Pallavis truth reveal - Page 3

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold- If Jaya had known how to straighten her kids, then aaj ye Mahabharat na hoti Sohini. Good, strong, open minded kid.. yes, Keerthi is.. But the way Raghav has turned out, it puts a big question mark on his upbringing in my opinion.. Its impossible that all the issues he has, his temperament, anger management, ego, arrogance just came overnight in him after that fateful incident 10-15 years back.. the biggest issue here, and for which Jaya Rao will have to take responsibility too, is that she was unable to instill some basic manners and human emotions/sensibilities in Raghav.. the wisdom of telling right from wrong, insaan ko insaan samjhna.. galtiyaan accept karna, apologise karna, introspect karna, galtiyon se seekhna, apni galtiyon ki zimmedari khud uthana naki dusre pe thop dena... Ye sab Jaya Rao Raghav ko nahi sikha payi.. So no she is no where near being a good matriarch... On the contrary, look at Nikhil ..how good he has turned out, sensible, compassionate and mature,despite of having a father like Vijay Deshmukh.. I cannot comment on Mandhar but by and large the kids in that family have turned out pretty decent except for Amruta ofcourse..

Jaya Im sure will turn out to be an excellent MIL for Pallavi..Pallavi is lucky in the MIL department.. Both Sharda and Jaya adore her..

Deshmukh family has some rotten apples- Vijay Deshmukh, Sulochana and Amruta... Rest of the family especially Sharda, Nikhil, Milind and Manasi are good human beings.. This list may get shorter after I watch todays epi if Milind and Manasi dont speak up..

Point of raghavs upbringing, he doesnt have one. Raghav was an orphan without being an orphan. His mom kept him away for years so he is self made and without an mothers love for a while.. he has lesrned harsh realities and so hes developed a tough exterior and has a bunch of vices..he has damage jist as much as pallavi has baggage.

Originally posted by: SnehaSneha

Hopefully it turns out he way we want but a part of me dreads what if, he doesn't get to know this before marriage??? He might not think of it as a big deal but he might think he was being cheated idk. I guess I am too nervous regarding how all of this unfolds

Well she doesn't owe him anything, not even an explanation. Being a widow doesn't prevent her from remarrying legally. So it's just a detail that should not make any difference. At this point, it's not like they're marrying for love or for conventional reasons. She has no reason to open up her whole past in front of him. I feel as if they are leaving it for later so that he can be hit hard, not out of pity for her widowhood but because he will understand exactly what he took away from her when he alienated her from her family.

Originally posted by: xxMATSxx

Point of raghavs upbringing, he doesnt have one. Raghav was an orphan without being an orphan. His mom kept him away for years so he is self made and without an mothers love for a while.. he has lesrned harsh realities and so hes developed a tough exterior and has a bunch of vices..he has damage jist as much as pallavi has baggage.

He had both parents for the early part of his life, when the foundation is laid.. they had a completely functional family before the incident happened and Raghav was not a child then.. he was a teenager.. he is self made as a businessman yes and his rage, ego, arrogance etc amplified after the incident.. yes but some basic human traits like ego, arrogance that doesnt allow one to accept their mistakes even when they know what they did is wrong..these foundations are laid in early years when he had both his parents to guide him. If he had the right upbringing, he would have been able to face the consequences of his actions back then, head on , understand his mother's wishes and do right by her..and not resort to alcohol, gundagardi and all... A tragedy in one's life can either break you or make you... he may have become a successful business man, but as a human being he has deteriorated and unfortunately Jaya Rao has to take a part of that blame too..

Originally posted by: K_keechu

I think she is wearing white to the marriage means , I have three options!

1. Raghav will get to know that she is a widow.

2. She will wear white after the marriage with Raghav and that's going to be a big blow to him.

3. Both

I like option 2 best. It's a big insult to him if his wife dresses as a widow, because the message is clear: she doesn't accept him as her husband and her only marital identity is as late Mandaar's wife. Even worse, if she goes out in public like that, it will affect his reputation and his family's, something he cares about a LOT..

Originally posted by: libran90

Frankly, I believe, after 60 episodes, its high time, that the widow truth is out in the open. Atleast kuch to open ho. Waise hi itni MU ka pile on hai, jo resolve hone me kaafi waqt hai.

And if anyone thinks that Raghav par koi impact nahi hoga, then a person who builds expectations in his mind about a woman, who is clueless to all the "accusations" he has built in his head, will definitely be impacted. Seeing her in a white saree, uske badle ki kahani hi palta ke rakh dega. Uske so-called "badle ki aag" me khud hi jalega, kyunki Pallavi par zara sa bhi uska asar hone se raha, farq padne se raha, jitna Raghav ko padega. Kuch dino baad dekhna, badle ki aag me safed saree ko hi jalayega, kyunki usko Pallavi ko apne rang me dekhna hai. Aur Pallavi ghaas dalne se rahi.😆

I love every word here. 😆

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I absolutely want him to feel how it is like to be in her shoes. The revelation about her being an orphan didnt have much of an impact maybe because just like most of the days, that day too Raghav was on his own trip. The way he is right now, completely self absorbed, he is incapable of looking past himself, his own world, his business, his problems and his family(amma and Keerthi). Pallavi kya hai, kesi hai, kyu hai, these thoughts have barely crossed his mind.. She was like a toy for him during the challenge period, is what I feel now..someone that amused him.. Otherwise, a business tycoon, Hyderabad's don and all, has he nothing better to do than go after this pint sized girl running a small shop in a small market? Barring a few random scenes, where he said he liked her fighting spirit, we never really understood if there is anything beyond his plain bully nature, that could be the reason for him going after her. Its all up for speculation that he is intruiged by her, maybe attracted but we dont know.. But now after marriage, when he really gets to know her, how she lost her husband, why her family is everything for her, why DSE holds so much importance in her life.. I hope he starts understanding her better. Maybe then he will realize that Pallavi can never do the things he has accused her of..

Very well said. Until he reflects he won't repent.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

He had both parents for the early part of his life, when the foundation is laid.. they had a completely functional family before the incident happened and Raghav was not a child then.. he was a teenager.. he is self made as a businessman yes and his rage, ego, arrogance etc amplified after the incident.. yes but some basic human traits like ego, arrogance that doesnt allow one to accept their mistakes even when they know what they did is wrong..these foundations are laid in early years when he had both his parents to guide him. If he had the right upbringing, he would have been able to face the consequences of his actions back then, head on , understand his mother's wishes and do right by her..and not resort to alcohol, gundagardi and all... A tragedy in one's life can either break you or make you... he may have become a successful business man, but as a human being he has deteriorated and unfortunately Jaya Rao has to take a part of that blame too..

I really really want them to explore this and show us Jaya's side of the story.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold- If Jaya had known how to straighten her kids, then aaj ye Mahabharat na hoti Sohini. Good, strong, open minded kid.. yes, Keerthi is.. But the way Raghav has turned out, it puts a big question mark on his upbringing in my opinion.. Its impossible that all the issues he has, his temperament, anger management, ego, arrogance just came overnight in him after that fateful incident 10-15 years back.. the biggest issue here, and for which Jaya Rao will have to take responsibility too, is that she was unable to instill some basic manners and human emotions/sensibilities in Raghav.. the wisdom of telling right from wrong, insaan ko insaan samjhna.. galtiyaan accept karna, apologise karna, introspect karna, galtiyon se seekhna, apni galtiyon ki zimmedari khud uthana naki dusre pe thop dena... Ye sab Jaya Rao Raghav ko nahi sikha payi.. So no I dnt think she is anywhere near being a good matriarch... On the contrary, look at Nikhil ..how good he has turned out, sensible, compassionate and mature,despite of having a father like Vijay Deshmukh.. I cannot comment on Mandhar but by and large the kids in that family have turned out pretty decent except for Amruta ofcourse..

Jaya Im sure will turn out to be an excellent MIL for Pallavi..Pallavi is lucky in the MIL department.. Both Sharda and Jaya adore her..

Deshmukh family has some rotten apples- Vijay Deshmukh, Sulochana and Amruta... Rest of the family especially Sharda, Nikhil, Milind and Manasi are good human beings.. This list may get shorter after I watch todays epi if Milind and Manasi dont speak up..

Bhadak mat re Vish, bhavnao me beh gayi thi 😆Jaya and Keerti ki tareef me, bhul gayi main ki bachchon me Raghav ka number bhi aata hai.🤪

Lekin haan, the point I was trying to make, that Jaya has raised two independent children, who don't sit and judge people for a situation that isn't their fault - like being a widow or whether they have a right over their body or anything else. They are strong that way. Raghav has been shown as an egoist, but he is not narrow-minded as I recall, correct me if I am wrong. He is a crude, uncivilized, manipulative don. He has stayed separately from his family for quite long, but certain things which have drafted his core being have remained with him - love for children, love for family etc. Yes, his actions and thought process are indefensible. So that break from his family, and fending for himself on his own, has left him insensitive and savage. I will not completely blame Jaya Rao, cause unless I know what happened in the past, cannot judge how good or not good a mother she was.

With Pallavi, call it kink, or fitoor or sanak, she is a toy for him, which he uses to entertain himself. He is angry now, and after marriage, he will be back to his usual kinks, kyunki woh hai hi sanki. He will try to go on with his life, like nothing happened, and resume his usual nautanki. The only thing will be Pallavi won't be responsive to his kinks anymore and that will trouble him.

Originally posted by: libran90

Bhadak mat re Vish, bhavnao me beh gayi thi 😆Jaya and Keerti ki tareef me, bhul gayi main ki bachchon me Raghav ka number bhi aata hai.🤪

Lekin haan, the point I was trying to make, that Jaya has raised two independent children, who don't sit and judge people for a situation that isn't their fault - like being a widow or whether they have a right over their body or anything else. They are strong that way. Raghav has been shown as an egoist, but he is not narrow-minded as I recall, correct me if I am wrong. He is a crude, uncivilized, manipulative don. He has stayed separately from his family for quite long, but certain things which have drafted his core being have remained with him - love for children, love for family etc. Yes, his actions and thought process are indefensible. So that break from his family, and fending for himself on his own, has left him insensitive and savage. I will not completely blame Jaya Rao, cause unless I know what happened in the past, cannot judge how good or not good a mother she was.

With Pallavi, call it kink, or fitoor or sanak, she is a toy for him, which he uses to entertain himself. He is angry now, and after marriage, he will be back to his usual kinks, kyunki woh hai hi sanki. He will try to go on with his life, like nothing happened, and resume his usual nautanki. The only thing will be Pallavi won't be responsive to his kinks anymore and that will trouble him.

Bhadak nai rahi hu😆 wahi mujhe laga, ye Sohini ko kya hua? Bhul gayi kya ki Raghav inhi ka sapoot hai, namoona no#1 🤣

No... I understand that they (Rao's) dont judge people the way Vijay Deshmukh does.. I dont club Deshmukhs as one rotten family.. there are haramkhors like sanki taklu and BWA but then there people like Sharda and Nikhil too.. Milind and Mansi dont voice their opinions on matters that dont directly concern them so I dont count them.. yes Rao's are independent, opiniated individuals... That incident and the aftermath of it has a large role to play in the way Raghav's personility has shaped up...but some of the traits in him, cannot be aquired suddenly..they are part of your core nature, just like some of the positive traits (like how he is around kids) in him are.. for instance- the complete inability to own upto his mistakes, blame others for his follies.. I think Jaya Rao could do a better job at instilling those values in him.. Maybe then it wouldnt have taken so long for him to reconcile with his family.. but I will reserve my final judgement only after we get to see exactly what happened in the past. Mene to Vijay Haramkhor Deshmukh ko bhi judge nahi kiya till the time he actually dropped his facade and showed his true colors.. ye to Jaya Rao hai, who I actually like..

About Pallavi, I agree.. Like I said, I dont expect him to go on his knees and apologise even if Sulochana admits that she was the one behind Keerthi's MMS, not Pallavi.. ek do baar sorry bolega.. fir wahi akkad " mujhko aur sorry nai hona" Inke hriday parivartan sahi mayno me tab hoga jab blood donation wala sach samme ayega..that's what I think

Originally posted by: libran90

Frankly, I believe, after 60 episodes, its high time, that the widow truth is out in the open. Atleast kuch to open ho. Waise hi itni MU ka pile on hai, jo resolve hone me kaafi waqt hai.

And if anyone thinks that Raghav par koi impact nahi hoga, then a person who builds expectations in his mind about a woman, who is clueless to all the "accusations" he has built in his head, will definitely be impacted. Seeing her in a white saree, uske badle ki kahani hi palta ke rakh dega. Uske so-called "badle ki aag" me khud hi jalega, kyunki Pallavi par zara sa bhi uska asar hone se raha, farq padne se raha, jitna Raghav ko padega. Kuch dino baad dekhna, badle ki aag me safed saree ko hi jalayega, kyunki usko Pallavi ko apne rang me dekhna hai. Aur Pallavi ghaas dalne se rahi.😆

But will he act on it? Right now his driving force is his anger, if he gets to know that right now, wouldn't he say that she deserved it? (after today's episode my this belief doubled😔)

And he will definitely want to change that white color. He has put red colour on her before, the one color she doesn't want in her life but he did it unintentionally though and after marriage he will try everything under his power to do that again but this time intentionally that's why I said she might wear white after marrying him.

Like she is going to kill her husband despite him being alive! 😆