Why all blame on Ragav? - Page 14

I love Raghav because is BRUTALLY HONEST.. doesn't mince words..and that is the best thing about him.. agree with u esp at red.. since day one he has been shouting don't mess with me I am bad guy but log use RAMCHANDRAJI Lyon banana chahte hai..🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️no one hates Raghav.. I think some new tweeples are bit soft hearted..they want ideal man, when Raghav is clearly not.. but most in insta are going mad for Raghav.. yes we pull his legs but love him nonetheless .and will always do

Originally posted by: christobelle

I have seen in twitter blaming Raghav a lot. They blame him to be abusive. When he isn't !!

They say he is selfish etc etc. He never told he wasn't one. He is what he is. He was never the Mahaan male lea u ppl imagined him to be!!

Raghav isn't to be blamed for everything. Yes, some things were wrong. But not all. Some was Pallavi's fault too.

She should have stopped hovering over him when her baba was clearly displeased by Raghav. But she made things fuel up and also the abortion thing.

The main problems lies in Deshmukh's . Her family never believes her n just uses her

Originally posted by: Bee222

I've been rewatching IPK with my mom! (Had to get her off that pathetic Pinjara 🤢😆) And I'm realising day by day just how OTT Khushi was I was young when I watched it so some of her antics were fun to me back then (even though her live-in drama bothered me a bit), but now she's just... she exhausts me Can she calm down for a minute, please? Just breathe, girl... learn to meditate or something.

But Arshi's chemistry was on point!! 😍🔥 They were amazing, and yes, Rabba Ve remains one of my all-time favourite soundtracks from ITV. It's beautiful 😍💓 Even the instrumental versions were so good!

Raghav is far more bindaas than ASR though... I can even see him flirting with SKD to annoy her 😆 Whereas Arnav... he would never 🤣 Not until he fell in love completely... then he became flirty boy ☺️

And rather than Khushi's childish antics, I want to see Pallu's giving him the complete cold shoulder. He should see it, amma should see it, everyone should see it. He should get frostbites from the cold 😈 And it should bother him like hell 😈

I understood your point about anjali and amma, I'm just saying that I want amma to apologise to Pallu too at some point, just like Anjali had apologised for her blackmailing. Pallavi could even readily forgive her, but I want at least that acknowledgement. That she knew she was bringing in a plate full of problems for Pallavi, she was doing it with good intentions but she's still sorry about it.

Yes same here.. I cant stand Khushi and her antics anymore.. was much younger when I first saw IPK. I still love the overall story, barring the end..it was beyond pathetic but Khushi is just intolerable, even when she is not playing tom and jerry with ASR.

Raghav is diametrically opposite to ASR for sure.. Raghav is so raw and that's where his appeal lies.. In many ways I find him more sexy than ASR if I ignore some of the horrendous things he does on a daily basis😆but that comes with the territory of being the man that he is- a ruthless don, shrewd businessman..

@bold red- Amen to that! Absolutely want this.

About Amma, yes it'l be nice to see her apologise to Pallavi regardless of the outcome of her decision . Just for the fact that she didnt consider her opinion before taking a unilateral decision for them, she should apologise to Pallavi..

I've finally watched it. My take:-

- Raghav doesn't even see Pallavi right now. His focus has taken a complete turn, so her existence matters only to the extent of her being a means to his goal, which is his family. We've been shown a Raghav who is now vocal about his loneliness, hurt, guilt and his need to fix what he thinks he broke - his family.

Raghav is dangerous when he takes revenge. But he's even more dangerous when his eyes are set on a goal, and we all know he's a go getter. Right now, what she did or did not do is not something he's even thinking about. If his amma asked him to marry a goalpost, he would do it, that's how desperate he is. BUT, Raghav has no plan after marriage. He is not sure of how he will deal with having a wife. He's not even thinking about it, because a go getter normally has a fixated, one track mind.

Pallavi - I feel bad for her, genuinely, but she's not really using her brains to her maximum capacity. She knows that Raghav is also compelled to marry her. She does not know the reason right now but atleast when she met him later, she could have made him believe that she knows his reason, not make it look like a threat, but say she's willing to help, if he's going to help her. Get some leverage in this deal of a marriage. Right now, Raghav has the upper hand. Instead, she sees a man playing with some toy and makes an uninformed decision about how a wife always has an upper hand. Does she not know her husband to be? How exactly does she plan to hold his strings? Krishna is always right. I love her. One can only hope she uses her nari shakti properly after marriage and not be juvenile with her comebacks. I'm interested to see how she gets controls over him. In my opinion, the strength of her character is the only way she will beat Raghav to this game, if she uses her strength correctly. And I draw reference from Ramayan. Ravan kidnapped Sita. He was powerful, mighty and could have done whatever he could. Sita was petite, quite powerless at that point in time but her strength of character defied all attempts from Ravan. Her inner strength became the fall of Ravan because by the end of her time at Ashok Vatika, Ravan was emotionally weakened.

So there is a way to fight men like Raghav, emotionally. The dude is weak, he will break easily. He's just Hercules from outside.

Keerti - I love this girl. Farhad and her are the most sane characters and both of them are actually representing the voice of people like us. This gives me some satisfaction that the makers are aware that all this is not normal. Otherwise they would not have these voices of reason. I'd like to give it to them.

Baba - I've never seen a bigger loser than this man.

In conclusion, both Raghav and Pallavi are going to dive into the deep end and we have to wait and watch who survives, and who doesn't.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Are you noticing any shift in Raghav's attitude towards Pallavi? Eversince he is done with his stupid revenge on her, he seems to have become calmer.. One, amma, Keerthi and Farhad none of them agree with him about Pallavi's involvememt in the MMS and he himself was in doubt before he literally forced himself to focus on her words that self implicated her.. So maybe subconsciously he has given her a clean chit? Second, Pallavi is the reason he is getting his family back.. Wouldn't that count for anything? He may not like her, or appreciate her or he may simply be too proud to show all of that..but he doesnt seem to hate her anymore. Unless Pallavi again says something that he can hold against her.. I have a feeling he will try to make it work.. I had a different idea/expectation about how Pallavi would go about things but after what she said about marriage and control of wives over husbands Im not sure what to expect.. Also, why didnt she tell him about her being a widow yesterday.. That wouldn't have deterred him from proposing this marriage, but he deserves to know...

It's difficult to hate Raghav because his good qualities are still overpowering his bad ones. For now, yes, we've been shown the bad ones esp when it comes to SKD. He's a guy with various shades, its an interesting character. He gets called out for bad things and gets appreciated for the good. He's no devta, but he's not Ravan also.

The only man I loathe is baba. More than bada bindi. He's the one who's gone all crazy and spilled the raita everywhere.

Originally posted by: chullbulli

I love Raghav because is BRUTALLY HONEST.. doesn't mince words..and that is the best thing about him.. agree with u esp at red.. since day one he has been shouting don't mess with me I am bad guy but log use RAMCHANDRAJI Lyon banana chahte hai..🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️no one hates Raghav.. I think some new tweeples are bit soft hearted..they want ideal man, when Raghav is clearly not.. but most in insta are going mad for Raghav.. yes we pull his legs but love him nonetheless .and will always do

Originally posted by: Bee222

There was one point that amma made that makes her different from the typical ones, though... it's that she knows Pallavi will get a better family here than at the Deshmukhs. There she is judged and made to suffer, especially by her sasur (Pallu herself doesn't understand this but amma does)... but here she'll get the freedom and respect she deserves. Raghav won't dare mistreat her in front of amma, and in private quarters, she knows Pallavi has the fire to match his.

In her own way, she truly believes she's making both their lives better.

i understand but pallavi isnt willing to do this......what if keerti is forced for something like this? will amma be ready? she said that she is being selfish, but, that doesnt minimize the stress and torture she is letting dem go thru......what if they never get along? its a serial and they will but just a thought..........

Originally posted by: inlieu

Exactly! I don't care what sentimental background music they put on as Amma explains her thought process, I'm not buying it.

🤣 yeah

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i understand but pallavi isnt willing to do this......what if keerti is forced for something like this? will amma be ready? she said that she is being selfish, but, that doesnt minimize the stress and torture she is letting dem go thru......what if they never get along? its a serial and they will but just a thought..........

regarding keerti if amma saw that someone is made for her and there are initial hiccups, she woud have probably done the same.. she is a mom who LEFT HER SON and did not forgive him.. also she is not leaving pallu to him completely , she is moving in with her to ensure that no harm come s to her. she said that she will help pallu excel in her business so that she can make a name of herself in the business.

thesse big decisions always fall in the grey area, they are never black and white. so just try and og with the flow

Amma has acted out of her selfish interest, even Keerti said this. Raghav would go crazy if Keerti had to go through this. But that shows that blood is thicker than water. End of the day, Pallavi is an outsider so she is a second class citizen when it comes to decisions. Amma is sure for some reason she will be happy, but consent? Amma has forgotten the concept of consent and she's not bothering to know how she agreed......this will be a problem in the future. It's not fair on Pallavi and I like Keerti for pointing it out.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i understand but pallavi isnt willing to do this......what if keerti is forced for something like this? will amma be ready? she said that she is being selfish, but, that doesnt minimize the stress and torture she is letting dem go thru......what if they never get along? its a serial and they will but just a thought..........

Agreed. She has her reasons and she has seen the love budding but it's still wrong because she has not understood the meaning of consent. She can't be with her all the time. What if her son is a monster in the bedroom? At least in real life, it can become a really scary situation. But I am okay on TV because I'm sure they'll fall in love and Raghav is not the kind to force himself on a woman.

Originally posted by: chullbulli

what isf is a very interesting phase..as of now...we know that they are the leads and they will fall in love. ammma has seen that love budding.

regarding keerti if amma saw that someone is made for her and there are initial hiccups, she woud have probably done the same.. she is a mom who LEFT HER SON and did not forgive him.. also she is not leaving pallu to him completely , she is moving in with her to ensure that no harm come s to her. she said that she will help pallu excel in her business so that she can make a name of herself in the business.

thesse big decisions always fall in the grey area, they are never black and white. so just try and og with the flow

completely undertand your point.. but at the moment she THOUGHT that pallavi agreed.. remember she said...are pallavi itni jaldi maan gaya...mujhe to laga tha ki ....so she is not even aware that raghav has done this kaand. she knows her son can go to any lengths but the way he behaves with pallavi is very different esp in front of her aai. amma knows that raghav helped pallavi in business, saved her life from goons from kidnapping and also he QUIETLY listens to whatever pallavi says... about this situation, we know far more than amma so our knowledge is actually clouding our judgement. think of it from her perspective. for amma here son has shown signs of a decent person ONLY FOR PALLU and only PALLU STOOD UP AGAINST HIM..how on earth would she think that PALLU WILL AGREE TO FORCE WEDDING. yes later if it is disclosed then we will see her reaction..

about a monster in a bedroom.that is a good point and if the lead was anyone lese than raghav i too wud have been worried about it , i know how scary this situation could be...but can we actually tag raghav as a sex beast at all... GIVE ME ONE INsTANCE WHERE HE HAS ABUSED A WOMAN even when they were literally throwing themselves on him.remember anjali and that 2nd episode car scene.. he did not sleep with her even when she was ready to have a nightstand.. yes we can imagine several scenarios but here we need to relate to raghav's character... yes if it were a negative ish charqacter then probabaly no one would defend this marriage, even i would go and bash him , but i can't think of raghav as a sexual predator kinda person who will force himself on pallavi he was very explicit that i am not sharing my room with you. also shadi kar lo main tumhare raaste mein nahin aayega...poor guy he has not even THOUGHT about eb=vene sharing a room...let alone a bed...kabhi kabhi daya aati hai us par..😭🤣

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Agreed. She has her reasons and she has seen the love budding but it's still wrong because she has not understood the meaning of consent. She can't be with her all the time. What if her son is a monster in the bedroom? At least in real life, it can become a really scary situation. But I am okay on TV because I'm sure they'll fall in love and Raghav is not the kind to force himself on a woman.