Originally posted by: libran90
Keechu, if you ask me, here the scales dip more in Raghav's favor than Pallavi. Just like in terms of hate, scales dip in Pallavi's favor more than Raghav.
Cause, Raghav's family has always been targetted unnecessarily. Amma and Keerti weren't at fault ever. Mostly, Raghav's actions and his own agenda of targetting Anjali landed him in a soup and exposing Amrita landed Keerti in a soup. His actions have caused problems for his family as much as it has caused problems for Pallavi. Raghav is blind in the way, that in his quest to defend them, he does far more collateral damage than actively finding the culprit.
In Pallavi's case, it's the opposite. In her case, her family is always in the wrong. Be it Amrita, or Nikhil or Vijay, or Sharda. They are always the culprits of their own idiocy, and Pallavi always rises to the occasion to protect these buffoons. Pallavi is blind in the way, she is blind to the faults of her family and in her quest to defend them, she hurts herself and causes herself and her own self-respecting persona damage.
But in the case of hate, I for one don't see or understand Raghav's hate.
It carries no weight whatsoever. It looks like some kind of a charade he is playing. And with Pallavi, we know her reasons. What I feel is, that this is exactly what will happen in the future. Raghav is very adamant when it comes to getting things he wants, and he will be adamant with an equally adamant Pallavi, who will rebuff all his advances to get through to her or get her. His actions always have a sinister quality to them. Expecting "puppy" and "sweet" love from Raghav is a dream. He will be more like, "Mereko pyaar hona to tumhe bhi pyaar hona", waisa type ka. Seedhe tarike se shaadi nahi hui, pyaar kya karega.
If the Mandaar thing happens, which I am sure off, Raghav will have to take up the fight, cause Pallavi's resolve will fall weak before these bunch of leeches. Also, I want for once Pallavi consciously chooses to be with Raghav and not Mandaar. I think we will get to see both. Raghav fighting for his wife, and Pallavi choosing Raos over the Deshmukhs.
I agree that here the favors are in his side. He is getting the benefits out of this marriage and what will pallavi get right now? May be months after she will get love and all those things a woman expect from a marriage but right now, the gain is only in his side. I totally agree.
His actions do have collateral effect, his actions impact his family whereas deshmukh's actions impact Pallavi and you know when Raghav falls in love, (I really do believe it's him who is going to fall first) he is going to make things harder for her because by then she will be his family. And deshmukhs will react to this marriage some will agree, some will object and there also those actions are gonna affect pallavi, through her Raghav will also be affected. All these are connected.
I don't even want the puppy love from him. Can't imagine him being that.
But I do want him trying his best to get through her and she pouring water all over his plans. He may be not abuse her physically but he will do everything under his power to make her accept him but till he reaches his breaking point. At one point he is going to give up.
And I was asking, is there any other way to get these two married other than including their family?
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Yes, I understand the reasons behind Pallavi's vegennace towards Raghav but I think even Raghav has reasons to hate her. He believes that Pallavi made those photos of keerthi even if she is innocent and he doesn't know that. So here I don't find any problems with Raghav's hate.
I mean, Anjali drama, Pallavi coming between him and his family everytime when they take a step towards him and now the photos of keerthi, isn't this enough reasons for a man who will die for his family to hate Pallavi, that's what I think. So what is the problem with his towards her? I didnt get you there. (I really don't understand why he went behind Pallavi for that mms thing other than Anjali.)