Originally posted by: MistyDawn
Ek aur chhoti si baat.. Pallavi ko chahe jitna bol lo that she has low self esteem, she is naive etc etc etc.. uski harkato se kisi ko physical ya emotional chot nahi pohochti, uske khudke alawa. Uski life me bhi kam problems nahi hai, orphan, widow, surrounded by prejudiced people like Sulochana, Amruta, having to face society like Krishna's mother n all... But she doesnt take out the frustration of all wrong that's happening in life on others.. she would rather suffer alone that bother anyone.. Raghav pe bhadakne ke reasons hain and 8 out of 10 times those are legit reasons..
Choti baat nahi hai ye. This is the very reason, ki jitna bhi main koshish karu Raghav ke liye bura feel karne ki, uske actions har baar mujhko rok dete hai. And my sympathies always extend to Pallavi. And now that you mention, these are the exact words I was looking for, but could not find it. You have appropriately mentioned itš. Thank you so muchš¤. Samajh nahi aa raha tha bahut der se ki kaise bhadaas nikaluš.
See, from the very beginning Raghav's tactics have been rough and high-handed. His intentions are from a good place, but the execution is poor. He wanted to protect his sister, so he put Harish on her back. It's stalking bro, not protecting. He wanted to help Pallavi win a competition, but not by sifaarish bro. Yes, you protected her from Ved, but aaya to tera khoon peene tha. Pallavi to sirf collateral damage thi. Tu apni Amma aur behen ko itne waqt se janta hai, par tu samjha nahi ab tak ke tanta unko tere methods se hai, jo hamesha bawaal hi khada karta hai, help kam karta hai. Phir bhi, rather than getting his act together, blame Pallavi.
And he is definitely self-absorbed. It's like main bhala aur meri family bhali. Baaki logo ki na family hai aur na life. He burned Pallavi's sarees in reaction to Harish complaining about her. His diamond consignment was stopped by the Customs officer, so he damaged her sarees again. He misunderstood her because of Anjali and kidnapped and threatened her, almost bulldozed her shop down, took away her autonomy from her shop, and other things ensued. Now another MMS clip is on the way, and for this Pallavi again will be the scapegoat.
Tell me one thing, after all this, is it even possible for Pallavi to fall for him. Pallavi is dim, daft, blind, and also blames Raghav for her problems, I agree. She jumps to conclusions also rather quickly. But come to think of it. If I witness a man like Raghav, what am I supposed to think of him, bro? And after what he has put her through, how can she not assume the worst about him. And Pallavi kisi ke ghar me jaake aag nahi na lagati, tere Jayati Jewels me aake tamasha nahi na karti, roz roz tujhko sheher chodne ki dhamki nahi na deti. Haan, woh haraamkhor khandaan ko kuch jyaada hi bhav deti hai. And they truly don't deserve her. But if Raghav in his blind love for family blindly rages on Pallavi, then why can't Pallavi be a little blind for her family. Woh to hum log jante hai ki haraamkhor hai, usko pata hai kya? No. Aur hoga bhi to kuch badlega kya? Maybe.
Then with the marriage track, 20-30 episodes tak woh phirse usko torture karega. Lekin jis cheez ke liye woh ready nahi hoga, woh hai Pallavi ki beshumaar nafrat. Kyunki phirse usne usko bewajah target kiya pichle MMS kaand ki tarah. And is baar Pallavi aasani se maanegi nahi mujhko lagta hai. Also, ye banda sudhrega nahi btw. Ye pyaar me bhi aisi hi pareshaani aur BP badaani wali harkaten karega. Pallavi ka jeena dushwaar kar dega. Kabhi kabhi lagta hai this entire ego war going on is a backdrop to what they will show when Raghav falls in love. The bugger's feelings may change, but tactics won't.š