the way you have put how Virat can assure her ❤ .

Thanks for tagging me.

I loved the scene in the college when Virat moved Sai aside when the guy who was harassing a girl was brought to Dean's office on the valentine's day. Would have been nice if they had showed Virat thinking about that scene later.

They can show similar such scene in future where Sai moves away from someone from her college or Virat's friend when they touch her or move close to her, a harmless touch. Virat might try to explain to Sai that it was just a harmless touch and he knows how good the person is or he noticed that he didn't mean any harm but Sai can be shown getting affected and not getting anything that Virat was explaining. They can may be show her look scared or hesitant or acting very conscious to even Virat's touch after that. He can then try to make her feel comfortable and she getting relaxed realising that it is Virat?

How about getting a scene where Virat can then think about it later as how Sai looked scared and can immediately relate it to incidents with Jagtap. He can be shown realising how much Sai would have had to face, how bold she was/shows herself to be but is still affected by those, can realise how much it bothers her or scares her. He can give a thought as how careful he ought to be in his advances, can think and plan how to talk to her about it, how to address the issue. He can even think if she has PTSD.


And after all such thoughts, Virat who used to touch her with no hesitation can act very conscious or would be trying hard and avoid touching her? Sai can notice change in him, can notice how is he refraining himself from touching her or moving close with her, maintaining a little distance unusually? She can then try to hold his hands or move closer to him, test if he is wantedly trying to ignore her or trying to maintain distance with her. She can then blurt out that she is not liking him doing all these? He can may be then get surprised at the revelation and can then hesitantly tell her why he even did that? Slowly revealing her that he was concerned about her, hee comfort? He can then bring up the topic carefully so as to not offend her? Sai will then gwt to realise how much he thinks about her, her comfort and her consent? She can then tell him that she doesn't mind his touch, has not felt anything awkward when he moves close to her, can share how he is probably the first person with whom she has been so comfortable with. She can then ask for sometime for her to open up about her issues?

They can develop some bonding. One day she can get to face some guy trying to touch her in the college which will make her feel uncomfortable. She can keep thinking about it after reaching home, lost in her thoughts and not even realise Virat calling her. She can open the topic, ask him if they can talk about whatever he had asked earlier and Virat would get surprised but at the same time alarmed. He can act concerned and she can share what happened in the college that day. He can then encourage her to open up, and then she share about Jagtap too. He can come to know of all the hardships she had faced, can realise what would have happened if he had not left Samrat's marriage and gone to GC to save her, can realise that she would have had to suffer at Jagtap's hands and that thoughts itself would be very scary for him. He can hold her close and assure her that he will always protect her, he can quickly leave her realising what he was doing and can look at her with guilt. Sai can act confused, ask him why he had left her and he can then take a promise from her to lbe honest with him if she ever gets uncomfortable with his touch. She will get teared up, can go to his arms on her own, can then pull his hands and wrap them around herself, look up at him, then tell "uski kabhi zaroorat hi nahi padegi, mujhe aap par poora bharosa hai".


Sorry, you had just asked for a scenario and look how lengthy it has turned out 🙈.

Edited by laksh - 4 years ago

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