Just finished watching yesterday’s episode (Episode 24)
My views on it...
Zain clearly crossed the line, there’s no two ways about it...
But more importantly, his family completely missed the point!
The guy had so much pent-up within...wasn’t having a heart to heart conversation with him the most logical thing to do, in a complex situation like this??
This drama, as I have said earlier, is a success, since it communicates a very important message, especially with regards to human relationships...about how we take each other so easily for granted...
And, many a times, this is a selective phenomenon...which is where the problem lies...
Let me explain...
Neither Zain nor Zoya are selfish people
Zoya genuinely feels for Zain’s family, and Zain is obviously besotted by Zoya!
The entire crux of the problem lies in Zoya having taken Zain completely for granted, and Zain, his family...that’s the inherent nature of the dynamic between these equations.
The problem arises since not are just Zain and Zoya immature, Zain’s family (except for Dadi) are handling the entire situation very poorly....for whatever reason....could be either their inherent bias about Zain being largely self-centered (Zain may have also given them reason to believe the same)...or, could be their new-found love for Zoya, and once again their bias in her favour!
But clearly they know their son well enough to realise that he is essentially a loving chap, someone who is truly family oriented, and most importantly, is jobless now!
Yet they are committing the major blunder of trying to teach him a lesson (at least discussing the same) just as Zain is committing a similar blunder of persistently bending backwards for Zoya (including paying her tution fees)!
The bottom line is that nobody is realising where the actual issue lies, and is continuously only adding to the already existing pile of issues...nobody is willing to take a step back and reflect...to introspect!!
And that is why, the relevance of another important life lesson in this drama...
The importance of self-awareness
The importance of listening
The importance of wisdom
Are all, as important ingredients in designing the recipe of successful relationships, as is unconditional love, kindness and support!
Cheers!
DocD
P.S.: Danyal was OUTSTANDING in the outburst scene...I actually watched it twice!😀
I officially declare myself to be a Danyal Zafar fan! 😁
He should seriously invest in honing his craft...he is a Fawad Khan, in the making!👍👌👏