Opinion on Fav n not so Fav characters - Page 2

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I think her anger is coming from the fact that he just "ended" their relationship without giving her a hearing. She, of course, knew he was going to be angry and she was prepared for it but she did not expect this reaction -- throwing her out of the house, not letting her step in for even her belongings, allowing everyone to humiliate her, calling her a "bad dream" and breaking all ties with her.

I don't blame her at this moment for not considering the overall sequence because she has been left in the cold -- it is not easy to be left alone all of a sudden and she's trying to gather her courage and thoughts to start afresh, to continue her studies. But as i said the other day, although Virat's reaction turned into a bigger mistake undoubtedly, i do want her to realise her fault as well

Adding on to this, he called her pagal and needs mental treatment. I hope once she cools down, she understands how she broke his trust as well. But at this moment she has every right to feel what she feels.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I think her anger is coming from the fact that he just "ended" their relationship without giving her a hearing. She, of course, knew he was going to be angry and she was prepared for it but she did not expect this reaction -- throwing her out of the house, not letting her step in for even her belongings, allowing everyone to humiliate her, calling her a "bad dream" and breaking all ties with her.

I don't blame her at this moment for not considering the overall sequence because she has been left in the cold -- it is not easy to be left alone all of a sudden and she's trying to gather her courage and thoughts to start afresh, to continue her studies. But as i said the other day, although Virat's reaction turned into a bigger mistake undoubtedly, i do want her to realise her fault as well

Exactly.. Virat's action, the impact of it all is bigger than the reaction she assumed she would have to face. She was ready for his anger..she knew he would be and he ought to be. It was clear from the way she kept on saying andar toh aane dijiye but she did not expect him to throw her out...throw Usha Maushi out..without even giving her a chance to talk or reflect on what has happened. He just gave an ultimatum.. and ultimatum where their rishta stands khatam.. she out of his zindagi.. denied food yet again..after asking her to trust him to not do it anybody again..stand there and listen to all the accusations and her being called a gold digger.. her being ehsaanfaramosh and selfish...

No body will be able to think otherwise.. her world has ended.. her life changed. Her breakdown while they parted ways gave a clear glimpse of what all had broken for her .She finally broke down..she finally cried and how...💔

On a second thought I was thinking…..in Sai's situation can one not think.. if it was so easy to break.. it definitely was a deal and not a marriage..

Well, semingly, Virat was wrong agreed, he ended a relationship and insulted her badly. But yes, I never have refused and will not that she was also wrong here. I don't and won't go to much depth here. Cuz, relation, whether it is breaking or building, should never be on one person. So,hopefully she will realise her mistake. But why isn't she now ? I have a pov here. No defence or offence,but just a thought.

I guess, for Sai, her hurt, her insecurities, or whatever unresloved issue, but it is making her see Virat as an unknown, or more precisely a part of deal . She wants to close everything, cuz according to her, she is in a zone where she feels Virat also considers her the same, a part of a deal, a zimmedari, not a wife. So ,she thinks if she is null and void for him, than so is he for her. She is in that zone, so the day she comes out, she comes out off this dark patch, and sees the truth that Virat does value her as a wife,she will and might realise her mistakes.🤗

What's actually there to even understand Virat's character anyway? He's a badly written character which is evident.

I agree with all your points.

However I still feel Sai's behaviour has been very arrogant and irresponsible. Who on this earth will help elope a not in sound mind girl to get married with anyone. That too she has known Pulkit only as a prof. Just because he has been nice to her doesn't mean he can be believed 100%. And also we often complain abt Virat not bein this and that. How has Sais behaviour towards Virat been? Be it in the hand holding scene or the Pulkit shaadi she has been utmost brash, arrogant and top of all irresponsible. I am not saying Virat has been in his best behavior. Or all his mistakes can be ignored. They r cringe worthy. But I feel she should have been more responsible in her behaviour and attitude with Virat. He is the one guy who has taken responsibility of her and had things not turned out in her favour, had something untoward happened in either the hand holding scene or the time Sai went to rescue Pulkit in the forest, the one and only person who would have come in search of her would be Virat. And Sai has shown zero repentance for her actions. Its always Virat who apologizes. But repentance n apology from Sai to Virat is very much essential.