Opinion on Fav n not so Fav characters

Warning: This is another post where I want to vent. I know it’s an unpopular opinion and I am in minority when I say this so people who don’t like to read a different perspective about their fav and not so fav character should stop reading further . I am not responsible for any mood change after reading this post 😆.

From past few episodes, I can’t help but appreciate Virat for the way he has handled the whole apology scenario. He has realized his mistakes and he knows how much he has hurt Sai with his actions . He has genuinely apologized and has given her the space and time to take a decision. He has respected her decision and is willing it give time instead of rushing through it . Most important of all he has owned his mistakes . Not even once did he say Sai had a role in this whole misunderstanding. He never said his trust was broken as well when he was given a lecture about how important is trust in a relationship. He has never tried to shift his blame on anyone . When he was accused by villagers of never respecting Sairat relationship , he never said anything to defend himself or list out the times he has stood like a rock for his wife and times when his wife has been rude to him . How can I not appreciate this man and not forgive him for his mistakes .

Now coming to the most controversial part of the post . As a women , I could feel Sai’s pain when she was asked to leave the home in the middle of the night . I could empathize with her situation but the neighbors drama and the fact that she is not accepting her share of mistakes has disconnected me from her . I can only think about one thing when she is onscreen talking about her pain . It’s all about her pain and hurt but not once has she realized her part in all this mess . I understand initially the hurt and pain overpowered her emotions but even while talking to Barkha she mentions how trust and respect are utmost important to her but did she realize she has broken her husband’s trust and has disrespected their relationship by putting other wishes(Pulkit Vaada) over her husband’s feelings . When there is no transparency in the relationship isn’t it disrespectful.While Virat only talks about his mistakes Sai only takes about her pain . I cannot help but point this out .

I genuinely want to enjoy Sairat scenes and their sizzling chemistry when they are together but I cannot related to Sai’s POV anymore . I hope someone can help me see her POV and the importance Virat has in her life

I really want to say one thing...

Yes I really really want sai to realize her mistake and apologise to aai and virat... I wrote this in so many topics... Yes virat's mistake is very big but sairat are equally responsible for breaking trust in their relationship.... That's the reason somewhere I didn't liked one dialogue of sai in yesterday's episode that " rishthe vun se nibhathe hai jinhe rishthe ki kadhar ho ".... Once Sai forgiven virat I really want her to apologise to virat for hiding the marriage thing from him .

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

I really want to say one thing...

Yes I really really want sai to realize her mistake and apologise to aai and virat... I wrote this in so many topics... Yes virat's mistake is very big but sairat are equally responsible for breaking trust in their relationship.... That's the reason somewhere I didn't liked one dialogue of sai in yesterday's episode that " rishthe vun se nibhathe hai jinhe rishthe ki kadhar ho ".... Once Sai forgiven virat I really want her to apologise to virat for hiding the marriage thing from him .

Wait I am trying to find my answer I a post where I addressed this dilemma . Hope I made sense here. I replied in two posts. 2nd one is more relevant

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156660226

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156660375

I read your posts that you had mentioned , what I find hard to accept is despite her mistakes she has made up her mind that it’s only him who has broken the trust and hasn’t respected their relationship. For me she is coming across as self centered . Does right intention change the fact that she failed to trust him and disrespected their relationship? I don’t expect her to apologize but atleast the entire blame should not be shifted to him saying he was the only one who didn’t trust so she is right in not forgiving him .

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Warning: This is another post where I want to vent. I know it’s an unpopular opinion and I am in minority when I say this so people who don’t like to read a different perspective about their fav and not so fav character should stop reading further . I am not responsible for any mood change after reading this post 😆.

From past few episodes, I can’t help but appreciate Virat for the way he has handled the whole apology scenario. He has realized his mistakes and he knows how much he has hurt Sai with his actions . He has genuinely apologized and has given her the space and time to take a decision. He has respected her decision and is willing it give time instead of rushing through it . Most important of all he has owned his mistakes . Not even once did he say Sai had a role in this whole misunderstanding. He never said his trust was broken as well when he was given a lecture about how important is trust in a relationship. He has never tried to shift his blame on anyone . When he was accused by villagers of never respecting Sairat relationship , he never said anything to defend himself or list out the times he has stood like a rock for his wife and times when his wife has been rude to him . How can I not appreciate this man and not forgive him for his mistakes .

Now coming to the most controversial part of the post . As a women , I could feel Sai’s pain when she was asked to leave the home in the middle of the night . I could empathize with her situation but the neighbors drama and the fact that she is not accepting her share of mistakes has disconnected me from her . I can only think about one thing when she is onscreen talking about her pain . It’s all about her pain and hurt but not once has she realized her part in all this mess . I understand initially the hurt and pain overpowered her emotions but even while talking to Barkha she mentions how trust and respect are utmost important to her but did she realize she has broken her husband’s trust and has disrespected their relationship by putting other wishes(Pulkit Vaada) over her husband’s feelings . When there is no transparency in the relationship isn’t it disrespectful.While Virat only talks about his mistakes Sai only takes about her pain . I cannot help but point this out .

I genuinely want to enjoy Sairat scenes and their sizzling chemistry when they are together but I cannot related to Sai’s POV anymore . I hope someone can help me see her POV and the importance Virat has in her life

well hey dude

In Janki’s post I have always pointed this that even though the entire thing has been shifted on Virat, honestly I second you yes Virat has handled this apology part perfectly and that he did not for ones blamed any one else.
but what about sai, I know as a woman she is wronged but what about the wrong she is doing, in the entire wedding sequence she was guilty for hiding it from Virat but now the reaction of her action was something she dint expected but was the action correct, I am still saying yes her intentions were but what about the trust in the relationship that she is talking about is that present form her side, irrespective of the circumstances and this is not the 1st time that she has done something,

Virat has still apologized her twice ones hand holding matter and now when he got to know the truth but did she repent foe actions, most of the ppl said Virat has wronged by not giving an opportunity to speak or defend her self, it’s not true he did, when aai asked m, it was she who dint answered coz of the promise she gave to Pulkit was that promise so important, that she dint cares about Virat, and why does she expects Virat to lstn to her,

for me when they reunite I hope before that someone put some sense in her, sense where she went wrong, I hope and just hope she too apologies for her behavior, she too tell Virat that she was restless for hiding, in whatever manner but it’s better she should know the mistake she has made, or else in future too she will repeat the same thing, sometimes may be intentions are good but actions hurt lot

Before she was thrown out of the house, she mentioned a few times that she was going to hurt Virat and she was hoping he will understand. So I guess deep down she knows she was wrong too but currently as she is hurt she can't see her mistakes. Like Veeru didn't realize that throwing out two women in the middle of the night was wrong when he was angry with her. I really hope just like Virat realized his mistakes, Sai will understand that she needs to trust him too if she wants him to trust her after she forgives him and comes back home. Both actually needs to talk about it. It will help them for the future.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Before she was thrown out of the house, she mentioned a few times that she was going to hurt Virat and she was hoping he will understand. So I guess deep down she knows she was wrong too but currently as she is hurt she can't see her mistakes. Like Veeru didn't realize that throwing out two women in the middle of the night was wrong when he was angry with her. I really hope just like Virat realized his mistakes, Sai will understand that she needs to trust him too if she wants him to trust her after she forgives him and comes back home. Both actually needs to talk about it. It will help them for the future.

exactly they need to talk other day I mentioned in jankis post they need to talk, May be go out for days alone and spend some time with each other without interruption, they need to talk, talk out their expectations, their insecurities, their feelings, about what happened what they felt and may be then they truly forgive and forget and make sure to bury it

Originally posted by: maahi11

exactly they need to talk other day I mentioned in jankis post they need to talk, May be go out for days alone and spend some time with each other without interruption, they need to talk, talk out their expectations, their insecurities, their feelings, about what happened what they felt and may be then they truly forgive and forget and make sure to bury it

Communication is the best in a relationship. They will understand each other better and gain the lost trust back again.

I think her anger is coming from the fact that he just "ended" their relationship without giving her a hearing. She, of course, knew he was going to be angry and she was prepared for it but she did not expect this reaction -- throwing her out of the house, not letting her step in for even her belongings, allowing everyone to humiliate her, calling her a "bad dream" and breaking all ties with her.

I don't blame her at this moment for not considering the overall sequence because she has been left in the cold -- it is not easy to be left alone all of a sudden and she's trying to gather her courage and thoughts to start afresh, to continue her studies. But as i said the other day, although Virat's reaction turned into a bigger mistake undoubtedly, i do want her to realise her fault as well