😊 thanks. A nice, unique post and I really enjoyed sharing my views.
I was like what is Lakshmi saying! and then saw the below line!. Yes she is all that you said and little more! she is also hypocrite and selfish. That destroys whatever little positives as an independent woman she might be having.
🤣🤣 I had a doubt as to which line should I add first. But then, this is how one can see the character and I didn't want that to go hidden under her behavior, so chose this way. Sorry about that 🙈.
Yes, she is actually a self centred person and a hypocrite. I have written the exact thing about destroying positives in one of the posts, can share it with you in this thread if you are interested.
Yes I did feel that she knows somethings are not right. Specific incidents that struck me were Shivani bua's incident, she did feel bad for bua and also may felt she should not be treated like how she was treated that day but she kept quite just to oppose Sai! But whenever Sai points out her obsession for Virat, she cant handle it in front of others. Hypocrisy that is!
Yes, she felt bad for Bua. But she did not stay silent just to oppose Sai, but as I have said in my posts, she prefers to stay silent, follow elder's orders, or should I say, not go against them. She knew that it is not good to go against Kaku for her own benefit too. Also, it is similar to Devi's incident, she went along with the flow with Kaku's words and defeating Sai came at the end and atlast became a most important one. She had trust and faith in Kaku. It could be because Kaku understands her, thinks Kaku is holding the family together and also for her own good. Kaku had also once called her up when she was at her maayka asking her to return to CN.
Ashwini's and her relationship started with a wrong foot. She became very happy on the day Ashwini made her stand on one foot, and later realised Ashwini was giving her a lesson. She didn't like that because she wasn't even realising what she was doing at that time and felt that Ashwini was always harsh with her. Ashwini had calculated her moves and judged her right, but Pakhi was always upset with Ashwini's hostile behavior towards her.
Kaku once asked her if her relationship with Virat was only friendship (after Ashwini kind of taunted Pakhi's friendship with Virat), whereas Ashwini had already started to treat her differently.
Hence she started to like and trust Kaku more, even during Devi's fiasco.
But at the end of everything, when Sai is in picture, she would stand as an opposing party to Sai, always irrespective of whether it is right or wrong. She loses her senses.
And the other instance where she kind of took stand, only momentarily is when Virat held Sai's hand during PDL day. She was there to stop him. May be she reacted too quickly before being so calculated about her moves.
It could be as a woman, but more than that it was because she didn't want Virat to do that. She didn't expect him to do that, she didn't want him to stoop to that level. It was more of a concern towards Virat's actions than a girl's welfare.
Ousting is a proof to that, she didn't care how two women would leave at that time of the night.
May be that is the reason Virat felt she would be a good fit for his 'boring' and 'self obsessed' family
Kind of yes, I wanted to write a post of Virat's feelings for Pakhi and his love for Sai. Somehow couldn't write it. If I write one, will tag you 😊.
Dont even talk about her mom! She treats Sai badly. Why? Your daughter has wrong intentions on her husband and you in turn behave like this with her! I am sure Pakhi got her genes. Mom and daughter cant understand simple things.
Father too. But he sounds sensible when it comes to his daughter atleast. Good dad if not a good person.
Her mom envies Sai more than Pakhi envies Sai 🤣. Her mom was a witness when Virat refused to go against his family and marry Pakhi. But she had seen how he reacted on the day of reception and on the day Kaku asked him to change Sai's name, both the days he had supported Sai. That really irked her, it hit her ego too, it was like he didn't do it for her daughter but is doing it for this girl 🤦♀️. She was so venomous that she even told Pakhi "Virat dheere dheere Sai ka hota ja raha hai" or something like that. This lady knew that her daughter loves Virat, is not moving on, got affected when Virat got married to Sai, her Dad adviced her to move on the day of reception and even then told this to Pakhi. Who does that? What kind of poisonous thoughts was she feeding Pakhi? This is how parents encourage kids wrong doings 🤦♀️.
Her father atleast said that it is natural for Virat to take Sai along to Ladakh. Something sensible. But is a very pampering Dad, who cannot see tears in his daughter's eyes even if she is wrong.
I want this to happen eventually. The show can slowly become rom-com which shows these day to day issues between the three young Chawan couples.
Will be nice to see, but we need to see Pakhi's redemption track before they both get together. No point if she cannot truly move on from Virat. Hope they don't follow KD and kill Samrat 😡.
I think Virat could not have handled Pakhi, at all. He himself is so sensitive sometimes. He need a bold and fun girl like Sai to show him the fun side in their relationship. Samrat will be that kind of person in SamraKhis relationship. He can let go of her mood swings and passiveness and still bring positivity in their marriage.
Very very true, Samrat will be able to bring positivity in their marriage. Virat's and Pakhi, if had ever got together would have been very boring, he would have started to dislike her once he started to live with her, would have seen her true nature in many things, like how he said people's view on a person changes as days pass, they might face many issues, he wouldn't even know what the reason is. She might have been compatible with his family, but he wouldn't have much to appreciate about her other than her acting all susheel with his Kaku and Ninad.
Arre waah, meri gyaan ki Lakshmi, kya points hai didi ke baare mein🙏
Waise I have a point, don't know how much is this valid over here.
But Pakhi has a very high firmness with respect to her decisions. For instance, when she decided that whatever happened at the yoga camp was a play, and she immediately decided to marry.
When Virat gave her the promise, she just centered all her expectations on that single promise, when Virat said it was a deal, she stood confident that Sai can never be a part of Virat's life, that spot will always be reserved to her.
But,unfortunately her firmness towards something has been all taken in a haste, she doesn't contemplate, so jab didi adi rehti hai apne decisions pe, the entire situation based on which she took a decision takes a U turn, so she gets confused that now where should she stand in all this, and this adi hui decision makes her adiyal. She stays too firm over there,refusing to move, and try to drag others over the same place as well, even though the other people have moved too far. So,when she sees others moving ,she begins her protest, like a kid, to take her as well along with them, as she feels jealous, alone and she also shows selfishness. But she doesn't get that all are walking ahead of free will, and she has limbs as well, and it is her decision to step forward from her spot, not blaming others of her inability to walk forward.
