Teri ummeed tera intezaar... - Page 3

Hi janaki , first of all I am so happy to read your posts daily like before, you believe me or not but ur posts are the one which encouraged me to write on this forum in first place. . awesome analysis.

And while coming to virat, actually I loved yesterday's episode, the way they handled it is beautiful... And ya even I come under your minority category.... Because I believe sai and virat are equally responsible in breaking trust in their relationship... And I believe if virat didn't thrown sai out and give her silent treatment for breaking his trust... The same fD would have blamed sai for spoiling relationship... So I believe it's toway thing which spoiled their relationship but ya virat's mistake was bigger because he claims himself as matured and controlled one in both and he only didn't gave her a chance to explain and took hasty decisions.... Although I am not sure how can sai would have convince him at dead night if chance is given, bcoz she herself doesn't have any proofs and she can't say truth due to promise.... Till date I couldn't understand one thing , why why sai couldn't wait till next day of Holi... The way she went to principal office and find the proof... She could have done that before marriage also right.....

So keeping this blame game aside I want both Sai and virat should rebuild themselves, sai should think twice before throwing people in her team as food to hyenas in the way of helping one loved ones, ... Same way virat should seriously learn to control his feelings and clear the mess in his life instead of pulling her in mess....

For the time being I am happy that virat is apologing but I really want to see two things happening..

1. Sai realizing her mistake of breaking his trust and apologize to aai , virat and Usha mausi

2. Virat should realize throwing someone out of house at dead night without resources is wrong irrespective of sai's mistake ... So he should apologize sai and Usha mausi for that also... Right now he is applozing but for breaking her trust for throwing her out when she is right.

The way they showed everything around kidnapping was illogical.

I dont think Sai is negating her mistske but she cant dwell on it or accept it and apologize for it when the opposite party had crossed all lines of humanity. If he had only yelled at her, and then given her silent treatment and eventually learned the truth and apologized, it'd be ok to expect Sai also to apologize in return. But in this situation the magnitude of Virats action is SO grave that the last thing Sai will do right NOW is think about her role and how things could have been better. Jab rishta hi tut gaya and its come to the point where she has been mercilessly kicked out of the house then until things calm down with some time/distance theres no way she can look back and analyse. Right now Sai's priority is to find herself accomodation in nagpur and get back to focussing on her studies. She wants nothing to do with virat/his family when he has ousted her from his life. Once she has calmed down, she will probably analyze but if they copy KD, uska mauka hi nahi milega coz virat will get injured and then her concern/affection about his health and welfare will supercede everything...

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

And, I think Virat freeing himself from Vahini will happen soon if I'm correct.

hopefully in the coming week

Originally posted by: Nja91

The way they showed everything around kidnapping was illogical.

I dont think Sai is negating her mistske but she cant dwell on it or accept it and apologize for it when the opposite party had crossed all lines of humanity. If he had only yelled at her, and then given her silent treatment and eventually learned the truth and apologized, it'd be ok to expect Sai also to apologize in return. But in this situation the magnitude of Virats action is SO grave that the last thing Sai will do right NOW is think about her role and how things could have been better. Jab rishta hi tut gaya and its come to the point where she has been mercilessly kicked out of the house then until things calm down with some time/distance theres no way she can look back and analyse. Right now Sai's priority is to find herself accomodation in nagpur and get back to focussing on her studies. She wants nothing to do with virat/his family when he has ousted her from his life. Once she has calmed down, she will probably analyze but if they copy KD, uska mauka hi nahi milega coz virat will get injured and then her concern/affection about his health and welfare will supercede everything...

💯💯 My thoughts exactly.

Originally posted by: Nja91

The way they showed everything around kidnapping was illogical.

I dont think Sai is negating her mistske but she cant dwell on it or accept it and apologize for it when the opposite party had crossed all lines of humanity. If he had only yelled at her, and then given her silent treatment and eventually learned the truth and apologized, it'd be ok to expect Sai also to apologize in return. But in this situation the magnitude of Virats action is SO grave that the last thing Sai will do right NOW is think about her role and how things could have been better. Jab rishta hi tut gaya and its come to the point where she has been mercilessly kicked out of the house then until things calm down with some time/distance theres no way she can look back and analyse. Right now Sai's priority is to find herself accomodation in nagpur and get back to focussing on her studies. She wants nothing to do with virat/his family when he has ousted her from his life. Once she has calmed down, she will probably analyze but if they copy KD, uska mauka hi nahi milega coz virat will get injured and then her concern/affection about his health and welfare will supercede everything...

‼️ 100% agree! It is exactly this. But I don’t want that stupid hospital track which makes her return because she feels guilty for his condition. There are no amends. I hope they show something different and Virat earns her back.

Bang on Janki!!👏

You were absolutely right yesterday about their marriage not being conjugal. Their marriage was not meant to be one in the first place. It was just a deal sealed with the tag of a marriage. But, inspite of that they started to expect things from each other, started expecting to trust each other without clearing the deal between them, without clearing the air of misunderstandings between them. This was meant to happen once, the break up, the seperation. It is just that it happened in the ugliest way possible. Now it is upto them to mend it, realising each of their faults and overcoming it with a new base of love n trust in their relationship.

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

‼️ 100% agree! It is exactly this. But I don’t want that stupid hospital track which makes her return because she feels guilty for his condition. There are no amends. I hope they show something different and Virat earns her back.

But actually the hospital track is in a sense "earning" her back- not out of guilt but genuine love and care she has for him. He has a house full of people to care for him when he is injured. If she wanted she would just visit, convey a get well soon message and leave. But staying back to exert her haq as a wife shows what she really wants - not a deal but real marriage. She wants to care for him as a wife, not be a bojh/zimmedari. So even without saying it in words she is conveying where she is, what she expects/wants but her insecurities wont disappear in a day. And virat needs to be cognizant of that. He has genuinely repented for his cruelty to her but he needs to make amends and break the walls so both of them can trust each other. The first move for that needs to come from virat. If only he could come clean to Sai about pp it would be a big step. Instead of blatant denial, actually confiding what happened and why and where he stands would be ideal. I don't understand why Virat cant face the issue. Sai keeps on bringing it up and he keeps on brushing it aside.

Originally posted by: Nja91

The way they showed everything around kidnapping was illogical.

I dont think Sai is negating her mistske but she cant dwell on it or accept it and apologize for it when the opposite party had crossed all lines of humanity. If he had only yelled at her, and then given her silent treatment and eventually learned the truth and apologized, it'd be ok to expect Sai also to apologize in return. But in this situation the magnitude of Virats action is SO grave that the last thing Sai will do right NOW is think about her role and how things could have been better. Jab rishta hi tut gaya and its come to the point where she has been mercilessly kicked out of the house then until things calm down with some time/distance theres no way she can look back and analyse. Right now Sai's priority is to find herself accomodation in nagpur and get back to focussing on her studies. She wants nothing to do with virat/his family when he has ousted her from his life. Once she has calmed down, she will probably analyze but if they copy KD, uska mauka hi nahi milega coz virat will get injured and then her concern/affection about his health and welfare will supercede everything...

Yes! Call it my Sai bias or whatever, I don’t immediately need her apology. Virat realised his mistake after due ‘proof’, and after he was berated by certain family members. Had he found out the truth 2 months later, he would not have been apologetic before that, even though he had crossed all lines. Ideally, he should’ve been apologetic right after his rage cooled down, before any proof. That did not happen.

Doesn’t Sai have the right to not be ideal, for once? Ideally, she should’ve apologised that night, or today or whatever. But given all that happened, doesn’t she deserve to even cool down before being apologetic. She needs to make arrangements for her housing, her education all alone. Is she even in the headspace anymore to feel apologetic towards a man who shut the door in her face in the middle of the night, who caused her all this misery?

Originally posted by: Nja91

But actually the hospital track is in a sense "earning" her back- not out of guilt but genuine love and care she has for him. He has a house full of people to care for him when he is injured. If she wanted she would just visit, convey a get well soon message and leave. But staying back to exert her haq as a wife shows what she really wants - not a deal but real marriage. She wants to care for him as a wife, not be a bojh/zimmedari. So even without saying it in words she is conveying where she is, what she expects/wants but her insecurities wont disappear in a day. And virat needs to be cognizant of that. He has genuinely repented for his cruelty to her but he needs to make amends and break the walls so both of them can trust each other. The first move for that needs to come from virat. If only he could come clean to Sai about pp it would be a big step. Instead of blatant denial, actually confiding what happened and why and where he stands would be ideal. I don't understand why Virat cant face the issue. Sai keeps on bringing it up and he keeps on brushing it aside.

That’s my problem. This hospital track will make her come back as a wife but without Virat making any amends, the same old hostile environment and creepy ex girlfriend + he isn’t going to actually admit or confess his feelings to Sai and tell her that he has no feelings for P (as per KD). So I don’t want this. I want him to win her back, make clear his stands to both the women, talk to his family about respecting his wife or he will leave the house, etc.

Originally posted by: Nja91

But actually the hospital track is in a sense "earning" her back- not out of guilt but genuine love and care she has for him. He has a house full of people to care for him when he is injured. If she wanted she would just visit, convey a get well soon message and leave. But staying back to exert her haq as a wife shows what she really wants - not a deal but real marriage. She wants to care for him as a wife, not be a bojh/zimmedari. So even without saying it in words she is conveying where she is, what she expects/wants but her insecurities wont disappear in a day. And virat needs to be cognizant of that. He has genuinely repented for his cruelty to her but he needs to make amends and break the walls so both of them can trust each other. The first move for that needs to come from virat. If only he could come clean to Sai about pp it would be a big step. Instead of blatant denial, actually confiding what happened and why and where he stands would be ideal. I don't understand why Virat cant face the issue. Sai keeps on bringing it up and he keeps on brushing it aside.

I never had any problem with her acknowledging her fault or saying sorry but I do feel when her wrong action is taken in the same breath as Virat’s horrendous offence of throwing her out. Both need to be addressed at different space and time for sure.