Originally posted by: libran90
When she sees another family function opposite to what she has seen till now. Rao's may not have a father figure, but they damn straight have good, strong and open-minded kids. And that contribution is from the matriarch Jaya Rao. She like Sharda is progressive, robust, and she knows how to straighten her kids alright. From what I can see in Rao's, the woman has more say than the man. Jaya is a simple homemaker as well, but she has a wider perspective. And just like Pallavi, Jaya does not believe her life is over because she is a widow. Jaya and Pallavi will bond over that, and Raghav and Keerti, having seen their mom, will not make an issue about it. And once she begins to stay and understand what a family Rao's are, will she want to go back to the Deshmukhs, never.
@bold- If Jaya had known how to straighten her kids, then aaj ye Mahabharat na hoti Sohini. Good, strong, open minded kid.. yes, Keerthi is.. But the way Raghav has turned out, it puts a big question mark on his upbringing in my opinion.. Its impossible that all the issues he has, his temperament, anger management, ego, arrogance just came overnight in him after that fateful incident 10-15 years back.. the biggest issue here, and for which Jaya Rao will have to take responsibility too, is that she was unable to instill some basic manners and human emotions/sensibilities in Raghav.. the wisdom of telling right from wrong, insaan ko insaan samjhna.. galtiyaan accept karna, apologise karna, introspect karna, galtiyon se seekhna, apni galtiyon ki zimmedari khud uthana naki dusre pe thop dena... Ye sab Jaya Rao Raghav ko nahi sikha payi.. So no I dnt think she is anywhere near being a good matriarch... On the contrary, look at Nikhil ..how good he has turned out, sensible, compassionate and mature,despite of having a father like Vijay Deshmukh.. I cannot comment on Mandhar but by and large the kids in that family have turned out pretty decent except for Amruta ofcourse..
Jaya Im sure will turn out to be an excellent MIL for Pallavi..Pallavi is lucky in the MIL department.. Both Sharda and Jaya adore her..
Deshmukh family has some rotten apples- Vijay Deshmukh, Sulochana and Amruta... Rest of the family especially Sharda, Nikhil, Milind and Manasi are good human beings.. This list may get shorter after I watch todays epi if Milind and Manasi dont speak up..
Edited by MistyDawn - 4 years ago