II WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU LEMONS II

Today I can't find any justification in the way Raghav behaved. A class bully who feels left out, so decides to play the party pooper instead. Im not surprised that he hasnt been able to mend his relationships with Amma and Keerthi all these years. On one hand he will do anything under the sun to please them, help them, get their attention, love, forgiveness, the list goes on.. on the other hand he will do things like this- harrass and bully a girl because he can't deal with his own feelings for her.. If things are not right between mother and son, part of the blame and a substantial one at it, lies on Raghav Rao and the ways he has consciously chosen. I cannot and will not accept the notion that Raghav's mother has not given him a fair chance all these years or has been unreasonably harsh with him or that she doesnt want things to get better for good between her and her son. A mother will always want her child's best, even mothers like Sulochana in their own twisted way wont want any harm to come to their child, even if they choose the wrong path. If Raghav had the maturity, he would have found the solution to all his problems, his loneliness, the rift between him and his remaining family, long back. All he needs to do is be the good man that he is deep down, not just for his family but in general.. No mother would want the world to point fingers at her son as the evil man who wrecks people's lives.. How embarrassing it must be for her to have to pull out her full grown adult son behaving like class bully from a room like that? Or to hear Vijay Deshmukh say those things about her son, in a party where she was a guest? Yes, I know Vijay has made an opinion about Raghav but Raghav has also contributed in ruining his image in his eyes. All Im trying to say is that most of Raghav's problems are self created.. Like they say, when life gives you lemons, make a kickass lemonade out of it.. Like Pallavi, she is an orphan, a widow, faces challenges everyday but she still is able to see glass half full. She lost her props, her camera and equipment but she still made the most out of whatever resources she had and motivated everyone around her. Raghav Rao needs her in his life to see this- to make a sweet lemonade not a bitter bogus drink! Hope what his mother wasnt able to do all these years, Pallavi will..

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I hav’nt watched the epi yet, just read updates and that itself made me cringe. Like you’ve rightly pointed out, seems like all the mess he thinks is happening is solely created by him(well mostly) . He just needs attention from Pallavi and the dodo will figure it out slowly and painfully why exactly Pallavi matters so much. Also, I cannot digest the fact that the born smart Raghav Rao will easily believe it’s Pallavi who filmed keerthi and got them arrested for soliciting. But it’s ITV one minute they act smart and the next minute one is the biggest idiot.😡. I know he’ll probably think that Pallu did tell him she’ll bring pain to his family still he should know by now na that Pallu can never do such a thing?😭. And Raghav is like a bull in a China shop when it comes to his Amma and keerthi, so I guess he’ll only see red. I just don’t want him to demean Pallavi’s honor by morphing pics, or releasing fake MMS of him and her in compromising postures. Yuck!! If he does that my love for RR will surely take a hit. He hasn’t ever played with the honor of a woman so I’m apprehensive (really shit scared that the makers will go this way) . Also my intuition says Amma and Keerthi will be on pallu’s side only and not believe her ever doing this. But again this is ITV ,suddenly people do a 360 degree turn so I guess we’ll have to wait and watch. But the way the promo was cut , maybe Amma orders him to marry Pallu for the badnaami he’s caused her? So that would mean he did something really bad na? Crikey, I hate it...

Make a lemonade 🤣

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Today I can't find any justification in the way Raghav behaved. A class bully who feels left out, so decides to play the party pooper instead. Im not surprised that he hasnt been able to mend his relationships with Amma and Keerthi all these years. On one hand he will do anything under the sun to please them, help them, get their attention, love, forgiveness, the list goes on.. on the other hand he will do things like this- harrass and bully a girl because he can't deal with his own feelings for her.. If things are not right between mother and son, part of the blame and a substantial one at it, lies on Raghav Rao and the ways he has consciously chosen. I cannot and will not accept the notion that Raghav's mother has not given him a fair chance all these years or has been unreasonably harsh with him or that she doesnt want things to get better for good between her and her son. A mother will always want her child's best, even mothers like Sulochana in their own twisted way wont want any harm to come to their child, even if they choose the wrong path. If Raghav had the maturity, he would have found the solution to all his problems, his loneliness, the rift between him and his remaining family, long back. All he needs to do is be the good man that he is deep down, not just for his family but in general.. No mother would want the world to point fingers at her son as the evil man who wrecks people's lives.. How embarrassing it must be for her to have to pull out her full grown adult son behaving like class bully from a room like that? Or to hear Vijay Deshmukh say those things about her son, in a party where she was a guest? Yes, I know Vijay has made an opinion about Raghav but Raghav has also contributed in ruining his image in his eyes. All Im trying to say is that most of Raghav's problems are self created.. Like they say, when life gives you lemons, make a kickass lemonade out of it.. Like Pallavi, she is an orphan, a widow, faces challenges everyday but she still is able to see glass half full. She lost her props, her camera and equipment but she still made the most out of whatever resources she had and motivated everyone around her. Raghav Rao needs her in his life to see this- to make a sweet lemonade not a bitter bogus drink! Hope what his mother wasnt able to do all these years, Pallavi will..

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Great Analysis. Most of the problem created by Raghav himself. I agree it must be so embarassing and humiliating for Keerti and Amma to keep hearing horrible things about Raghav. No wonder they avoid him and don't want to associate with him. His angry, egostic nature keep creating problems for him.

He treats keerti like his property. She is adult individual and she has every right to help her friend...she doesn't need to ask Raghav's permission to do photo shoot. Once again he dump it all on Pallavi. Also,

Glad today Amma told Raghav on his face what does she think of Pallavi.

Today what he did with Pallu regarding challenge was so wrong on so many levels. Like little bully kid who didn't got what he want so he picked a wrong path and starts harassing people.

He needs to mature up before its too late. Woh Saari ka dukaan hi usko thik kar sakti hai. Kabhi kabhi lagta hai kuan kisko thik karega...Ghamandi Rao or veda mulgi.🤣🤣

Angers gets the worst of him.

He is not entirely unredeemable

We have already known that he is the flawed one here. He has temper issues and does things without thinking of anything.

He has already admitted that he is like that . He just wants to help his loved ones n the one he wants to even if it is by force. He thinks of it as help but others think of it as burden.

He really needs to differentiate. His behavior is really moody n sensitive. its coz of his family issues too.

he just wants to be loved and craves attention. I guess he needs to learn that his anger will only destroy him n his loved ones nothing else

I think Pallavi is that trigger who would set his alcoholic brain straight and he might also teach her to stand up against her family if they r wrong

Originally posted by: Looneygirl

I hav’nt watched the epi yet, just read updates and that itself made me cringe. Like you’ve rightly pointed out, seems like all the mess he thinks is happening is solely created by him(well mostly) . He just needs attention from Pallavi and the dodo will figure it out slowly and painfully why exactly Pallavi matters so much. Also, I cannot digest the fact that the born smart Raghav Rao will easily believe it’s Pallavi who filmed keerthi and got them arrested for soliciting. But it’s ITV one minute they act smart and the next minute one is the biggest idiot.😡. I know he’ll probably think that Pallu did tell him she’ll bring pain to his family still he should know by now na that Pallu can never do such a thing?😭. And Raghav is like a bull in a China shop when it comes to his Amma and keerthi, so I guess he’ll only see red. I just don’t want him to demean Pallavi’s honor by morphing pics, or releasing fake MMS of him and her in compromising postures. Yuck!! If he does that my love for RR will surely take a hit. He hasn’t ever played with the honor of a woman so I’m apprehensive (really shit scared that the makers will go this way) . Also my intuition says Amma and Keerthi will be on pallu’s side only and not believe her ever doing this. But again this is ITV ,suddenly people do a 360 degree turn so I guess we’ll have to wait and watch. But the way the promo was cut , maybe Amma orders him to marry Pallu for the badnaami he’s caused her? So that would mean he did something really bad na? Crikey, I hate it...

This typical toying with the characters especially leads, dumbing them down is done so regularly that it doesn't even come as a surprise anymore.. We will have no answer as to why Raghav can even think that Pallavi will do any such thing.. Im sure Keerthi and Amma will not believe it but they will be in so much shock that worrying about who did it, may not be at the top of their list of priorities.. And Raghav will obviously assume the worst because his world revolves around her.. He will do the unthinkable because blind rage clouds sense and reasoning and he doesn't have a lot of those things to begin with, otherwise he would have figured out a way to reconcile with his mother in all these years.. understand what she wants from him. Thing is Pallavi is accused of lack of self respect and all when it comes to ''not standing up to her family'' but what kind of self respecting man would go to a girls house, her shop, her family functions just to create a scene when he knows he is not wanted there? Would you? Today he was literally pulled out by his hand by his mother from that room.. his own sister saying she wouldn't do the shoot if he ''helps''.. Is that self respect?

Originally posted by: christobelle

Angers gets the worst of him.

He is not entirely unredeemable

We have already known that he is the flawed one here. He has temper issues and does things without thinking of anything.

He has already admitted that he is like that . He just wants to help his loved ones n the one he wants to even if it is by force. He thinks of it as help but others think of it as burden.

He really needs to differentiate. His behavior is really moody n sensitive. its coz of his family issues too.

he just wants to be loved and craves attention. I guess he needs to learn that his anger will only destroy him n his loved ones nothing else

I think Pallavi is that trigger who would set his alcoholic brain straight and he might also teach her to stand up against her family if they r wrong

Both need each other. If Raghav can control his anger and stop being so cocky and arrogant towards her. Otherwise it would be difficult for relationship to move forward.

Originally posted by: K_keechu

Make a lemonade 🤣

Originally posted by: christobelle

Angers gets the worst of him.

He is not entirely unredeemable

We have already known that he is the flawed one here. He has temper issues and does things without thinking of anything.

He has already admitted that he is like that . He just wants to help his loved ones n the one he wants to even if it is by force. He thinks of it as help but others think of it as burden.

He really needs to differentiate. His behavior is really moody n sensitive. its coz of his family issues too.

he just wants to be loved and craves attention. I guess he needs to learn that his anger will only destroy him n his loved ones nothing else

I think Pallavi is that trigger who would set his alcoholic brain straight and he might also teach her to stand up against her family if they r wrong

Ofcourse he is redeemable. He is the hero of our story.. And character flaws are important otherwise what's the point or fun of a journey if we start with perfect and flawless characters? But my point is that most of Raghav's problems are self created because of lack of maturity so if anyone he only has himself to blame. If one one hand he is in the best of his behaviour infront of amma and Keerthi, and on the other hand beats an old man to pulp in the middle of a market, then that's not gonna work. If that old man was actually eve teasing or misbehaving with Keerthi, the right thing to do was to get him arrested and not be the the vigilante police and jury himself. If he can be the boy his amma can feel proud of, like all mothers want, she will be more than happy to move into his house and be with him for the remaining of her life. But Raghav, is so immature that he is unable to see his own shortcomings..

Honestly I don't think Pallavi needs to learn much from him..business tactics yes sure.. but he is the last one who should give any family related relationship advice to anyone.. but he definitely needs Pallavi to show him the right path that will lead him to his biggest happiness in life-reconciliation with his family

Originally posted by: luvdesitelly

Both need each other. If Raghav can control his anger and stop being so cocky and arrogant towards her. Otherwise it would be difficult for relationship to move forward.

He thinks money can solve everything n set everything best. But he is wrong. He needs to let his ego n attitude go infront of his family. He must accept n take criticism from them. Amma wasn't wrong today. She is teaching him a life lesson. Instead of listening , he went to throw a tantrum like a kid. I feel he will learn that after staying with Pallu