Feel bad for Samrat - Page 3

Pakhi was just jealous and was being unreasonable, she actually can’t really understand what comfort and fun is, with Virat it was a two day thing and there was no comfort. And she’s never really been with Samrat.

Pakhi I feel is a very unreasonable person by nature, she’s always been like that, like blocking Virat, marrying Samrat etc and she continues be so.

So I really feel she’ll still be quite unreasonable with Samrat as well, as she has been. It’ll take a lot for their relationship.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I am sure he would cry buckets for Samrat. If at all any guilt that he should have, it should be for Samrat. Truly fasadiya usko 😲

It's not that she doesn't understand. It's just that she doesn't want to accept that Virat is so freely having fun with Sai. When you love someone or think you love someone you don't want to see the person being good with someone else. Plus she is the kind of person who looks like she likes the serious type of relationship. Maybe sweet and romantic too but not cute nok jhok type relationship. That's why it's hard to accept it for her that the Veeru she loves is like this. That's sad because Samrat is Sai's twin brother. 🤣 So either he is not the right guy for her or else she has to adjust with that. 🤣

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yesterday Pakhi could not understand the cute banter between husband and wife. What will she be expecting out of her own relationship with Samrat, if it ever happens? Not sure how she will be with Samrat if everything sorts out between them? She must have observed her parents, they look like modern couple who are very friendly with each other. But why she is surprised at SaiRat's banter!! Could it be just jealously or she could not wrap her head around the concept of marriage. Whatever it is, it looked silly.

How do you think her relationship with Samrat would be.

With Vedi Vahini aka BBB any question can turn into a laugh riot but I guess you are seeking serious answers. So the difference is that she couldn't see Sai and Virat share that closeness because she was in the final moments of her residual 'sanity' (if there was any to begin with) in a state of morbid jealousy. She had decided --despite clearly hearing from Virat that he wants her to leave and have Sai by his side -- that she would not let Sai enter the room. Given Virat's vulnerable and weak physical state at the moment, she thought she would have her way by hook or crook -- i.e. to keep the husband and wife apart. She knew that if they were to see each other, it would mean a new beginning and a complete end to her 'jagah' in his life. So, for her witnessing that moment where they were unaffected by her near-meltdown rants almost like the Ladakh trip fiasco and instead continued to tease one another and have their private conversation was almost shocking. Also, I remember saying this after their grand fight over Sai going to Pulkit's house for lunch -- she has never witnessed their banter. In her mind, they it only have animosity in their conversations because most of the conversations she has overheard or butted into were arguments -- or mild conversations about someone else (Shivani, Devyani etc). It was a moment when she actually realised that they have a kind of companionship, their private jokes and playful flirting that are beyond her level of 'maturity'. So she couldn't understand and was taken aback when Virat said, "Hum aise hi baat Karte Hain".

Plus this was the FIRST meeting after breaking up and they seemed to have already put it all behind them. No blaming, no victim card (which she's a pro at), no grudges, just laughter and jokes like they were never apart. With her worst fears coming true and all that stress from 'bina Palak jhapkaye' visible in her popping eyes and her face, one can't expect her to understand what the two of them were sharing in her presence.

Coming to Samrat, I don't think she's so stupid to not know what marriage is. The proof is the phone call she made to Virat to remind him that another man will now stake complete claim on her, which she wanted to give him. If she could move on and accept reality, she will perhaps also have her lighter moments in her relationship but at the moment she's suffering from morbid jealousy also called Othello's syndrome. Her imaginary husband has just disowned her and all her attempts to physically stall the 'other woman' have miserably failed and her 'imaginary husband' is actually flirting with this other woman in her presence. It is not easy for a Delusional mind.

All her dialogues that she's mouthing and will mouth in the morning are her own feeble attempts to satiate her own helplessness. She already knows Virat has made his choice.

Originally posted by: janhav

With Vedi Vahini aka BBB any question can turn into a laugh riot but I guess you are seeking serious answers. So the difference is that she couldn't see Sai and Virat share that closeness because she was in the final moments of her residual 'sanity' (if there was any to begin with) in a state of morbid jealousy. She had decided --despite clearly hearing from Virat that he wants her to leave and have Sai by his side -- that she would not let Sai enter the room. Given Virat's vulnerable and weak physical state at the moment, she thought she would have her way by hook or crook -- i.e. to keep the husband and wife apart. She knew that if they were to see each other, it would mean a new beginning and a complete end to her 'jagah' in his life. So, for her witnessing that moment where they were unaffected by her near-meltdown rants almost like the Ladakh trip fiasco and instead continued to tease one another and have their private conversation was almost shocking. Also, I remember saying this after their grand fight over Sai going to Pulkit's house for lunch -- she has never witnessed their banter. In her mind, they it only have animosity in their conversations because most of the conversations she has overheard or butted into were arguments -- or mild conversations about someone else (Shivani, Devyani etc). It was a moment when she actually realised that they have a kind of companionship, their private jokes and playful flirting that are beyond her level of 'maturity'. So she couldn't understand and was taken aback when Virat said, "Hum aise hi baat Karte Hain".

Plus this was the FIRST meeting after breaking up and they seemed to have already put it all behind them. No blaming, no victim card (which she's a pro at), no grudges, just laughter and jokes like they were never apart. With her worst fears coming true and all that stress from 'bina Palak jhapkaye' visible in her popping eyes and her face, one can't expect her to understand what the two of them were sharing in her presence.

Coming to Samrat, I don't think she's so stupid to not know what marriage is. The proof is the phone call she made to Virat to remind him that another man will now stake complete claim on her, which she wanted to give him. If she could move on and accept reality, she will perhaps also have her lighter moments in her relationship but at the moment she's suffering from morbid jealousy also called Othello's syndrome. Her imaginary husband has just disowned her and all her attempts to physically stall the 'other woman' have miserably failed and her 'imaginary husband' is actually flirting with this other woman in her presence. It is not easy for a Delusional mind.

All her dialogues that she's mouthing and will mouth in the morning are her own feeble attempts to satiate her own helplessness. She already knows Virat has made his choice.

Yes this is what I observed too. For her Sai has been the other person between the two of them. Yesterday she understood that she was fighting a losing battle, but still kept on it...to the point that she stopped making ANY kind of sense, let alone being logical. It was all random events she was referring to which both Sai and Virat have forgotten and forgiven. I like the precap though where Virat said he did not want to forget what happened between them. It is very important for the couple to not forget what went wrong between them, so they will be conscious of not repeating it again! Cant wait more for today's episode.

Originally posted by: janhav

With Vedi Vahini aka BBB any question can turn into a laugh riot but I guess you are seeking serious answers. So the difference is that she couldn't see Sai and Virat share that closeness because she was in the final moments of her residual 'sanity' (if there was any to begin with) in a state of morbid jealousy. She had decided --despite clearly hearing from Virat that he wants her to leave and have Sai by his side -- that she would not let Sai enter the room. Given Virat's vulnerable and weak physical state at the moment, she thought she would have her way by hook or crook -- i.e. to keep the husband and wife apart. She knew that if they were to see each other, it would mean a new beginning and a complete end to her 'jagah' in his life. So, for her witnessing that moment where they were unaffected by her near-meltdown rants almost like the Ladakh trip fiasco and instead continued to tease one another and have their private conversation was almost shocking. Also, I remember saying this after their grand fight over Sai going to Pulkit's house for lunch -- she has never witnessed their banter. In her mind, they it only have animosity in their conversations because most of the conversations she has overheard or butted into were arguments -- or mild conversations about someone else (Shivani, Devyani etc). It was a moment when she actually realised that they have a kind of companionship, their private jokes and playful flirting that are beyond her level of 'maturity'. So she couldn't understand and was taken aback when Virat said, "Hum aise hi baat Karte Hain".

Plus this was the FIRST meeting after breaking up and they seemed to have already put it all behind them. No blaming, no victim card (which she's a pro at), no grudges, just laughter and jokes like they were never apart. With her worst fears coming true and all that stress from 'bina Palak jhapkaye' visible in her popping eyes and her face, one can't expect her to understand what the two of them were sharing in her presence.

Coming to Samrat, I don't think she's so stupid to not know what marriage is. The proof is the phone call she made to Virat to remind him that another man will now stake complete claim on her, which she wanted to give him. If she could move on and accept reality, she will perhaps also have her lighter moments in her relationship but at the moment she's suffering from morbid jealousy also called Othello's syndrome. Her imaginary husband has just disowned her and all her attempts to physically stall the 'other woman' have miserably failed and her 'imaginary husband' is actually flirting with this other woman in her presence. It is not easy for a Delusional mind.

All her dialogues that she's mouthing and will mouth in the morning are her own feeble attempts to satiate her own helplessness. She already knows Virat has made his choice.

Lovely post janki ji 🙏

Didi had lost the battle when virat open his eyes next day of operation morning first thing he asked her where is sai ignoring her and she will keep trying till her doom

Some people don't understand fun and Sai is not a person whom Pakhi can ever understand.

One of the reasons is what you have pointed out and the other reason being her personality is different.

She is a sophisticated person, who thinks/taught that a person should be respectful towards elders, should follow elder's orders, act understanding, be caring, be loving, stay silent and not raise voice.

As per her, all of these are good qualities one should have. She will expect people to manners too. She expects a particular code of conduct from people.

I am not saying that she is any of these. What is happening is that she expects all of these from others.

Whether she herself follows these or not is what we are seeing.

She is sometimes aware of what she does, like disrespecting Ashwini or raising voice against Sai or anyone who might support Sai or raise voice agains her own parents too if they correct her or advice what is right.

She is sometimes not even aware of what she does because she doesn't think that she is capable of doing it or knows that she shouldn't be doing it and so when someone like Ashwini points it out to her, she acts shocked. She wouldn't have preferred to do it and she is doing it in her obsession for Virat now.

Hence, she cannot understand if Sai protests or fights against someone for good too, cannot understand when Sai raises voice, cannot understand Sai giving importance to self respect, cannot understand even Virat dancing with a dancer, cannot understand if Virat jokes about girls behind him in college and also cannot understand if Sai plays with Virat or Virat plays with Sai.

It is not just them, she cannot understand anyone who are like that. She is a serious kind of person who can be romantic but won't be able to understand many things.

Forget yesterday's episode, right from the start, she couldn't understand Sai's way of handling things. Virat himself said that Sai kab kya kar jaaye kisiko pata nahi hai aur woh ajeeb hai.

This kind of personality is someone Pakhi would have never met.

Take the day when Sai convinced people to have food at the table on their first rasam, when she did a countdown of 3 to leave the house, Ashwini, Usha Maushi, Virat and laughed at Sai's antics.

Even that day the way Sai called Virat to have food was new to Pakhi,

"mujhe nahi pata tha ki aap meri har baat maante hain". It was new to her because Sai was too bold and also took authority which Virat loved but is too difficult for Pakhi to understand. And added to it was even her jealousy that Virat took it very cool and was smilin too.

Take the case of reception, Pakhi didn't appreciate the way Sai made Kaku stay back. These are not things that many people can like or understand, it is too far from their understanding. And the way Miya Biwi nodded head at the end looking at each other, didn't go unnoticed by her, the way Virat was smiling at her antics didn't go unnoticed by her. Those were also adding up to her jealousy.

On the day of results when Sai took blessing from all forcefully, she doesn't approve of such things. In reality, she would take blessing if they give her or move away disappointed but not take the way Sai did. Again, she not just disliked Sai's antics, she also disliked Virat enjoying that.

"Tumne bacchi se shaadi kar li Virat"

And then came the candy floss scene where Sai threw tantrums a while back, Ashwini corrected Sai rightly. But that wasn't the only issue Pakhi had, Virat had bought childish things for her. Didn't she her displeasure towards such him fulfilling her childish wishes? She personally wouldn't.

"Sai kya bacchi hai jo tum yeh sab leke doge?"

She didn't like the way Virat treated her that day, didn't like the way Sai ran around with Devi, playing around, feedin everyone and Virat enjoying it. She personally wouldn't behave that way. And then again came jealousy when Sai fed Virat.

Forget Sai, she also didn't like Virat dancing on stage, she made faces.

Basically, she doesn't understand any such behaviour and to top it all, she also is very jealous when Virat likes, admires, encourages and when he also behaves like Sai.

From what I have noticed in her parents, they look like a serious type people, her mom is probably a cunning person but at the same time strict, her father has some values but is a very pampering Dad. I am not sure if they would have had cute banters or not.

From her own relationship with Samrat, if it ever happens, whenever she moves on from Virat, once she redeems herself, she will find it difficult to understand Samrat.

Samrat is also a very funny guy, has masti, enjoys his life to the fullest. But I think, she will slowly develop an understanding towards his nature, they might not share the kind of relationship that Sai and Virat are sharing, but I think Samrat will take care of the fun part in their relationship. Pakhi might even enjoy the attention that she gets from him. She will be a soft person, a person who would be passive and might not be able to have cute banters, but will understand if Samrat fights with her in a silly way. She might act dominating sometimes and submissive sometimes.

Originally posted by: laksh

Firstly awesome post Lakshmi 👏

Some people don't understand fun and Sai is not a person whom Pakhi can ever understand.

One of the reasons is what you have pointed out and the other reason being her personality is different.

She is a sophisticated person, who thinks/taught that a person should be respectful towards elders, should follow elder's orders, act understanding, be caring, be loving, stay silent and not raise voice.

As per her, all of these are good qualities one should have. She will expect people to manners too. She expects a particular code of conduct from people.

I was like what is Lakshmi saying! and then saw the below line!. Yes she is all that you said and little more! she is also hypocrite and selfish. That destroys whatever little positives as an independent woman she might be having.

I am not saying that she is any of these. What is happening is that she expects all of these from others.

Whether she herself follows these or not is what we are seeing.

She is sometimes aware of what she does, like disrespecting Ashwini or raising voice against Sai or anyone who might support Sai or raise voice agains her own parents too if they correct her or advice what is right.

She is sometimes not even aware of what she does because she doesn't think that she is capable of doing it or knows that she shouldn't be doing it and so when someone like Ashwini points it out to her, she acts shocked. She wouldn't have preferred to do it and she is doing it in her obsession for Virat now.

Yes I did feel that she knows somethings are not right. Specific incidents that struck me were Shivani bua's incident, she did feel bad for bua and also may felt she should not be treated like how she was treated that day but she kept quite just to oppose Sai! But whenever Sai points out her obsession for Virat, she cant handle it in front of others. Hypocrisy that is!

And the other instance where she kind of took stand, only momentarily is when Virat held Sai's hand during PDL day. She was there to stop him. May be she reacted too quickly before being so calculated about her moves. 😛

Hence, she cannot understand if Sai protests or fights against someone for good too, cannot understand when Sai raises voice, cannot understand Sai giving importance to self respect, cannot understand even Virat dancing with a dancer, cannot understand if Virat jokes about girls behind him in college and also cannot understand if Sai plays with Virat or Virat plays with Sai.

May be that is the reason Virat felt she would be a good fit for his 'boring' and 'self obsessed' family 😆

It is not just them, she cannot understand anyone who are like that. She is a serious kind of person who can be romantic but won't be able to understand many things.

Forget yesterday's episode, right from the start, she couldn't understand Sai's way of handling things. Virat himself said that Sai kab kya kar jaaye kisiko pata nahi hai aur woh ajeeb hai.

This kind of personality is someone Pakhi would have never met.

Take the day when Sai convinced people to have food at the table on their first rasam, when she did a countdown of 3 to leave the house, Ashwini, Usha Maushi, Virat and laughed at Sai's antics.

Even that day the way Sai called Virat to have food was new to Pakhi,

"mujhe nahi pata tha ki aap meri har baat maante hain". It was new to her because Sai was too bold and also took authority which Virat loved but is too difficult for Pakhi to understand. And added to it was even her jealousy that Virat took it very cool and was smilin too.

Take the case of reception, Pakhi didn't appreciate the way Sai made Kaku stay back. These are not things that many people can like or understand, it is too far from their understanding. And the way Miya Biwi nodded head at the end looking at each other, didn't go unnoticed by her, the way Virat was smiling at her antics didn't go unnoticed by her. Those were also adding up to her jealousy.

On the day of results when Sai took blessing from all forcefully, she doesn't approve of such things. In reality, she would take blessing if they give her or move away disappointed but not take the way Sai did. Again, she not just disliked Sai's antics, she also disliked Virat enjoying that.

"Tumne bacchi se shaadi kar li Virat"

And then came the candy floss scene where Sai threw tantrums a while back, Ashwini corrected Sai rightly. But that wasn't the only issue Pakhi had, Virat had bought childish things for her. Didn't she her displeasure towards such him fulfilling her childish wishes? She personally wouldn't.

"Sai kya bacchi hai jo tum yeh sab leke doge?"

She didn't like the way Virat treated her that day, didn't like the way Sai ran around with Devi, playing around, feedin everyone and Virat enjoying it. She personally wouldn't behave that way. And then again came jealousy when Sai fed Virat.

Forget Sai, she also didn't like Virat dancing on stage, she made faces.

Basically, she doesn't understand any such behaviour and to top it all, she also is very jealous when Virat likes, admires, encourages and when he also behaves like Sai.

From what I have noticed in her parents, they look like a serious type people, her mom is probably a cunning person but at the same time strict, her father has some values but is a very pampering Dad. I am not sure if they would have had cute banters or not.

Dont even talk about her mom! She treats Sai badly. Why? Your daughter has wrong intentions on her husband and you in turn behave like this with her! I am sure Pakhi got her genes. Mom and daughter cant understand simple things. 😔 Father too. But he sounds sensible when it comes to his daughter atleast. Good dad if not a good person.

From her own relationship with Samrat, if it ever happens, whenever she moves on from Virat, once she redeems herself, she will find it difficult to understand Samrat.

I want this to happen eventually. The show can slowly become rom-com which shows these day to day issues between the three young Chawan couples.

Samrat is also a very funny guy, has masti, enjoys his life to the fullest. But I think, she will slowly develop an understanding towards his nature, they might not share the kind of relationship that Sai and Virat are sharing, but I think Samrat will take care of the fun part in their relationship. Pakhi might even enjoy the attention that she gets from him. She will be a soft person, a person who would be passive and might not be able to have cute banters, but will understand if Samrat fights with her in a silly way. She might act dominating sometimes and submissive sometimes.

I think Virat could not have handled Pakhi, at all. He himself is so sensitive sometimes. He needs a bold and fun girl like Sai to show him the fun side in their relationship. Samrat will be that kind of person in SamraKhis relationship. He can let go of her mood swings and passiveness and still bring positivity in their marriage.

Lakshmi, you kind of humanized Pakhi here, when we all tend to demonize her due to our love towards SaiRat. Pakhi has wonderful layers, if only writers could explore more.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Lakshmi, you kind of humanized Pakhi here, when we all tend to demonize her due to our love towards SaiRat. Pakhi has wonderful layers, if only writers could explore more.

😊 thanks. A nice, unique post and I really enjoyed sharing my views.

I was like what is Lakshmi saying! and then saw the below line!. Yes she is all that you said and little more! she is also hypocrite and selfish. That destroys whatever little positives as an independent woman she might be having.

🤣🤣 I had a doubt as to which line should I add first. But then, this is how one can see the character and I didn't want that to go hidden under her behavior, so chose this way. Sorry about that 🙈.

Yes, she is actually a self centred person and a hypocrite. I have written the exact thing about destroying positives in one of the posts, can share it with you in this thread if you are interested.

Yes I did feel that she knows somethings are not right. Specific incidents that struck me were Shivani bua's incident, she did feel bad for bua and also may felt she should not be treated like how she was treated that day but she kept quite just to oppose Sai! But whenever Sai points out her obsession for Virat, she cant handle it in front of others. Hypocrisy that is!

Yes, she felt bad for Bua. But she did not stay silent just to oppose Sai, but as I have said in my posts, she prefers to stay silent, follow elder's orders, or should I say, not go against them. She knew that it is not good to go against Kaku for her own benefit too. Also, it is similar to Devi's incident, she went along with the flow with Kaku's words and defeating Sai came at the end and atlast became a most important one. She had trust and faith in Kaku. It could be because Kaku understands her, thinks Kaku is holding the family together and also for her own good. Kaku had also once called her up when she was at her maayka asking her to return to CN.

Ashwini's and her relationship started with a wrong foot. She became very happy on the day Ashwini made her stand on one foot, and later realised Ashwini was giving her a lesson. She didn't like that because she wasn't even realising what she was doing at that time and felt that Ashwini was always harsh with her. Ashwini had calculated her moves and judged her right, but Pakhi was always upset with Ashwini's hostile behavior towards her.

Kaku once asked her if her relationship with Virat was only friendship (after Ashwini kind of taunted Pakhi's friendship with Virat), whereas Ashwini had already started to treat her differently.

Hence she started to like and trust Kaku more, even during Devi's fiasco.

But at the end of everything, when Sai is in picture, she would stand as an opposing party to Sai, always irrespective of whether it is right or wrong. She loses her senses.

And the other instance where she kind of took stand, only momentarily is when Virat held Sai's hand during PDL day. She was there to stop him. May be she reacted too quickly before being so calculated about her moves.

It could be as a woman, but more than that it was because she didn't want Virat to do that. She didn't expect him to do that, she didn't want him to stoop to that level. It was more of a concern towards Virat's actions than a girl's welfare.

Ousting is a proof to that, she didn't care how two women would leave at that time of the night.

May be that is the reason Virat felt she would be a good fit for his 'boring' and 'self obsessed' family

Kind of yes, I wanted to write a post of Virat's feelings for Pakhi and his love for Sai. Somehow couldn't write it. If I write one, will tag you 😊.

Dont even talk about her mom! She treats Sai badly. Why? Your daughter has wrong intentions on her husband and you in turn behave like this with her! I am sure Pakhi got her genes. Mom and daughter cant understand simple things. Father too. But he sounds sensible when it comes to his daughter atleast. Good dad if not a good person.

Her mom envies Sai more than Pakhi envies Sai 🤣. Her mom was a witness when Virat refused to go against his family and marry Pakhi. But she had seen how he reacted on the day of reception and on the day Kaku asked him to change Sai's name, both the days he had supported Sai. That really irked her, it hit her ego too, it was like he didn't do it for her daughter but is doing it for this girl 🤦‍♀️. She was so venomous that she even told Pakhi "Virat dheere dheere Sai ka hota ja raha hai" or something like that. This lady knew that her daughter loves Virat, is not moving on, got affected when Virat got married to Sai, her Dad adviced her to move on the day of reception and even then told this to Pakhi. Who does that? What kind of poisonous thoughts was she feeding Pakhi? This is how parents encourage kids wrong doings 🤦‍♀️.

Her father atleast said that it is natural for Virat to take Sai along to Ladakh. Something sensible. But is a very pampering Dad, who cannot see tears in his daughter's eyes even if she is wrong.

I want this to happen eventually. The show can slowly become rom-com which shows these day to day issues between the three young Chawan couples.

Will be nice to see, but we need to see Pakhi's redemption track before they both get together. No point if she cannot truly move on from Virat. Hope they don't follow KD and kill Samrat 😡.

I think Virat could not have handled Pakhi, at all. He himself is so sensitive sometimes. He need a bold and fun girl like Sai to show him the fun side in their relationship. Samrat will be that kind of person in SamraKhis relationship. He can let go of her mood swings and passiveness and still bring positivity in their marriage.

Very very true, Samrat will be able to bring positivity in their marriage. Virat's and Pakhi, if had ever got together would have been very boring, he would have started to dislike her once he started to live with her, would have seen her true nature in many things, like how he said people's view on a person changes as days pass, they might face many issues, he wouldn't even know what the reason is. She might have been compatible with his family, but he wouldn't have much to appreciate about her other than her acting all susheel with his Kaku and Ninad.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yesterday Pakhi could not understand the cute banter between husband and wife. What will she be expecting out of her own relationship with Samrat, if it ever happens? Not sure how she will be with Samrat if everything sorts out between them? She must have observed her parents, they look like modern couple who are very friendly with each other. But why she is surprised at SaiRat's banter!! Could it be just jealously or she could not wrap her head around the concept of marriage. Whatever it is, it looked silly.

How do you think her relationship with Samrat would be.

"Aakhir kya hai yeh Samrat, tum aise kyu ho Samrat"

"Samrat, tumne dosti ke pavitra rango se ek warzone jaise tasveer banaayi hai, meri beizzati hui hai, badi mami, mujhe kamra chod ke jaane ka permission chahiye"🤣