Pallavis truth reveal - Page 4

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

Can happen only if it is not revealed @wedding. From precap it seems so it will be revealed there. If so then it will impact him but not to the point of him crying in the pond of misery which u seems like him to feel on that. I don't want it. A person being orphan, widow or anything for that matter is a bad situation to be but as Pallavi said, its a situation not identity. It should cause remorse in him for sure but only this resulting in him breaking down seems a lot for a person who appears to respect person identity then their position.

If only the truth about her being previously married and widowed- just these 2 are revealed, and not the whole truth about the incident then I think Raghav might use these words to constantly taunt her because right now all he knows is that give as much pain as possible to Pallavi and destroy her emotionally.

and then when he is drunk he confesses how everyone stands for Pallavi and how he is an orphan-but i think this relevation Raghav ke pairon talen zameen keech deni chahiye

Originally posted by: ReemShah

If only the truth about her being previously married and widowed- just these 2 are revealed, and not the whole truth about the incident then I think Raghav might use these words to constantly taunt her because right now all he knows is that give as much pain as possible to Pallavi and destroy her emotionally.

and then when he is drunk he confesses how everyone stands for Pallavi and how he is an orphan-but i think this relevation Raghav ke pairon talen zameen keech deni chahiye

Raghav character can say nastiest of things and saying her widow or something related to his family is not out of character but not for a second he really think of her any less because of that. That is why i don't think only this much reveal should be enough to blow him to guilt trip.

Agreed👍🏼

The truth is, I'm also eagerly waiting for the truth reveal. I want to see a proper regret, pain, repentance from raghav's side.

But I highly doubt that. Today when pallavi confronted Raghav, it felt a bit off. I don't know but it was more from shivangi's side. She felt quite flat in that scene.

I really hope the truth reveal will be executed well with the emotional impact.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Bhadak nai rahi hu😆 wahi mujhe laga, ye Sohini ko kya hua? Bhul gayi kya ki Raghav inhi ka sapoot hai, namoona no#1 🤣

No... I understand that they (Rao's) dont judge people the way Vijay Deshmukh does.. I dont club Deshmukhs as one rotten family.. there are haramkhors like sanki taklu and BWA but then there people like Sharda and Nikhil too.. Milind and Mansi dont voice their opinions on matters that dont directly concern them so I dont count them.. yes Rao's are independent, opiniated individuals... That incident and the aftermath of it has a large role to play in the way Raghav's personility has shaped up...but some of the traits in him, cannot be aquired suddenly..they are part of your core nature, just like some of the positive traits (like how he is around kids) in him are.. for instance- the complete inability to own upto his mistakes, blame others for his follies.. I think Jaya Rao could do a better job at instilling those values in him.. Maybe then it wouldnt have taken so long for him to reconcile with his family.. but I will reserve my final judgement only after we get to see exactly what happened in the past. Mene to Vijay Haramkhor Deshmukh ko bhi judge nahi kiya till the time he actually dropped his facade and showed his true colors.. ye to Jaya Rao hai, who I actually like..

About Pallavi, I agree.. Like I said, I dont expect him to go on his knees and apologise even if Sulochana admits that she was the one behind Keerthi's MMS, not Pallavi.. ek do baar sorry bolega.. fir wahi akkad " mujhko aur sorry nai hona" Inke hriday parivartan sahi mayno me tab hoga jab blood donation wala sach samme ayega..that's what I think

Haan behen, Jaya and Keerti ka sochke hi likha tha, but forgot that mighty Raghav Rao, the brainless dimwit also exists. Oh Anna, what should be done of you.

See, I have no clue whether young Raghav was an egoist or bully. That could have come with success at this age. So, whenever the past unfolds, it will lead to a better insight as to why his mind is so twisted.

For me, VD's facade dropped back when he raised his hand on Sulochana and was livid in the blouse incident. Sulochana is rotten, agreed, but who the f***k is he to raise his hand on her. And your daughter was honest with you and you devalued her honesty. He was a sick man then and even now. And, I am sure that Sitaara wale will turn Mandaar into a VD copy, a cowardly narrow minded creep, not a Sharda. If they actually plan to get a real one, which I feel is not the case.

Raghav will not be remorseful one bit Vish. He would rather make Sulochana's life hell than apologize to Pallavi for anything. Anyway, his stupid kinks will resume after marriage against a rather unresponsive Pallavi. And any truth reveal will just amplify his nautanki and if Pallavi remains unresponsive, then it will drive him up the wall.

Originally posted by: K_keechu

But will he act on it? Right now his driving force is his anger, if he gets to know that right now, wouldn't he say that she deserved it? (after today's episode my this belief doubled😔)

And he will definitely want to change that white color. He has put red colour on her before, the one color she doesn't want in her life but he did it unintentionally though and after marriage he will try everything under his power to do that again but this time intentionally that's why I said she might wear white after marrying him.

Like she is going to kill her husband despite him being alive! 😆

Act on what bro? What I have understood about the guy, facts about Pallavi's life don't bother him. Cause he is very self consumed. Everything about Pallavi, in his mind should revolve around him. How Pallavi broke his expectations of her? How Pallavi betrayed him? Him knowing about her being a widow will again redirect it to him - again maybe in a betrayal format - that he isn't the only one in her life. He will not show it, but that is what it will be. He will again play angry Q&A in his mind. Raghav cannot share ownership. Cause he wants to own everything about Pallavi.

That will trigger his additional kink of seeing Pallavi in his colors. Cause she will be his "prisoner", so has to act according to his rules and wear what he wants her to wear. The white color will irritate him.

With Pallavi, initially it was her submission to his ego, now it will be submission to her husband. Cause Raghav Rao will take the husband thing very seriously. He looks cool and all, but he believes in traditional things as well. And he will impose that as a chain to his prisoner. But Pallavi will strip him of any power over her. She will never be his wife. Also if Amma and Keerti are around, he will want to ensure that she does not go out of line.

The love will also be like that. Ownership over her heart. He will want to keep her in his life using all means possible. He will want her to love him, to stay close to him, to have her attention on him. Frankly this entire war is the premise on which the love will happen. Raghav Rao doing everything possible to keep Pallavi in his life and Pallavi defying him, just like they were doing in this challenge scenario. Raghav is twisted bro with a deep sense of insecurity. And him showing remorse and break down. I don't see that happening either. So that will always be in play.

He cannot change easily, but slowly and surely he will. Sitara will take their time to pull this out as long as they can. And with Pallavi, Jaya and Keerti around, he will find the stability and security to keep his volatility in check.

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

I saw another post on another thread regarding comparison of the two families and I feel neither family is typical. We have seen more of the DFamily however I think once we get to know backstory of the RFamily then it would be a fairer comparison as there is a chunk missing from the the past and then from sangeet to now where all of a sudden the mother is ok with Raghav. Yes I understand the whole prison episode would bring them together but the previous mother was so adamant with regards to not letting Raghav in, even Keerti was adamant. They are all fiery and headstrong in that family so be interesting to see how Pallavi takes to them once part of the family. For me I need more revelations about the Rao family as well as the widow aspect. No idea what Raghav will make of the latter, who knows what goes on in his head lol

I agree. Basis the insight into the past, we can judge how the Rao family was and how it changed.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I like option 2 best. It's a big insult to him if his wife dresses as a widow, because the message is clear: she doesn't accept him as her husband and her only marital identity is as late Mandaar's wife. Even worse, if she goes out in public like that, it will affect his reputation and his family's, something he cares about a LOT..

Yes, that's the best way to give him the first shock.

In that promo she clearly says that he can't buy a married woman with his money so I think he will not get a married woman as wife but Mandar's widow. And he is going to burn seeing that.

Originally posted by: libran90

Act on what bro? What I have understood about the guy, facts about Pallavi's life don't bother him. Cause he is very self consumed. Everything about Pallavi, in his mind should revolve around him. How Pallavi broke his expectations of her? How Pallavi betrayed him? Him knowing about her being a widow will again redirect it to him - again maybe in a betrayal format - that he isn't the only one in her life. He will not show it, but that is what it will be. He will again play angry Q&A in his mind. Raghav cannot share ownership. Cause he wants to own everything about Pallavi.

That will trigger his additional kink of seeing Pallavi in his colors. Cause she will be his "prisoner", so has to act according to his rules and wear what he wants her to wear. The white color will irritate him.

With Pallavi, initially it was her submission to his ego, now it will be submission to her husband. Cause Raghav Rao will take the husband thing very seriously. He looks cool and all, but he believes in traditional things as well. And he will impose that as a chain to his prisoner. But Pallavi will strip him of any power over her. She will never be his wife. Also if Amma and Keerti are around, he will want to ensure that she does not go out of line.

The love will also be like that. Ownership over her heart. He will want to keep her in his life using all means possible. He will want her to love him, to stay close to him, to have her attention on him. Frankly this entire war is the premise on which the love will happen. Raghav Rao doing everything possible to keep Pallavi in his life and Pallavi defying him, just like they were doing in this challenge scenario. Raghav is twisted bro with a deep sense of insecurity. And him showing remorse and break down. I don't see that happening either. So that will always be in play.

He cannot change easily, but slowly and surely he will. Sitara will take their time to pull this out as long as they can. And with Pallavi, Jaya and Keerti around, he will find the stability and security to keep his volatility in check.

Exactly! Pallavi's truths and her past will not bother him at all right now. He is self centered. That's why I asked will he act on it, on what? Act on her truths and past. He will not because like you said he is self absorbed. He will definitely be affected by her being a widow, like he will definitely think about it but he wouldn't act on it. If one-day he wake up to this , he will not go, hug her, cry, and be a emotional support to her. He will be disturbed, definitely. But he won't act on her that truths because he seldom care about it. For him all is about himself and his ego.

And if she wear white after the marriage, he will bring everything to himself again. That is going to impact him, her being a widow will disturb him but her wearing white after the marriage will impact him. And he will turn the world upside down to change that white.

I think both of them are insecure. @ Red This is why I said it won't impact him.

He first need to learn that Raghav Rao can't have everything he desires. He need to understand that love is not ownership, and you can't win a girl's heart with money and power.

Originally posted by: K_keechu

Exactly! Pallavi's truths and her past will not bother him at all right now. He is self centered. That's why I asked will he act on it, on what? Act on her truths and past. He will not because like you said he is self absorbed. He will definitely be affected by her being a widow, like he will definitely think about it but he wouldn't act on it. If one-day he wake up to this , he will not go, hug her, cry, and be a emotional support to her. He will be disturbed, definitely. But he won't act on her that truths because he seldom care about it. For him all is about himself and his ego.

And if she wear white after the marriage, he will bring everything to himself again. That is going to impact him, her being a widow will disturb him but her wearing white after the marriage will impact him. And he will turn the world upside down to change that white.

I think both of them are insecure. @ Red This is why I said it won't impact him.

He first need to learn that Raghav Rao can't have everything he desires. He need to understand that love is not ownership, and you can't win a girl's heart with money and power.

Well, "widow" and "white" ka farq hai agar. Then I am not sure. Her orphan truth never had an impact. Hell, we are still confused if he heard it properly or not?😆

Similarly, widow truth will effect him or not, I feel no. He will come to know, but jis effect ki hum umeed kar rahe hai, woh hoga ya nahi, we don't know. Also after marriage, he comes to know, if I know him, he will pity her but not respect her.

Wearing white on the other hand may irritate him. But will Pallavi go to that extent of wearing white with Keerti and Amma around, I don't think so either. Pallavi respects sentiments, unlike Raghav. So she may wear other colors, but not the suhaagan color of red.

So, I feel that the widow truth should come out now. Damn it looks dumb ki Hyderabad ka mai baap doesn't know such a small detail about his wife. Uske reputation pe hi daag lagega, ki kaisa chutiya don hai ye😆.

Ideally, none of the facts about Pallavi will impact Raghav profoundly. It will disturb him and he will shoo it away, as they will distract him from his revenge. But, once he is in love, those very factors will bite him in the ass. Not the orphan bit, the widow bit. Cause Pallavi will not want to move on. And Raghav will want that Pallavi accepts this marriage, him, his feelings. The color red holds value more to Raghav than to Pallavi. He will want that color on her, more than Pallavi.

Originally posted by: libran90

Well, "widow" and "white" ka farq hai agar. Then I am not sure. Her orphan truth never had an impact. Hell, we are still confused if he heard it properly or not?😆

Similarly, widow truth will effect him or not, I feel no. He will come to know, but jis effect ki hum umeed kar rahe hai, woh hoga ya nahi, we don't know. Also after marriage, he comes to know, if I know him, he will pity her but not respect her.

Wearing white on the other hand may irritate him. But will Pallavi go to that extent of wearing white with Keerti and Amma around, I don't think so either. Pallavi respects sentiments, unlike Raghav. So she may wear other colors, but not the suhaagan color of red.

So, I feel that the widow truth should come out now. Damn it looks dumb ki Hyderabad ka mai baap doesn't know such a small detail about his wife. Uske reputation pe hi daag lagega, ki kaisa chutiya don hai ye😆.

Ideally, none of the facts about Pallavi will impact Raghav profoundly. It will disturb him and he will shoo it away, as they will distract him from his revenge. But, once he is in love, those very factors will bite him in the ass. Not the orphan bit, the widow bit. Cause Pallavi will not want to move on. And Raghav will want that Pallavi accepts this marriage, him, his feelings. The color red holds value more to Raghav than to Pallavi. He will want that color on her, more than Pallavi.

For me there is difference between the widow and white.

He either filtered the orphan thing in the air because he don't care or he didn't hear. I think it's the former.

I agree with you on that point. His respect will not increase even a bit if he came to know the widow matter, bcoz he doesn't care about those things.

She may not wear white with Amma and keerthi around but I want her too. I want to see his that frustration. I want to see him burning all her white sarees how he burned her stock and scream at her that "IM STILL ALIVE."

Yeah it's high time for him to know the truth and I want to see him mad about Mandar after he fell in love as well. Let's see!