Originally posted by: Sunnygrin1
As token as it can get (sad). I also took his advice on the dupatta- as no more should she tie it the way she does while doing housework and she has to step into her career dream.
Initially I was very upset by Adilie's bleak demeanors especially towards each other- not even a smile? But then considering the gloom transfused by Malini over the phone -that shrouded both of them, I wouldn't blame them. GM brought out Adi's agony so well- he knows Malini's reaction will dowse them in pain for a long time and yet- he is so sure of what he wants- I think the best part is how he didnot buckle under pressure to even give her an I love you. And I didnt quite get- what Malini said : "Hamesha ki tharah wont you even say , I love you too?" I was like- how hamesha? I remember more times he didnot say I love you back to her than when he did.
I also liked that he was there to support Imlie- in a moment where even her mom wasn't there for her. The little bit where he gave her the bangles was comforting- which I guess is symbolic of his acceptance of her in his life. He also said- everything will change tomorrow after I tell her and we can have a new life - 'if YOU want it'. Hope that statement is indicative of a story arc where Imlie is willing to fight for her love ,though I and also am sure Adi, doesn't see it happening yet. I would have cherished some extra love from Rupi didi- anything to take way the despondency of today's episode
I agree with everything you said. I liked it too that Aditya did not buckle and say I love you back. Look at the way Malini was guilt tripping him, it would be so easy to just give in and say it. Ofcourse after that torturous phone call where she says she will dress like dulhan (creepy much) and forcing him to say I love you, anyoneās mood will go for a toss. So I am not surprised Aditya was gloomy in the last scene. But he sounded angry also for not telling the truth to everyone months ago. If I cut out the mailini part, the last scene did have husband wife feel with imlie getting ready and Aditya standing close by while both are discussing an issue.
I remember from beginning episodes, Aditya never said I love you back. He just said it a few times after marriage and that too out of guilt. I donāt know what Malini meant when she said he always said it back. This felt like another one of her delusions about their relationship.
About Aditya feeling guilty before the phone and during it, I thought it was normal. It is one thing to have no farak attitude when Malini is showing her Mrs C side. But when dealing with a mess of a person you gave your 7 years too, and that too breaking up a marriage, it can never be easy. The time to say the truth is also coming closer. Aditya still does not see Malini as the audience does. He still sees her as a nice person who he has to hurt. It is one thing to say I will tell her the truth, and another thing when the time comes closer to saying the truth. It is not easy when you know the pain you are going to cause the other person. A lot of people prefer to hide the truth in order to avoid giving pain instead of finding it in themselves to just say it. Aditya did not hesitate one bit while on phone and after phone call too to tell Malini the truth. He was firm. But he is allowed to feel guilty for causing Malini pain. Today he was not angry at Malini for her behavior last week, but was trying to gear up to cause Malini her worst pain. I will wait to see how he deals with her after suicide drama. I can understand his guilt and delaying the truth till she heals, but I hope he remains firm and does not fall victim to her manipulation.
Edited by Anvi2009 - 4 years ago